₦airaland Forum

Since when did an abattoir stop being a place they slaughter animals and became where they rear cattles?

Btw,were they pre-informed of the demolition exercise,given deadline?What options did the government offer?where do they slaughter their cows from now on?

Most of Nigeria's open market abbatoir are worse than a shytehole.Jeez,and we all consume . . .oh lordy!

@OP,while you sojourn to Accra or wherever in search of peace please sheath and package your TJ well.The last thing you need now is woman no 4 or baby no 6.

I'm familiar with the story. . .she was different,offered me a shoulder and a listening ear,we fell in love,did it once,she's the best thing that ever happened to me,bla bla bla.

I don't know why you have to run from the devil you created but anyhoo,keep your thing and fragile mind(lol) in check as you voyage.

@Relax.Dalu.A di m nma.
I hugo "akpa akpu" i ga-eso ka ijiji na nshi?lolz

@El,I bu onye obere okwukwe.Nwa ada ahu o bu isi abuo?Keduzi ka i si na eme ka i ji ujo too okorobia?
Ngwa,iji mee ka o diri gi mfe(easy),gwa m ihe i choro igwa ya ka m je gwa ya.O dikwa nma etu ahu?

Bia,Ghanaman we are not interested in Ghana news or Ghanaweb.Let their garbage remain in their porch.

Midase why.lolz

Abagworo:
I did not mean the most common name @ifyalways.

"Oha" literally means the "entire Igbo people".Ohaneze means "the people and their Kings".

Even at that,Oha or Ohaneze cannot be Igbo or linked with us unless when its written as "Ohaneze Ndi Igbo" kpomkwem.

While we are at it,Can somebody Please give me the meaning of "Ohafia" .

What's Abagworo going on about?

Whatever idea you're toying with,Oha does not even come close.If you want to talk about the most common name it should be anything "chi" and Igbos have always seem themselves as Igbo's not oha.Any group can be oha.

Biko,Abagworo log off and go have some fun.

@OP,Congrats gurl and may God bless the union.

^Right on point.
Body language and facial expression is the keyword.
As a woman,Once I sense a guy is "dreamning" of walking up to me to yarn dust,I know the kind of expression to switch to and believe me the guy wud promptly swallow his poppycocks or keep it for the next woman.

No time to spend flashing band or explaning,my mean face speaks for me.Men can only tell a woman(married or single) such tales when they are sure(from your disposition,conversation,dressing and body language) that you WUD NOT MIND or maybe YOU WUD LAUGH IT OFF.
I prefer to be known as a meanie,unapproachable lady as opposed to be addressed as a cool-mamajama on which every jerk down the block tests his toasting skills.

The OP's scenario is even worse.Imagine the guts! Telling her to her face that her husband is a wimp! I doubt if the said woman has any respect for her so called husband.

^Right on point.
Body language and facial expression is the keyword.
As a woman,Once I sense a guy is "dreamning" of walking up to me to yarn dust,I know the kind of expression to switch to and believe me the guy wud promptly swallow his poppycocks or keep it for the next woman.

No time to spend flashing band or explaning,my mean face speaks for me.Men can only tell a woman(married or single) such tales when they are sure(from ur disposition,conversation,dressing and body language) that you WUD NOT MIND or maybe YOU WUD LAUGH IT OFF.

The scenario in the OP'S case is even worse.Imagine the guts! Telling me to her to her face that her husband is a wimp! I doubt if the said woman has any respect for her so called husband.

@Relax,Ndewo Nwanne.Aha ma signature gi bu Ebelebe Igba.lolz

@El,ego ole ka i ga akwu ka m nye gi akara ya?Okwa i si na ilugo nwanyi?Keduzi ihe "away match" ji agu gi?Umu nwoke sef,ihe na agu unu agbaghi na ahia.

jennykadry:
All these women that men still toast, it's good oo. Me? No man has stopped me on the road for years to ask me ''Nne, wetin you carry?

Rofl.

