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I can only imagine. I have a niece like that.... And super intelligent too..

enigma2007:
Exactly.. I dodge my daughter now
.. She can talk up a storm..

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Medics007:
Hi everyone, please I need a help from people who struggle with stage fright and won. Facing the audience is a very big headache for me, which seems to be very impossible to overcome, so whenever I have to do it, I must take drugs to control my heartbeat, which I want to stop taking now. Please I need advice on on how to easily overcome stage fright without using drugs. Thanks in anticipation.

Not an expert but your son looks fine to me.. I think he needs time. When he starts, na you go run.

Callmemike:
yes. I have that. I use it to teach him. Lappy? Am considering it. More cos he does not allow my lappy to rest . And he uses it well too

10/10

chivic:
Madam,he is not talking about empathy here but election things

Why road safety no dey this your pix? Abi them ko need safety lessons?

buffalowings4:
Enemies of progress
Dem want to run down every online business.

Like they did to Konga

Sister, you've failed.

He even try
If na me na your room I go enter o
That your big breasts needs massaging
If I no see my money na war o
Ijakadi lori bed

Abi you never hear say them dey reverse transfer
So I no get work
I go come dey find you upamdan for payment
He good like that he stayed till 4am

How many women do not have this reputation today?

NwaAmaikpe:



This is exactly what Late Mrs Josephine Okoye and Jude complained about.
This Lola isn't wifable.
She was too experienced for Peter
Too old for him.

But Peter didn't and wouldn't see.
Still shocked thay anyone will marry someone with such a long history.
Someone whose register has been marked by so many.

The worst thing that can happen to a man is to spread his wife's thighs and mentally see 'Kola was here', Razaq's base' or 'Fatai's dinning table' inscribed all over it.

What is the difference between giving and receiving for a woman?

Utchgirl:
Maje is blessed among women !

peter Okoye wont like dis....

Lola our wife .....it's better to giv than to receive.

NwaAmaikpe biko say somtin !

NwaAmaikpe is a bae !

No no no, that is not a sin... The only sins here are pastors going all the way to reach out to the unsaved. Even Daddy Freeze that is discrediting the gospel is not a sin... I pity the yeye Daddy

traeces:
This guy is always criticizing and insulting pastors over everything, yet he abused and drove out his wife and children and is living with another man's wife. These are only a few of the many unchristlike things about him so I wonder where he gets his moral justification from.

Wait, did Baba not order IGP to relocate to Benue? Them wan share this man into 17 pieces?

Are people lying that this guy does not pay salary? Abi why leave unpaid salaries to be building statues and doing father Christmas in February

Una wan put baba in trouble. If he visits, there will be the issue that he did not visit Benue. If he does bit bit, there will be the issue that he is unemotional as he did not visit Benue and Yobe

When Baba Suwe is your mentol.. lol

thesicilian:
There are different forms of illness.

Killing the leaders ho? By lacing poison on her nipple again? She go hia am oo

oyetunder:
SOME women...even men think that life is just about the instruments they have between their legs. The Cheater is dead...the saint killed the sinner. MAY the saint enjoy a life without death. Let Her help her society to kill all the leaders that have cheated on those who elected them to be good leaders.

hahaha, na God still helep your guy now, thru Maj Gen whosoever... Just as God helep madam Billionaire... #Famzing... lol

Castroii:
ok, Thank God for your life.........................

I remember years back when me and 3 of my friends were seeking admission into the Nigerian Defense Academy, then one of us who was the shortest among us then and was not even up to 1.65m(the required height) and wasn't even as fit as me finally got admitted into NDA......... when we asked him "guy how manage, how come say as you short reach, NDA still collect you", the guy replied " o boy na God ooo nothing else, even me self surprise"................... it was later we discovered that the guy's contact was directly from Gen. Edet Okon, the then NDA commandant.

10/10...

HigherEd:
"Meanwhile, Bishop David Oyedepo is planning to add another one to his fleet.


I would tell you that there is little wrong in the prosperity that Oyedepo preaches

1) I have never seen Oyedepo on TV asking for anybody to give to his ministry, schools etc..... Which Benny does.

2) I have seen Oyedepo's car before(the one he drives himself). He has been using the same silver car for about three years or so. While I don't know the model, it is a very average car. Seen his house too and sitting room - very very average.

