Celebrities › Re: Is Omah Lay Dating And Knacking Tiwa Savage Now? Photo) by ibkayee(f): 5:30pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
Well if he is, lucky him |
TV/Movies › Re: Seven (7) Things To Look Forward To On Big Brother Titans by ibkayee(f): 5:21pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
Obvious ploy from the illuminati to stop Tinubu from winning |
Family › Re: Dear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by ibkayee(f): 5:07pm On Jan 12, 2023*. Modified: 5:28pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
I’m used to couples sharing a bedroom but I’ve also come across people who sleeping separately is a norm for? Maybe they’re one of those couples.
Couples competing for ‘ranking’ will always be alien to me.
Anywho, men lord their status as highest financial contributor over their partners’ heads and act like it’s license for them to take certain liberties all the time, but when women do it, it’s ‘noise’. |
Family › Re: How Paternity Fraud Is Finding Its Way Into Northern Nigeria by ibkayee(f): 12:56pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
Paternity fraud is bad etc yeah yeah yeah but sorry I find it hard to feel bad for a community of men who are generally quite flippant and callous about their extramarital affairs and expect/force cooperation from the woman. What’s good for the goose is also good for the gander. Pele but una go dey alright last last 
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Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Anything If We All Die by ibkayee(f): 12:49pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
Red02: You mean follow the herd  I misinterpreted what he said, thought he was talking about people going stray and completely deviating from any type of social structure at all. |
Nairaland General › Re: Password Guessing Attack: Don't Reuse Your Nairaland Password by ibkayee(f): 12:45pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
Emeka71: No I'm Emeka 7 and I used to want to be your friend since then but sometimes you use to shakara me. Yeah I know you’re Emeka 7. All you would do is write my name though, don't you think that’s a bit strange? |
Politics › Re: A List Of Tinubu's Titles And Awards by ibkayee(f): 12:44pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
sukkot: this guy no send oooo lmao . the guy was taking a shower dem come tell am say jagaban is in town, na so hin throw on his babariga and sokoto come wear bathroom slippers carry latop come see the jagaban. lmao the bathroom slippers wey he take dey use bath 20 minutes ago. ibkayee come carry ya uncle oooo, mr bathroom slippers  Lmao uncle kwa |
Family › Re: Is It Me Or Is There An Acute Shortage Of Tall Women These Days? by ibkayee(f): 10:56pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
reddingtonblack: From the taste of words coming from your mouth, i knew you can't be tall naa dem Lol is it because I said Nigerian guys weren’t tall on average? |
Family › Re: Please, What Does It Mean When A Man Says This To You? by ibkayee(f): 10:28pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
He sounds like a nutcase |
Family › Re: Is It Me Or Is There An Acute Shortage Of Tall Women These Days? by ibkayee(f): 10:24pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
onumadu: My sister are you tall? How tall? Or are you calling Pocohantas to "please stand up"? And Pocohantas would be a "mare".  Lol yeah I know a mare is the female horse but stallion just sounds better  I’m not tall, I’m like 169cm which is about 5,’6 and a half/5’7 I’m just average |
Family › Re: Is It Me Or Is There An Acute Shortage Of Tall Women These Days? by ibkayee(f): 10:19pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Women tend to be shorter than their men on average. I don’t believe that study online that says the average Nigerian man is 5’3 but whilst they’re not necessarily short, they’re not really known for their height either, just average.
So it makes sense that Nigerian women aren’t that tall on average either |
Family › Re: Is It Me Or Is There An Acute Shortage Of Tall Women These Days? by ibkayee(f): 10:13pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
@Pocohantas come and show yourself, beautiful tall stallion |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Anything If We All Die by ibkayee(f): 8:09pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
sukkot: lol the world is changing and people are slowly breaking out of conventional ways of doing things but i guess its a lot safer to tow the path of old if you are not a rigid individualist. there is nothing wrong with the path of old but it is like the american dream in that it is getting harder for people to achieve these things nowadays. say for example back in the day people got married in their early twenties but nowadays ? nobody wants to get married and so are you supposed to be depressed and feel unfulfilled because you cant get a partner ? or should you just define your own path ? I meant more so the basic necessities of life, like income for a roof over your head and food. Certain paths you’ll need to follow in order to sustain this vs. deciding since life is meaningless you’re going to break away from the ‘convention’ of a job and not do anything |
Nairaland General › Re: Password Guessing Attack: Don't Reuse Your Nairaland Password by ibkayee(f): 6:41pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Red02: Did you at least leave a reply for the past ten years?? Not within the last 10 years, I must have before that though. But his quotes were literally just him posting my name constantly so it always felt trollish |
Nairaland General › Re: Password Guessing Attack: Don't Reuse Your Nairaland Password by ibkayee(f): 5:51pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Emeka71: You try. How are you Emeka, you’ve been quoting me randomly for over ten years now lol I used to think you were a bot. Happy New Year |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Pounding Fufu With A Woman In The Street (Video) by ibkayee(f): 4:25pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
blackboy: I hope he is not contesting in the February elections.lol E reach to ask because this is the type of thing they do when they’re contesting
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Family › Re: I Am Not Happy With My Wife Please Help by ibkayee(f): 3:23pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Respect her decision, there are plenty other ways to get off plus its not like you’re prohibited from sexual intercourse entirely |
Romance › Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancee That I Don't Want Court Marriage by ibkayee(f): 2:46pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: The Qur'an says when your wives misbehave first step is to beat them lightly Hindu proverb - women animals and children and worthy of being beaten African adage - the broom used to beat the old wife will still be used to beat the new wife.
