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Culture › Re: Igbo Kwenu! Kwezuo Nu! Join Us If You're Proud To Be An Igbo Guy/lady by ifyalways(f): 1:28pm On Mar 12, 2012
Princepee,ndewo.Bia noro n'akuku m.Biko ijikwa ego,i nwekwara nmuo eji eri ego?Ihe mere wu na ana m acho e-di.Onye ji cash! Umunne m high chief and co choro inwu mmai n'isi m sharp sharp.El choro iji dowry m zuo "Chinyeng motorcycle" o ga-eji agba okada n'Onicha.afufu di too much.lol

Odumchi,nsogbu anoghi.E ritata m na Nna m na ekwu mgbe o bula "I nawa agbali asu Aro" so i knew "nawa" was an Aro word.Ka nka.
Culture › Re: New Igbo Words Being Formed On Igbodefender.com by ifyalways(f): 1:17pm On Mar 12, 2012
Akuko for profile a dabaghi nke oma n'uche m.I even wanted to suggest "akara onye" kama even that has its own limitations too and does not fit aptly.

I have a feeling ChinenyeM has a better word in mind but just working us up.Lol
Chi,biko gwa anyi.
Family › Re: It Seems It's Becoming A Norm For Most Especially Married Men Cheating by ifyalways(f): 1:04pm On Mar 12, 2012
I would be worried if as a spinster,i have married men asking me out up and down.

It takes 2 to tango and in this scenario 3;A wife that thrives on self denial,a he goat husband and a stooopid girl.Most times though,there are no emotional attachments from the man nor love from the girl,its all about the benjamins while for the men,its just for relieving marital,work stress and satisfying their absurb sexual fantasies.

Demand and supply sums it up.
Family › Re: Help! My Husband Wants Me To Change My Name From Ndidi To Sinmisola. by ifyalways(f): 12:13pm On Mar 12, 2012
LMAO!

What is in a name?Nothing.Its just the spirit of ego and stubborness worrying you both.

I don't know why your husband is insisting you change your first name to something you obviously dislike but if you too would just stop sulking and frowning,you would be able to get your husband back to his senses.I daresay the simi thing might actually be a harmful joke on his part but your rejecting it vehemently and seriously made him persist at it.

way to go:when he calls him Simi,respond with Chukwuemeka my love.hahaha
He wants you to be his simi,you want him to be your emeka,simples.

Please mellow down so that soon you guys wont fight over baby names(when they start coming).
Family › Re: I Want My Husband To Be My Friend Too by ifyalways(f): 11:52am On Mar 12, 2012
Did not read the whole post but did the OP move out of the bedroom?If yes,then she and the husband better go back to their parents for marriage counselling and lectures.

I noticed the OP did not provide answers to Jenny's questions,those are important questions.

OP,during courtship,what other activities or hobbies do you guys share or do together as a couple?Can you kindly move back into the bedroom.Start conversations with him,tell him about your day even if he did not ask,use hands and maintain physical contact as you converse with him(touch his hands,hold him),ask him what is eating him up,listen with an open heart and make sure you guys come up with a solution.

Sadly but true,the bulk work of keeping the flame glowing in marriage rests on the woman's shoulder.Men can be silly and childish at times but weak as we women might be,we still have 100% control over them,its just about using the right tools.Goodluck OP.

Fstranger don kolo kpatakpata.Which ones be Papatosibe?lolz
Business › Re: Economic Experts Threaten Legal Action Against CBN by ifyalways(f): 11:30am On Mar 12, 2012
Odunnu where are thou?leave that bent bura and come here fast.

Btw,shouldn't the query be "how much are they remitting into the account after the dollar conversion" ?at what rate are they selling the dollars/buying naira?
Culture › Re: New Igbo Words Being Formed On Igbodefender.com by ifyalways(f): 4:39pm On Mar 10, 2012
^Nke a adighi mfe ma otu.

I would be waiting for folks to make attempts at that.
Culture › Re: Igbo Kwenu! Kwezuo Nu! Join Us If You're Proud To Be An Igbo Guy/lady by ifyalways(f): 4:26pm On Mar 10, 2012
High chief,o nwebeghi onye putere nmaya.Nwa darfur choro iji m egwu egwu.