Mi love,
Nke m nani.A mam na I naghi eme ma o bu ele umu asa anya na Owerri? Anya m can see you from Lagos oh so uche gi dikwa ya.

Agaba na Tosh wu old skull clients Feli.Dika anyi na ekwu ugbu a Ikomi wuzi Onye isi oche ihe nile gbasara Feli.Once in a while Presido na esi na azu(as an unrepentant onye oshi "ohu" ga turu otu onu.

@El guapo,mbakwa a naghi m eche gi nche kama na a nam ahu ebe gi na ha na "e gwodo" ya mgbe o bula.N'eziokwu Nadia bu enyim nwanyi.

So na i ji nwanyi ma na achughari ndi okara-agboghobia juru na romance section?O nweghi ihe mebiri.Igbo si na mmadu erighi eri,o kuru ya ekuru n'imi.lol

E chekwam na uche gi adi ebe Nadia no ka m haziere gi ya maka na o bu enyi m nwanyi.Udo di.

^Oh so you were scratching away and expected not to get marks?

When pregnant,the skin is already stretching so scratching only makes it worst.

When it itches,massage with ori,cocoa buter,bio or olive oil as opposed to scratching away.

@OP,If after trying everything and 'em marks still appears after birth,don't despair,wear it as a badge of Honour.

^I must have read your initial post upside down.I thought you said she rented one of your properties and moved into another. . . a new one,different from where u guys were staying before u travelled.

Anyhoo,I still maintain that your giving her your sim card was childish and unecessary.You don't give people such liberties man,you did it to let peace reign no doubt but she's seen that(and you) as a weakling.

Is paying into an account going to bring peace?Temporal methinks.what happens the day she gets to find out?You'd start explaning all over again.

Lay rules man,get and stay in charge biko.And to stil show her that she is still your co-pilot and partner,let the widow be taking the money directly from her.Either she pays into the account or by physical contact.

You are married now,there should be a cordial relationship btwn widow and ur wife.All these takes effect after you have man-ed up,layed the rules and everyone knows her/his place and roles.

Try and get her that biz.An idle woman. . .

^I must have read your initial post upside down.I thought you said she rented one of your properties and moved into another. . . a new one,different from where u guys were staying before u travelled.

Anyhoo,I still maintain that your giving her your sim card was childish and unecessary.You don't give people such liberties man,you did it to let peace reign no doubt but she's seen that(and you) as a weakling.

Is paying into an account going to bring peace?Temporal methinks.what happens the day she gets to find out?You'd start explaning all over again.

Lay rules man,get and stay in charge biko.And to stil show her that she is still your co-pilot and partner,let the widow be taking the money directly from her.Either she pays into the account or by physical contact.

You are married now,there should be a cordial relationship btwn widow and ur wife.All these takes effect after you have man-ed up,layed the rules and everyone knows her/his place and roles.

Try and get her that biz.An idle woman. . .

Aww the agony and misery!

I need me to see that strong black(white or brown) girlie that did this.Look,how bitter he is,typing away so hard and furiously. .poor thing.

I'm persuaded to believe that aside cleaning him out financially and leaving him in debt,the strong girl knelt him down and peed on his head.awwww

Btw,are we sure it's not even a test-tube baby?As in 2 phaggots buying a fertile egg,with no woman willing to donate her womb for carrying their miserable sperm,they had no choice than to use the lab.

No woman,even the most useless wud have birthed this thing,that much i'm sure.

@OP,so are the washed linen clean and dry now?

@OP,First mistake you made was giving your wife your sim card.Even If she caught you ontop the widow,your sincere apology and true repentance is enough,handing out your sim card just to appease an insecured woman and at same time prove your fidelity is wrong and portrays you as a pumpkin.

Btw,be honest to atleast yourself,have you done anything in the past 'cos i don't understand how your wife wud wake up and suddenly turn to a best.

