Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 1:02pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: Met the missus in school. Missus is 5'9 or 10. To this day she says I deceived her with my boots and trainers with 1 inch+ soles  Lmao I’m surprised she wasn’t aware of the boost your thick soles gave you, women usually notice these things  |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 12:41pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: Ah I missed it
I thought you were saying you are 5ft 4 with weight of 169. Since you are not overweight we would have to assume to extra mass is concentrated in attack formation.
But I see you are actually 5 foot 7 with weight not given Lol yeah I meant 169cm which I think is about 5’6 and a half but I can get away with saying 5’7 depending on the shoes I’m wearing  |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 12:32pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 12:29pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Another African From Gambia Caught In UK Talking To A 14years Old Girl (pix/vid) by ibkayee(f): 11:39am On Jan 09, 2023 |
Solofresh2:
and I don't know all this while Hope they are not disturbing you with bills sha   |
Crime › Re: Another African From Gambia Caught In UK Talking To A 14years Old Girl (pix/vid) by ibkayee(f): 11:31am On Jan 09, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Another African From Gambia Caught In UK Talking To A 14years Old Girl (pix/vid) by ibkayee(f): 11:09am On Jan 09, 2023 |
Solofresh2: Oh I get your point.I didn't read the content of the thread.  He was actually asking for sex from the girl which is very bad. He must have been doing that from Gambia until he met his Waterloo  |
Crime › Re: Another African From Gambia Caught In UK Talking To A 14years Old Girl (pix/vid) by ibkayee(f): 10:41am On Jan 09, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Another African From Gambia Caught In UK Talking To A 14years Old Girl (pix/vid) by ibkayee(f): 10:32am On Jan 09, 2023*. Modified: 3:55pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Watch them run up in here to fight for their right to talk to an underage girl with the strength of the US army.
For the people asking for proof that she’s 14, watching the video may help |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 9:34am On Jan 09, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 6:21am On Jan 09, 2023 |
Lade18: Coming from a girl who is 4feet 2in at best. Provided you're the one on your profile. Women and their delusional standard I'm actually 169cm which I believe is about 5'6 and a half/5'7, I'm about average height But even if I were 2'1, 5'9 will still not be tall for a man, it wasn't an insult lol |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 10:34pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
pocohantas: Nigerian men are lucky many Nigerian women are 5”6 and less. The number of times they have told me they are taller than me and I laugh. You want to be taller with your 5”8 and 5”9 ??   |
Travel › Re: What Scares You The Most About Relocating Abroad? by ibkayee(f): 9:53pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Dadaboy: hey ! how are you doing ? do you mind if i send a message ? to ask some private questions as you have been here in UK for a long time. Sure, send a message |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 9:45pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Obidient4life3: Make wrestling no dey confuse you. Average height for the US is 5'9" for men. pocohantas: I never said US men are tall. I said 5”9 is not tall.  It’s not tall o, for a man |
Culture › Re: Emir of Kano, Aminu Ado Bayero Takes New Wife (Photos) by ibkayee(f): 9:20pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
toujurs: Girl that he is banging right now, while you use your keyboard to fight. Sorry are you really using the example of a 60 year old man sweating on top of a child to ‘one up’ me?
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Culture › Re: Emir of Kano, Aminu Ado Bayero Takes New Wife (Photos) by ibkayee(f): 9:14pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Naija men will FIGHT for their right to prey on underage girls with the strength of 50 elephants grrrrr  If they fought this hard to fix their country we for compete with the likes of America 
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Romance › Re: My 2023 Message For Nairaland Guys. by ibkayee(f): 7:45pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I’m sure the message was ‘hi bby’ |
Food › Re: Coffee or Tea: Which Is Your Favourite Beverage And Why? by ibkayee(f): 7:38pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I prefer coffee to tea.
Favourite hot beverage is a mocaccino though (coffee and hot chocolate mixture) >>> |
Car Talk › Re: Man Constructs And Drives A Weird Type Of Vehicle (pics/video) by ibkayee(f): 7:07pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Red02: Damn...... Send me my 2cents sharply.
