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God!
The heart of man is dangerously wicked.

What's the latest on Sia1?

Mtn's advert with Nonso Diobu(bed time story)

Paris,you owe no one no explanation,not even me.

My first post was meant to be a sincere advise but trust the internet viruses plus prophets to twist it to me something else.

Goodluck on your child birthing and may God prosper your family.

@Siena,i guess Mutter's comments of "enlightened people" using used stuffs was cool.Besides,where or which part of my posts suggests that i dont want people to assist the op?

I have made my point,an opinion formed based on the "Parisene Xter" that I have interacted with in the past.I am least bothered by what internet viruses and some group of goody two shoes think.

I can't believe this thread is still on.Statments and arguments that cannot be backed with facts.
Oha=Igbo

sehill09:
He was in school when we met and has since stopped going. I am not really looking for marriage advice. We are all human and none of us are perfect. I am only looking for opinions or thoughts about privacy. Is he right and deserving of such a secret life from me or should there be no secrets in marriage? What do yall think?

Rofl
You knew all these so why come lament here?
There should be secrecy and privacy in marriage,happy now?

@Hot,don't waste your time going through my old posts,I don't dance to the gallery nor trying to please anyoneOn here,Keeping it real 24/7.

I'm mobile now and can't start quoting people but I remember vividly that a few months back,OP was looking and ready to throw away N25k for a BB phone.There was also when she was buying clothes for herself,just few months ago.

She definitely is a role model of what a "godly and wise" woman is.The type that wud starve the family just so she'd buy her designer bag.

Wasted enough time here already.Funny it took my post to get the "wolves" finally contribute to getting the cot.and lets hope the OP wont sell the new cot to get herself a weave.

@Femmy,God bless you richly.You provided the needed "fish" while mine is why beg/look for fish when you have the "nets and fishing rod?"

@Jenny,thank you for trying to understand where im coming from.If we as individuals cannot get our priorities right do we have any right complaning about the state of our nation?They all can chose not to say it as it is but the truth must be told.

How many of the noise makers wud wear their grown kids not even babies naija sold used clothes?How many of them wud choose to throw away N25K on BB when they know their baby is due in a couple of months and they "NEED" a cot? Aside reeking of bad financial management is that not greed?Trying to keep up with the Joneses?

God wud always provide but man must do his part by staying true to himself,atleast.

Talking of baby cot,a carpenter or welder might be able to get her one with N15 to N20k.

For as long as the OP can afford to buy BB,order clothes for herself online,she "ought" to be able to atleast get that for her child "IF" its important to her that her child sleeps on a cot.This is my opinion,y'all don't have to agree with me.

Anyhoo,priorities differs.Look good,wear the best clothes and shoes while the kids soak garri ati ekpa . . .they won't die,it wud make them stronger.

First off,Y'all foaming by the mouths should just STFU 'cos none of you have provided the much needed help ie providing a cot especially the dolts saying "If you are not ready to help,why not ignore the thread",too hard to even take your own advises?

OP,Lives in Lagos so all these used clothes is cheaper in "UK"  does not hold water.New china simple cotton baby clothes sell between N400 to N1500 while UK/US(and wherever) used,chemical treated baby clothes sell btwn N250 to N600.The traders lie on it,wipe hands and clean sweats with it(all the way from Togo,Cotonou to Lagos) and when buyers gather,omg its another sight.From the dirty bare floor where its dumped to all what not. . . all these for a baby's tender skin?so what gives?why not buy 3 new ones rather than buying a boxload of trash that might "hurt" the baby's tender skin ?

How many of you here wud use "Naija" sold fairly used clothes for your "babies" ? Hypocrites,advising someone to do what u know deep down that u won't do.

Oh [b]J[/b]es,I'm not enlightened 'cos I won't wear my baby "used clothes" !

. . . and Yeah,I live way above my means for suggesting she gets a carpenter or welder to help her arrange a cot.

Next garbage Please!

^They played Kenya sometime in march @ Abuja.We won Argentina "C team" 4:1 but lost out to the Argies "A team" @ Bangladesh.

All in all,Sia 1 needs to go assist Coach Eucharia of super Falcons.He can now there fully maximize his potentials of gossiping and fighting every player,carrying grudges about like a mad market women.shioor.