As to privilege - just as white men are totally unaware of their privilege and believe everything they have they earned through hard work, same for African men. The whole point of privilege is all but the most self aware are aware of it. I don’t believe for one second that Naija men aren’t aware of these particular privileges, in fact their self awareness is what makes it even more sinister to me. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Anything If We All Die by ibkayee(f): 2:42pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
I’m not deep enough for conversations like this sha but unless you commit suicide or go and live in the wilderness somewhere, living life by the blueprint society commands is the safest option.
I can decide to not do anything ever for example but there will be consequences on my livelihood |
Romance › Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancee That I Don't Want Court Marriage by ibkayee(f): 2:32pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: Maybe for a man raised in obodo oyibo. A naija man will be at sea and have no idea what to do. I can see the man in court saying to the male judge it was just a small slap while his lawyer facepalms.
The thing is a lot of relationships in Nigeria are transactional at their core. Bad they are zero sum /lose-lose games.
There are also a lot of things women will tolerate in Nigeria Because it is expected that they will not tolerate abroad.
Sorry I just got back from work. Make your own damn food! Sorry I am too tired for sex (and I know there is no side chick for you here ) you have to help the kids with their homework too I feel like this is infantilising the guy, a ‘small slap’ is universally bad so I don’t think we can blame this on a cultural gap, he knows it’s bad but he does it because he knows he’ll get away with it The only reason he’ll be ‘lost’ is because he’s used to a certain type of privilege that he’s fully aware of and is happy about. I’ve even seen Naija men boast about it The ‘fear’ is from being held accountable |
Romance › Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancee That I Don't Want Court Marriage by ibkayee(f): 2:12pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: Naija is a society where men can get away with anything and have been brought up and, conditioned this way. The west is a society where women can get away with plenty. No one can predict what will happen with their wife when they travel to a place where the power dynamic is flipped. It is what it is I wouldn’t say the power dynamic is ‘flipped.’ At least there’s some kind of objective due process in the West, there are laws to protect her but it isn’t always guarantee that things will swing in her favour In Naija it’s the man’s way, end of |
Nairaland General › Re: Password Guessing Attack: Don't Reuse Your Nairaland Password by ibkayee(f): 1:56pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: Cc ibkayee Cool, an explanation is all people wanted |
Politics › Re: Caption This Photo Of Buhari And Tinubu At Yobe Presidential Campaign Rally by ibkayee(f): 12:58pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
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Health › Re: Gaining Muscle And Loosing Fat by ibkayee(f): 12:42pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Glistinin: Start from the 30 you can do now and keep adding up additional 10 or so daily. Adding up little by little will make your body adopt easily to the additional exercise load. Before you know it, you will be doing 100 easily. Ultimately, it won't be easy, but, showing up everyday and being highly disciplined will keep you in the game. Yeah you’re right, thank you |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Passport Falls By 38 Places In Global Ranking by ibkayee(f): 12:13pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
One of the most worthless passports and one of the most annoying to get renewed |
Romance › Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancee That I Don't Want Court Marriage by ibkayee(f): 11:10am On Jan 11, 2023*. Modified: 11:28am On Jan 11, 2023 |
Anything other than a court marriage is not legally recognised in most places in the west (if not all) so in the eyes of the law, your union is no different than you offering her a ‘promise ring’.
Once you tell her she’ll interpret it as you not trusting her, it will definitely impact the dynamics of your relationship, even if she agrees
Are you scared of her running away with your money or something? Maybe get a prenuptial agreement? (Still implication of distrust but better than no civil contract at all). If the relationship goes bad, you can always get a divorce. Or is there something else you’re concerned about? |
Family › Re: Happy Birthday To Me. A Picture Collage Of My Transformation From Birth. by ibkayee(f): 10:00am On Jan 11, 2023 |
What a pretty little girl  Happy birthday to her |
Politics › Re: Caption This Photo Of Buhari And Tinubu At Yobe Presidential Campaign Rally by ibkayee(f): 9:07am On Jan 11, 2023 |
Schrodinger2: Well, you seem right, however, albeit it looks like he has past his prime, I'd encourage you to vote him for me as BAT still stands out from the rest, and he would surround himself with capable guys that he can delegate to.
I mean you could want to vote via sentiments of religion/tribe... 
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Politics › Re: Caption This Photo Of Buhari And Tinubu At Yobe Presidential Campaign Rally by ibkayee(f): 2:43am On Jan 11, 2023 |
Schrodinger2: Lol. IBK, for a fact, we both know his outstanding performance in governance, while he led Lagos. Other than his health/age, he's the best of all aspirants in this election. But you're free to be bias towards religion or something else. And you think he'll have the same agility and cognitive coordination as he did back then? Bias towards religion? Random, not sure what this even means |
Politics › Re: Caption This Photo Of Buhari And Tinubu At Yobe Presidential Campaign Rally by ibkayee(f): 2:02am On Jan 11, 2023 |
Schrodinger2: So you're against BAT, despite his track record. Track record of what? |
Health › Re: Gaining Muscle And Loosing Fat by ibkayee(f): 12:42am On Jan 11, 2023 |
I've started trying to do some weight training (in the past if I ever did exercise I'd only do cardio) but it's so painful.
How are you people doing 100 lifts at a time, I can barely manage 30 sometimes (5kg dumbbells only smh) lol. I guess it's gradual thing and you've got to start somewhere, consistency is my issue but I'm trying to do better |
Health › Re: Doctors Leaving UK To Work In Other Countries For Better Pay, Working Conditions by ibkayee(f): 12:31am On Jan 11, 2023 |
emorse: I wasn't so far off the lower end after all. Yeah just a £400k difference on the max |