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[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=610070.msg7793351#msg7793351 date=1298563839]not sure there are fumigators in nigeria.[/quote]There are  

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. . . this too wud be helpful. http://www.pestworld.org/exterminators/find-a-pro/Country/Nigeria

Where is the advert,any links?

alagha:
a wife's monthly income is 6 times higher than her husband , yet she still wants 80% of his own monthly income as part of the house up.why? please your views are highly welcome.

Good a thing they both are honest with themselves,each knows what the other earns.
she wants or the man gives?Both are different issues.Men with killer pride and ego wud insist of dropping even all their income just to prove they are the man of the house.
Could also be that the woman was earning less in the past and the man earning and contributing more rubbed it at her face.
The babe get heart sha. wont conclude she is greedy till i hear the woman's version.

@Embassyman,Nope,You can't see moi.

eddy1977:
i just dont like the big push alberto del rio is getting.
so far his in ring performance is cheezy.
but,mcmahon always knows how to pull a good one at wrestlemania.

hhh vs taker is gona be off the hook.may be shawn michaels reffering.

the miz vs cena is a good one. orton vs punk looks great too.

may be sheamus vs booker t or vs mark henry.

oh, did u see the jerry lawler michael cole challenge?

Wow,cannot miss this fight.You are absolutely right,it wud be explosive with Shawn as referee.Been awhile I saw Booker T in action . . . hes not a spring chicken anymore.
Orthon is not my fav. but anyone fighting funky silly Punk gets my support.

LOL
Case of eating yam N20,paying to shyte it out for N50.

Who is Ego?
Everyone is seeking cheap publicity . . .I don notice her today,wud Google and check her out @ You tube morrow.

Lagosboy:
Mabinu !! but reall if one has to spell it the way it ispronounced in arabic then it will be Umar or if it was yoruba spelling umor (the o is pronounced like you say Orange)

lol,okiez.
I be Naija . . .Omar goes down well with me.

What really are they agitating for
Salary Increment,Facilities or re-reinstatement of their figure head?

Tunsbobo:
Signed: Tunsbobo- Department of Accounting.

Lord Babs:
Signed: LORD BABS
FACULTY OF LAW

@Topic,What was the old fees and how much is it now?

jennykadry:
Ify why are you bent on destroying the reputation that took me years to build

Kpachara anya gi diaaaaa, if not i will mechie gi onu  diaaa with ezi'bote amu  that will produce a baby gurl by fire by force

LOL
I ji nwa nwanyi a mapu m obi?too late for that . . .e kechigo m something. . . anomzi m na constant firing,no goal or goal-keeping 

Jeez People . . . .the guy attached a document alleged to be from the hospital with PHONE NUMBERS,what wud it cost to call and verify

Lagosboy:
Wa alaykum salam, alihamdulilah i am good. How is lil Umar doing i hope he is letting mama get some sleep and the twins are not jealous lols.

Teacher ke , me i nor fit teach o and student will run away from class i f i attempt to

Omar Omar Omar
Olodo rabata.

bilms:
Question and answer about sex.

i am coming up with a clear write ups on it just stay tuned with this from a search.

Sex Education Acceptable In Islam
"There is no shame in knowing one's religion. Ask everything that you do not understand."
Islamic Scholar, Sheikh Sanusi Gumbi of Kaduna, Nigeria, is interviewed by Ilyasu Ibn Muhammad.

Q: Still, at what age should a child know about sexual intercourse?

Gumbi: In modern times, a child of primary school, say age seven, should start knowing these things, before he/she becomes fully mature.

Q: At what age should a child be taught sex education?
1.
Gumbi: [b]As we all know, there is nothing which Islam has not taught its followers. Sex education in Islam is taught theoretically and not practically. If a child is being taught sex education it is not permissible for his teacher to come into body contact with him during [/b[b]]the period of study. [/b]As long as a person has reached the age of puberty, it is not permissible for him/her to see the thigh of another person. However, sex education can be taught properly. When we look at the book of Buhari, a hadith from the Prophet (PBUH) shows where he (the Prophet) was teaching his companions how to perform purification bath, he said, "if he sits in between her (thighs) and exhausts her, then a purification bath becomes compulsory." Here, he only made a statement which explains how intercourse may take place, but he did not say come and sit here let me demonstrate how it is done. Therefore when teaching, there is no harm in explaining how it is done. There is even no harm in drawing on the board, but not when the teacher and his students come in contact. We have books in Islam, which explain the purification bath, what spoils ablution; some of these things explains how the sperm or semen is emitted.

Q: What is the Islamic perspective on self-service. Is it proper for young children to learn it?

