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Olorididan:not too sure but i think it means, 'please do not put a curse on her' or 'Please don't place a curse on her' (yoruba translation). ![]() |
aw thanks hot-angel I loved nike4luvs' old signature, shame it was removed, but her new one still has that edge to it ![]() |
i think the most annoying is the one about Microsoft/AOL sending people a cheque if they forward the email. I still get that sent to me by some gullible people. That email has been doing the rounds since '99 (and i still haven't got the cheque ) |
Sesan2:Just to clarify, its not just the Yorubas, It applies to all groups in Nigeria, they're all ethnic groups not tribes. The word 'tribe' is a derogatory term. Great topic ![]() I think ododoman's account is a bit similar to what I've read as well, there seems to be various accounts of the relationship between the Edos and Yorubas, as a lot of the history was passed down orally its hard to tell myth from fact. Most accounts claim the Edos migrated from the east (could be Egypt) and the present day settlement was founded by a man called Ere. At a certain point in time (1300s) the cheifs impeached their leader and there was a lot of turmoil for some years. The cheifs then appealed to Ife to help them out. It is claimed the Yoruba prince Oranmiyan arrived and later married a local woman. Their son Eweka became the first Oba and the royal palace was built during his reign. In the past when an Oba of benin dies, it was customary to send his head to ife to have a portrait cast made. As regards to the 'Oduduwa' part i'm not too sure about ododoman's version as its quite different from what the Yorubas believe. @ododoman I was wondering if you knew a bit more about the the things that happen when the Oba dies, We stayed in Benin (late 70s) around the time the Oba died and i remember all the men had to shave their hair. Does this still happen ? |
Thought i was the only one watching Lost Does anyone have idea when the second series will start in the UK? |
True talk Ono, 'if you're not part of the solution then you must be part of the problem' |
luridguy:ROFL dude , the guy is already dead, he died in 1984 (was killed by his dad a day before his 45th birthday)Marvin Gaye (April 2, 1939 – April 1, 1984) |
Kokscity:true medube is on the ground and has first hand information about whats going on. But me self know that country like the back of my hand now. Anyway its all good fun, at the end of the day its all about putting our views across, its not about who is right or who is wrong ![]() Kokscity:No worries ![]() Kokscity:rofl nice one ![]() |
@@ Kokscity I respect your views on Nigeria, i may not agree with them but hey free speech and all . It all boils down to our individual experiences. For instance you may have had a traumatic experience while living in Nigeria, as a result you may feel that its the worst country in the world. I don't feel that way and if i don't see things the way you see them then thats my choice. |
medube:We don't agree with you so we're not making sense, you have your view and i have mine we don't have to agree but we do need to respect each others' opinion. ![]() medube:Making assumptions and generalising is not the way to put your points across. I have family in Nigeria and i visit regularly. I spent half my life in that country (secondary and university) so i do know what i'm talking about. There are a lot of us doing a lot of work on projects in Nigeria, which i can tell you about if you're interested. |
Babyface - sorry for the stupid things |
Kokscity:I find that statement quite surprising (coming from you) ![]() |
Kokscity:Kokscity i was expecting you on this thread earlier with your usual views on Nigeria ![]() |
medube:You seem to forget that Bayelsa has to rely on the federal government for its monthly allocation and they have no control over their oil resources. Even if the governor was not a crook, the sort of money required to develop a place like Bayelsa, that has been neglected for so long is a lot. Money that will have to come from international donors or the federal government. Most states in Nigeria can not stand on their own without money from the federal government, a lot of them spend most of the money they get to pay monthly salaries. Even states like Lagos that are 'financially independent' to an extent, can be bought to its knees if the federal government withholds its monthly allocation. No state in Nigeria can do what you suggest until they have complete control over their resources. I have no praises for Ghana, why should i ? its like praising someone for been a good dad to his children. it should be the norm. Just goes to show what 'low expectations' people have about Africa. Its only here that the things that happen in Ghana is news whereas in other parts of the world its seen as the usual way things should be. |
