Politics › Re: Goodluck Jonathan's Kids Are In School Mine Is At Home! by ifyalways(f): 11:54am On Jan 20, 2011 |
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Education › Re: Unilag Churns Out 119 First Class Graduates In A Year by ifyalways(f): 11:45am On Jan 20, 2011 |
I can't stop lol-ing. This Sagamite eeeeeeeeeee,chai  @Thread,Congrats to them.Sorting or not,it aint easy grad. with First class. |
Family › Re: Are Parents Not Suppose To Be Friend To Their Children? by ifyalways(f): 11:37am On Jan 20, 2011 |
No long thing.The children wud survive,someone somewhere wud play that role .Life plays cause and effect perfectly,hope they can deal with the effects and results without crying "we were working our a55 off to give u the best education,good life,bla bla" in future when the kids get it wrong. It wont kill their ambitions or career if one of them compromise and sacrifice to spend more time at the homefront. |
Family › Re: Between A Male House Help And A Female House Help, Which Would You Want by ifyalways(f): 11:27am On Jan 20, 2011 |
[quote author=koko_oro link=topic=589320.msg7567380#msg7567380 date=1295509578]Abeg, this is trying to tear a family apart. Wife wants a male help while hubby won't hear any of it.[/quote]Stay without help then as u both don't trust urselves.jeez Besides,i know your idea of help is a teen that wud act as cook,laundry-man,cleaner,gardner,driver,child-minder,messenger all for a paltry sum . . .child abuse.You guys shld do it all urself . Ehen,I thought your wife is staying at Abuja with her beloved FG appointment?oooh I see,she dont wanna leave u all alone with a female help.Una don settle dat issue  If she don't play her part as wife and mother,def. another woman wud. |
Family › Re: Wife Sleeps On Same Bed With A Pal, can I trust her? by ifyalways(f): 11:21am On Jan 20, 2011 |
ugosly: Goodstory line,do let me know wHen u are ready 2shoot d movie,I'd like 2play d characta of d helpless friend afraid of the dark and dont 4gt 2 get a very sexy lady 2 play d wife.  |
Technology Market › Re: Nokia N8 For Sale At Low Costs by ifyalways(f): 11:05am On Jan 20, 2011 |
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Islam › Re: Curious About Islam,facts About Islam. by ifyalways(op): 10:59am On Jan 20, 2011 |
uplawal: Allah knows best. . . . loving this. |
Islam › Re: Curious About Islam,facts About Islam. by ifyalways(op): 10:56am On Jan 20, 2011 |
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Islam › Re: Curious About Islam,facts About Islam. by ifyalways(op): 10:55am On Jan 20, 2011 |
azharuddin: I was referring to a hadith where the Prophet says not to follow fortune tellers.
As for the so called hadith posted above i have never heard of it. I dont see any hadith number posted. I think i will end this conversation about this matter. Too much fitna going on here. I dont want to take part in it.
Instead i will post you a small lesson in Arabic. Okay.Thanks. Lets see if anyone else can come up with a different explanation then.  |
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Islam › Re: Curious About Islam,facts About Islam. by ifyalways(op): 10:37am On Jan 20, 2011 |
Lagosboy,what happened to your post?Spam got it  azharuddin: That hadith refers to fortune tellers.
Our Prophet(saw) was not a fortune teller. He predicted the future based on what Allah taught him and commanded to convey. Such as the incidents going to happen when the Day of resurrection is near. Hadith said specifically "messenger of Allah" How wud Fortune tellers be referred to as messengers of Allah.  azharuddin: That hadith refers to fortune tellers.
Our Prophet(saw) was not a fortune teller. He predicted the future based on what Allah taught him and commanded to convey. Such as the incidents going to happen when the Day of resurrection is near.
Exam was a bit difficult, Insha Allah i will get through.
He he cant find your feet huh. Insha Allah all will go well. Amin. |
Islam › Re: Curious About Islam,facts About Islam. by ifyalways(op): 9:44am On Jan 20, 2011 |
uplawal: 8,Sahih Bukhary, Ayesha narrated that anyone who says the messenger of Allah knows the future is a liar.Yet we find so many hadith predicted future events that was narrated to be said by the Messenger.