Gumbi: Whatever it is that Allah has ordered mankind to adhere to and forbid them from, there is no harm in young children knowing about them. They should know them thoroughly and then learn their virtues and vices. All that matters is that they should not see them being done practically, so that they will not attempt doing it.

Q: Is it proper for children to start knowing about sexual oriented vices like homosexuality at such age?

Gumbi: Yes, it is in Islamic books of jurisprudence and history. It has shown that homosexuality and their likes exist. Children should be taught about this, likewise the punishment for it. If you go to our settlements in Northern Nigeria, remote areas where we grew up, you will find young children learning about these things. They learn about them and their punishments, so that by the time they grow up and mature, they will know how to deal with such cases. They should know that it is forbidden.



Q: What is the Islamic view on contraception and what effect does it have on children knowing about them?
2.
Gumbi: Teaching children about contraceptives such as condom, is like encouraging them to go and have sex, because in the Hausa culture, what makes one to migrate to another area is the issue of pregnating a woman out of wedlock. With the introduction of condoms, these people of shameful character have found an avenue to do so as they wish. Therefore it has become necessary for children to know that these things have negative effects, even if they have advantages. They should know that it should be used when lawfully married.



Q: In this part of the country, the mention of sexuality education makes people jittery due to lack of the knowledge of fiqh. Or is it the normal culture here?

Gumbi: People here like to wear the garb of ignorance whereas they know what is true. Somehow they are 100 years backwards. Even what they read in the fiqh books have not fully been comprehended. When in the past sexuality education was not taught, it led people to pregnanting women out of wedlock, which is very shameful. Islam is not against theoretical sex education. It only frowns at the practical aspect. Sex is a natural thing. no animal is taught it. it happens naturally.
3.
Q: Is it permissible for young children to know the intensity of sexual arousement, like where to touch, how a partner should react, and other heated sensations, which cannot be mentioned here?

Gumbi: If it is all in explanation, there is no fault. In Abu Hanifah's school of thought, he said, there is no harm for a person seeking marriage to smell the lady he intends marrying and vice versa and there is also no harm for them looking at each other properly, because they are expected to be life partners. there is no harm in children knowing all these things. All that matters is that there should be no practicals. As a young man growing up, there was a time my Mallam [teacher] was teaching me, you know how raw Sokoto Hausa is [the local language], he said manliness in Hausa, he said virgina in Hausa and then was explaining how one enters the other then I laughed, he cautioned me not to laugh and said that "fiqhu cannot be taught without explanation." Even the Prophet (PBUH) was asked by a woman as is narrated by a Hadith reported by Aisha. The woman asked what the Islamic injunction of a woman who sees what a man sees, she was referring to wet dreams, because a woman can have a wet dream just as a man does. Before the Prophet (PBUH) was able to answer, Aisha said to the woman "why are you asking such a question? do you want to embarrass us in front of the Prophet?" the Prophet then said there is no shame in knowing one's religion. Ask everything that you do not understand.

Q: What is the Islamic view on abortion?

Gumbi: Abortion in Islam is haram (forbidden). However, there is the permissible abortion where a married woman is concerned, where it is discovered that if a child would 4. become a nuisance to people if it was born with some deformity or something of that nature. Now, questions where thrown to scholars, where it was agreed that abortion is haram, except in a case where the foetus has not yet matured to become a living being.

Q: Still on sex education, some have the view that sex education should be left as parent's responsibility. What is your view?

Gumbi: There are schools where human mannequins are brought in front of the class and these mannequins are used to demonstrate the sexual act. Muslims have frowned at such demonstrations because children would practice it when it is practically shown to them. However, it has to be taught because children will mature and like we have been stressing, it should be taught theoretically, so that when these children mature, they will know what to do in the light of difficult circumstances and situations that arise in relation to sexual intercourse.


follow the forbidden sex practice here

Check bolded . . .
1.Does that rule of 'theory ONLY' apply when its parent to child?A mum surely can touch her daughter's private parts in order to drive home certain points.

2.First,what abt Hausa culture,i didn't quite get that line.I don't see teaching ur child abt contraceptives as encouraging them to be wild . . .the society we live in today calls for total education which includes sound sexual educating ,the best education one can get is from the home.Again that line was quite contradictory,u started with don't teach and ended with teach but encourage the kids to make the right choice.

3.Young children as in 7 to 15?
I wud personally subscribe that for adults . . . 18 upwards.

4.Nuisance?That word is horrible please

More contributions Please . . .

zayhal:
To be an honorable daughter to my parents

An outstanding and the best mum to my children

The best friend and confidant to my hubby.

. . .and to be a source of blessing to everyone I come across.

miftaudeen:
well done Bilms,i really appreciate your effort on this keep it up[b].thanks for librating us.[/b] may ALLAH be with us amin.

