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You just discussed the flesh of the matter. OP is obviously not happy that her husband told his mum about the land. I don't know why women usually just want to be enemies with their MIL. She used her own mouth to say her mother in law is interested in buying land and she is annoyed that the guy told his mum. Madam, calm down, your mother Inlaw cannot drag your husband with you. Even if she does, she cannot enter the oda room with him. Instead learn to understand your husband and communicate with him.

ReneeNuttall:
This story is not complete, you didn't tell us why u refused going with ur hubby and his mum,since u are the one that initiated the idea of going to check the land....it seems u are not in good terms with ur mother in-law...pls am not justifying what ur husband said,in fact he was very wrong to av used dat word.

But then again,u ought to have know that men are emotionally attached to their mothers,while women to their dad,hence u shouldn't have denied going since the mom is going too.Also the way u replied him,wen u told him u are not going since the mom is accompanying him,might have made him get angry....just my thought though...keep praying and hoping for the best.

It was small money oo. About 36k we room. It was a face me I gave you apartment. There were four tenants.

bebe2:
Pls tell me it's a joke, one year rent

Of how much? To how many tenants ?

I was in the same situation two years ago and what I did was to pay all the tenants one year rent each. My case was pretty funny, the owner of the house was not the Ibe collecting not the rent, it was his girl friend who was collecting the rent. And when the tenants knew that he was going to sell the house, they stopped paying. Thankfully, I had a building engineer to guide me. I simply gave them all one year rent and gave them two weeks to move out else I will remove the roof. They all moved out. So while you are on your right, to avoid trouble and to save you time, support the guy with whatever you can but do not allow him stay, that guy na future trouble

bebe2:
He said he can't leave, he asked me where do I expect him to get 500k that he will used to secure another property? . That he has a wife and 2 young children children and. Any afford to move.

The guy is crazy ooo

My brother, it is now dangerous to be granted an all expense paid scholarship in Nigeria. It may just be another word for 'stranded'.

OfficialAwol:
Nigeria is just too funny to be called a country.

You placed people on scholarship and then you wake up one day and put a hold to it. Saner minds would seize taking in fresh candidates and see off the old ones before putting an end to the program. But naija got to be naija.

Maybe that student is a son of a fisherman in one Niger Delta Creek, with no where to turn to.

Oh what a country!

I was confused at first when I read that she does not jump from one bed to another. Then I realized that she means she just a in just one bed (davido's in this case). After husmping on one bed, she did not jump to another. Look baby mama.

skillzbae:
You are not a girl who jump from one bed to another but u slept with him on the first day u met him. Sometimes I wonder how silly some girls can be. U told him to use condom he refused yet u still slept with him. Sorry babes but u sound cheap and irritating.. Let me guess, when u discovered he was Davido, U quickly calculated what u might gain if u get pregnant. It's a pity that our generation has lost its morals. U beta get a job and face your child and stop disgracing that poor child. N. B: I dislike davido and most so called celebrities so don't think I support him.

I think we need to fast and pray for this second niger bridge. Bridge that will benefit the whole nation, when exactly will we complete it? Nawa oo

Did you say 30? I was thinking 1500 Dudebia riding cars for he position, earning the salary and then uniform is now the big deal? I now for oga CG

smartblu:
Col. Hameed Ali answers to the comptroller General of Customs title. He lives in the official residence. He takes the pay. He uses the official cars and takes ALL the privileges of the office. But to wear the Uniform, I think 30 SANS would need to defend that. What a Country!!!

