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Mandem12:
I had to open a new account for this, pardon me for Punctuation errors. I have to go straight to the point so as not to bore you... My story goes thus

I'm a young man of 25. I met this very beautiful girl, aged 23 now, we've dated 4 years now. She's so humble, the love grew out of nowhere. She does everything a woman would do for a man and I do everything a man will do for a woman.

I found myself not doing anything without her and she cannot do anything without involving me, we actually love each other very much.

She started pestering me to have a blood oath with her because she was scared I would leave her. I laughed it off cos I knew I wouldn't cheat on her, she is everything I wanted in a woman.

Trouble started when I brought her home to meet my parents, I was actually happy that I had found my wife...

When she left, my father asked me where she was from, and I told him and my father told me I can't marry her because she was from the same village with me and thereby related by blood thereby marrying her is an abomination that she was my sister so to say and said our kinsmen would not be Involved if I insist on marrying her... I felt my world crumbling down like a pack of cards...

I told my girl and she was like, it's an old tradition and nobody will dictate to her who she would marry and she loves me and there was no going back...

As a man, I thought about it and wanted to let her go because I wouldn't want the stigma to be on us and my unborn kids... I showed her some attitude to make her hate me but she didn't, rather she would rather beg me not to leave her even when I'm at fault. I feel bad anytime I do anything to hurt her feelings...

Now, I actually want to get her pregnant and damn the consequences, do a court wedding if the need arises and relocate with her out from our state and start a new life elsewhere...

Another mind is telling me to let her go so we can move on with our lives, or even be a fugitive for her... I however know she will hurt herself if I leave her... I'm very confused about everything, I seriously need help... Why is Igbo tradition this way? I found love with this girl, now everything is about to be stripped away from me, just like that... I seriously need an advice please...

I love this girl so much and she make me happy


Please move this to front page so I can hear from others please...

Preshyusbarbie:
This year didn't start well at all

ZombieHUNT:
It's definitely coming to Nigeria

Hq of the shithole under the lifeless one

Omihanifa:
Lies she was a victim of babagana mongonu and Abba kyari squabble because she was alleged to have leaked a memo


They said the woman was Set ablaze in her apartment and yet the phone that was mistakenly left over by her attackers didn't burn

Rapecase:
Edit - to those who may be wondering about my username, I created this account whilst trying to help two kids who were victims of rape.

Our 4th anniversary was few days ago, as I thought she would , my wife forgot the date. It ordinarily would not have hurt me so much but I have always had this feeling that she doesn't love me.

When we were dating she was all over me. But nothing I do ever since we got married gets appreciated. Few months ago she hurled abuses on me for helping a sister, a friend of hers, who lost a child and are homeless. And what's the help? Just 100k. Apparently I enjoy abandoning her need for others. And this
coming from a woman who few days earlier was saying I had invested over 2m on her business in a short while ( by her own calculation, as I don't take note when giving her money ).

I told a mother figure in church who is close to both me, her and the family I helped who corrected her. Expect if she will apologise tomorrow.

Off course the lady I helped in question is idiotic but I can't bear her and house and kids being homeless especially after losing a child.

My wife will never apologise when she does sometime I object to. Her apology which is often done in the most demeaning way is only tendered if I take the issue over board.

Our sex life since we got married has been poor to the extreme. I have ensured I do not cheat, not for a single day but I constantly have to beg for sex or masturbate to relieve myself.

Laying our bed is always a war for her. She does it only when she wants. Mind you we have two kids and a maid who helps with virtually everything.

The maid in the morning ( 90% of the time ) makes the breakfast, clean the house while she only baths our first child and get her ready for school, I take her to school most of the time.

Am I overreacting to expect my wife to

1. Properly apologise when she does something I do not like and ensure she doesnt repeat it? For instance few days ago she was planning on traveling outside our base, I only got to know through her phone conversation with her sister although she didn't eventually travel, I felt I should have known before hand as I got to know a night before. Till date what I got in form of apology is, "I would have told you". She was planning to travel by 5am, I heard her conversation by 10pm a night before and we slept on the same bed.

2. Sex at least 3 times a week? I stopped trying to initiate it after so many rejections.

3. Not to forget important dates such as our wedding anniversary?

4. To at all time be the one making my meal.

Please note she practically doesn't work now. We are setting up a fashion house for her she has taken over 3m from me as of the time of writing this. Note my cloths go to dry cleaners. Only thing she does is cook my meal ( when she wants ).

I am beginning to think maybe I am a mental health patient who doesn't know yet. Maybe something is wrong with me and I am just reacting based on that?

2shure:
Buy arton of origin. With 5 bottles of plastic coke. Mix and be drinking daily till it finish. Take enuf iron like unripe plantain.drink the origin direct sometimes dont mix it.though e dey high but drink with caution. From 5 seconds u will enter half time.if after dossge e no work, try trams. If trams no work. Then drink sniper end am

b3llo:
Don't keep quiet about your challenges sometime. Speak about it and help will come your way.

Being Charitable does not kill... Always render a Helping hand.

Kudos!!! Anambra State First Lady.

Fabolousibk1:
Can you imagine!!!? This fine woman
Buhari your days are numbered oooo



Meanwhile Bathing everyday is for muslim. We Christians have been washed by the blood of Jesus..
Thank you

chariisGRACE:
Now what is the essence of the lighting?

Waste of money.

This is why I like the Muslims; they don't spend carelessly for a burial. (Dem go just wrap the person for mat throw inside ground). But the Christians in Nigeria, they are ready to spend their life savings on a one day event as burial.

If the lights will show him where the Road to heaven is, then why am I complaining?

Sirjamo:
And some fulls want Buratai replaced, they have even hired some jobless youths to protest tomorrow.

Despite everything, Buratai still retain his record as the COAS who fights BH better than any other COAS

Beckysexy:
Awwnn so romantic.
Congratulations to them

Well, the guy is not bad Sha.

candidbabe:
I have nothing to say

nickxtra:
I received this from her this morning

ybalogs:
The person should be arrested ASAP or put on a watch. How will a person register 57 SIM cards of a network??

tim1256:
Where's MURIC?

Godwin616:
Interesting indeed, its like a Nollywood movie.
Now away from politics, Dear nairalanders I need a clarification on an issue. I was trying to apply for a loan via some of this instant loan mobile app. It got to a stage they were asking for ATM card detail including my Pin. At this stage I had to discontinue with the application because of the likely security risk. Is this a normal process? Is it safe to disclose your pin. Kindly share your experience. Thanks.

budaatum:
Can somone please find this person one of the many threads of those who complimented their boss on whatsapp and had to start looking for another job.