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Kingpele:
I don't like itel and I don't know why....Samsung or I go phoneless

I swear Samsung or iPhone or nothing

Request for the list of items needed…buy them your self don’t give her any more money to buy items her self your wife and her mum are definitely diverting the money for some other things

Mindlog:
While tribalism is catwalking in the open air in Nigeria.

the kind tribalism that flows in the veins of an average Nigerian will shock u and this same people willl be the first once to shout and scream to the high heavens of racism radarada

Put her husband name on it u know little things like this get in their head and leads to disrespect a word is enough for the wise thing about it

AImiron:
girls from a wretched home , are quick to broke sham struggling guys, if it was that easy why your papa poor, you don ever see Temi or Cuppy otedola broke shame men online before. Irritants like will end up selling their pussy for survival, na low class girls like you dem dey fvck 5k 2nuts and BJ, you go come dey form feminist on NL, frustrated Olosho in real life. Your mama suppose don use your preggy do menstruation

pls calm down ok this is too much

Miracood2:
Is the thread a deliberate attempt to confuse me?.

Because I don't understand a thing you posted

My wife was 22 when we got married and we have four children now the earlier the better[s][/s]

Zeal0000007:
well spoken but with a good pay one can sustain it. If u target 3 to 4 kids when ever she's pregnant u go for it , I feel I can do it, my woman has brought peace of mind to me ever I met her after terrible 7yrs in my previous toxic relationship, I see my new gal as a God sent exactly what any man could look for in a woman. Though the money is not yet there , I'm in early stage of my career no money yet, but I know it will come. I don't want to loose this gal she's a peace of mind, first time I'm feeling loved in a very long while .

mbok since u have ur mind made up why are u disturbing us nigbana?

I will advice u guys look for another partners it won’t be easy but it will be worth it a word is enough for the wise

Yes my neighbor a married woman and my stupid sales girl recently

U sha want to die before ur time😂😂😂

I use to tell people around me who seeks my opinions on getting loan i tell them straight up that the business he intends to start with the loan money is dead in arriaval if only the is woman managed with whatever she had and hoped on God she will probably be here now

faithfull18:
How do you go for another person's leftover Girls. Give it sometime, let's see if you still have butterflies in your tummy after a while.

how is he a left over u can only say the is about if it was a lady not a man ok u might want to read that again and then ponder over it

Pickmycall:
Don't trust anyone for business on nairaland.

someone once duped me and a friend on Nairaland… cat fishery scam

Ikennaford:
Lol I told you people, black man is useless, if you think we not, tell me the source of money of African billionaires and whitemans, let's debate this.... Every billionaire black man is from, bussines, church oil and gas and all, white men billionaires innovations,, we black men are useless including all nairalanders and my late dad, r. I. P dad you are included

what have u innovated?

tolufase:
Hmm, the only where a Nigerian man can not reap what he sowed is when a man foolishly sent a Nigerian girl to school, hoping to marry her after graduation.
Please guys out there don't indulge in it, it hardly works out

did u say hardly lol my dear it never works out

How can a father do this to a his child ? I have never felt so sad reading a post on nairaland as I felt nicer this post this man must be arrested and jailed for life

GoooodHardDick:
The man was so patient enough until the main day when he had something to say and then decided to play the video.

That's an ALPHA male and a RED PILLER right there, we don't settle for less. Never let any simp or anyone tells you a woman's past doesn't matter, it matters a lot and only simps settles for over used hoes. Dear Men, bang that pussy, dump her and move on

don’t bang and retrieve HIV/AIDS sha use ur head don’t go and doh ido ku doh

Hollybratt:
Hey, chap, let me tell you, if you know how tall i am you won't post this. No girls love me for being tall. They only love me for being funny
IRMC

if u rushed to open his profile to see how tall he actually is oya gather here we have a general meeting

Iniobong34:
As if he won't plead at a gun point

but the worse thing to happen to a man is being poor.
just imagine ur wife simply because you are broke and she is the bread winner. No matter the love, one day she will be like

papa emeka if you wan chop go cary ur food for kitchen.

you forgot to add Biah... Biah papa emeka if u wan chop go carry ur food for kitchen.