I won't make any excuses for Nigeria, we've had a pathetic bunch of losers in government and we've mismanaged our vast resources. But doing a comparison of Nigeria and Ghana lets look at the stats Ghana Population: 21 Million (approx) Religions: Christian 63%, Muslim 16%, indigenous beliefs 21% Ethnic groups: Akan 44%, Moshi-Dagomba 16%, Ewe 13%, Ga 8%, Gurma 3%, Yoruba 1% Nigeria Population: 129 Million (approx) Religions: Muslim 50%, Christian 40%, indigenous beliefs 10% Ethnic groups: Africa's most populous country, is composed of more than 250 ethnic groups; the following are the most populous and politically influential: Hausa and Fulani 29%, Yoruba 21%, Igbo (Ibo) 18%, Ijaw 10%, Kanuri 4%, Ibibio 3.5%, Tiv 2.5% source: http://www.cia.gov/cia/publications/factbook/ Nigeria was created by the British to 'fail', if it wasn't, why combine so many major different ethnic groups into one country. The things (like location of development projects, policies, resource control etc) the government can do in Ghana without too much opposition becomes an herculean task in Nigeria where you have to deal with so much ethnic and religious interests. I'm not making any excuses for Nigeria but we need to be aware of the overall structure and history of the two countries in order to understand why Ghana is doing a lot better than Nigeria. |
kenflavor:Because he criticises OBJ doesn't make him a bad person. He's exercising his right to free speech. kenflavor:Well thats your view, i don't think he has done anything extraordinary. We've had so many bad governments in Nigeria, that OBJ seems the 'best' out of a bad bunch |
Desola:I do agree with you on this, we're hardly accepted in white societies. However it doesn't make it right for us to do the same. Trust me i know what it is like to be on the outside. I was born in Northern England and suffered a lot of racist abuse growing up. In fact it was one of the reasons we returned to Nigeria in the 70s. Africans are treated badly all over the world, i don't know why? but i think we're better than that and shouldn't do the same thing. Having said that I am still a true African, Nigerian and Ijebu man ![]() |
Freewilly:kind of sad that you could make that statement, a lot of Nigerians are open minded and accept all people regardless of their race or sexuality. There are no true "Nigerians" as the country Nigeria is an artificial creation. What makes you Nigerian? your ethnic group or what? If you're claiming to be Nigerian by virtue of your ethnicity then i should point out to you that there are Yorubas and Hausas in the countries surrounding Nigeria, Are they Nigerian?? |
bashali:Ok now we're getting personal, i'll suggest you check yourself. bashali:The information is on his website, its not my problem if someone within his HQ is using his name. If someone logs in to my account here on NL and posts false information, its my responsibility to post a disclaimer and explain that the information did not originate from me. bashali:So are you now speaking on behalf of Adeboye and issuing a disclaimer? |
thekrafter:quite true, he could easily put a disclaimer on the RCGG site, like i said in an earlier post: "I wonder why people are using 'fear' tactics to try and silence this thread. What do you have to fear? Are you so threatened by the views on this thread that you feel you have to use 'religious blackmail' to stop people expressing their views?." I won't even call it fear tactics anymore, its more like 'Abacha' tactics |
bashali:Is this guy for real ? It'll be interesting to see how this plays out or is this a way of asking us to declare a ceasefire ... |
Seun:Good old Sowore even when we were at Unilag he loved the limelight ![]() |
Does anyone still remember his video for Sexual Healing ? I still remember the part where the mercury in the thermometer shoots up when a 'lovely' nurse takes his temperature. ![]() |
I never had any confidence in them in the first place. The earlier Nigerian youths free themselves from 'religious bondage' the better our society will be. If anything, this forum has shown how all logic is thrown out the window where religion is concerned. |
ldollier:Ha Ha don't worry when you get married you'll realise it doesn't work that way |
ldollier:.....and not forgetting the fact that i'm happily married to 'ijebuwoman' too ![]() |
casper:oh dear i'm shivering in my shoes.... "In religion and politics, people's beliefs and convictions are in almost every case gotten at second-hand, and without examination." ~Mark Twain |
There are a lot of great songs on his last album, Midnight Love apart from 'Sexual Healing' like 'My Love Is Waiting' and 'Joy' 'Lets get it on' (released 1973) is still one of his greatest albums. Let's get it on We're all sensitive people With so much to give Understand me, sugar Since we've to be here Let's live I love you There's nothing wrong with me Loving you, baby no no And giving yourself to me can never be wrong If the love is true - Lets get it on - Marvin Gaye |
You know what, this is why Nigerians will continue to wallow in ignorance, you question a politicians' lies, they tell us 'children are not supposed to question adults' you question 'so called men of God' and we get all this crap about 'touch not my annointed' and that we should not question 'men of God'. (as if they are not human beings) casper:I wonder why people are using 'fear' tactics to try and silence this thread. What do you have to fear? Are you so threatened by the views on this thread that you feel you have to use 'religious blackmail' to stop people expressing their views?. |
disney:thats what we want to hear 'The Truth' for a Nigerian babe its always 'No romance without finance' ![]() |



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Does anyone have idea when the second series will start in the UK?