Way to go:
Be firm man.
Take back your old sim card.
Ask her to move back to the old house,if she does not comply,inform her family and if she still don't bulge,get army boys to move her things back to your old home.
When she's finally home,lay the rules man.
What does she use her money for?Find out.
Be firm and show her you are the man but please don't use your fists.

Finally,life's short.Your sanity and happiness an an individual is important.

^Yes,ajo nwa.LOLZ

@Only truth,I got a plot @ New Owerri @ 750K 3 years ago.Its double the price now.I think Avu,world bank and Prefab(the one behind Akwakwuma girls) should still be relatively cheap.Big boys with ego Igwe took over Orji/Okigwe road(erecting mansions within a space of 6 months),I tried getting a plot there,almost concluded with the sellers tupu one boy bia jiri pounds crash-ia my weak naira and today a magnificient hotel sits there.

At times I wonder if some of us are unwell .

Someone poisoned and burnt her son and folks on here are advocating she gets pardoned 'cos of the welfare and fate of the other kids.Beyond Ridiculous I say!

We'd actually want her to go back home and kill the other kids?Lawdhavemercy

^Nke m bu Ifeoma.

Bia,so onye i na ahu na nro bu Nadia Buari?I choro contact-ia,ozokwa ego ole ka i ga akwu ma m haziere gi di oru?lolz

Odumchi,Yes,I use elekere so so does everyone in my family except my late dad who used "ataang".

Ataang might go extinct or be out of fashion considering that schools and even media houses all use "elekere"

This guy,you be proper ikuku ama na onya ie a rolling stone.So just 'cos woman no 2 said no or wait you've already found woman no 3

Oya lets start from Genesis,did you divorce woman no 1 legally?

Aside having had 2 CS's,have u tried to find out why no 2 does not want a child?could there be any health danger a 3rd pregancy wud pose to her?Could it be her doctor's instruction?You already are judging and concluding she's selfish while perharps the poor girl is trying to save her head.Talk with her and find out the real reason she's against the idea.

Or perharps she don't love you enough to want to sacrifice 9 months of her time carying your seed.Do you sincerely think you are worth that sacrifice?

This guy,you be proper ikuku ama na onya ie a rolling stone.So just 'cos woman no 2 said no or wait you've already found woman no 3

Oya lets start from Genesis,did you divorce woman no 1 legally?

Aside having had 2 CS's,have u tried to find out why no 2 does not want a child?could there be any health danger a 3rd pregancy wud pose to her?Could it be her doctor's instruction?You already are judging and concluding she's selfish while perharps the poor girl is trying to save her head.Talk with her and find out the real reason she's against the idea.

Or perharps she don't love you enough to want to sacrifice 9 months of her time carying your seed.Do you sincerely think you are worth that sacrifice?

^Are you pregnant?No matter how bad your tummy itches you during pregnancy,PLEASE don't scratch it.Get bio oil to occasionally massage your tummy instead.

I disagree,the most beautiful and sweetest gift is "life" itself.Waking every dawn is more than beautiful!

Marriage is cool and sweet but marriage is not for everyone.Some are created to marry the bottle,others their career while yet others themselves.

2 boys and 1 boy.

Reason:I love boys.Less stress,unlimited fun.

My husband's smile,melts me instanta.  

Well prepared amala with ewedu decorated with shaki,kpanla,gear box and orishirishi.

Why is your wife talking with "the other guy" as oppossed to you?Even if you guys are the churchous types did anyone not tell you guys during counselling that the best way to enjoy each other's bodies is by "talking with each other,tell ur partner exactly what u want,like,wud want to try" etc.

One day from graphic description,the other guy go enter ur wife,take her to cloud 9 and before you can say jack ur wife is on her way outta ur life.

Go home man,set the mood,prepare her fav. meal,get adult movies in the bedroom,talk intimately and encourage her to be open and honest too,then ACT.

btwn,not doing "sex" during coutship does not mean you should not "talk" sex.Talking sex for patners prating abstinence during courtship is a sure way of eliminating such scenarios after marriage.