MadamVanessa:



This woman and stupidity. One useless idiot want to pick a new wife instead of allowing the fool to go ahead with his plan while you're making your plans to leave him, you go ahead to stabbed the fool , thus creating more problems to yourself

No man on earth can make me lose my sanity. If I am not good for you enough and you want to pick a new wife, please go ahead, if I can't tolerate such, I quit the marriage immediately. I don't have to go confrontational with any idiot that have three legs which the center one is a midget.

useless idiot ,fool Haha hanty na only u waka come?

Premiumwriter:
5 year old

Like how does a 5 year old turn you on?

the girl is 9

DropsMic:
You think love is about the number of years you date someone ba

dont mind him jare I met my wife and 3 months later we got married we had our issues which is normal but then we have 3 kids already infact she just served me hot amala with ewedu right now and she is also pressing her phone beside me bayii

Franzinni:
hmm deep the world is strange ... it sometimes lead from the rooms and sometime in the living room but this one in thethe picture is just in the living room in a straight line of aboit 12 to 15 drops

there is a prescience of jinn In that house recite Sarah bakora in the house or ruqya u can download them on google but if u are Muslim recite those Quran verse urself bakora,iklas,false and nass preferably everyday morning and evening

obembet:
I don't think I will marry... All this kind news dey make me give up on marriage

some of of are married and we have about 3 kids and we have never raised our fingers on our wives

Niece:
A man has accused a loan app of announcing his obituary after he defaulted, WonderTV Media reports.

The man who shared the obituary banner on a social media group wrote;


lalasticlala

as muslims we don't do interest based loans be it loan app or microfinance or conventional banks and I always advice people not to bother doing cos it always end in premium tears

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

many years ago while still in school before I got married I was in a hotel room with a supposed prostitute... while we were at it her boy friend called... she picked while I was still banging.. they were talking and then i think the guy wanted to notice something is not right from the sound he was hearing she asked me to wait he sat up properly and spoke with the guy for about 10 min and then we continued... u should be thanking God for making u see who she really is now

proxillin:
Please please...this is very serious to me...I need serious minded and experienced people here.

I have been dating this babe for few months now.

She never indicated any sign of abstinent from sex. We do erotic chat now and then. She even told me how she had sex with her ex. Although she said she never wanted to, but her ex started giving her attitudes, infact he wanted to breakup, thats why she gave in and had se.x with him (disvirgined).

So fast forward last week, she agreed to come visit me at my town (yeah long distance relationship). So she told me she wouldnt want to have se.x with me when she comes. Ofcourse she is the definition of a decent woman i would love to marry, therefore, se.x is not an issue for me.

But out of curiousity, I asked why she does not want se.x with me. Its not because she is a virgin because she had se.x with her ex. She then told me its a spiritual issue.

She belongs in a white garment church (cele stuff). She enter spirit realm and see vision. Therefore, they told her not to have sex until she get married. When she mistakenly had sex with her sex, she fell sick for months, that it was cele people who came to do deliverance for her before she could walk again. They warned her she is holy spirit vesel, no man must have se.x with her until she get married.

In all our discussions, she said we can only romance, infact i can suck her bouubs, but i must not penetrate her. Then I told her my mind, thats the confusing part. If she was truely afflicted by holy spirit, how come holy spirit allows fingering and sucking of boooobs. She got angry and threathened to call it quit.

Because she has relationship with my mom, i confided in mom. Mama told me she is not seeing vision throught holy spirit, its cele-white garment work. That has nothing to do with holy spirit..thats cele witch craft work or marine girls things (omo omi).

I got confused the more.