3) As per jet, Benny does not have 6,000 branched churches, Schools to administrate over, Oyedepo does. Ghana branches of Living Faith alone is 150 scattered everywhere. In one particular month he visited 27 countries hence his ministry requires it not as a luxury but a quick means of transportation. So hey it depends on how large and centralised a ministry is and living faith leadership appears to be very centralised.

4) Oyedepo always talks about the limitations of the prosperity gospel but ppl never listen to that they only pick what they want to pick. Even Kenneth Hagin once conformed that "there is a thin line between the permissible and the objectionable when it comes to issues of financial prosperity".

5) Oyedepo doesn't actually have 150 million USD in his account- he just believes it is an insult to equate the worth of a believer to a sum of 150 million.

6) I have visited all kinds of Churches and I tell you Offerings in WC is just once. Apart from special services.

7) If you like slander Oyedepo for preaching tithe or claim tithing is irrelevant. All I know is that Living Faith pays tithes of Billions to another large ministry in Nigeria every month. It takes a man of conviction to do that.

Now if there is anything that frustrates me about Bishop Oyedepo, it is that he refuses to care about his image or even lies put out there against him. Same for pa Adeboye. See how Joseph Prince quickly cleared himself from the yeye Forbes list. Now I am not bothered that Oyedepo and Adeboye are being insulted or mocked but my issue is how it can easily affect baby believers who are easily tilted. And if major pastors are left to be attacked consistently on social media, it is the root of Christianity that would shake
In years to come both the catholics, orthodox and Pentecostals would all suffer for all these unchecked attacks and backbiting within d church.


Lastly as a Christian I won't criticize any other Christian for using a jet because I know fully well that if I had the money and require it then I would buy it. Whatever is unlawful for the pastor is unlawful for every other christian. If a pastor can't be rich then all Christians can't be rich either, if a pastor can't own a jet then no christian can own a jet.

For me, I maintain that a private jet is nothing more different than a private car.

NB: Please don't bother quoting me for slander, if you don't agree just talk your own comot for NL, I no get time for argument till 2am midnite.

You read my mind. Lagos traffic cannot be this organized. Where Danfo? Where the car bashers wey dey yarn english to themselves?

Etihadstore:
To the guy above me, I truly doubt if that's Lagos because of the orderliness of those cars, no sight of danfo, Tata, Brt or even petrol tanker
Nba that's not lagos

Did you actually mention yoruba? I hope you are been sarcastic... Abi how e take be say na Yoruba get Nissan?

Nairalanddist:
I hope those easterners bragging about Innosson can now see that Yorubas also produce quality Nissan automobiles in Lagos. Yoruba leads others follow

It is a terminus. And like you said, it borders a couple of areas that are high traffic areas and its route too is a huge traffic laden one. So the crowd there can be crazy.

saints2:
Is this due to the crowd? It has many borders so I won't be surprised if there is an overflow of passengers.

Fully understood... I doubt if anyone understands the dude.

whitebeard:
I am just being sarcastic, only GOD knows what he is thinking rite now. Cause I heard NK officials canceled their planned meeting with pence at the last minute during this Olympics.

Fully understood... I doubt if anyone understand s the dude.

whitebeard:
I am just being sarcastic, only GOD knows what he is thinking rite now. Cause I heard NK officials canceled their planned meeting with pence at the last minute during this Olympics.

Why do you say so? Not questioning your comment bit trying to understand

whitebeard:
Kim would be so happy rite now.

This got me men. Drink at your own risk... Lol

Explorers:
When Putin offers some tea

So you had to give them the scope abi? Watch out for this comment on Monday.

desreek9:
By tomorrow or next, they would say the one GEJ commissioned is not Nigerian made but US made brought into the country as the first of its kind so there is a difference, then use PMB's own for campaign in 2019 as part of his achievement.

Get your pvc people, the dullard is all shades of wrong.

I think you should be glad you have access to this info. Your MD is a good person for not collecting your resignation. Nobody is indispensable. If you resign,
dude will fill your role, get a higher salary (migrating from contract to full staff) and they will employ someone to assist him resulting to lower expense for the company. For the guy to command such salary, he may even be better than you are and may qualify for the office you occupy. Advice? Like others gave advised, stay put. At least you are sure of very good salary increment in 6 months. Remember that if they were going to increase your salary, it will be about 20% but now, you can command 50% to 60% since your subordinate earns 40% more than you. Secondly, up your game so that you can negotiate in six months.

