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Hmmmm

Oh, may his soul RIP

Irukabest:
please I need your contact I want you to supply
me gradeA palmoil oil from abia state

unfortunately, this is not the right time to source grade A.

You see that money? Na fight dey go use share am.

Engage a lawyer...

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

If i chase my wife out of our house, i can go and beg her to come back. If she pack out by herself, i will never never go and beg her!! You are lucky your own husband is even begging you. Imagine your father-in-law came to beg too and you refused! You have a problem!!

After few months from now, you will look back and regret while you didn't forgive your husband. You think you are young and you just forming buga, just wait until you get more matured.

I can see you took after your dad, he is even insisting that you don't go back. Ask him if he ever pushed your mum away.

hapheeyxz:
Chinedu David Chibundo

Nairaland username: Dedecrux's

Deactivated his account after he scammed me 21k meant for a Fan and Mirror which he posted on house clearance sales thread.

edit your post and put his account details so that it can be seen when you Google his name

This man should be arrested

Chai

Why do we always feel that any money from government is free money?

Creche

Abia state will test their own soon

No be small thing oh

waso12:
Well, robots are in vogue now, they are replacing human labor in manufacturing.

we now need a more sophisticated human labour to install, maintain and run the robots.

Ndo

Lalami3232:
Though I never eat this biscuit before sha, but I wish you success in more inventions. Oga and madam, if you really want to live your dream life, try to be self employed ooooo. Even if you fail or succeed, E go pay you pass to work under people for this 9ja. I dey advise everyone to work for people for sometime and later become self employed. If you no get any idea of how to be self employed, dive into programming.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "The day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go ****""

biscuit na invention? Hahahaha

Its over for OUK!!! He has done enough damage already

He needs to follow up with some medications so he won't relapse.

utenwuson:
Audu was the governor at that time, he was the one that negotiated with dangote, such information can be in his possession.

He can have a copy, but official copy will be gazetted properly. As a governor, he can't be the sole negotiator for the project, even If it is his personal project.

Funny how our brothers are enjoying this UGM thing

utenwuson:
It was report in some quarters that dangote even killed Audu cos he's the only one who knows everything about obajana cement factory.... Dangote is a fraud

information and details for a projects as big as Obajana are not kept by an individual.

Nazgul:
He was born in the village, he's a South Easterner. 95% of South Easterners are Christians, most churches in South Eastern villages are Catholic, Presbyterian, Methodist, Anglican.

These churches are not your random Pentecostal one man churches, they have and keep records dating back to the colonial era. All he needs to get is the name of the Rev who dedicated him and the rest would be solved.

You don't even need to get the name of the Rev. Just find out the church and your data will be pulled up

Travel back to village and ask your uncle's, aunties, cousins and village people. There must be someone born the same period you were born, and with that you can predict the exact day.

Creamypie:
This is computerized agbaro

Digitised Agbero

As an electrical engineer in the making, learn how to rewind electric motors.

Yes

Hmmm, let the power tussle continue...

ComrdDRS1:
waoooooooo this is great.
Mr. op I am interested in soap making.... like how much will it cost to get the kind of your type of equipment

Greetings ComrdDRS1, there is more to this than just the equipment. Depending on the capacity of machines you want to use, you should budget between 3million and 7 million for the machines alone, then other things...

enonamso:
Wow.. Did he pay you?

He paid but owing to the day I submitted my resignation, the expiry date was few days into a new month. The pay for the days were calculated and paid to me. I gave it out to a distressed junior staff and left. My boss was a good man but very difficult to work with

spy24:
You be hit man ?

no oh. Those guys were really hefty and big. I was scared and I started sounding polite and reasoning with them. Then I told them my name, and started asking them their own names, funny enough they mentioned their names thinking my hand don calm down. After getting their names on record, I showed them the phone and started shouting that if anyone come close, I will just post the video to Facebook. They all weak, even my boss. I just walked out gently and left.

Bwilliam:
WTF. A whole 3 months notice. What kind of work is that?

it's a pharmaceutical company. I was the manager and doubled as the Quality Control Manager. The Job needs experience and its the company policy that any senior staff gives a three months notice before leaving so they can get a replacement you can put through before leaving. The company can actually send you on a training but the last time they tried it, the manager left from the training place to a bigger firm in Lagos. In my own case, they didn't send me in a training, the brought the consultant down to the company to train me. Most people before me left unannounced but I wanted to act like a gentle man I am