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uplawal:
She you dnt read at all ni? sorry am sonuding like this,what about if this people are wrong?go to Islamic bookshops,get books,infact get the whole of volume 1-9 hadith,or ask from your local imams,though am not saying nairalanders are not knowledgeable but make effort to know some basic things via outside apart from nairaland

lol
Lets just leave it at . . .i love listening to ppl views,compare notes then make my own decision.
Its possible,i read more books than you,no?
Never knew asking equates been seen as not making enough efforts . . .anyway,sister,Salams,advice noted n taken in gud faith 

Nigerian Ambassador to Ireland and Iceland

muhsin:
Assalamu alaikum,

Where is IFY today? Haven't seen her around. Hope you are doing fine.

Alaikum Salam.
I am ard and doing good.what abt u?
Can we please discuss "contraceptives and family planning" ,what shld a muslim do or not do,abortion;is it ever permitted etc

Personally,i wud let my MIL go first,no arguments at all,cos if it were to be btwn myself and my mum i wudnt even need to think before i answer . . .same applies to my MIL.
Btwn,did Toba edit his post or something cos i cant see anything wrong with his reply

I so love Daky . . . wish her the best. 
As an outsider,Im a lil'bit uncomfy with the FIL's statement but Im not Daky . . .I believe she has weighed her options and made the best choice for herself.

dayokanu:
The guy is gay.

Segun Gaylay

. . . .Speaking as his partner or ?
Really is there a proof to this speculation or is this based on assumptions

chaircover:
There is something terribly wrong somewhere. If your sister was a teen, then I may to a certain degree understand this.

Please tell his parents, but please if you can, ask your mum to ask his parents to deal with it maturely & sensitively. This is not about beating him to death but to be calm and try and ravel out what the actual problem is. If they dont handle it properly, they wont be able to get to the bottom of this.

Could be that he has access to too much porrn, or is copying what he is seeing around him, maybe someone in his own house is sexually abusing him, it is a known fact that sexual abusers were themselves abused as kids.

Just a thought; does he sleepwalk by any chance? Ive heard that some people do all sorts when they sleepwalk; Never seen it but watched a film it. You may also want to check what he had before he went to bed; could also be that he is experimenting with drugs or alcohol.

His parents need to cover all areas including taking him for medical tests, maybe he has hormonal problems etc

Parents also need to check that he hasnt been raaping other females before this episode. Do they have female househelps? Does he bring female schoolfriends back to the house? etc.

I am sorry to make light of this serious situation, but I would have loved to be fly on the wall when your sister jumped up and slapped him.

Hope your sister is OK.

w-o-r-d

Ujujoan:
ROTFLMAO

I love you too girls . . .

Seriously, I've been okay. Just being busy with the festivities. You know Ify now that I think about it, I wish I were with Omo Ibo . . but the boy just doesn't know how I feel about him.

Hope you ladies had yourselves a nice holiday!

Swerrri
Omo Ibo dey feel ur swag too,hes the shy type offline.He was in naija for the festivities so i assumed u guys were erhm . . .
Anyway,Glad to see u ard.

Missy Missy . . .the original amebo 
I saw the [i]German-lover-baby-mama [/i]thread . . .all i got to say is that u are the best amebo in town,getting and feeding us,your accomplices updates on stories u post even as far back as 1 year ago.
You simply deserve this award . . olofofo get level and u def. belong to the highest class of tatafos   

Strange!
Does the woman have a man;husband,boyfriend? . . .

@Poster,Onitsha traditional marriages are usually very affordable,the babes are simply the best,congrats
Reach a compromise,do the trad at Onitsha and have ur white wedding at Aba.This might be unpopular with arguments like its ur day and wedding but pls,neither u nor ur wife wud love the aggro that wud accompany this lil'monster problem if its not treated with wisdom and compromise.
You and urs have been looking forward to ur wedding,so also is ur mum.Find a way to squeeze her in,have the white wedding at Aba.
Talk with ur wife . . .I hope she wud understand.Goodluck in ur marriage.

dayokanu:
Hopefully men too whose gf have been sleeping with them, giving her money for food, clothes, and even help her with fees would see themselves as being used when it doesn't work out.

For me, Dont give and dont take

. . .Now its not abt u,its abt the OP,what shld she do?continue giving or   Be honest.
Giving is cool but it becomes stu.pidity and foolis.hness when one party is doing all [/b]the giving.It wud be difficult to say if ur partner is with you cos he/she loves you or cos he/she sees u as a meal ticket.
IMO,there are so may ways to encourage and be there for your man when the chips are down and giving [b]okpurukpu ego _{chunks of money} is not even among,biko. . . But then If the OP is comfy giving,i wud say more grease to her elbows.

spikedcylinder:
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hahahaha,na D'banj una do like dis?

wow.Just seeing this thread.
Chakula,u are doing a good job,Im reading from page 1,wud probably take some time for me to catch up with u.
Salam.

*bookmarked*

Andre Uweh:
Iwa Akwa is initiation into adulthood. No gender prohibitions though predominantly male oriented.

