sukkot: nigeria you still have peace. over there no peace when 30 bills is knocking on ya door every week.. to watch your own tv you go pay bill
Which bill dey uk wey no dey Nigeria? Lemme outline the differences for me. 1) salary Uk; £600 weekly that's £2400 monthly Nig: was paid N200k monthly that's N16,600 weekly.
2) food. Uk; £100 monthly cos food is so cheap, I hardly finish £10 chicken in a month, even balance dey remain for the £100 sef
Nig; I manage to do N6k food shopping weekly (manage oh)
3) transport. Uk; £22.5 for weekly buses ticket all buses in my county (state)
Nig: I spent N4800 weekly on tfare.
4) Rent. Uk; £475 monthly...plus water bill. Nig; I paid N250k yearly, that's N20,800 monthly (I will add that in Nigeria I spent 4k weekly for generator fuel) gen fuel in a month is 16k....means to make my rent comfy in Nigeria I pay 36.8k monthly.
5) energy. Uk, my light bill is £50 monthly (24 hrs light) Nig: it varies from 5k to 6k monthly no constant light oh.
6) data/phone bills Uk; £p25 weekly both calls and data both unlimited for a month. Nig; I spent N4k on data monthly plus about 2k on calls total 6k.
After all the above spending I have left per month. Uk; £1660 Nig; N108,000
Now we move to entertainment/clothing etc Uk: I spend £300 monthly on this. Nig; I spent N30k
Total saved. Uk; £1360 (converted to naira is N1.36m) Nig; N78k (converted to pounds is £78)
So you see you're actually poorer in Nigeria.
Hope you understand why people japa now? In the uk I don't have a TV, car....even if I did I will still have 1360 pounds balance monthly to pay for them. Thank you and get lost
The Ihima people of Kogi State in a massive declaration for @OfficialAPCNg as a reminder of the fact that elections are not won by jumping from on TV to the other to sell lies. Ihima people are with @OfficialGYBKogi . Thank you Hon. Deedat for this statement. @tsg2023pic.twitter.com/cetVqW2zzS
Madampauline: Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.
He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.
I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.
I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.
I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.
She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.
I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.
Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.
Advice me please
The girl that will date your husband just wrote jamb no worry
Dichimma: Good day everyone, I am currently doing my masters degree in the UK. I have been worked as care worker for 3 months, I have worked more than 20 hours in a week more than 4 weeks and I am planning to apply postgraduate visa but I am wondering if the visa will be granted.
Please my question is has anybody worked in the care home for more than 20 hours and was given a postgraduate visa?
Thank you.
Hope it was worth it sha? Cos the worst that will happen is you been sent back to Nigeria, again I ask hope it was worth it breaking the 20hrs rule?
sukkot: so the question is that what percentage of nigerians do you think will japa back to naija from the uk and canada if someone gives them 1 million dollars today ?
THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THIS ? APART FROM AMERICA OOOO BECAUSE IN AMERICA YOU CAN HAVE A DECENT LIFE ALTHOUGH you are in an unsafe country but in america you can live a good life , BUT TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THAT THOSE IN THE UK AND CANADA IF YOU offer them all 1 million dollars today they will all run back to nigeria today. its poverty that is keeping those people trapped in those two countries. they tax them like crazy over there so they never have money so they are trapped but yet lonely and depressed and there is no way out. many of them are suicidal. i have seen a few on the news who went crazy on the streets of toronto. so if you offer these naijas in the uk or canada 1 million dollars they will all japa back to naija asap. na sapa dey keep them for uk and canada
what are your opinions ? this ought to be interesting
mynd44 justwise if you fine honorable upstanding gentlemen dont mind pushing this to frontage i believe this could get exciting
zanebaddo: Please guys what can I do in this situation? Can any body help me with something I can do to meet up?
I got a message from the school that the deadline for CAS Issuance is on 21st of this month, And mine won't be processed until the school confirms my payment which is yet to leave my account due to the form A delay. Currently at UBA initiated on 26th October. I just contacted someone who said they can fast track the payment but they are asking for 400k which is outrageous. My POF has just started counting a 2days ago. Booked TB test already. And pre cas interview on 8th November
Send your school a screen grab of the form A process page....don't pay for any fast track, don't waste money....uba I heard takes 6wks
A father was humiliated by his daughters after they found proof that he is cheating on their mother again.