And many more,pls prove me if am wrong. Hmmn. Can anyone shed more light on this hadith please. @Tbaba Salams,Azharuddin,Happy to see u around,hope your exams went well.Salams  azharuddin: @ify Dont mind me asking this. How is learning to read Quran in Arabic going for you? Did those cds and softwares help you? The best help is My husband.Im still at the basics level,haven't made much progress.Im at my last trimester with a baby so im off and on,trying so hard to find my feet.  |
Islam › Re: What Does Islam Say About by ifyalways(f): 9:35am On Jan 20, 2011 |
The Pill as in contraceptives or the normal pill? Wa alekuim Salam. |
Culture › Re: Ekpe 2010/2011 by ifyalways(f): 9:25am On Jan 20, 2011 |
ezeagu: Okonoko is a related but separate society that is almost completely Igbo. Ekpe, meaning Leopard in Efik is another society that exists over a wider area. The Ekpe in Umuahia was for the most part only introduced in the 20th century by a lady and in some villages it was introduced as early as the late 1980's so Okonko is actually superior to Ekpe in places like Umuahia, even some elders do not recognise Ekpe and have fought against it. Okonko people do not perform as frequently as Ekpe people do, but they are active in the funerals of ndi ichie and their members, new yam festivals and other major Omenala events. So you can say Okonko is the Igbo version of Ekpe. Any village person can gbala Ekpe, but only initiates are allowed to follow Okonko processions.
Okonko is a society of men, members who talk about Okonko rites to non-initiates and women are cursed. Okonko is like Ekpe, only that they do not have a regular festival.
This is an Okonko masquerade from Umuahia (don't know which community or village).
[img]http://mccoy.lib.siu.edu/jmccall/jones/igbo/ekpe11.JPG[/img] G. I. Jones Imeela. |
Culture › Re: Ekpe 2010/2011 by ifyalways(f): 9:22am On Jan 20, 2011 |
ezeagu: Ohuhu-Umuahia Ekpe In the Umuahia Ekpe the festival is danced on the villages market day centred on the villages square, the night before the Ekpe festival is used for practice and is called nchichi ekpe and this night is for the ekpe people and the drummers in the ogba. The oke ishi ekpe is the president of Ekpe and leads the other maskers through the night. Wood is burnt so that the people who carry the Ekpo (ndi na fu ekpo) can rub on their skin to make the masquerades darker. On Ekpe day the nkpo na ala (Igbo explosives) are exploded to start the Ekpe usually in the afternoon depending on how quick guests arrive from other villages. The Ogba music plays in the little makeshift roofless hut where no one but male members of the village can enter. The black Ekpo masquerades are the first of a variety of masquerades to come out and they act as evil spirit police. These Ekpo are dangerous and carry whips with them, their masks are big and sometimes have multiple faces or hinged jaws that open and close (an Ibibio influence). They also have male village members who follow them singing music (usually the ekpos theme music) and usually carry canes as well along with cutlasses. The Ekpo come from different parts of the village but all must pass through and dance in the village square.
The next masquerade to appear is Eru or Nwa Eru, a feminine masquerade. The dancer has a carved head or carved full figure of an Owumiri on his head and many wrappers tied around their waist. The dancer dances iborokiti which is a sort of waist dance that Umuahia people are known for. This masquerade is not violent and women accompany it but it barges past people in its way when dancing. When Eru reaches the market or village square the loud ogba music stops and the Odumodu music accompanying eru is all that is heard. After dancing around the village square (like in the video in the first post) the Eru leaves for the rest of the village to dance in peoples compounds. All Ekpe masquerades enter peoples compounds and collect money and usually stop cars passing by.
Red danger flags are flown twice through the lively village square by an Ekpe member over a few minutes then nkpo na ala is blown again. The last masquerade to appear is the president himself, oke ishi ekpe. No one but male village members and special male guests are allowed to see the oke ishi ekpe. The masquerade is accompanied by male members of the village with a larger wrapper hung in front of him so no uninvited people can see him. The oke ishi ekpe and the followers are usually armed with whips and machetes. The oke ishi ekpe is covered from head to toe, sometimes carries a carved head, it carries a special knife and a carved head as a headdress. If this headdress is taken by another village then the village cannot dance Ekpe for a certain amount of years. The oke ishi ekpe dances in the village square (usually with chaos of other villagers and visitors running away) and visits peoples houses marching around the village. After the oke ishi ekpe has done his procession he goes near the ogba where a special line of omu is hung and cuts it ending the Ekpe, nkpo na ala is blown again.
