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Just sounds like she’s been through hardships, to be honest most of the things listed don’t actually have anything to do with her directly as an individual

When you say her sister’s husband ‘slept’ with her, it’s not clear whether it was consensual or rape

Don’t think people should be penalised for bad things happening to them or people around them that they had no control over.

If you can’t move on from these things however, cut the relationship and don’t waste her time

Tombrown3:
Well, immoral... Yes?

Judging them?

U really misunderstood me and why posted this.

You’ve taken this to Nairaland so you can form an opinion/conclusion on the ‘types’ of girls they are right? That’s judging, no?

He’s past his physical and mental prime and it’s clear that he won’t be in control of his own government. Nigerians don’t want another president leading from a hospital bed in London

Tombrown3:
At the bolded is exactly why I get countless of it. Your curiosity

My point is you’re passing judgement but are probably just as ‘immoral’ as you’re tagging them.

What is it about you that ‘countless’ girls are comfortable sending you nudes?

Lol we’re all hypocrites sha, demanding standards that we ourselves don’t uphold

Sixfeetbelle:
They shouldn't ooh. At least not yet.

I just started my stalking journey. I'm hoping it doesn't die a premature death

Lmao don’t worry, the last ‘update’ this website received was the front page topics being underlined. If it gets any significant feature changes like a blocking option it will probably be in 2080 earliest

I remember people having to beg to get the deactivation feature before it finally got implemented

Sixfeetbelle:
This looks the kind of stuff Meobizy would post. They are unimpressed with the depreciation nairaland has incurred over the years.

Meo, I'm trying to start a diary where I can communicate privately to you without our usual audience. What do you think of this idea?

Fun fact: there's no rule in nairaland that's against stalking a particular moniker, and basically being a nuisance to them.

Yeah, forum has been running for almost 20 years now. There really should be some kind of blocking option.

Clear case of pedophilia.

In a sound and sensible country the obvious answer would be to go straight to the police, unfortunately in Nigeria sometimes the trouble isn’t’ worth the effort.

There’s a high chance that the law enforcers that are supposed to be protecting you will conduct themselves in an uncultured, unprofessional and just overall unhelpful manner. But if they do go, I don’t know how feasible this is but perhaps if they can get some kind of recording of him incriminating himself it may help with their case. Hopefully it won’t be too difficult since the sicko admitted to kissing and touching the bottom area of a child and thinks it’s normal.

Most importantly, keep that child away from the family (yes, his wife and children will have to be collateral damage because this is very serious and they will always be linked to him).

People, don’t leave your children alone with any man that isn’t their father. I don’t understand why she would be left ‘alone in the house’ with him for even 5 minutes let alone ‘some hours’.

Gosh, hope there are no casualties

Why are the flaws of these 'mistreated' guys always underemphasised/bundled in like a last minute thought aaaaallllllll the way at the end of these write-ups lol and it usually starts with something like "of course the husband is not perfect..."

Hmmm

Sukkot come ooo I heard Tinubu gave you your first tarot card, how true is this?

Coolgent:
Hello.
Hope your friend is okay?

Lol yes she went on the trip and was fine thanks

bnbash:
Why did he use "s" if he was referring to only the guy he quoted? No need to be defending all these. It's OK he insulted us we are used to insults just that we will prove ourselves by voting the right candidate who appreciates and respects our values. Shikenan

tamdun:
Yea,he was insulting the guy(one person o ) he quote but had to use plural abi, abokis?

I'm so confused, we weren't saying that Peter was insulting the guy only, it was clearly a slur that he refers to northerners as. Where did you see anyone defending the comment?

reddingtonblack:
Even tho i don't know the meaning "disingenuous" indeed,

Are you saying you don't know what 'disingenuous' means? Genuine question

hammerT:
INCORRECT.


ABOKI HAS A GENERALL USUAGE.


I CAN REFER TO USE AS AN ABOKI, IN FRIENDLY OR HOSTLE CONTEXT.

Do you know what the word 'often' means?

reddingtonblack:
aunty calm down, obedient are just being cunning, pretending not to see the"stupid" part.

How do you intend to justify "stupid abokis," in a compliment context.

Seems all obedience no see the "STUPID" part, i will help out

I think we’re saying the same thing about the use of the word.

To be honest, even if the ‘stupid’ wasn’t there it would still be an insult, everyone knows that ‘aboki’ is often used derogatorily by southerners to refer to northerners, anyone denying this is being disingenuous

uba1991:
and wha is stupid? Is it an insult or not?

Sorry, some of you clearly have comprehension issues? Are we not saying the same thing?

Aboki means friend originally, BUT it is often used derogatorily (as an insult) as Peter has done. What exactly about what I said is different to what you’re saying?

FiremanX:
You are smart ibukun, he was definitely insulting the guy he quoted

Yup

OhiOfIhima:
Especially when it goes with other derogatory words like d one he used in there. "Stewpid and iidiut"
Definitely, someone can't use such combined words to give acct of goodness to people.

Yeah exactly

G00DHardDick:
Shut up!

Aboki isn't an insult and it was used for particular individual not a whole tribe. It's just like saying "you stupid afonja and skull miners", the above phrase is referring to u and not the whole Yorubas

You shut up you ignorant leprechaun

Bintdawood:
Referred to northerners as an insult right? No dey do corner corner as you dey talk abeggg.

What is ‘corner corner’ about what I said?

Doesn’t it mean ‘friend’ originally but people (southerners) now use it as an insult?

Odunharry:
Yea. When southerners use it among ourselves, its purely an insult.

Like when a friend or anybody else calls you Aboki. It's even worse to add stupid.

Yeah exactly

emmanuelbrown26:
Then a woman should go and pay d man' groom price and stop disturbing us

Yawn. Plenty of cultures that don’t pay bride price or pay a very small amount, yet the men are the same

LegendHero:
Lol so you mean him saying “All these useless Abokis” mean him saying “all these useless friends”?

That’s a derogatory statement directed against the Northerners.

One thing I always find amusing about Ibo people is that we know they are extremely tribalistic and uncouth to other tribes but yet they always want to feign non tribalist.

It’s just like me saying all these useless Nyamuri.

Many tribes probably have some kind of disparaging term for other groups, a lot of Nigerians are tribalist *shrug*

I know ‘aboki’ is a term different tribes sometimes use derogatorily towards northerners, not just Igbos. People should just stop being disingenuous about the use of the word

Aboki isn’t inherently an insult but it is often used in a derogatory context to refer to northerners and he was clearly using it in this context

Welp, Romanian authorities will make an example out of him. Alfa mails across the globe are quaking, imagine looking up to someone who outed himself with a pizza box.

kollinzgee:
Just the way they got rid of tupac.

No conspiracy here, he committed a crime and was dumb enough to publicly brag about it then doxxed/exposed himself in an even dumber way.

Also, Tupac died in a petty gang rift by involving himself in a ‘beef’ that he wasn’t even involved in. No conspiracy there either, just less than smart decisions

GloriousGbola:
Ibkayee

Lool there’s a specific way he would spell it too, consistently

The only thing anyone can tell you about what happens is that you die.

No one actually knows what happens afterwards

I am a Christian but nobody categorically knows

Hope you guys planned for your school assignments the way you’re planning for a wife. The hustle for marriage is real ooo from the community who claim it doesn’t benefit them lol