The daughters, said to be Ugandans living in USA, found their father's chats with his mistress so they read out the chats in the presence of other family members, including their father and mother.
They told their father he ought to be ashamed of himself, they also told him that he can't keep putting their mother through that while she is trying to work on the marriage.
At one point, one of the daughters begins crying and tells her father, "I want to kill you dad."
She also said to him, "You should be ashamed. How many f******* times are you going to put my mum through the same f****** bullsh*t?"
Another daughter then goes to their mum and gives her a sweater to keep warm.
While all this is going on, the father, who has a cup of tea sitting on a table before him, is seen silently looking at his daughters.
When the father tries to interrupt, the daughters refuse to let him speak.
One daughter is heard saying: "Daddy, you are a cheater and you gotta listen to what she's saying."
Another daughter says: "You are not that father figure. I don't care who you are to me, you are nothing to me."
The camera zooms to their father's chat with the other woman at some point and it shows them sexting.
The woman talks about sending him "nudes" of "those big boobs" and encouraging him to look at them.
She also wrote: "You know it when it's wet."
After they read out the chats, one daughter says to their father: "I found out even before Jane but me and you don't have a good relationship. So, when I saw this, when I read this, it didn't hurt me because I already decided that fourteen years ago, I lost you as a dad. So, when I saw this, it didn't hurt me."
However, she said her sisters were hurt when they found out.
The daughter continues: "She found out, Tyra found out the day we got back and Tyra cried. Ashley found out today. And Ashley loved you, Ashley loved you, that's why she's so mad like this because she loved you."
Ashley then begins crying at this point as she calls her father out and tells him that she wants to kill him.
The video has gone viral and has elicited mixed reactions.
That man must be a weak man....he has no authority over his home and family. What will give the dotas the boldness to talk to the man like that, he's probably not their biological dad, the mom probably birth dem for anoda man. Having more than one woman isn't cheating....a man is allowed by all laws known to human to have more than one woman....bible permits it, Koran permits it, traditionalists permits it. That's why it's not good as a man to be a SIMP
Afenifere is a Yoruba cultural organisation and as it stands, many Yoruba youths don't get themselves too involved in the politics of its leaders. That is borne out of respect for elders.
But watch how those people that wake their parents with kicks now pick one of the Afenifere leaders and insult the living daylight out of him for no other reason than that he refuse to endorse one clown.
Clown so cos you need yoruba vote you dey cap about respect for elders idiot
When I said Elon musk taking over Twitter isn’t a good idea because I was sure he would MONETIZE it as a business man, and that exactly what’s happening.
rtdCivilservant: I believe those people there didn't do enough to stop him from jumping into the river. They should first had gripped him tightly when he was standing on that rail.
Stevo35: The two-month-old boy who was beaten by his father and had his hand fractured earlier this week in Imo State has reportedly died. SaharaReporters had reported that a Nigerian man identified as Confidence Amatobi, reportedly broke the two-month-old baby’s arm for “disturbing his sleep.” Unfortunately, the baby died a few days after his broken hand was reportedly amputated. A Tweep, Kanu Garba, on Friday evening confirmed the baby’s death in a tweet, saying, “The two-month-old baby who was beaten by his father for disturbing his sleep died today. “Before his death, the hand injured had to be amputated. The father can now sleep peacefully.” However, the suspect is still at large as there is no report of his arrest yet. SaharaReporters reported earlier that a man identified as Confidence Amatobi, a native of Amurie in Isu LGA of Imo state, allegedly broke his two-month-old baby’s arm for “disturbing his sleep.” The assault on the little baby which led to the amputation of the fractured arm, attracted condemnation and outrage with the Imo State Chapter of the Nigeria Association of Women Journalists (NAWOJ), and the National Human Right Commission (NHRC) calling on the Imo State Government and the Nigeria Police Force (NPF) to immediately arrest and prosecute the suspect. However, when SaharaReporters reached out to the spokesman of the Imo Police Command, CSP Mike Abattam, on the incident, said that the police had not received any official complaint. According