[center] An Umuahia Ekpo
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I will try and do the Calabar one next. Correct guy. Now i know the real reason behind the famous "Mbiaraba laa" warnings.The Oke ishi ekpe is highly guarded and so anything can happen once its out.Visitorw,women and kids are warned beforehand to start heading home or to safety before it is unleashed.Nice |
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Celebrities › Re: Dakore Egbuson And Her Fiance (Olumide Akande) by ifyalways(f): 8:43pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
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Celebrities › Re: Genny's Reponses On Teju Baby Face Show Last Nite by ifyalways(f): 6:27pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
^indeed,esp the always purported quote from Genny :"  'banj has a good heart" Good heart must be the new word for sexy or someone u admire  |
Food › Re: Can Someone Teach Me How To Make Owo Soup And Also How To Make Ukhodo by ifyalways(f): 6:18pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
Okiez. I wud give u the okhodo(sp) recipe after u must have tried owo soup.  |
Politics › Re: Gej Lied About Being Loyal To His Wife - What Other Lies Are In The Offing by ifyalways(f): 6:14pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
^ n. 1. Used formerly as a courtesy title for a woman in authority or a mistress of a household. 2. 1. A married woman; a matron. 2. An elderly woman. 3. Slang. A woman. 4. Chiefly British. 1. A woman holding a nonhereditary title conferred by a sovereign in recognition of personal merit or service to the country. 2. The wife or widow of a knight. 3. Used as the title for such a woman. [Middle English, from Old French, from Latin domina, feminine of dominus, lord, master.] Read more: http://www.answers.com/topic/dame#ixzz1BVCYPPWr |
Culture › Re: Egbuson by ifyalways(f): 6:11pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
Abagworo: Why is it that anytime something has to do with Igbo it becomes tribalised by another Nigerian?
Bayelsa bearing names that are spelt the same with Igbo is more noticeable when you actually visit Bayelsa and view names of places.A good example is Otueke which is both in Abia and Bayelsa state.
Ijaw language is entirely different from Igbo language but some words were inter-changed due to trade.Words like "Ama" feature in most town names across the two groups.
2ndly some Ekpeyes are native of Bayelsa and Ekpeyes are a sister group to Igbos.They are however a minute population. Mbiama,Amarata etc . . makes sense  |
Family › Re: Husband Slapped Me Over An Argument by ifyalways(f): 6:03pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
^Uju,omo Ibo na ekene gi. Dayo,Toyosi dey throway salute. anyway,make una "[i]sample" [/i]b4 tying the knot . . . its always safer and better,less stress.  |
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Islam › Re: Curious About Islam,facts About Islam. by ifyalways(op): 5:47pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
alimat 2: Yes u can giv out Quran to Non Muslims but the English version without Arabic text is preferable Thank you and ofcourse Im considering the English version. Lagosboy: You are too good 
It is still flying and remember it in your duas to always land and cuddle safely in its nest.  count on us,always.  |
Politics › Re: Gej Lied About Being Loyal To His Wife - What Other Lies Are In The Offing by ifyalways(f): 5:45pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
appletango: Is this woman really a Dame? What is her lineage? Dep Gov of Anambra state is a dame. oyb: ^grand tabon tabon 1 of the federal republic of nigeria  whats in a dame sef?It could be a mere housewife,mistress,teacher or title(wife of a knight bla bla bla) Btwn,She and Virgin Etiaba have something else in common,they are both educationists . . .connect the dots. |
Food › Re: Can Someone Teach Me How To Make Owo Soup And Also How To Make Ukhodo by ifyalways(f): 5:32pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
^aiight dear. Me i call it lazy man soup though its very delish.Rustle up some oil,garri,fish and kaun and u are good to go  |
Culture › Re: Ekpe 2010/2011 by ifyalways(f): 5:27pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
^I have overheard elders talk abt the Okonko,what is it all abt? Make u try hafu ala bekee small ga gbatukwanu ekpe.  |
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Politics › Re: Gej Lied About Being Loyal To His Wife - What Other Lies Are In The Offing by ifyalways(f): 4:47pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
[quote author=tpia* link=topic=588656.msg7563569#msg7563569 date=1295451885]patience has no children?  i thought she had two. so why didnt she adopt, btw.[/quote]Sorry,I shld have added biological,she adopted. Johhny however,has other children from another Bayelsa babe. |
Politics › Re: Gej Lied About Being Loyal To His Wife - What Other Lies Are In The Offing by ifyalways(f): 4:41pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
hercules07: Ify no support bad thing o, GEJ dey fire outside, accept it but do not condone it. There is no african woman that is happy that her husband has wondering eye, they just gba mo ara ni o. Accept and condone?what choice does she have? An African man to understand that the wife cant have babies and wont look for alternatives?Please don't deceive urself or waste my cyber time abeg you ooh. Good deal she got,she has an idea of where those babies came from and shes still the only one sharing a roof with the man,fair enough. debosky: I am a bit lost here. . . .how did y'all discover some of the kids aren't Dames? Patience does not have a child. . . |
Culture › Re: Should Igwes/obas Go To Jail In Nigeria?: Vote by ifyalways(f): 4:32pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
Where is Dayokanu,na him village head dey rot for prison so @Topic,why not?immunity cos they are royals?abegi . |
Culture › Re: Ekpe 2010/2011 by ifyalways(f): 4:29pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
Lekwe Ekpo  I have celebrated diverse Ekpes and i tell y'all,Ekpe Ikwuano is for kids while Ohuhu's is the real deal.lol Mbiarabia laaaaaa |