Them need to do expose on that person. Always on point with the hilarious comments.

chiscodedon:
I have always trusted the dude in charge efcc twitter handle... That's serves melaye ryt ,always making noise and blabbing in the house

Pre 2005 was crazy in LASU too. Boys will collect 25k from their parents and pay 250. Even the bike fee to go pay school fees was almost your school fee so when you want to go pay your fee, you will just look for 3 other people who are your friends and pay 1k for the four of you. So your bike money will not waste.

chinybelle:
Uniben was pretty cheap as at then
25k : 5k or less sef

Fees went up from 250 to 25,000 in 2005.

chinybelle:
Past is when?
Uniben as at 2006 paid 5k school fees
Even up to 2011 they were paying not more than 7k

You no fit drive this kain car without armed convoy now. Any car wey come too close dey find trouble. I doubt if the guy go dey drive am out sef. Diamonds are forever, diamond crusted Royce too must last forever

Donald3d:
I will roast the person .I no fit even buy motor wey go they make my heart cut every minute .
Thats why I dont have an Iphone , I no fit they touch my pocket every minute , besides there is nothing so special about all this things jare .
Most people wey there buy all this expensive stuffs don't use their functionalities to the maximum

In the past? I paid 250 in LASU.

chinybelle:
Uniben was so cheap in the past..like 5k per year
Today I heard it up to 14k but still very cheap compared to other federal institutions

For Argentinan visa, you pay you after your visa approval.

jayfierce:
It was when I was asking for receipt of a fee I was yet to pay that he remembered I had not paid. had to wait till the next day for banks to open so I could pay the visa fees.

What I am thinking is how someone can apply for a Visa and not pay Visa fee at the point of application.

Nawa for you oo. Malee dey read nairaland oo, no let her send British royal guards to dey pursue you o.

Amarabae:
I find it funny how a 70+yrs old man is still a Prince, Queen Elizabeth should vacate the throne for him. what kind of greediness is that.
Goodmorning.

Very true. At the end of the day, we do not have an idea of how 'his' car got into her garage. I'd rather not comment on something I know thing about.

x240:
Your plate number is your personal property. That's the way it is since 5 years ago. If you sell a car, you have to remove the plate number because the plate number is registered to you and not to the car. So the case of him selling it is a lie.

They do reveal the identity of car owners if you view code. After this story broke, I checked for my cars and I saw my names listed. I still do my believe the story that pastor Sulieman slept with Stephane, but that car was registered to him. He could have sold it to someone else, he could have gifted her and he could have given her after having a three some with her (I hope not)

kenney222:
I understand you quite perfectly, However false evidence is false evidence, Lagos state Mvaa Websiste does not reveal private information about car owners, it never has. Saying otherwise to sell a story is libel and a suit may be in play. like is said i'm not going to defend previous accusation only highlight the falsified evidence behind this one

The report said he was arrested and died under interrogation. Looks like a murder to me. No matter his crimes, is it not better to ask how and why he died? Well him sef don gain the same meal him dey dish out to people.

Codes151:
For!? What did he do?? Don't get it wrong! I just don't trust security or people in uniform! That dude fit don d run things with them and sth leads to sth they decide to close his chapter... hmmm just saying

Yep, so at that 'last time', we were going to be refused, we contacted our contact person in our destination who went to complain at their ministry of foreign affairs. They called the ambassador who summoned us to Abuja on a public holiday, issued the visas in my presence and forget to collect visa fee. It was when I was asking for receipt of a fee I was yet to pay that he remembered I had not paid. I had to wait till the next day for banks to open so I could pay the visa fees. So I was not really denied that visa but I was going to be denied if I had not taken the steps I took.

OmoBendel24:
#Synchrony.... The first time, and yet there was a last time? Anyways, this is Canada! Get your acts right, leave no stone unturned "underratingly" in your next application. Regards

I'd show this to her. Thanks

ladylco:
Sir there is always a first time! this only helps to guide and make one do things appropriately. The first time I and my siblings were refused France Schengel visa, I was called on the phone by the Consular who apologized and asked that I come to the embassy with my passport and that of my sister, I sent my sister there our visa were issued less that 10mins when she got there.

So tell your wife not to hurt anymore, its one of those things. As someone here mentioned, just do things the right way and you will get the desired result.

In addition, you can include in your letter to the embassy that you wife is hurting as a result of the refusal hence her decision not to reapply alone with you, as she has never been refused visa and this refusal came as a big blow to her history of visa application.

Am very optimistic that if you do things right this time you will get the visa, you wife may even be called to come for hers even though she didnt apply.