Otele,owu m ka aba na amuru okpo?Lekwa Pres elect,ga nye ya nwanne gi nwanyi too.
Culture › Re: A Summary Of Southern Nigeria From 900 Ce To 1900 Ce (in Maps) by ifyalways(f): 4:05pm On Mar 10, 2012
Lol.
Ndi Ngwa na Nri abuo a no na nld bu ndi isi okpukpu real bad.

Odumchi,the history of the 4 market days seems to be generally accepted here,i think i've heard a different version.Unfortunately,i cant even remember the tale.
Culture › Re: Otu Nzuzo: A Discussion Of Secret Cults In Igbo Language by ifyalways(f): 3:40pm On Mar 10, 2012
When we discuss issues like this in Igbo,who are our target audience ?

Echekwa m n'isi okwu anyi wu otu nzuzo na ala Igbo?Dede Andrew ihe dere gbadoro ukwu na Mahadum.

Anyi e nwere otu nzuzo n'ala Igbo?Biko onye ma,kowara m.
Health › Re: Nairalanders Pleaseeeee Save This Soul (caroline Johnson)diagonis With Cancer by ifyalways(f): 9:21pm On Mar 09, 2012
Wow. Pity.
Thanks blank
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by ifyalways(f): 9:08pm On Mar 09, 2012
Argh, sorry. Meant 10 years back.
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by ifyalways(f): 9:06pm On Mar 09, 2012
Isale,the family okayed every picture you see here.the one with her face is a very old picture though. Very very old. Unless one knew her 20 years back, she can't be handpicked out of a crowd with that picture in hand.
Health › Re: Save This Baby Please! (Very Urgent) by ifyalways(f): 7:28pm On Mar 09, 2012
^Just had to quote you.

1. There were apostrophes ("wink just before my or your email address on the 3 real exchanges but not on the 4th mail.

2. The  "To" on the last fake mail was in all caps,not same on others.

3.Message flagged on that fake mail.whats that huh

4.Email address or name appears twice,not so on that last fake mail.

Im mobile and can't highlight all the "fakeness" in that last email.So,if i had talked with u on phone,this is exactly how you would have twisted my words to suit your motives?
Funny people
Health › Re: Save This Baby Please! (Very Urgent) by ifyalways(f): 7:21pm On Mar 09, 2012
Lenny5000:
Listen I am a little bit tired of the way you attack or address me. I have been extremely polite through out my conversation with you or anybody else. I don't need your phone number for anything other than to explain certain things and also give you the details you asked for through phone. I replied you immediately I got your mail and was constantly checking my "Sent Mail" to make sure the mail went through. I waited for your response till 4am to acknowledge that you got my message and when I didn't see anything from you I went to bed. I am doing this with my personal details and so I have nothing to hide. Finally you could also have sent this message to my private email instead of here. I am not in a public court waiting for anybody to judge me. I am doing this from my heart and not looking for praises from anybody, you yourself said you are not doing this on behalf of NL so I dont see why you could not write me back even if you didn't hear anything from me rather than coming here to write these. I am not a regular on NL so I sometimes stay without visiting for a month or two  that was why I gave my FB contact for anybody to reach me. So if I had not visited for a month so many wrong conclusions would have been made about me?,  Finally I would politely ask you to stop addressing me together with Angela or what's her name. You have my email and you are very free to contact me anytime. I am not into all this exchange that was why I asked for help on FB in the first place where people at least see me and communicate with me directly, I only came into this thread to address some accusations and might not be regular here just like before. Since you accuse me in public it's only fair I clear my name in public, so below are our conversation through mail. Thanks,

Our Mail Exchange

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From: "rosye****@yahoo.com" <rosye****n@yahoo.com>
To: lenny***ran@yahoo.com
Sent: Friday, March 9, 2012 1:27 AM
Subject: Ifyalways

Hi,
    Got your mail via nld charity. I'm in benin now and would leave benin Morrow.
How do I get baby gracious folks?

