₦airaland Forum

iceybux:
how dumb are you... it 2018.. with proper legal documentation and no traditional buhaha... so calld lady is legally married ohk.. take note

apologies wasnt meant for u

victorian:
Even when the other woman lives in another location and separate flat?



You think it's easy to just divorce, pack and go?

how dumb are you... it 2018.. with proper legal documentation and no traditional buhaha... so calld lady is legally married ohk.. take note

AmazonTopaz:
Apologize for what?Did you not see where she stated he cheated.

No woman likes a man that keeps malice.He hates to communicate with her.You should not be angry with someone and keep malice you adress the issue only children keep malice.
The man is a overgrown baby.If anybody is interested in keeping the marriage it should be him the fault is his.This woman is tolerating nonsense.
The man does not treat her like a queen so how can she treat him like a king?
I fault the woman for telling him that she pays for the house that was so low of her.

And where in her post did she compare him to another man?

soo b4 now she sayin she doesn't knw he cheats b4? or u think marriage stops a cheatin partner from it.. why use it as a point to feel victimize, I dont support cheatin but takes God grace for a man not to. if he doesn't go to them they will come... then u went on to say u paid for the house that was totally uncalled for..u kid his ego.. he paid ur bride prize and other expense onnd weddin did he ever used that on u when demanding those keys.. I pray u guys resolve it tho

GraGra247:
Seriously!! Are you even mentally stable? For a man that clearly demonstrates all the sings of dislike for his wife plus clearly cheating on her.

A lot of psychopaths on nairaland.

I'll tell the woman to head for divorce without looking back.

bcus she said her own . Part makin it look like she the victim... untill u hear the mans part u did be speechless. .. fear woman..b b4 a man decides to marry u barly 7month and all this and u think she innocent. . pls save ur sermon

dadalicious:
Sorry dear
I don't know your religion but I am going to talk from a Christian point of view.
Your husband is not born again.
That's the main issue.
You also need to make God your focus, and let the light of God shine in you.
I am not talking about being religious, I mean be spiritual.

does everything have to be God... what happens to commone sense, u dont drag God into every little thing.. na waoh so puttin such pepper inside food na God too

akeentech:
3rd mainland bridge long pass this one

re you a fool or u cant read... cant u differentiate the numbers in kilometers of both bridges. . dumb

tripplephi:
TRUTH is bitter....

btw... I HAVE ALREADY MADE IT IN LIFE MORE THAN YOUR GENERATION. Lol.

ppl who made it dont come on er to castigate other, ur approach to issues showsthe level of stupidity and how shallow minded being u re... juat go get a life, dont need argue any more with it... b safe

drnoel:
Bros, Nigerians are demons even unto themselves

as in ehn... imagine all the rubbish. . if ma em blood brother u think the poo go utter those rubbish

tripplephi:
WOW.....

If you believe in KARMA.... simply END whatever you have with him till he has ended his relationship and annulled his INTRODUCTION with his lady here in Nigeria. Let me explain how most Nigerian men do it...

When a NIGERIAN MAN begins to make plans to leave the country, in common cases if he already has a GIRL FRIEND they make promises NOT to leave or forget each other, some take oats in fetish shrines or with bodily made incisions as a covenant NOT to leave each other, in other cases some demand MARRIAGE or at LEAST A SHOW OF LIFETIME COMMITMENT which we call INTRODUCTION which is a culture based ceremony to PUBLICLY declare that they are a COUPLE.

Now after the INTRODUCTION, everyone treats them as a COUPLE even before MARRIAGE. Sadly most NIGERIAN MEN travel overseas even AFTER INTRODUCTION and NEVER RETURN to their STRANDED PARTNERS..... because either the lady is pregnant for him or in your case has already given birth to at least a child. This is a common occurrence here, the NIGERIAN MAN ABROAD THEN FINDS A FOREIGN LADY in a pretext of LOVE just in a bid to GUARNTEE A PERMANENT STAY in that country. It is strangely a normal thing.
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So I advice you to ask him or his relatives proper questions else you may become the OTHER WOMAN and his real BETROTHED WIFE may seek spiritual or fetish help to put a curse on him out of the pain of being deceived by him.
Do the right thing and ask questions from friends and relatives before you agree to marry him.... HE MUST PROVE HE HAS ENDED ANY RELATIONSHIP HE HAD IN NIGERIA else you may get hurt

someone like never gets to make it in life.. first of all u dont knw the fact surround d so calld introduction. . but u toook time out to type rubbish and even went fetish. for fucksake this is 2018 and ppl dnt do such rubbish anymore.. but for u to have such hatred for someone u dont knw and type this shit.. u will never succeed in ur life.. bastard

Nonye1234:
is the p****y really always too wide?
or their d**k is too small??
ask any woman who has even given birth, after the baby,the next sex hurts like she's a virgin
so wide vj?,nah!

do u have any experience on this... abi u just wan post for postin sake..3 is a coincidence.

you will see them females and feminist on this thread... if not to shout men re scum u see the whole boleholes asshole on er...

awaits bruv

I won't generalize Africans. . but soo suprised at d level at which some naija guys are reasoning... its 2018 we should stop thinking in such manners...