Our own british yoruba lady  Lol well done I guess |
Car Talk › Re: Man Constructs And Drives A Weird Type Of Vehicle (pics/video) by ibkayee(f): 7:04pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Red02: Lol,
Your eyes....... Ibadan lady i guess?? Yeah Ibadan lady ni mi |
Car Talk › Re: Man Constructs And Drives A Weird Type Of Vehicle (pics/video) by ibkayee(f): 6:16pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 6:03pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Ednut03: Have you been to the US or Canada before? Why does Nigerians who don't even have visa always have the most updated info about what they do abroad The one loud gan
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Car Talk › Re: Man Constructs And Drives A Weird Type Of Vehicle (pics/video) by ibkayee(f): 5:57pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Kaycee54321:

When I was serving, I rode several times in Volkswagen golfs packed with rams & goats. Took me a while to adapt to regular human passengers after service year.
Good times mehn  You were in the car? Wow. In fact I need to correct myself, what I meant was cows, not rams. With big horns, sticking out of the car (regular car o), riding around in Lagos. My brain went into overdrive trying to compute so much at once, first of all how did they get inside and why?? |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 5:14pm On Jan 08, 2023*. Modified: 5:32pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
kkins25: This is mostly responsible to racial bias. Older white individuals are less likely to ever date anybody outside their race. Not because of desirability in the sense you put it. Today, more individuals date and accept the notion over inter-race dating. Forgive my use of the term. Either way, across all demographics, black men as well as black women are the least desirable on the planet. Black women in the west are even 'campaigning' against black men opting for caucasians and other race over them.. irony huh! https://qz.com/emails/africa-weekly-brief/1849957926/why-is-kenya-s-ecitizen-platform-so-glitchy
Same goes for black women, and again, this is attributed to racial discrimination: see below
I understand where the sentiment is coming from,but fortunately that not the case.
Most people; White, Hispanics, asians, are more likely to marry someone from their own race. Factually speaking, the percentage of black men not desirable to white female is the not that different for white men who also don't find black women desirable. So yes, we both are the underdogs of the dating pool. Both you know who desires black women the most? Black men.. Even more crazy, you know which race prefer to date black women the most, black women.  I don’t disagree with you about both men and women being considered low on the totem pole socially. But it’s usually black men arguing on how desirable they are to other races, often in a bid to devalue black women. I rarely see black women doing this Lol every time I ‘inform’ a black men boasting about how desirable he is to oyinbos, chances are he will ‘counter’ with the argument that black women aren’t desirable either in a conversation where no black woman said anything about being so  |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 5:07pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Ednut03: True. But lemme ask a genuine question. Who desire black women in the abroad? Especially, black Nigerian women. Well, Nigerian men still desire cuz they don't have much options either. But Nigerian women and black women also still fall short of the beauty standard Black women, Nigerian women are not perceived as high on the ‘totem’ pole socially by other races but they tend to stick to their own. There are also some black men who prefer other races of women to black (differs from country to country) but the impact isn’t ‘damaging’ enough for there to be a shortage of black couples daily. Nigerian men aren’t a part of this, they date out more than Nigerian women but they tend to stick to their own for the most part The thing is, I rarely see black women or Nigerian women boasting about how ‘desired’ they are to other races. It’s a phenomenon that’s very peculiar to black men and some Nigerian men lol I’ve never seen a demographic so obsessed with their perceived ‘desirability’ and it’s always with superficial things, never to do with their stake in the world as leaders and economically |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 4:43pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
jaxxy: Hahaha well broken down and ure right to a large extent. Some guy sexualise black men bt there are others who are in love with black men also.
And please stop saying white women are the most desirable and black men least desirable. That's trash and just a stereotype like black having sexual prowess.
The only desirable person is the one with value and value sometimes is even relative.
I don't give a damn about color of the skin as regards anything be it success, Knowledge or money. There are broke white girls everywhere.
The only difference btwn brile white girls and blacks girls is their values. U know exactly what I mean.