to him, "As it is now, the police have not received any official complaint about the incident." SaharaReporters had reported that NAWOJ, NHRC and the mother of the little baby (Miracle) had, in a joint press briefing in Owerri on Monday, lamented the assault on the innocent baby and called for justice. The Imo State Chairperson of NAWOJ, Dr Dorothy Nnaji, had said that injury inflicted on the baby by the 31-year-old father led to the amputation of the little boy’s right hand at the Federal Medical Centre (FMC) Owerri. Expressing shock over the incident, Mrs Nnaji, described it as dastardly cruel that a father could assault his innocent child simply because he was crying and disturbing his sleep. She disclosed that Amatobi was reported to have repeatedly hit the baby with a plastic object to stop him from crying until the right hand broke. Describing the attack on the little boy as the height of child abuse, the chairperson demanded justice for the baby since he could not speak for himself. The Imo State Coordinator NHRC, Mrs Ukachi Ukah, on her part condemned the brutality and insisted that justice must be allowed to take its course. Narrating her ordeal, the mother of Miracle, Mrs Favour Chikwe who hails from Idemili Community, Anambra State disclosed that she had left Miracle with his father on Friday, October 7, 2022, to use the convenience, when the incident happened. Favour recalled that she overheard her baby crying uncontrollably and had to rush back to know the cause of her cry only for her to discover that his right hand was swollen and bone broken from the beating he received from his father. Amatobi, it was learnt, confessed that the baby was disturbing him with his cry while he was sleeping and he had to try to stop him by battering him.
Careless mother....forgive your mom for opening legs to a crazy dude.
Creamypie: envy dey kill most of u on this forum. U are an idiot to think a 13 or 14 yr old whose parents are civil servants is too young to feel impact and comprehend good or bad government. Then we were using abacha stove...a stove made of baked sawdust cos both kerosene and gas were not just too costly, but no money in circulation to afford them
I was 7 when Abacha died and prior to his death, I felt the effects of his tyrannical governance cause it affected my family and the parents consistently spoke plenty of it during family moments.
You can't wake up and invalidate someone's experiences and opinions. Because you were stupid at 14 doesn't mean someone else had to be same. And you obviously grew with that stupidity anyway.
Blame your poor dad for your poor childhood not abacha
CaptainAyub: If u were 14yrs and still very ignorant,then,its nobody's fault. Peeps like me have read newspapers daily since I was 10. Even children felt the suffering under Abacha.
If your parents were both civil servants especially teachers or lower level civil servants those days,you were automatically poor. Less provisions for u compared to others in boarding school,etc. Your parents might would probably not own a motorcycle talk more of a car How won't you feel it even as a 10yr old. Speak for yourself alone oga
We all know no marriage is all that smooth and rosey, we all that are in it have challenges here and there, and for almost 11 years now, out of tolerance, ruggedity, minding my business in terms of taking care of the family have always been something that has held my marriage down, because the majority of the issue I have with my wife have always been issues of trust, transparency, accountability, respect and loyalty.
Some people will say with these things I have listed, that I may be asking for too much, but I can tell whoever would reason that way that it's not too much because am a responsible father/husband that have never for once strayed the family in anyway that will make me lack any of the above stated qualities a man can enjoy from a wife.
Why am I here? Ok.. After enduring so much for 11 years, we are relocating to the UK, she is the main applicant, myself and the 3 children are dependants, she traveled first, leaving myself and the 3 kids behind until she can secure accommodation b4 we leave.
I have heard about countless incidences of how SOME women treat their husbands and the POWER zoned to women in that country which makes it almost impossible for a man with a wife that gives him constant problem to be able to thrive in that country.
I just want to state three peculiar incidences that occured during her 1month stay over there that is already making me feel I have alot to face over there, though I know my God is bigger than anything, I just want people that are over there, or people that are experienced here and all over who are capable of handing a good advise for me on getting there to know how I can fare and withstand what is to come.