I hope the young,female bankers(tellers,customer service reps) are reading oh.

Most of them think that wearing the best shoes,clutching the latest BB,fixing and changing Brazilian weaves forthnightly is the in-thing.Failure to save/have plans for the future and over indulging in "looking good" when they were singles are some of the things that trapped most married female bankers in the system.

@OP,how did you meet and marry the dude,you imported him?He's always been like this or he changed down the marriage?

God save me from me cos I would have smashed the lappy on his head If i read such rubbish from my husband.

@OP,why is he unemployed?His jobless state though is not an excuse. . .he is just irresponsible.

^You took the words out of my mouth.

. . .and If same church had labelled her a witch,ordered him to poision/kill her,he would have done so too.

El mba oh.
Nke a kariri shekeleke. . .biko edit.

@OP,You are so wrong on both counts.

Francophone footballlers(some) don't speak good French same for your rural dwellers analogy.They speak native languages like "Jula,Ewe" etc

@Honeric,He won Argentina,Kenya and Sierra Leone friendlies now.

I cant wait for thursday,Sia1 just have to go.

^You would grow gray hairs while waiting for an answer to that question.

OP has the reputation of starting a thread and running away.

The girl introduced the boy to her family when she was 7?

Orishirishi

Ok,maybe its just me or im being inconsiderate but I'd rather get a local carpenter or welder slap together a cot for me than go this route.

Are u planning on having just one baby?You can always keep the cot for the next baby.I hope you are not considering buying "used clothes" for the baby too?If you can afford the internet,surely you can do better. . .just saying.

Rofl.

Mine is too calculated and organised that it becomes sinful.

Ihe oma na emekwa ebe a.

Relax,o dika gi na Ikomi abu nwanne.Igbo gi na ya yiri. . .lolz

El,a nom na di.Mana a dikwa m available for e-shekeleke o kacha na threadia.

Strides Kedu ije?A huru m na o na adabara gi na Oga Relax,ya diriiiiiiii gaba.

Why wait till thursday really?
The slowpoke should have been booted out since.Unforgiving,unproductive wimp.

Abeg,he should just disappear.Yeye coach that won all friendlies and lost out in all competitions.

This man and attention eeh.lol

Last week,he was dissing Bella Naija,his childhood sweetheart which he few moons ago was creating threads for,listing her virtues(her been a virgin) and all what not.Today its Gene,who If memory serves me right,is one of his sweethearts too.He's been boastful of been the only person to know and have seen Gene's child.

Orikinla just loves attention.Thread has gradually started revolving around him.

@OP,Is this land in the city or a village?
Your family should go table the matter to the elders of your village.Depending on where you come from,this can be peacefully resolved.There should surely be men who are over 70 Years old that can attest that the land was a gift to ur grand dad.

If all fails,go to customary court.Something similar happened to someone i know,he went to customary court and was asked to pay the land's worth when he got it which was like 20 years ago.Fair enough IMO.

tgunner:
finally d abductor called yesterday demanding for 3 million naira cash.

Wow,after close to a month?Did you guys atleast hear the boy's voice,speak with him?

God is on the throne and not asleep.May his mercies see the parents through this dilema and also be with the boy.As for the abductors and people working with him(how would he get the boys praents contacts if not for the fact that he has insiders working with him),no rest for the wicked.

^Ofeke Nsugbe.

@Nri priest.E chekwa m ma o bu "Ukwu jie agu,mgbada abia ya ugwo" ?

Ndi Igbo nma nma nu.Nke onye chiri ya zelu.

@Strides,Ndewo asa.

Relax I dikazi fast,I cheghi ka o landia tupu inye ya onodu na akuku gi.O jigi na njo?Onye kwue ka o di ya,umunna e nyere ya aka.lolz

@El,kedu kedu?Ndi be gi anokwa nma?

@Op,Is Duste your capital city?Dunno which is a state or Capital but IMO,Dutse and Jalingo are the least popular.

doctokwus:
Theodore Orji is a curse to d state,people who find any justification for all his non performance as a gov or all d horrible news coming out frm dat state are also doing Abians a great disservice.As a gov,T.A. Orji has bn nothing but a disaster to himself,his family,state and nation!

Is he as bad as Obi?