₦airaland Forum

dayokanu:
I kinda agree. With boys you just need energy to keep up to their pranks, They are more open and they forgive easily.

With girls they might be easier when young but as they group, their problems multiply.

We have even some women who dread having girls, I have never seen a man who doesnt want male children

dayokanu:
Someone in the church for Xmas bought me a Shirt, tie and Wine, I valued it and bought back something slightly more expensive for the person.

Thats the way I operate, Owe nobody.

jennykadry:
@blank

How soon do you want a baby after marriage?(please dont answer if you find it too personal ) I asked this because a woman can still make whatever she wants to make out of life a reality if she is really determined.

Women get married whilst in the uni, some people get married after school, some get married before uni, and I must say some have failed in their pursuit of a career(prolly due to family pressure) whilst others stood firm even with pressure and pulled through.

It takes an understanding man to make his wife go through the four walls of the uni and come out of it a success, do you think your hubby would have supported you if you had married in school? or do you think you wouldn't have made it through even with your husbands support?

alj harem:
i know 1 language is compulsory in local schools, but private schools niko

also, what about scholarship programs for the best igbo students just like it is done in the north for some students ,,, that why the survival of igbo language is ensured

alj harem:
i agree with the movie

[b]but why can't igbo language be a compulsory subject in schools in the east. [/b]also, parents should be encouarged to speak igbo to there children

scholarship program for children with good igbo skills should be in place by privte investors

little changes like this will make a big difference

excanny:
Is that your contribution, ifysometimes?

I'll re-edit when I get back to my base.

jellybean:
Congrats to them

Although, dis her smile no get part 2

femmy2010:
[b]Nairalanders,
i would want to hear your verdict on the scenario elaborated below.

I reside in a rented 3 bedroom apartment with my Mom and my younger sister who is in her late twenties.
I was away from home most part of early last year on study purpose and when i got back i saw my room occupied by my My Mom's younger brother,his wife and 4 kids(a 1 month old baby included).
My mom told me that he had some housing problem and he couldn't say no to his request to come and stay till the house he supposed rented and hope to move to would be ready.
I accepted but told my mom i would want them to arrange the 3rd room we hitherto used for storage for them to move to giving them a month notice but instead my mom moved to the store and they moved into my mom's room,but my Brother's wife fumed at this(not to my hearing,but i over heard her complaining bitterly why they had to leave a room with separated bathroom and toilet to go share one with others).
My brother's wife suddenly became a menace to the rest of the house,doing as she like.
Placing things where they should be kept,hardly responding to our greetings,accusing my mom and sister of taken from her soup whenever she was away.
After 7 month(Dec 2010),i told my mom that i have had it and i would want them to move to their own place by February 2011 which my uncle accepted in good faith.
Meanwhile,for the 7 months they were in my place it was my sister and mom that takes care of the kids when they get back from school till their mom comes back from work late in the night  except on Sundays when she stays home.
Last week,she accused my sister of regularly eating the meal she left for the young ones and leaving them to starve so i told her to simply take her kids with her to her shop whenever she is going out since she has the heart to accuse someone that has continually helped with the care of her kids.
3 days ago she left the kids at home and went to her shop and my mom called her to ask why she should leave the kids at home after she was told not to but she abused her,calling her a wicked woman etc.
she did same thing yesterday and when i called her to know why she would forcefully leave the kids at home again without begging those she accused of eating their meal to take care of them,she responded foully.
So i called her husband and told my mom that i have it to my neck and i wanted them to leave the house since the initial tale was they would be staying for a month and now running into the 8th month.
She came back late last night and my mom refused to open the door for her but she broke down the glass entrance door.
The husband came back much later and seeing what she has done asked us not to be angry and to be given time to arrange but the anger in me made me tell them that i am scared to live under the same room with his wife.
This morning they moved their stuff out into the open(still outside now),the husband went out to work and the wife went to God knows where with the kids.
I feel so sad seeing the kids go because i have really come to become very fond of them.

Inbwn,i never took a kobo from them all their stay

Was i wrong to have insisted they leave?[/b]

cutitoff:
I dont care what y'all say. Segun is gay.
The girl he brought to Houston tried al she cud 2 av sex,he always ran 2 d toilet claiming he didnt want to comit fornicatn. What an xcuse! He couldnt even have an errection.she ad 2 run bk 2 naija fast. This is nt hear-say,anytime u c segun ask him.
He cant even have an errection with a unclothed lady,but a half unclothed guy,he go tear d yansh.
I av advisd him on several occasns 2 come out of the closet, this is yankee,nobdy go kil u.
I told him point blank dat i cant b friends wit gays.
Pple wil find out d truth soon.
As a mata of fact,he has maped out a plan, damn i cant say more. Its really a very ugly situatn,only if guys knew d truth.

jamace:
Police will call this "Esprit de NYash"

Ujujoan:
Lol, Ify you sef . . . . You too like better thing.

Anyways, I don't think u were a leech. As far as I'm concerned, he was doing his job!

babs787:
The third duty concerns the tongue, which should sometimes be silent and at other times speak out.

As for silence, the tongue should not mention a brother's faults in his absence or his presence. Rather should you feign ignorance. You should not contradict him when he talks nor dispute nor argue with him. You should not pry anmd quiz him about his affairs. On seeing him in the street or about some business, you should not start a conversation about the object of your coming and going, nor ask him about his, for perhaps it will be troublesome to him to discuss it or he may have to lie about it.

Keep silent also about the secrets he confides in you, and on no account divulge them to a third party, not even to his closest friends. DO not reveal anything about them, not even after separation and estrangement, for to do so would be meanness of character and impurity of the Inner.

Keep silent from criticism of his dear ones, his family, his children, also from relating other people's criticism of him, for it is your informant who directly abuses you.

Anas said that God's Messegner (saw) never faced anyone with something displeasing to him, for the hurt comes immediately from the informant and only indirectly from the original speaker.

Lagosboy:
Ha!! Abeg take me to your village and let me go there , me i dont need INEC to post me there i go go my self    Would they let me take 4 at a go    .

It is sunnah to also marry beautiful women you know 

babs787:
Narrated Abu Musa:

The Prophet (PBUH) said, "The example of a believer who recites the Qur'an and acts on it, like a citron which tastes nice and smells nice. And the example of a believer, who does not recite the Qur'an but acts on it, is like a date which tastes good but has no smell. And the example of a hypocrite who recites the Qur'an is like a Raihana (sweet basil) which smells good but tastes bitter. And the example of a hypocrite who does not recite the Quran is like a colocynth which tastes bitter and has a bad smell." [b][/b](Sahih Bukhari - 4727)