Sudokudon:
I got this job six months ago in the Northeastern part of the country. During the recruitment process, the recruiter told me the salary range for the job, which I was pleased with. I went for the interview and got the job within the specified salary range. A month after, the firm thought they needed someone to assist me. They found one, and he insisted he cannot earn less than a certain amount which is about 40% higher than my take home pay and this dragged for a while before they agreed to employ him but on a contract basis of one year. Although, he will not be entitled to certain benefits I am entitled to, yet, his net pay is still more than my gross salary.

When the firm saw that I got to know, the HR invited me for an extensive meeting, trying to pacify me. He told me he is just to work for a year and they might either not renew his contract or increase mine if they renew his. That our salary was based on negotiation and was still within the range of what the company can pay. Unfortunately, salary can only be reviewed once in 6 months.

My question is:

1. Can negotiations be arbitrary without a range by the company?

2. Can the firm, just because they want to recruit someone who is best fit for a role, pay the person higher than his/her boss?

3. Why should a company be using your last pay as a basis of what they want to pay instead of solely their own capacity to pay?

I submitted my resignation letter yesterday because I was finding it difficult working with him and because the issue keep haunting me. The MD refused to collect it though, but I am not looking back, I have moved on. I have gotten another offer in principle and I will be meeting with them next week for salary negotiation. I am thinking of the best possible way of negotiation, so that I won't be shortchanged again.

HR guys in the house

Cc: Jarus

And a woman is recording this and laughing in the background?

Ebal:
VIDEO: Woman Humilates Her Friend Publicly Over Borrowed Underwear

http://www.ebalsblog.com/2018/02/video-woman-humilates-her-friend.html

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Super true

hedonistical:
Life is an empty scam. There's nothing in it.
Beautiful woman, daughter to an ex senator, works in DPR (a goldmine), married with beautiful young children... Had a perfect life.... And then it all abruptly ends up in ashes (literally) at a random roadside on a random day?

We spend our our days chasing meaningless pursuits, but at the end of the day we die routinely and unexpectedly, leaving all our acquisitions, possessions, achievements, failures, worries, and problems behind. Those who knew us well enough to care about us would shed a tear or two for a day or two, and then we are completely forgotten. On to the next, life goes on... Such a miserable, useless, purposeless merry go round.

At the end of the day, don't take yourself or your pursuits too seriously. Nothing is worth it.

It's like saying you manufactured a computer buy coupling the parts. A drone is not a biggie any longer, I think we should look at the applications of drones, for instance drones in security, for delivery. We have seen drone been used for entertainment with video feedback.

Abbamizy:
Not relevant.. The drone was not manufactured.. Just bought in pieces and assembled

Your head correct. Just imagine what how unimportant that office is to you now..... It would have still been so if you had caused mayhem then.

alphaconde:
act of reason

actions should be careful thought out before execution. nothing pains more than proceeding on an act in error.

i once lost an election in the university and my supporters seeing that i was loosing ask that the elections be disrupted so that we can correct our errors in a rerun. at that moment in a matter of minutes i thought everything through and asked that they remain calm. from that moment i felt peace even as a loser.

i recall jonathans call to buhari

Just ask for the forensic section. It is upstairs. Try to not speak with anyone downstairs, they will add their cut to the fees. WHen you get upstairs, the lady there will tell you how much you are to pay and what to do.

Aideemkpong:
Iguita
Pls what do u do if u get 2 alagbon

You are outrageous. The complaint was that he did not speak, he spoke now and he is part of the problem. I'd the VP still speaks, he will also be part of the problem [b][/b]

Haganah:
Oyedopo go and sit down!!!

People like you are part of the problem. Your ostentatious lifestyle is the reason these people believe we are not serious about our worship.

Where is that short imp, the fuel station attendant, the VP, Buhari’s Abobaku?

Useless pastor! God has long cursed your type in the Bible.

Harvard of Nigeria don go shot. Wait small, e dey come.

jericco1:
hmm and no public uni.
where is the Harvard of Nigeria?