Crime › Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by ibkayee(f): 11:12pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Emaprince: Who is even this perpetrator you are painting like an adult?
What happend is bad but I am sure if that 15 year old was Ops daughter, she will still want to cover the shame and not let it be blown out. Every woman would do same. Thats just what it is. The familly probably talked to her hubby about it..and they want to deal with it within the familly.
I wonder why females here are agitating for the 15yr old crucification as if these aunties aren't extremely guilty of boy child molestations..abi no be who dem catch be thief? After all, the 15 year old too needs help. She is still very young and most likely was molested and groomed by an adult..probably a mature female lesbian.
What OP needs is to get help for her daughter..not trying to make a scene and be an enemy to the entire familly. It will bite her back in future. Her daughter belongs to the familly as well ...and you cant kill the 15 Yr old. A 4 year has potentially been molested and you're here doing whataboutism. Seek help |
TV/Movies › Re: Thread For Anime Lovers (NO HENTAI PLEASE) by ibkayee(f): 10:52pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by ibkayee(f): 10:51pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Is it March yet? This year is moving slowly because when is The Glory Season 2 coming out abeg |
Crime › Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by ibkayee(f): 10:44pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
nairamaniac: you shouldnt be easily judgmental. The 4year old could have learnt it from anywhere, including her parents.
At the age of 4, some things are still very cloudy in the minds&vision of kids of that age.
I know how many times I could swear I saw ghost or superman in real life.
The op and her husband messed up in a manner of approach&reaction. The husband even turned his back on his dad and the rest.
U don't throw an entire family under bus becos you heard an accusation against one of their own. Except if there was as existing enmity between both sides before then. Asif it was the entire family that connived to suck her daughter's Virgina in turns.
The op&huaband owes them an apology for her initial condemnation. Except the inlaws have admited the offence.
I too like myself shaaa, very patient to find out the truth without burning the entire bridge or innocent persons. A make believe story about seeing unicorns and Batman is very different to cooking up a story about this very peculiar action. I may not be privy to the 100% facts but I’m inclined to believe that something very fishy is going on at the very least and it’s highly unlikely that the minor initiated/orchestrated it. I don’t think my line of thought is unreasonable |
Family › Re: For Those Who Can't Speak Their Native Language, Learn. E Get Why. by ibkayee(f): 10:07pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Kaycee54321: I've always wondered how your moniker is pronounced... What's your native language? Yoruba |
Travel › Re: Na So Abroad Life Be? by ibkayee(f): 10:03pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
dettolgel: If I may ask what do you for a living? Well I was a Software Engineer up until about 2 months ago, now I’m like a Software Tech Lead I guess since I have more managerial responsibilities now vs being an individual contributor. Why? |
Crime › Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by ibkayee(f): 9:47pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Where is a 4 year old going to learn about such a peculiar thing that they’re saying she’s lying.
His family’s response is all I’d need to distance myself from that family forever. I doubt the perpetrator is going to face any substantial disciplinary action.
Just disgusting |
Family › Re: For Those Who Can't Speak Their Native Language, Learn. E Get Why. by ibkayee(f): 9:15pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
I blame my parents all the time, they spoke it around us to themselves but were never intentional about teaching it. I’m making more of an active effort to learn mine |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Apologises To Fans For Late Performance by ibkayee(f): 8:23pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
pocohantas: I refused to open every Burna thread since this week o. I can’t deal. This guy stresses me out abeg.  Good luck with this your fav
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Music/Radio › Re: What’s Your Favourite Instrument? by ibkayee(op): 7:48pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Xavie: The most angelic to me is Guiter, then violin and piano are dope... Then as an indigenous man i like Oja Never heard of Oja, googled it and looks like some sort of flute? |
Celebrities › Re: Olamide's Babymama, Maria Okan Wears Bikini For The First Time In Public (Photo) by ibkayee(f): 4:27pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Nice. It’s a beach after all |
Romance › Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by ibkayee(f): 3:50pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Crystalom5: lolz.
You can talk all you want. But reality is saying otherwise.
And that reality is that fewer men are willing to go into marriage. The system already rubbed the joy off it. Any examples of this other ‘reality?’ Genuinely curious Not the men on Nairaland sha, I’ve never seen a group of people so desperate to get married  |
Romance › Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by ibkayee(f): 3:43pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Crystalom5: what exactly is the system protecting the children and women from?
The child the man gave birth equally as the woman or the woman the man love as much as he thought the woman loved him?
How exactly does a child need protection from his own father? And why do you think you need protection from the man you agreed to marry but such a man needs no protection from you?
Who exactly is protecting the men?
The same UK that is functional is filled with more broken homes than this poor country we are in.
Government should never have had a hand in marriage or family and at best, it should have remained open to all parties.
Just as a woman loves her kids, so does the average man.
The UK system is nothing to write home about. There's no protection there, it is instead a catalysts for broken homes.
Today, the system is causing more broken homes, a few years from now, men will adapt and stop marrying altogether.
It's already even happening, except for the traditional men.