Ify
Sent from my BlackBerry wireless device from MTN

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From: Leo*** A**Odek*** <lenny***ran@yahoo.com>
Date: Thu, 8 Mar 2012 16:38:27 -0800 (PST)
To: "rosye****@yahoo.com" <rosye****n@yahoo.com>
ReplyTo: Leo*** A**Odek*** <lenny***ran@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: Ifyalways

Pls send me your number lets talk , so I explain some things to you before giving you the number,  I am waiting , THanks for getting back. Bless

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From: "rosye****@yahoo.com" <rosye****n@yahoo.com>
To: Leo*** A**Odek*** <lenny***ran@yahoo.com>
Sent: Friday, March 9, 2012 1:38 AM
Subject: Re: Ifyalways

Let's talk via mail.
I'm more comfortable discussing through email.

Ify
Sent from my BlackBerry wireless device from MTN

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M:
From: Leo*** A**Odek*** <lenny***ran@yahoo.com>
TO:
rosye****n@yahoo.com
Message flagged Friday, March 9, 2012 2:01 AM
Okay,
the short version of what I wanted to say on the phone is this, I tried calling the mother of Baby Gracious (Faith) but her husband (Innocent) picked up. I don't know him and have never spoken to him before but he definitely has heard of me from my kid sis or his wife, so I asked him if he knew what we are doing on his daughters behalf and he said yes and did all the thank you, etc  I told him about Stagers (NL)suggestion about Kanu Heart Foundation and he went into this long story about how he had tried that before, etc. Then I told him that a Lady (You) might visit him from Lagos and you might have other good options and suggestions and I would give you their numbers, he was happy to hear that and was okay with it. I also forwarded updates on Money raised so far via email to him. Their numbers are: INNOCENT 080 3095**** FAITH 080 3358****   

You are probably in Benin for the burial of Perx (Her cousin told me they will bury her 9am) Be strong and have a safe journey back up,  Please reply me that you received this and when you return and have rested please write me and update me on how your meet with Innocent and Faith went,  When you call, tell Innocent that you are the lady, Sta*** elder brother (Lenny) told him about.
Bless
Health › Re: Save This Baby Please! (Very Urgent) by ifyalways(f): 7:11pm On Mar 09, 2012
Amebo please go and sit down tight.Your cheap sentiments won't work on me.You're not interested in long story but you brought the story to Tehn ?

I made my own observations,my right.Its funny how you suddenly woke up from your slumber to come claim that Lenny actually sent me that last "fake and unreal" email.

I posted twice asking for that contact,gave the time i would be leaving Benin,no reply from either of yous till when y'all imagined i have left Benin.

This child might be for real but some people just want to use her to fill their pocket. . .curses and damnation on them.

Na una sabi but i refuse to fall for any wayo.Look at the "funny" reason he manufactured that made him want us to "talk on phone" . . .abegi
Health › Re: Save This Baby Please! (Very Urgent) by ifyalways(f): 5:31pm On Mar 09, 2012
Lenny,I did not recieve any 3rd(or would i call it 2nd email) from you.I DID NOT RECIEVE IT.

There is a nlder with me,Freecocoa and she is privy to everything,I was checking my mail all through the night and morning.

See why i refused phone discussions,people are funny.

I'm so out of this case.
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by ifyalways(f): 4:43pm On Mar 09, 2012
@Jenny,yeah. she has a grown daughter,like 12 years.Saw her pictures on the first visit,shes a beauty like the mom.

Chelsea,you are not serious.This dry town?Dont get me started first.
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by ifyalways(f): 4:35pm On Mar 09, 2012
The coffin was not opened throughout the funeral,guess its the tradition.

Princess is gone,no more pains.The sight of her daughter crying gave me shivers.It is well with her.

@Jenny,according to the information i have here,she was 33 years old.
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by ifyalways(f): 4:24pm On Mar 09, 2012
The coffin was not opened throughout the funeral,guess its the tradition.

Princess is gone,no more pains.The sight of her daughter crying gave me shivers.It is well with her.

@Jenny,according to the information i have here,she was 33 years old.
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by ifyalways(f): 4:16pm On Mar 09, 2012
Waiting to see the parents.Seems Perx was the only girl,she have like 6 brothers,all handsome.

We just about to leave now.Handed over the rest of the donations to the family after total expensis was deducted.
Chelseabmw is with us now.

We gave the kid brother,in the presence of the whole family an envelope of NGN 60,000.00(Sixty thousand naira) while the eldest brother on behalf of the mom got an envelope of NGN 70,000.00(seventy thousand naira)
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by ifyalways(f): 12:51pm On Mar 09, 2012
Eziokwu!
Had to find a way to take that picture for you.