read must comment here... juat that I wont categories all ladies.. but most of u females aint worth helpin... did any of u ever consider if he had more when he gave tha 100k, bcus he had a shop doesn't men he had no problems but yet openly gave that sum.. some of u even askin her to lend him d 200k.. but if tomorrow he makes it, she b d one enjoyin most of the finance.. then she won't be considerin d risks involved oo... fear woman

ritylove:
what got me is most is his posture on both photos so girly like some men just dont deserve a d..ck

the female who leaked this photo most be really pained in the heart

so I tot too... looks gayish tho..

gat same issue but trust her atleast.. only let her know she shouldn't do wah she wouldn't want u doin.. but give the freedom. . dont give thyself stress mate... till proven guilty ..aways innocent. . dont stress it.. and if u feel bad abt it.. get a fwend too see how she reacts then u knw wah to know.. enuf said

ritylove:
And your supposed wife to be choosed to reply you via same twitter

eye dey pain u.. the twiter verson was from subdelivery man on twitter he sent the msg.. the second was a munchd whatsapp convo also sent... hian!

TheAngry1:
I have severally warned my female friends/colleagues that if he screams at you (not beat you o!) while you are still dating, run! Any man who screams at you WILL eventually you; and if he can hit you, he can kill you. Leave the idiot now!!!

By the way, before you point fingers at SA men, remember Nigerian men who use their girlfriends and mothers for rituals. Four fingers are pointing right back at you nigggeers!

is ur brain working properly. . where did u read abt the person that murder her.. if its a man or woman.. they never mentiond any domestic violence, u soo dumb! ur level of stupidity is below shallow!

Margfin:
what are you insinuating hmm don't you know sex without marriage is a sin b4 God, are you trying to lure her into fornication... eheenn...... If rapture take place today I know some people will not wait for God judgement b4 they go waka go inside hell fire on there own accord.

you that is without sins, that knows who makes heaven or not.. is sex the only sin.. for u heaven is grantd ba.. u dont sin... hypocrite! did u have sex b4 marriage if u even married or not..? let him without sin cast the stone first...

Margfin:
you did well dear, tell him to come and ask for your hand in marriage rather than doing road side stuff, stop going to his house if you truly don't want sex with him. You guys can meet and talk in public place and if he refuses that you must come to his place, you better cut off the relationship with him so that another breeze can blow you. Like someone said earlier on, there's good Man here in nairaland.

thats how u kip dodging I dont want sex and loll for the next guy and aame shii all over again and by time u realize u almost close 40 or mod 30's them no one is even interested in d sex from.u again cos there young n upcomin ones.
the truth is he might have sex n move on or still that can keep him closer if he seems to admire it with u.. all.this ppl advicim to stay away are shaghin everyday and their guys mighy not even admire them but come on here to give u false n silly adives.. use ir head girl

must every relationship ends with marriage? if u want someone u go for the person. . if u dont want sex make it k own from.the beginning so u and whoever knkw the stance.. why is it we African make a big deal over sex..? must a relationship be conditional. . does n dont.. u dont want it now bcus its 2momth but u will when it 6months.. mind u sex or no sex doesn't kip a man.. if u avert the sex now and later in.a year offers if he wanma leave he will.. if u wanna make out ake out and stop conditioning something u want on a mere factor..

quite a shallow mind...6k? .... spent 16k8 in 2min.. and didnt even ask for a kiss... anyways she prolly talkin abt her kinda click she rolls wit...

theworldbest:
Always had dat suicidal thoughts...my daughter is wat is still keeping me

pls stay strong... life can be messer but dont give in.. write me .. slimsaint_ak@yahoo.com..
thanks

jessca048:
yesterday night I slept before sleeping I prayed I should never wakeup again to face this world

someway or the other we av somewht been through shii.. I was hated life too.. but dearie pls dont do tjis again.. u can talk things over with me if u want.. if u on any social media just lemme know so we can talk.. theres still a purpose for u

was born n breed in lag.. tho have traveled out and back.. despite how streetwise I am.. the day dem remove 6k from my pocket for yaba... even as I wrote this I cant xplain how it happen till date

Flye:
Actually the poor wants to remain poor, this is new monetary policy formulated by economic team. The loan was originally meant for Agriculture producers and small and medium scale enterprise at a very cheap interest rate far cheaper than commercial banks without collateral to boost small scale enterprise and stimulates the economy but unfortunatly people prefers talk more about politics, blame one president than know the available opportunity on ground. Therefore Economic policy team shifted the attention to large corporate organisation with good credit rating and strong balance sheet to take advantage of the loan with low interest rate using their goodwill has collateral.

At least if people can't get themselves employed and contribute to the growth of the economy by taking advantage of government monetery provisions, existing corporate organisation will do it and get the youth who only thinking is about politics employed.

ignorance is a disease like been said.. have u ever tried applying from boi... u def hate this country n everything... BOI will only grant loans to the padi padi ppl in their circles.. its just a waste of time trust me..

graciously03:
my butt is more bigger...lolx

nah... cant possibly be

LUGBE:
You are a gold digger. You are now disappointed, many men this days are shameless

whaz this poo sayin... is it u cant wad or what?.. u just have head no brains.. such a stupidity