Questions in my mind are:
1. I can confirm she see vision, but is it from holy spirit?
2. Am I sure the whole shiiiit will not happen to her when we get married and we have se.x
3. Whoever is using her in spiritual relm will not harm me for taking their vessel away from them.
4. Is she playing upon my intelligence?

she is not playing upon ur intelligent my friend the cele work ur mum was referring to is jinn (aljanu) is in her u can Google that... God created them with smokeless fire just as he created us with clay so just like we humans they have the good bad and ugly what I mean here is there are muslims Christians and the once some alfa and babalawos use they are the once I refer to as ugly wicked people use them to afflict people... this is what's they did to ur girlfriend she needs what u guys call deliverance but It will be conducted by an alfa... one who will recite only the Quran alone nothing else I can send u his number u can dm me it's for free he does not charge a dime for it

irunoko:
he's right

Head slamming people no dey take eye see premature girl, their preek go don dey stand.

Even adult Muslim woman wey dey wear masquerade dress cover face wey una dey call eleha them dey kidnap and rape am how much more pikin wey them do am make up..

Abeg tell una Allah make him control your penis with little children.wetinn

Shey Allah use rape swear for Una? Na una go still carry little boy inside mosque rape him anus for Inside mosque.e be like say the head wey una dey knack for ground dey intensify una konji to small pikin.

papa chi whom I knew was a Christian he fcks his daughter...
Fidelix fcks his sisters a Christian....
Papa edi has been fcking his wife's little sis since she was a teenager we found out only few years ago... the list is endless go to youtube watch CI crime and investigation channel it's on dstv watch crimes that shook Britain are these people Muslims?
When someone commits a crime u judge the person that commits the crime and get them punished accordingly u dont come online and open that hole in ur head with ur 10mb and talking nonsense omoale jatijati

goatandyam:
Paedophilic animals done kidnap the girl.

Yerima people.

Always trying to beat the record of their paedophilic prophet who married and fuccked a 9 year old.

Bastard animals

your brain is paining you.

SundayNightGist:
Honestly, I used to believe some things belonged to the red light district. Or is it just me? Seeing that I was raised a church boy with little to no experience chiking babes, I couldn’t imagine myself ever dating a girl that now makes me think twice. Like, am I now mad or what? How did I get here?

Since I met this my new girl, it’s just been as if the veil of "ignorance" is beginning to fall off my face; abi guy man don dey spoil go be that ni?

Or how else can I explain to this honorable forum that my current girlfriend, though a manager at her company, likes to wear waist-beads? I mean she even wears it to work!

Although I somehow like the sight of it on her waist, I just can’t get the idea of thinking she might be a corporate olosho out of my head. This thing is sowing seeds of mistrust in me and I really don’t know what to do again. And it’s not like I haven’t told her. Everytime I do she will just look at me with a side-eye, rub my head, and laugh briefly. Shey I never carry load wey no be my own like this? Abi na my mind? Make e no be say na person glory dey on the line so o. The thing dey fear me walahi.

Nairalanders please advise a brother urgently.

my wife wears waist beads...I was even the one that bought it for her gaan later she bought some others for her self there is really nothing wrong here just ur thoughts doe

[quote author=Denvacandy post=107765870]We got married in 2018 and things where going smooth, i was working with a company in port harcourt and i can bodly say i was very okay, taking flight is not an issue.

When she wanted to give birth to our first child, it was through CS and i paid every damn bills amounting to 500k or so.

We moved down to ogun state and i was taking flight monthly to see her from port harcourt.

Fast forward to 2020, the comapny fold up and i lost my job, i came down to ogun fully with my wife and everything went down, feeding was hard and my savings is drying up.

You know how woman do and how to satisfy them so my savings eventually dried up and the reality was down.

She applied for a teaching job at govt school and she got employed and i was always at home.

Do she was supportive but its didnt took long when she changed and started treating me badly.

I was so sad the day she utter all terirble words to me, on how have not been a good husband and how i have not been dropping money for food and co.

how i have not been taking care of her, i almost moved to tears and i refused to eat her food for some period, i was being supported by a street friend.

How can someone you have sacrificed so much for all of a sudden change and bring out thier true color.[/quote) uncle on no account should you allow a woman assume your roles