@bolded,for real?
Me i no see wetin blims do o,he opened this thread and ran away.
@Topic,How is courtship done in Islam?
When wud sex be said to be "haram-less" btwn a couple?After Nikkah or after the couple decide amongst themselves that they are gonna get married?

Ify nwayo kwa.

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Blazay:
Poor single woman.
When people will be preaching to you young women to choose ONLY men that will cherish and hold you for life, you will refuse and tell the world your "pastors" made you choose to quench for "cyber 419" lovers instead.

Mu he he he he he he

If only there was a man in her life to lubricate her "engine" from time to time.
She prolly died typing on NL or some networking chat room scattering her nyansh around all cyber social fora from home or at work like some of "us".

Most will even leave their marriages thinking the swamp is always greener on the outside.
Then in your "old cargo" dreams, you become an internet/intranet whores losing sleepless nights with depression, and passing
out from fatigue and sheer exhaustion after series of failed yimmings and yammings.

The dangers of social isolation are numerous.
Not even a husband, boyfriend or child at home to ask after her?
What in the world was she working so hard for?
To settle gambling debts or to re-finance loans obtained for purchasing illicit narcotics? 

LOL
@Topic,Have heard of something similar sometime ago.Its possible all she had was "online friends".Social isolation has got more 'cons' than "pros".No coffee break,no nothing.

gfhotee:
Our faith should superceed our human desires and desperation, unless you want to dump your faith. Faith is total submission to your belief, meaning you are prepared to uphold and obey every rule in your faith, however, we have instances where some christians have married muslims and still keep to their faith and it never affected the marriage, but in the case of marrying a to-be Imam? Hmnnn!!! Think twice.
There are lots of divorcees and single Christians, just associate more with the singles programme and you will get the right person. Also I see a little rigidity in you, have this in mind, you can never get a perfect man for yourself, just look for one whose lapses or faults you can endure in marriage and 4get about being choosy.

Mere faith without actions . . .how far can that go?
She is 42 not 24 and its her heart desire(her words) to get married.She would either act on her fate and believe her faithfulness wud see her through or abide with her faith and no actions and prolly forget marriage.
@OP,If u think the muslim guy cos of his faith is not good enough for you please DO NOT go ahead with the marriage.
Marriage IS NOT for everyone and marriage does NOT guarantee happiness ,btwn.

agabaI23:
Kola na so fear fatwa de catch you? You for stay here

You be compound agbaya and agbero.
Kola is a gentleman . . . something u can only be in your dreams.

illusion2:
Ify congrats on your baby.

Daddy can share with Omar these 3 months,no harm at all. It will even help generate more

Thanks.
This thread . . . make i no fall off my chair sha
Guess the s.ex education has started already,OP come in and bring it on.

Lagosboy:
If one is late for prayers , you make the first takbir and join the congrgation/imam in whatever position they are in prayer. If one missed the ruku (bowing down) then one rakah is missed and has to be done when the imam finishes the prayer. The late dude would not say the taslim when the imam does and rather, he/she would get up to repay the miseed rakah or rakahs.

I hope it is clear

And God knows best

Very Well.
You sounding like a classroom teacher now . . . "any questions class"
Hope u are good?Asalam alekuim

miftaudeen:
@ifyalways repay the missed rakat with its picture or consider the rakat(s) you met as your 1st,2nd.

Ok.
Thank you.Salam.

teetee2:
Im a woman of 42 believing God for Marriage.  I'd a relationship about 11 years ago but did not work due to religion difference. We both loved eachother but i walked away because of my faith. Since i left this man, all men i'd met. i always have one reason or the other not date them or  marry them.  It could either be on religion or married and not ready to break any woman's heart.  Now im ready for marriage which is my desperate desire this 2011.  My challenge now, one of the men that wanted to marry me then called me recently that he wants to marry me. This man will become Imam of their mosque anytime and i have a strong faith in my own religion too which makes people to call me the daughter of my Pastor.  Can this be the will of God?  Im confused now that im winning more souls for God.  What can i do.  Thanks

An Iman-to-be . . . Im guessing he "might" insist u join his religion.
What are ur priorities now?Faith or marriage?
This decision is urs alone to make but PLEASE,don't cos of age or desperation make a decision that YOU are not totally comfortable with.
I wish u the best.

Cheei NLD      
Phd holders,Harvard graduates,Sisters and brothers in the lawd etc etc arguing over Nollywood. . . and morrow y'all wud claim u don't watch Nollywood.
Mu he he.Twa  

Zahnda:
How was the balance of power prior to getting married? If it was as is now and you and you married him, then you ok'ed the T&Cs and signed on the dotted line.

