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I started it and it's quite good but won't finish. Just not my type of movie. To make matters worse, it's a series. Looking for recommendations for action/thriller/horror movies.

Haha that's fair! Everyone has their taste

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So, I've finally been bitten by the Korean movie bug. Just watched Train to Bhushan and The Witch, subversion. I'm hooked. My next movie is crash landing.

Haven't watched it myself but I've heard nothing but good reviews about this one

Saliva everywhere just because they told you not to rape your wives

fuckpro:
Please remain single
Do not bring your fake reasoning to this platform

Coolbeans

One4me:
Oaky, apologies.
But l still insist there is nothing like Rape in Marriage (using the term 'marital \rape' is just wishful thinking manufactured by you).
Nothing like Rape in a Marriage and moreso reason why the Nigerian law does not recognise it.
As far as we are concerned, it does not exist...because it is just an imagination of feminists.

Lol ok champ

Hathor5:
I am glad you put philosophies in quotation marks because it is hogwash.

Two bodies become one, your body is your spouse's body bla bla bla.

Can you feel your spouse's pain? Then you are not one body.
Can you use the toilet for your spouse? Do you guys poo together? No? Then you are not one body.
Can you have your spouse's body tattooed as you wish? NO? Isn't it your body?
Can you force your spouse to give you her kidney? No? You know what follows ...


You are not one body and you never will be. That's the reason death will do you part.

Gbam!

cococandy:
it should be common sense but I guess not in this case. Especially since humans are the one who make laws.

Many things are illegal that shouldn’t be and many are legal and shouldn’t be. Does it take away from the wrongness or rightness of any of those things if we go by the golden rule of being to others as we want them to be to us?

I'm sure they know, another one was doing body contortions to avoid acknowledging this earlier, but anything to justify raping women right?

One4me:
That person i sno longer a Child, he is an Adult with the power to give or withdraw consent.
When forceful sexual knowledge of that person is taken, the law calls it RAPE.
But it is not, if they are in a marriage because each spouse's body, belong to the other.
Stop asking childish questions, please.

No matter how many 'philosophies' you people dress it in, rape is still rape. And you were the one perched up in my mentions, twirl past next time if you don't like what you see

One4me:
Your question is out of context becuase The Law recognises Sex with a Minor (Male or Female) as DEFILEMENT, another and even worse category of Rape.
Its there in our Constitution.
Rape of one's Spouse is UNKNOWN to Nigerian Law...and rightly so.

I believe he knew what I was getting at, I gave a hypothetical situation where I asked him to imagine if his son was raped, then he beat around an entire forest to avoid acknowledging that just because a law doesn't recognize something, it doesn't necessarily make it right. Male child over the age of consent then..rape of males isn't recognized as rape either but that doesn't justify it.

Marital rape isn't recognized under Nigerian law but it doesn't make the act itself any less rape.

hammer3:
This is y people hate gays.

If not for them, we will not be discusiing something as absurd as this.

Honestly, I think rape will apply but the court will be reluctant to do so in the case of a woman.

Lmao I’m done with you mate. Good day

hammer3:
By a woman right?

How can a woman rape a young man?

Knew you’d say this, they can but I cba to debate over it with you. Ok, what if he were raped by a guy?

hammer3:
If they are matured and within the age of consent and male.

It falls to the non-fatal offences, u cannot win this one.

Again, not what I’m asking. Would you personally brush it off and say it isn’t rape?

Would you tell your son that?

hammer3:
A child would be considered rape regardless of whether they are male or female.

It is called statutory rape.


The offender a paedophile.

Ok let’s try again, what if your son is over the age of consent?

hammer3:
The law is fluid and dynamic.

It is constantly changing alongside wat is deemed acceptable in our society.

Rape, even in the most developed couuntries is the exclusive reserve of female and many assume male cannot be raped.

That is where the alternate non fatal offences apply, as i mentioned earlier.

Thus, the person that harms a male child will still be going to prison for a very long time, if they have a good lawyer.

Not what I asked. If your male child was raped, would you personally brush it off and/or say it wasn’t rape because the law doesn’t recognise it as rape?

ibkayee:
I'm not talking about how far it will go in court, I'm talking about whether it's wrong or right and how she should've handled it. Plus the fact that it's a law doesn't automatically make it ethically right

Within the context of Nigerian law, a male being raped is not recognized as rape. If your male child were raped would you brush it off just because it isn't recognized by law?

Just because the law doesn’t recognize it, doesn’t mean it technically isn't rape or make it any less terrible

Hammer3, hi there sir, you didn't respond back

sinola:
It was not in confidence.she was online on Instagram on live streaming when the topic popped up.

Wherever, do you still think she handled it appropriately?

hammer3:
Legally u cant be raped by your husband.


If your husband can rape you, y are u married?


Wat any reasonable court of law should uphold is acts of physical or domestic violence, that falls under assault, battery, abh and gbh.


If u come before a court and say your husband hit you and then had sex with you forcefully to say, pining you down, then we can bill him for the above. Not rape!


U cannot tell a court, your husband did not take permission before romancing u and that is rape.


I will throw the case out, it is all about how u present it.

I'm not talking about how far it will go in court, I'm talking about whether it's wrong or right and how she should've handled it. Plus the fact that it's a law doesn't automatically make it ethically right

Within the context of Nigerian law, a male being raped is not recognized as rape. If your male child were raped would you brush it off just because it isn't recognized by law?

Just because the law doesn’t recognize it, doesn’t mean it technically isn't rape or make it any less terrible

A friend confided in her about being raped by her husband and she thought this was an appropriate response? What an insensitive piece of shit

Menthol, I used to sniff those nasal inhalers just for the smell of it *floats*

Davicjoe:
Is rape now a pandemic?

Na today?

andrewtosin:
Don't worry when we meet you will develop interest. I will create the interest in you

Lol it's unlikely, just can't get into it

andrewtosin:
Ha! You don fvck up.
Would have initiated virtual game with you

Lol I have absolutely no interest in football

andrewtosin:
You wanted to see if you would lie na. You know I have the ability to detect one

Knowing the functions of each button, Pressing the buttons in the controllers.

Do you play the football?

Lol

I don't play football, only fighting and RPG games

Hathor5:
People feel that they have to control others in order to live a good life. An impossible task with frustration all the way through.

Lol it's a mindset they need to get rid of smh

andrewtosin:
Since when? Do you know how to play?

Lol do you know me outside of here to be asking since when?

Are you asking me if I know how to press the controllers? Since there are many different types of games to play

andrewtosin:
You play PlayStation?

Used to

I’m not fussed over it personally, but to each their own, it’s about choice.

And not all cultures collect bride price...plus nowadays, many women contribute equally to the household and some are even breadwinners and still bear their husband’s name. So I don’t see what all the fuss is about and why people get worked up if she chooses not to for whatever reason, it's a personal thing.

sirBLUNT:
I know right..but i can be so lazy sometimes, i seriously need that phython knowledge to build my smart house

You might be like me then, I have moments when I’m really into it, then a have longer moments when I’m too lazy

Potentially beautiful relationships ruined by trivialities. We humans do it to ourselves

I don’t think it’s a big deal in the grand scheme of life, but I still get how the girl is feeling

Lol btw when you said their ages came up in a discussion one day, wtf isn’t this kind of thing discussed early in relationships. I find it weird that it ‘came up’ later

sirBLUNT:
I need to get back to computer programming

Step on it then

pocohantas:
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So you haven’t watched fresh prince of bel air?

pocohantas:
I am just 38, Ishi. Who is he?

You are a disgrace