We are heading back to the city ie their home to see the parents and give them the balance.The parents did not come to the burial ground because its forbidden for parents to see their kids corpse.

Vanity!
Health › Re: Save This Baby Please! (Very Urgent) by ifyalways(f): 12:38pm On Mar 09, 2012
Would Leave benin in ab hour or so and very free now.

No news from Lenny and/or ameboajela about the babys parents or whereabouts?
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by ifyalways(f): 12:05pm On Mar 09, 2012
NO Jenny,there are no clearer pictures of her.as i type,she is been covered with sand.

The family brought a pastor to pray and afterwards,strangers and all female were sent away for the traditional stuff.

Goodbye Perx.

Vanitu!
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by ifyalways(f): 10:55am On Mar 09, 2012
We just left UBTH morgue. Our dear perx is gone for real!!!

I can't believe this. We are on our way to the funeral ground.the family changed the venue this morning
Health › Re: Nairalanders Pleaseeeee Save This Soul (caroline Johnson)diagonis With Cancer by ifyalways(f): 8:28am On Mar 09, 2012
Old thread but worth replying to.

Anyone has info. on this lady?how did the surgery go?
Nairaland General › Re: Please Help Nairalander Perx - And She Went Home: RIP Perx by ifyalways(f): 7:33am On Mar 09, 2012
Nice one,Onye army.

@Naijalodge,sorry for my late response though the co-ordinator already replied you.The family wants a quiet funeral and for some very private reasons,gave nld 3 slots.We already got 3 people.Thank you for volunteering.

@All,Tehn 3 representatives are already in Benin,2 of us actually came from different states and been here since last night.We would be reporting the funeral real time/live as much as its possible by Gods grace.
Health › Re: Save This Baby Please! (Very Urgent) by ifyalways(f): 7:14am On Mar 09, 2012
Lenny,im still waiting for the parents contacts.
I would leave benin later today.

Just for the records,Lenny did send me a mail through the email address i provided on this thread BUT the mail did not have the information i asked for.He only said i should send him my personal email address or phone number.I replied immediately with a personal email and asked again for the parents contacts.Lenny's second mail was he "needs my number cos there are things he wants to discuss with me before sending me baby gracious parents no"

I replied him yet again that whatever he wants to talk should be done by mail.I'm yet to get a response from him since then.

Lenny,what do we need to discuss that can't be discussed via mail?I have just 6 hours or so more to spend in Benin.
If this baby is existing,please can i get the parents contacts?Thank you.
Health › Re: Save This Baby Please! (Very Urgent) by ifyalways(f): 1:32am On Mar 09, 2012
Lenny, I got your mail and have replied.

@stagger, good points you raised there.
Health › Re: Save This Baby Please! (Very Urgent) by ifyalways(f): 11:34am On Mar 08, 2012
Again, can the OP, ameboajela and/or Lenny send me the contacts of baby gracious parents.

I would be in benin tomorrow and have enough time to visit and most especially talk to them about the other cheaper, better and more realistic option available which include enugu and the heart foundation.

I'm waiting.
Family › Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by ifyalways(f): 9:32am On Mar 08, 2012
Perx would be buried morrow.Rest at last,no more accusations,secrets and fears for her.We,the living are saddled with those "responsibilities" now. . .

At the end of the day,none of us can claim to know/love perx more than the other.She gave all of us,different emotions/sides of her,no whole,just halves.

Vanity!!!
Health › Re: Save This Baby Please! (Very Urgent) by ifyalways(f): 8:23pm On Mar 07, 2012
This might prolly be my last post here until. . .
Taking it a notch further, I would be in benin soon, can I get the contact of baby gracious parents?

I don't know how or when anyone forced anyone to take this girl to kanu or enugu, all we said is "tell the mom that there are better and less stressful" options right here in naija.
Lol @ 5 posts posters. Infact the harder you guys try, the more you people come across as not real. She can't travel from benin to Lagos because she is on oxygen but she can travel to India Abi wherever?

Lenny send me the parents contact to nairalandcharity@gmail. Com. Use baby gracious as subject.
PS: not planning to visit on behalf of tehn oh.

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