Co-signed.
Were u a happy follow follow during courtship?
Whatever be the case,let him have his say then sweetly suggest your own opinions,however If he is used to making all the decisions u are in for a long thing sha.

[quote author=aloy/emeka link=topic=610337.msg7783198#msg7783198 date=1298429283][size=14pt]Is this a school or an animal farm?[/size]

On a warm Wednesday morning, you stroll into the premises of a public primary school in Lagos. At the entrance, flies in a pile of refuse welcome you as you come face-to-face with this school which is in a state of disrepair. As you move further, a putrid smell from an abandoned classroom block assails your nostrils.


[img]http://news2.onlinenigeria.com/thumbnail.php?file=images/Abandoned_classrooms_467553756.gif&size=article_small[/img]


At that moment, you want to run back. But at a distance, the pupils of First African Church Mission Primary School I and II, Iju-Ishaga who are in the morning assembly are singing their marching song: “The day is bright, it is bright and fair, oh, happy day, the day of joy, the day is bright, it is bright and gay, oh happy day.” Left-right-left-right-left-right, and without the luxury of a school band, they marched excitedly into their dilapidated classrooms. Looking at the deplorable state of the school, it is doubtful if they are really going to have a happy day.

There are four buildings in this school and two blocks of three classrooms have been abandoned. Even in the remaining dilapidated blocks, only two classrooms in each block are in use. With blown-off roofs, decayed ceilings, no electricity, no water, no teachers’ room, the school is a dumping place for refuse. At night, it is a magnet for undesirable people and events as some parts of the school fence have collapsed making it porous and accessible to miscreants. At the moment, anyone can enter the school through the collapsed fence.

In fact, the school is an eyesore. Everyday, pupils and teachers are faced with this reality when they come to school. A former Minister of Education during former President Olusegun Obasanjo’s regime once wept after seeing images of dilapidated schools across the federation. Like the minister, the sight of children running about in this distressed school would make anyone sad that our children are studying in such squalid conditions in the Centre of Excellence.
According to Education Review investigations, the school, formerly called (UNA) United African Church Primary School, was managed by the Ogun State government for decades and was taken over by the Lagos State government in March last year.

A source who did not want to be named, told Education Review: “For many years, the school had been in a dilapidated state and when it was handed over to Lagos State, Ogun State moved their pupils to a school in their state and only few pupils were left, those who wanted to remain here.
“After taking over, some officials from the State Universal Basic Education Board (SUBEB) came here to inspect the school, took photographs and surveyed the compound to know what to do concerning the reconstruction and rehabilitation before 2012.

“Similarly, officials from the Education Office at Ifako/Ijaye Local Government, through the Chairman, Chief Demola Doherty, even came and they also promised to assist in repairing the few classrooms that can be used for learning.”

http://news2.onlinenigeria.com/latest-addition/75720-this-school-animal-farm.html[/quote]Is he done with the weeping?Time for action yet,Oga Ex-minister.
I dont quite get it,what do they mean by Ogun state came and moved its pupils to another school/state

Bed

John Cena is simply awesome.   
You cant see us.

Can't share my toothbrush with anyone all things being equal. . .

[quote author=Missy ★ B link=topic=610464.msg7784357#msg7784357 date=1298453332]I can't pass judgement on the autheticity of the confession as, the video seems not to be available on youtube anymore but, this rumour is all over the net and you know, I love to fill y'all in on gists.
Okay, you can now call me Amebor and, throw stones.

Some comments on this issue (Taken from another site):
''I closely watched dagrin in most of his videos, or videos he futures-in his face clearly shows there is something deep bothering him. . . his death never came as a surprise to me. . watch YQ's video i like girls,  on youtube . . he was totally lost,  all dat glitters are not gold''.

''This has been going tru my mind since the day i hard one of his song where he says,if i die make you no cry for me and he says kole ye won kole ye won(meaning people will not understand why they should not cry for him)i belive he knows he was going to die soon''

I saw the ''I like girls video'' and Dagrin does look 'disturbed', I must say.
You sef na his fan?[/quote]Yes.
Stop throwing conjectures jor . . .he did not look disturbed anywhere.

bullocks.
Playing my Sisi Eko . . . Missing Da Grin moreeeee

zeeleso:
All of you is laughing. wen u dont even know my uncle @ all, i tell u our family has land inside asorock and we can stay there anytime, even sef i use to see jonathan. Just be laughing, wo our father is related to soyinka , just ask him for me, he know me and my brother very well.If u check the map u'll see that my uncle has already win because even asiwaju and his mother know all of us very well. i even call him boda sef.

LOL
You are so proficient with ur written Batu?Were u born in Benin Republic?