Forum Games › Re: Share Your Thoughts by ikamefa(f): 3:37am On Oct 28, 2007 |
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Music/Radio › Re: What Song Is Currently Stuck In Your Head? by ikamefa(f): 1:46am On Oct 26, 2007 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 1:36am On Oct 26, 2007 |
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Romance › Re: Babe's Baby by ikamefa(f): 1:33am On Oct 26, 2007 |
@ topic the girl did you wrong by not informing you about the baby right from the onset.
its all up to you now, its your call: 1. do you love ur girl so much, you don't want to loose her, baby or not?
2. you just can't over -look it (the baby issue)
naturally this creates trust issues ,but remember what ever decision you make you are going to live with it shikena |
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Culture › Re: If You Can Speak Yoruba, Talk It In Here! by ikamefa(f): 1:10am On Oct 26, 2007 |
e we so oh  se gbogo e n joh! e ku ile oh!  |
Forum Games › Re: Share Your Thoughts by ikamefa(f): 1:08am On Oct 26, 2007 |
thinking some peeps sound like a broken record in here  thinking yay! its time to get my groove on ! i made itthinking 71st street sea-side? 
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Food › Re: What Are You Eating/drinking Right Now? by ikamefa(f): 12:49am On Oct 26, 2007 |
pepper  |
Forum Games › Re: Share Your Thoughts by ikamefa(f): 2:20pm On Oct 25, 2007 |
thinking ,aight am outty thinking muki you no know sey koffi na my sister-cousin-grandfather? abi na bankie moon  thinking omo we go yarn later  |
Forum Games › Re: Share Your Thoughts by ikamefa(f): 2:06pm On Oct 25, 2007 |
thinking of hopping on the train real soon thinking muki e don tey when i join oh  thinking am i going to be accepted? is this game-over  |
Forum Games › Re: Who Are You Missing Today? by ikamefa(f): 1:58pm On Oct 25, 2007 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 1:52pm On Oct 25, 2007 |
olanajim: Ika, what am I twisting? Who says ladies don't chase ladies? You might just be one of them. Or how could you know so much about guys and vizual impairment "VI" if you haven't tested the formula? Or have you been tested by one of those "VI" guys?
Anyway, I may still help if you need a hunter with microscopic vision. Just name it.
Remember whether HUNTer or HUNTed, the verb is still, HUNT. obviously you are trying to be mischievous here ,i ain't got to prove nuffin to yah ,i thought i was discussing with logical minded person,think what you like, ain't it a free world? if those thoughts floats your boat and makes your boner grow more gigantic ,abeg carry go, more palm oil to your boner! Good luck! zoooooms off! |
Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 4:33am On Oct 25, 2007 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 4:25am On Oct 25, 2007 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 4:20am On Oct 25, 2007 |
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Fashion › Re: Skinny Jeans!- What's The Stitch? by ikamefa(f): 4:13am On Oct 25, 2007 |
@topic you've got to have a certain body shape to rock and roll in a skinny jeans its not meant for all body shapes
yes i've got one not too crazy about it though, it goes well with my ugg-boots and a good top |
Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 4:08am On Oct 25, 2007 |
davidylan: na Ika6 get those apples?  debosky: na you get those apple bottoms? see them "  " @olanajim see my theory is right! most guys are visualy inclined see now! my visual aid is working just fine he! he!  i don answer una!  the thing no big reach? "  " |
Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 3:55am On Oct 25, 2007 |
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Forum Games › Re: Share Your Thoughts by ikamefa(f): 3:10am On Oct 25, 2007 |
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Forum Games › Re: Share Your Thoughts by ikamefa(f): 3:06am On Oct 25, 2007 |
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Forum Games › Re: Share Your Thoughts by ikamefa(f): 2:56am On Oct 25, 2007 |
almondjoy: Islander!
Davidylan!
STOP!!!!!!
We feel the love and you may both call it a night! abeg waka-far my sista this ones no dey listen to nobody oh! e don tire persin sef |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 2:46am On Oct 25, 2007 |
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Forum Games › Re: Who Are You Missing Today? by ikamefa(f): 2:44am On Oct 25, 2007 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 2:27am On Oct 25, 2007 |
olanajim: Netotse, how do men measure that of women then? Divide it by a quarter? Well, exception abounds in men. Some can be true and others may just be 100% fake. So mathematical deduction may be wrong after all.
Ikamefa, I was wondering how many ladies mind you have made love to. This is certainly revealing! A researcher can't just go out with a theory without first hand experience.
Since you postulated the THE HUNTER HYPOTHESIS, with such a deep conviction, you must be more than fit for the job.
Debosky, Are you Taiwo or Kenny? I don't know you get twin brother. Ejire Orila Oba Omoge O so ile Alakisa d'ile alasho!!