OK

Akhenaten,where do u get this pics? . . .They are lovely,reminds me of growing up.
Do u have pics of Izaga,Ulaga and Adanma.
I remember the myth then abt Izaga,it was said to come out from[i] onu akpusi(ant hill),[/i]we all believed,its possible i still do . . lol

LMAO

mygirrl:
hello please this is the first topic i am posting on this forum i've got an issue that is seriously disturbing me. i've got a friend who got married sometime ago but right now she is experiencing some issues with her husband(physical abuse) recently she moved out of her husband's house and a friend of mine was telling me to call her and advise her to go back to her husband's house. i am quite close to her but the problem is this,  is it ok for me to call her and advice her or don't you guys think that she might take offence since she did not open up to me in the first place

Unsolicited advice is of the devil . . ._{Osewa seun}
Seriously,your GF is yet to confide in you,all u have now is hearsay.If u call her to advice her,first thing that wud ring in her head is that u guys have made her condition your latest gossip news.
If she is truly your friend or she sees u as a friend,she ought to have personally told u her problem.
You can just call her randomly and see if she wud tell u anything . . .then u can advice her.
@Topic,Its not wrong for a single girl to advice her married female friends.

dayokanu:
^^ I also hope all guys too can take a cue and stop giving their girlfriends money all in the name of love bullcrap

See dis guy follow dey yarn opata hia . . .Ol'boy no let me open your dirty nyash hia 
@Topic,Any relationship whereby one person is doing all the giving and the other on the receiving end is not healthy.
Food however is nothing but loaning out money  when we are not married . . .Chukwu ekwela ihe ojoo,Never!!!
When u are down financially,mine is to encourage u to do side runs/jobs ,feed u,get u those basic necessities(when i can afford) and lol . . .good s.ex to keep u going but money . . . hahahahaha,what jokes 
I wont expect money from a BF either but If he gives . . .

Ivbade:
A friend came to me one evening and was bitter about what her 5year old daughter told her. The husband , which is the girl's father, works in a Bank and was transfered to a location outside Lagos at the time she knew about the incident. The 5year old daughter has a baby brother of 7months. According to her, when the mum was still carrying the brother's pregnancy, she was out to the market one afternoon when the Dad who was supposed to be at home alone with her, took her in and tried to penetrate her. He put her on the bed , took off her panties and was inserting his manliness into her private part. Being a little girl of 5years, she could not resist him and also was told by the dad not to tell her mum. Now the man has been transfered and the daughter has spoken out to her mum. The woman is furious but confused on how to go about the matter. What do you think can be done in such a situation?

OMG What is this world becoming? Gross.
The lil'girl shld be taken to see a doc. immediately that way u can be sure if shes been tampered with sexually.
If she could keep such a thing in her mind for sometime,shes hurt and carrying an emotional scar,think counseling for her.
If the doctors can prove that the girl has been tampered with sexually,please call the man on phone and ask him to come back home asap.The wife shld not accuse the husband upfront but she can start by . . .I came back and noticed our girl was walking awkwardly,took her to the hospital and its been proved shes been sexually active,im wondering what could have happened,did anyone come calling when i was away etc . . .take it up from there.
She shld observe her husband well well,2 things he wud either deny or confess.
If he confesses,he must have to go seek help . . .personally it wud take Gods grace for me to forgive or trust him again.
If he deny . . .throw it at his face.Our baby said its You,simple!!!!Jail shld be his next destination.
If a man can r.ape his daughter . . .who then is safe from him?

^^na u sabi,market man.

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tpia1:
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like many of us nigerians, he just to hit the gym a little, that's all.

doesnt make him gay.

finito.

lmao.@OP,where is D'banjs pics ?

Lovely.

See Handsome men with kissable lips
Could it be that Iwa akwa is same as[b] Iba nmuo[/b] in Onitsha Though that one is strictly for males.

Loving this thread.
Missed this years' Ekpe.
Ekpe ohuhu is my favorite. Mbiarabia laa 

[quote author=aloy/emeka link=topic=579786.msg7478823#msg7478823 date=1294373955]You don't know for sure whether effeminate men are straight or in the closet, do you?. He could be gay but the circumstances around him will not let him come out of the closet. Coming out may also affect his business.[/quote]Na wao for nld analysts.
Abeg wetin dey suggest that this guy "might" be bisexual for una eyes cos im not seeing it . . his profession,chubby looks or

patsucess:
Comedians 'I go dye' and his colleague 'I go save' were yesterday beaten by Soldiers at a PDP rally in Warri, Delta State.

The Rally had prominent dignitaries in attendance including  President  Goodluck Jonathan and security was water tight, Soldiers, SSS men, mobile policemen , the Joint Military Task force was on full alert to prevent  any breach of peace owing to the incessant bomb attacks, Our Source couldn't immediately ascertain what led to the assault on the comedians but people the  claimed that the Comedians looked and acted like ruffians and all effort to identify themselves to the Military men fell on deaf ears.

Ace Comedian, Ali Baba was said to be bitter about the Fiasco and have complained to the Organisers

source?mouth to mouth gist abi beer parlour tori 
They acted and looked like ruffians,explain please.

toba:
^ole. I'll give u a nice babe as gift. shes a virgin& very pretty

Dayo is married to my sis,take ur virgin somewhere else.

Depends largely on the man himself and the location . . .
A lady that enters Ariaria/Idumota,spots a trader she admires and goes further to woo him shld expect:
To be laid and tossed away.
To be outright rejected and labeled ashawo.
Generally speaking,its not too bad to give a man leads and encourage him,the thing is knowing when and where to draw the line especially with our Black brothers . . they are too quick to read meanings into such things and b4 u know it,they are screaming "shes desperate"