All the best.

Thanks for your advice. My wife is still hurt with the refusal, this is the first time we were refused visa. The last time it happened, the ambassador almost got sacked. So she said she is no longer interested in going. I am also in touch with my people in canada, they have resent the invitation and sponsorship letters. I want to notarized the photocopies of our landed properties documents and marriage certificates. Just in case the VO was skeptical when we submitted them at first.

ladylco:
This time in your application, ensure you give detailed explanations on your PURPOSE OF VISIT and TRAVEL HISTORY, also try to convince the VO that all document are authentic and verifiable. Try as much as you can to defend your previous reason(s) for refusal. You can explain each of your previous trips and tell the VO that never on any of the trips did you violate any immigration rule/law neither did you stayed beyond the period you were permitted to stay. I think you should also apply with your wife only if she is included in the sponsorship letter and letter of reference from the organization. If she is not and you really want to apply with her, explain why you want her to accompany you on the trip and that you will bear the expenses for her travel even though she has the capacity to bear any of her travel expenses and include documents that will back her financial/economic Ties as well.

All the best

I did push for the documents, but the stress of organizing the conference was too much. And I was weary of the 120 application days. Anyways, I have the documents now.

jayfierce:
What you just talked about is futuristic and falls under "Purpose of Visit". Travel history talks about past trips. Since purpose of visit is not ticked I have to believe that its because of a past event e.g. you "needlessly" traveling with your wife for past business conferences.

Getting a Canadian Visa is not sheer luck or an act of random occurrence. It's all about purpose and proper planning. I thought you head the operations of the organization in Nigeria? Why didn't you push for the documents before applying?

And I am sure you felt cool then right? Like this is some expensive shii. How things change.

pendusky:
Nice development...

I still remember when I boarded Aero with 5k in 2010.

I applied Feb 7th. It took a month and yes, it was paper application.

Anonymoushack:
iguita,pls when did you apply so we can get a sense of how long your application took and was it paper based

I support this guy even for presidency

Thank you oga boss. I think I agree with Kokorita though. I am supposed to be sponsored on the trip but was yet to get the sponsorship letter. The organization had also not sent the name of the hotel we will stay in Toronto. The same organization sponsored all of my previous trips and I put that proof in my application. I plan to reapply before the end of the week though.

jayfierce:
I believe they ticked "Travel History". This doesn't mean that you haven't travelled. It could mean that they have issues with the way you travelled.

Hello folks, I picked up my passport yesterday from the VSF with a rejection letter. Let me explain my application. I am planning to visit Toronto by end of April with my wife for a conference organized by an global volunteer organization that I head the Nigerian operations. On the rejection letter, they said we do not have sufficient travel history. Meanwhile, I have visited Tanzania, Ghana, South Korea, South Africa and Argentina. I also have transit visas for Kenya, South Africa, China and Egypt. My wife has visited South Korea, South Africa, Dubai, Argentina and USA. She also has transit visas for South Africa, China and Egypt (We usually travel together). We have also never been rejected for a visa application so this is a big hit. My wife now hates Canada (lol) and has refused to reapply. I am reapplying because the organization has already paid for my flight and hotel and I can't let this waste.

I do not know what we did not do right but I plan to reapply before the end of the week. I will be happy if anyone can give me pointers of what I may have done wrong and what I can improve on in my next application.

Thanks

@Ibis and @Ugosample, please share your experiences, I am planning a road trip for about 20 people in May 2017

Ugosample:
@ ibis, please can you share your experience? it would be useful to me. Thanks

You have spoken well bro.

Tazdroid:
Forget all those complex and complicated government and CBN policies. Honesty is still the best policy

Dog flints his pet? Insert confused emoji here.

AkinPhysicist:

Wait, did I see my area in that list? Una dey give us light before? See these jokers oo.

Still cant get over this guy's death. I dont know him from Adams but why do we keep killing ourselves? Why do we kill our promising ones? This guy just started life, just started building a family and then some 'insert insult here' had to sell fake drugs to him? My goodness.