Don't worry, I don't flow with those gabbages as psychotics, drama queen, gold digger etc that you mentioned. You would soon be receiving call from them. Just don't play them like football. They won't bounce and if they bounce they won't let you score cheap goal. naaaaaaaaah! dont get it twisted do i look like a man or sound like a man! my supposed theory has been tested so many times c o s i've got brovas,cousins,friends and i see what they do and how they go about thier runs! omo chillaxe and cool down for Jesus! |
Forum Games › Re: Share Your Thoughts by ikamefa(f): 2:19am On Oct 25, 2007 |
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Food › Re: What Are You Eating/drinking Right Now? by ikamefa(f): 2:11am On Oct 25, 2007 |
fried eggs and boiled plantain |
Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 5:30am On Oct 24, 2007 |
olanajim: Debosky, maybe I should start hunting you or set a babe after you? How many do you want? I just can't imagine you are not a hunter!
Ika, help me now. I want to know if I have that Gene so I can hunt while my homone is a concentrated level. I just hope Rachiwise help you? i don laff tire! "  " i cant fit oh! i no sabi book  olanajim: Seriously, when I heard a lady saying men "thinks" with their "kini" I just laughed because I know that real men are smart and can't be tie down just like that.
Yeah, it depend on why you are hunting. I wish we can read minds, most guys would never have got a lady attention because their infatuation would be exposed.
Hei, are women really free of the same phenomenon? Weren't they also be found losing interest in guys after all the trip to Opebi to shop for expensive make-ups and creams? Are they not the real reason "hunters" don't settle for "old meat"? whether real or fake oh! most of y'all are visually inclined and most will respond +vely to the "visual aids"  being thrown at them and like you rightly said most smart onces cant be tied down with that , that is why you hear most men say: they want a girl with a banging body and a very intelligent mind .we are visually inclined too but haven't you heard the saying : to get a woman make love to her mind 1st and you will have her eating out of your hands? debosky: Me? Hunter? No oh, it was probably my twin brother posting then.
I am very timid and shy, *shy guy is the kind of guy who'll always be mine, o lord have mercy mercy mercy*   @debo  ehen!  Diana kings lyrics does not apply to you lai lai  |
Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 4:51am On Oct 24, 2007 |
debosky: Its not true!
I don't like hunting, I prefer to be hunted  "  " you gat me rolling on the floor! you? pls! pls! stop smoking that weed! you? hunted? "  " numero uno hunter hia in this forum  |
Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 4:49am On Oct 24, 2007 |
olanajim: @Ika,
Gosh! You mean men actually have "hunting" flair in their blood? I'll try to discover mine. I just need a doctor or DNA expert to identify that gene. he! he! please do!  olanajim: @Ika,
By the way, what make women think every man must subscribe to lust all the time? because most men are visually inclined  the sight of a well rounded décolletage  OR a well toned booty makes most men swoon or go bunkers  olanajim: I guess they are beginning to see the reality. [/b]Love may be blind to women, for men, it could just as well shut his eyes while being mistaken as blind. They get the message when the guy start [b]hunting afresh. yeah you are right! depends on why the man was hunting in the first place! to find a wife or just play around  |
Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Loose Interest In A Relationship After The Chase?! by ikamefa(f): 4:29am On Oct 24, 2007 |
olanajim: Good or bad, guys have reasons for losing interest and it has little or nothing to do with sex.
When a guy is chasing you, his primary motivation is lust and not love. In psychology, this is a normal process on the part to true love and commitment. What we calls "love at first sight" is nothing but a "lust" in it purest form. I guess our sense of modesty would not allow us admit this. Lust, is the first stage of Love and how you handle it determines what the outcome of the whole affair may be.
With this in mind, we can easily understand why men lose interest in ladies after expending more energy and time in it. It is inevitable. Everyman has this trait. We just have to nurture love.
1. After all the wahala, the guy later found out that "she is after all ordinary". That is when lust began to vanish. At this stage only a mind with concrete plan stays. I, strangely deviated from common practice. For instance, I avoid making too much contact with ladies I'd just met. I won't call you. But I will do things that let you know I value you. It was a result of long term observation. Sure, it hurt some girls. Definitely, they will get over it. Almost all the long term relationship I had till date started that way. Where I deviated and did all the nuisance mentioned above, the relation won't last! I quite understand why it is so and cannot be otherwise.
2. During the chasing, some guys mind are focus on physical attraction. The lady on her part look her best to heighten the lust process. Once succeeded, man begin to unravel hidden traits in the lady that either make him thank his star or curse his luck. It is apparent reaction to these, that may necesitate gradual or sudden lost of interest. Then, he began fresh "hunting"!
3. If the lady is guarantteed and the affair cemented, guys tend to be assured and divested their energy into other things like making money etc. The lady would have to do the "guarding". Responsible guys don't spend half their life chasing babe, Gbam! well said @topic most men are naturally hunters anyway (i think that DNA is encoded in them somewhere)  |
Romance › Re: Pls Help Me Out Of This Delema(treat As Urgent) by ikamefa(f): 2:03am On Oct 24, 2007 |
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