Based on the above from the major incidences I have experienced with her, first two weeks of being there, she had gone to check a house b4 heading to school, on her way back to school, she claimed she didn't take enough money and going back home might not be possible, I asked how she would wanna go about it and she replied saying I will borrow money from Mr Mike, a man she just met at school on her first day of registration. I was like that's wrong, you don't form familiarity with someone you just met in another man's country, I said I will call a friend in liverpool to send you money and you could get your train ticket. She fumed, but I stood my ground and said that's how its going to be. I have asked her to collect a friends account details, since she has not opened an account yet, she said when her class finishes by 8.30pm she'll request details from her friend so the money can be sent. Fast forward to closing period, I messaged her to send me details, she ignored, I called ad she said nobody has an account that I should not worry she will sort herself, I was now like you just got to that country, u have no friends that u know too well to rely on, I am ur hubby and I opened a way for u to get money easily, yet u didn't make any effort to redeem the opportunity, omo she hung up on me then later called back that she gathered few pennies she had to get the ticket, I was now like why didn't u just say this instead of putting me on pressure over how to get money to convey u all the way from london to Luton, over an hour journey at night.
Secondly, on her next school day, she had previously told me prior to her closing hours that her data has finished and she's using schools wifi, that the moment she steps out from school to head home, she won't be having access to internet, etc WhatsApp and all of that, but importantly was to make use of GPS google map, that's what people over there use to navigate their way in order not to get lost, I was like without internet how do u intend to get to ur destination when u know how stressful it was for u getting lost the other day, now the same statement she made was, I will sort myself. I was raged and said woman I will ask my friend to buy u data so u can get home easy and safe, she said no proble, that she's leaving now, I said well since i wont be able to reach you on whats app, I will definitely call you on normal call shortly to give you the data pin to load. She said no P and hung up.
Moments later, my friend had sent me the data pin, na so I begin dey call wifey oo, over 15 missed calls she nor pick. Later she called back and said her phone was in her laptop bag and her hands were frozen so she couldnt put hands in the bag to pick the call and that she didn't even hear it ring.
The issue I posted up there are issues of not being accountable, and attitude of not showing that you don't need me when its not just about that but for security and your well being knowing fully well you are new in the country and proper guidelines needs to be taken.
Another incident happened 3rd week after her arrival, we were video chatting while she was on a train station waiting for train, next thing I noticed was a guy sitting BEHIND her, the guy boldly took a peep into her phone directly, seemingly trying to see who she was on video call with, immediately i called her attention to it, she just smiled and looked back and said silently, nawa some people for this London nor go mind their business. This very day developed a story that transitioned towards few things I will be stating.
The next sunday, I called her in the morin to say hi and all that, next thing I know she dun dey go church, she nor even discuss am with me and na wetin we dn agree on sey we fo jointly choose church wey we go dey go. After church service, she call me sey that guy wey i talk sey dey peep into her phone, sey the guy that very day asked her how long shes been there for, she said, just 3 weeks, sey how come she come take know road when him don dey 3months he nver know road, sey that same guy him coincidentally meet am for the new church wey she come so, sey the guy dey look am, she comot eye, but later the guy come meet am sey are u not the one that showed me way to where I was going. Sey as him meet the guy coincidentally for church, he fit be sey he get why, maybe for job connection or what not. I nor say anything, cos coincidences arent something new in this world. Then the next day, she call me sey that same guy needs an apartment, sey na married guy with 4 kids, but him wife and 1kid dey here, 3 dey nija them nor fit come yet until house is ready, sey him dey ask her if she can help him get someone that can reference for him to get a house, ha him my wife come dey ginger me sey make i help am talk to my friend wey help us reference if him go fit help the guy too. I come sey no problem, she sey she go call the guy now and put us on 3 way call, i sey no p, i come dey wait for call, no call come and madam nor talk again, i come ring her sey hafa u nor do the three way call again? She sey the guy dey work, him nor fit talk,sey she don give the guy my number to call me later, me come sey no p, send him number I go save am down so if he calls i go know sey na him, madam nor gree send number, I come dey wonder sey wetin dey sup sef, normally I nor spose reason ahead, but me my instict dey very strong, i come begin dey put two and two together sey maybe the guy intention was never to get help but to use style dey hit on my madam maybe na why him nor wan talk to me but wan use my madam dey take communicate.