Go to Yankee and see how they throw themselves on black guys. Tho tests also because young black guys are doing well in certain industries and are seen to have potential. Well I said that’s how they’re viewed socially and it isn’t necessarily incorrect. I’m not saying that they inherently are, or that every single person views them as desirable let alone the most, but that’s just a pedestal they’ve been put on in society and something they’re aware of. As for black men being the least accomplished…that’s not untrue. White women are not throwing themselves at black men abeg. I’m not saying it’s never happened before but it’s not enough of a regular occurrence to be tagged as a ‘thing’. |
Car Talk › Re: Man Constructs And Drives A Weird Type Of Vehicle (pics/video) by ibkayee(f): 4:33pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I’ve seen a regular car packed with rams riding casually on the road in Nigeria, nothing surprises me |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 3:51pm On Jan 08, 2023*. Modified: 4:12pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
jaxxy: bt white girls are more into black guys than white men are into black girls yeah?
If as a black guy u can't score with a white girl u have more than 99 problems. White girls aren’t ‘into’ black guys Doesn’t really make sense that the demographic of women seen as one of the most socially desirable would collectively be into black men who are seen as the least accomplished (thus least desirable) group of men in the world. I won’t say there aren’t some white women who are ‘into’ black men, but they tend to be few in comparison to those who aren’t, or the oyinbo women that aren’t seen as desirable in their own community. Some fetishise black men because of the stereotype of their alleged sexual prowess I guess but that doesn’t necessarily mean that the ones fetishising you even want to be with you seriously Basically if a black guy doesn’t score with a desirable white girl, that’s not that unusual. You’re not on their radar like that |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 3:29pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Bossjakande: did oyibo guys like to date or sex African girls cos I think it will be easy. There are different types of oyinbo men tbh. There are some who generally aren’t into black women let alone ‘African immigrants’ and there are some who are and are into a certain aesthetic |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 3:19pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: ibkayee come and add your own - . include your videos of gross white chicks who have naija men in thier dms  Loool Welp, what I will say is Nigerian women don’t tend to expand their dating pool beyond Nigerian men and aren’t generally interested in oyinbos so it’s strange that white men are the demographic that the OP is focused on for his ‘case study’. They don’t really bother looking ‘outside’ because of compatibility reasons. Also white people aren’t the only race abroad. As for the men, I am of the opinion that they tend to expand more than the women, but let’s not lie to ourselves, a lot of the time it’s for papers so they end up settling for the less than desirable ‘oyinbo’ women. The ones with citizenship and a stable lifestyle that don’t need to ‘hustle’ may venture out too but most also end up with Nigerian women, for compatibility reasons too. Again, let’s be honest, Naija men expect/demand very specific things from their women that they know won’t be tolerated outside so this is also a factor in addition to cultural compatibility. Hence why there’s a trend of some running home to get someone from their village when even the Naija babes have has become too ‘westernised’ for them. As for hooking up, the dating culture is different abroad. You can get sex but I don’t think it’s in the transactional way that Naija men back home are used to, people have casual sex because they want to or they’re just fond of the person. It’s not something viewed as ‘cheap labour’ like back home so you’ll have to actually work for it to an extent outside of enticing them with money. Your ‘investment’ is more social than monetary and that may not be a dynamic the average Naija man is used to/has the patience for. Plus, Naija men aren’t really on anyone’s radar except Naija women and maybe some Black Americans so you actually have to be somewhat of a decently impressive (in whichever way) individual. Of course alternatively there are actual paid sex workers. I’m talking about Naija men and women who were home based and then japad. Things are a bit different for 1st/2nd gen Nigerians |
Family › Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by ibkayee(f): 2:28pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: this is so apt... I have faced this, traveling from country to country peacefully and enjoying my life till someone told my family that I travel frequently and BOOMMMM all hell of demands broke loose...
I wasn't married so the married ones began to place demands on me, tell their kids to call me so I can be manipulated to give... family responsibilites that I had no business with.
I had to first relocate from the address they all knew... to somewhere they would never be able to find me, then I traveled out... changed my numbers, then I came back to Lagos and put on the FAMILY SIM just to greet them via SMS and remove it quickly before they call.
Since then I have had peace, my own family has had peace, no more demands from extended relations
EVERYONE WILL SURVIVE
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Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Imprisoned For Attempting To Meet With 14-Year-Old Girl In UK (Pix) by ibkayee(f): 2:02pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
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