₦airaland Forum

1. Whatever happened to the "go down" or scroll down button? I noticed there is a scroll up or go up button but none for going/ scrolling down. Its not fun reading every reply and scrolling endlessly on each thread before one can reply a thread.

2. Friends
Why should friends messages be sent to our email?why not here in nld?some of us use or everyday email and won't want to mix it with nld while yet some use mailboxes they check once in a blue moon.

No option of unfriending a friend?please, do something about that.

Hello .

Not surprised one bit!

Tonto can now move in. . .

Management= Lagos
Security= Abuja
Flight delays, logistics etc= Lagos
Bribe and intimidation= Lagos

Lagos sucks but I'd still use or pick it over Abuja.

Somebody don hammer be dat!

Oh happy day. . .

Both are correct.
Oyinbo is yoruba while oyibo is igbo.

Ihunkowa for me.

ChinenyeM,the market days names you listed are pretty much same with the generally accpeted one ie eke,orie and i was expecting something totally different.

How did you guys come about your market days/names ?
Thank you.

Ta Xaza,I want to know as much as possible.If you can recount the different tribes and their way of marrying,that would be fine.

If i have my way,i'd be in the village monday to thursday,city friday to sunday each week.

There is this serenity and calm that comes with villages,my village especially that the heart and soul can't refuse.

You took your kids,his kids and left. . .You should care for them! Dude,obviously still wants you.

What did he do that made you leave?Have you thought of forgiving him(if hes truly repentant and apologized)

Where you guys properly married?You can pursue a legal divorce which i doubt he'd give you anyway,if you want him to contribute to the kids upkeep.

Long story short,the guy wants you back,think about that.

2 bedroom flat IMO is too tiny for a married couple to use play 'bed and breakfast' to friends.In as much as your husband wants to help,he should remember that he is married now and consider you too before accepting guests.

It's possible your man have squatted with them at one time or the other in the past so you'd have to apply wisdom here.

Btw,is it that you don't want the guest or u detest his smoking habit?Tell your husband that the guests smoking disturbs you and ask him again when the guest intends leaving.Insist on a date and remind your husband 1 week to the day so he can as well remind his friend.

If everything else fails,invite your mom for a 1 week visit.That should do the trick.
Patience,my dear.Patience.

ChinenyeM,do Ngwas have any(special) names for the market days?If yes,can you please name them.

Unu wetuo olu na obi,Igbo u otu.

Thank you Ta Xaxa.

I'm interested in the cultural/tribal marriage.How is it performed,any dowry to be paid or flogging like the Fulani's do ?

@OP,are you and/or your other siblings grown and employed now?Y'all can pool funds together and get your mama back to school to pursue her lifelong dreams.

What position?driver,camera man,reporter etc ?

Me likey!

That's one of Ghana's police uniforms.

Nice,i only speak and understand Igbo,dont know anything Ibo.Take note.

Btw,im not on FBK,lets do it here.

^Uzor,Anele is the short form of 'Anaelechukwu" and it means "looking unto God"

Lovely and interestinf thread.

Ta Xaxa,what language is your lingua franca?which type of marriage is dominant in your place.

^If he provokes the Nri high prince na 2 things he go bring for total cleansing;

Ada ara ya kwu oto.
Skunk kara aka.

LOL

Seriously,I'm on the lookout for Chi's answers especially in regards the eke etc names issue.

Can we get a picture of him please?

The report says the governor planned flying him to India before his death,does it mean none of the hospitals here can "manage" stroke ?

May God comfort and take care of the loved ones he's left behind.

I wouldn't work for an in-law.Good fences makes good neighbours.

@OP,Its your call.Weigh all options,consider both sides of the coin,life itself is a risk but is this one worth taking.

If ever,things go wrong:
you'd lose your wife and job.

You have a 14 years old BIL,how would he take this in say 2-3 years from now?see you as a rival?

Your boss calls the shots(FACT and true world over) and in this instance,your FIL would be the new boss,can you and ur FIL handle official disagreements without bringing it to the homefront and making it personal?.

Your call,OP.

What is "Malo" ?
Last i checked,bike riders are generally referred to as 'Achaba' in J-town. what caused the fracas?

Yes ,you can.If you meet someone that is ready to endure,share same sentiments and has a steady income coming in.

You added the email address for what exactly?sharp man,lol.

Goodluck to you and the fortunate girl.

So how have the journey been?worthwhile,i believe. . .

Where are they fleeing to?
Last i checked Kano,Jos etal are on fire.They all better sit back to defend their land or die fighting atleast.

Is this story true?I so refuse to believe it,what da heck!

They would sell the state to "water and grow" the gucci flowers,if true.

Which farmer/contractor got the contract?I wouldnt mind supplying the prada and gucci flowers.

LOL

That is darn funny.Must be Beaf's grandchild's handiwork.

Interesting thread.

He did the crime and so must do the time.