I come ask madam some some questions on previous ish, I come find out sey small lie dey, so I tackler her sey the way she take explain to me about how him meet the guy for train station nor join, she come vex sey me i come am liar, omo as we dey talk for whatsapp, i nor blv sey my madam added this guy to the call without my consent or my knowledge, so as I dey talk, the guy dey the background, i nor even know anything and the dude himself kept quiet, na after the call finish, I see am for call details sey the guy was added to the call, infact the dude even called me directky i nor pick. Now i got very angry, come call madam sey wetin dey sup, u added this dude wey talk sey him dey work him nor fit talk to the call wey me and u dey on and u didnt even notify me, ok lets agree sey if to sey u wan tell me sey u wan add the guy for call sey i nor go gree sey maybe na why u add am without my consent, at least after u add am secretly, u are suppose to talk and sey bae, since u are accusing me wrongly.
I have added the guy to this call so he can clear me out, but she didnt, she just added the guy and the dude himself kept quiet and didnt say a word until I hung up. I got very furious and told her this is the highest level of see finish and dragging in the mud, wetin u want that guy to dey feel like now? She said shes sorry that she only wanted to clear herself, I was now like even if u wanted to clear urself, if that the best way to go about it, the person who is the subject matter is the best person u need to introduce to clear u out? Later on i just bone the matter come apologise sey make we move on, na so she come begin dey yarn plenty, sey she call the guy that my hubby said that the way we met is unreal, sey the guy sef come talk sey wow, so your husband already thinks am sleeping with you, but i cant blame u though, u know u have a big back side, so thoughts like that from him is likely not a surprise, i was hmmmm to hear that, i come tell madam sey if na true this guy talk this thing, shouldnt u already know he has corny itentions, she said well she too dey wonder cos the two times wey them meet she nor wear wetin fit show her bkside so how d guy come take know. The matter end there, next day madam still dey worry me sey shey I go still help d guy, I was like I cant even talk to him, u dun useless me already for him presence, she dey claim sey she nor do anything wrong by adding him to the call, sey the guy know of agency wey fit help me get better job if i arrive, and sey the guy talk sey if me fit connect am to my friend to reference am for house, him go link me up fr the agency. I talk sey i nor dey interested. Omo I weak. Guys I need advise on how to handle issues over there, cos me nor dey take nonsense for nija here, but for there, one needs to chill, but then should it now be sey because we dey live for country wey give woman power, make woman come use that opportunity come dey fumble?
Trust me no guy in the uk wanna fuq a old married broke ass Nigerian student bish....you have nothing to be so insecure about....you as a guy the dependent have a bigger chance to hitting a sugar mama than her.
Creamypie: am 38 years. Abacha died when I was in ss1. I became 14 in december same yr. His government was a Very Terrible period for all nigerians. Baba lifeless served as ptf chairman
Ode what does a 14yrs old you know about govt den...you just wan talk nonsense sha
Wallade: Do you mean that the UAE officials have a right to detain her illegally and she can't do a recording.
What are the officials afraid of in the video recording?
Why do officers of the law in some advanced countries have body cameras on duty. Should we assume that the person they are engaging on the has rights that are being infringed upon since they are often not aware of the cameras or it is without their consent.
No dey make noise online for your house, enter plane go dubai go tell dem.
Meektunz: Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.
I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.
My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.
Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.
I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.
What do you advise me to do guys?
What do we advice as how na....sebi you've decided to be a mumu and raise anoda man's child for an adulterous wife....wetin make we talk again....simp. calling u a simp is even making the word simp sound like a honorable title....stupid man
Wallade: My brother, if FG hit some of their citizens in Nigeria with trials in court and they are jailed, without option of fine, they will be forced to negotiate for prisoners swap.
If FG hit their business interests, especially Emirates Airlines. You will see them cave. Nigeria's contribution to their economy and Net National Income may be as little as 10% but it is significant; UAE will feel it.
How important is the girl for her to be the reason Nigeria and UAE will have diplomatic issue? Una no just get sense for this country....na she dey feed dangote??
Travel › Re: If Every Nigerian In Canada And Uk Is Offered 1 Million Dollars Will They Japa by Ifakiland(m): 1:51am On Nov 07, 2022