So your perfect system of protection is actually the monster destroying the marriage institution.
Get ready, the system will grow even colder than it is now. More and more people will talk less to each other than ever before.
God, if you can imagine Well the OP implied that your kids being ‘selfish’ and ‘self centred’ is enough reason to stop supporting them financially. What’s wrong with a legal system in place that makes sure a parent is paying a certain amount towards the maintenance of their own child? The age limit is 16 and under or 20 if you’re still in education. You can’t get kicked out the house unless some kind of court order is obtained which is gotten through due process, depending on circumstances and severity. They take things like the housing needs and financial state of the people in question into consideration, what the issue is between those involved and other important bits of criteria. It’s not Naija where you can pay one hungry policeman to kick someone out without fair hearing. Or get rabid family members to chase someone out of somewhere they have genuine rights to just because So what exactly about this is destroying the institution of marriage? |
Romance › Re: My Love Story( Pre Wedding Pictures) Wedding 4th February,2023 by ibkayee(f): 2:19pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Beautiful  |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Apologises To Fans For Late Performance by ibkayee(f): 1:28pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
@Pocohantas Do you forgive him? |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 1:26pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
iamoyindamola: Nice Beat The lyrics men couldn't relate Do I even know half of what’s being said lmao, I like the beat too |
Family › Re: Are You Up For A Little Game? by ibkayee(f): 1:24pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Treassured: The Answer Is Either 9 or 59
Choose the one wey you like Inside OP Treassured: Babie Ibkayee come and help me out❤ Babie kwa lol It’s 59, not 9. Multiplication takes precedence over addition |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 12:13pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
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Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 12:08pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
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Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 10:06am On Jan 04, 2023 |
ibkayee: Isakaba - Oladapo Afefe ti fe atiri furo adiye Oun ti mo se ni won ti fe ba mi je Don't talk to me se bon ti ba mi je Don't talk to me ki lo fe ba mi re
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Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 10:06am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Isakaba - Oladapo
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Romance › Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by ibkayee(f): 10:02am On Jan 04, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: This chick - your future is in compliance. The word misconduct jus dey flow from your fingers. Go forth and break some careers Buahaha  |
Travel › Re: Na So Abroad Life Be? by ibkayee(f): 10:01am On Jan 04, 2023 |
sukkot: 2026 is a long time. but to be honest what we need is a visionary leader who would open up other states as commercial hubs so that people can spread out. create ports and airports and trade hubs in at least 10 states so people can spread out. everybody cannot be in one tiny state. we need a visionary leader. who do you think is visionary among the to 3 ? i know your choice. peter obi right ? hehe awon obidients
lol 2062 I don’t want someone who will confuse ‘lead’ for ‘lick’ sha  |
Travel › Re: Na So Abroad Life Be? by ibkayee(f): 9:20am On Jan 04, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: Na So Abroad Life Be? by ibkayee(f): 9:12am On Jan 04, 2023 |
sukkot: ahhhh cool runnings. ibkayee. well its 2023. hows london looking ? everybody fine ? or sunak has started bringing the pain ? lol
they do say for the british invasion and colonization of india he may want to bring that pain. revenge lol the empire strikes back Lool London’s fine o, I resumed work yesterday sha so back to regular scheduling No Rishi has not avenged his ancestors yet but it’s still early days  How’s Lagos? |
Travel › Re: Na So Abroad Life Be? by ibkayee(f): 9:06am On Jan 04, 2023 |
sukkot: ahhh interesting cuz i thought he was a female. hmmm. strange fellow  Pretty sure they’re a guy sha, of course I could be wrong though |
Travel › Re: Na So Abroad Life Be? by ibkayee(f): 9:04am On Jan 04, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: Na So Abroad Life Be? by ibkayee(f): 9:00am On Jan 04, 2023 |
sukkot: thats kobojunkies modus operandi . moving the goalpost You should’ve seen the way he ran into my mentions angry like he hadn’t eaten since morning yet.
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Travel › Re: Na So Abroad Life Be? by ibkayee(f): 4:38am On Jan 04, 2023 |
dettolgel: Thanks. 1 and 2 has large number of carbohydrates ?
We might end up eating 3 with pap or garri which also contains a lot of carbohydrates?
I think we consume a lot of carbohydrates in our meal. Though we have a lot of variety of food maybe we should start like a nation wide campaign teaching people how to plan a balance and healthier meal using our local cuisines. You’re right, still better than some of the junk abroad lol. Bolded would be great |
Politics › Re: They Told Tinubu To Test His Mic, He tasted/Licked It Instead (video) by ibkayee(f): 11:04pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
Bitchiamjay: lmfao this man actually licked the mic. He thought it was cocaine, he’s used to tasting substances for purity. Behave
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Politics › Re: They Told Tinubu To Test His Mic, He tasted/Licked It Instead (video) by ibkayee(f): 10:38pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
sukkot: its like those people before they take a sip of their drink they must wet the ground first Iro ni
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Politics › Re: They Told Tinubu To Test His Mic, He tasted/Licked It Instead (video) by ibkayee(f): 10:18pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
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