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Politics / Re: FG Is Not Sharing ₦30,000 To Nigerians. Ignore Any Website Saying they Are by ikemesit4477: 2:23pm On Mar 28, 2020
Then how much are they planning to pay!
Celebrities / Re: Coronavirus: More Than 900 Deaths In A Day In Italy by ikemesit4477: 8:03am On Mar 28, 2020
If these can happen in advanced country, what about Nigeria with quack medical system, am scared!
Religion / Re: Pastor Stopped From Conducting Naming Ceremony In Ondo Over Coronavirus by ikemesit4477: 7:41pm On Mar 27, 2020
legalwealth:
Pastor fi ere ge.

Pastor ran with all his strength.

grin
with his white garment! grin grin
Celebrities / Re: I Have 3 Types Of Vibrators - Toke Makinwa Advises Every Lady To Have One by ikemesit4477: 1:52pm On Mar 26, 2020
Anijay1212:

I concur.
Mkpo abadie? Nko idoho "coro" iyaka nno awuo essien.
grin cheesy
Celebrities / Re: I Have 3 Types Of Vibrators - Toke Makinwa Advises Every Lady To Have One by ikemesit4477: 7:18am On Mar 26, 2020
Even ten vibrator cannot be compare to natural dick, God bless all the men!

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Romance / Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by ikemesit4477: 7:09am On Mar 26, 2020
Leezah:
Long Post Alert
I don’t think they start out looking for a guy to treat them wrongly.

They start out looking for a guy who is assertive, stands his ground, demands his dues, is confident, does not back down, is not a doormat. This would imply that he has what it takes to later on protect her and the kids. Quite justifiable from a primordial point of view.

The problem is that there are limits to acceptable behavior. If you take it to an extreme, all of the above qualities could be associated with wife and child abusers, sociopaths and psychopaths. If the woman doesn’t have a gauge for “when is this too much of a good thing”, she may end up with quite the jerk.

It doesn’t help if the woman’s Father was a guy who abused or mistreated his wife, her mother. Because whatever our rational intentions, we do tend to become and marry our parents. Find me a woman who is a doormat and I have a pretty good idea of what her Father was like.

Guys have an obligation to get our s**t together when it comes to raising our daughters. Too many women with Father issues out there. Love and attraction are based on both psychology and spark of chemistry. It has been scientifically proven that both pleasure and pain are needed to create a long lasting attraction. Therefore, hot and cold formula to spicy up love life always seems to win.

However, if one consciously chooses their romantic partner who treats them badly only its a strong indicator of one's low self esteem. The person doesnt believe s/he can be loved by their partner, thus will keep choosing people who treat them badly to get a confirmation of their own beliefs.

In many cases such as person may also refuse the other person who doesnt communicate their intentions in the way they are familiar with.

Unfortunately, this is the first step towards creating a toxic relationships. I would highly suggest working on one's self esteem before deciding to get involved with the other person. Hope this answer helps.

This is an age-old conundrum wrapped up in a riddle. I’ve heard arguments bandied back and forth between girls and there male “friend zone” counterparts. Often, I’ve heard women say that they pray for and would kill for a “nice guy” as long as he is physically attractive, funny, smart, etc. I’ve had female friends who dated these nice guys and they would complain that these men are “too nice” and they could walk all over them, hence they are no longer attracted to them.

-It goes back to the hunter-gatherer days, where the alpha male was the most sought after. 10,000 years of societal evolution has yet to ween humanity of this attraction. The beta males (or alpha aspirants) wait for the scraps of the hunt, and contend for the women who would settle for them.

-Alpha males can either be benevolent or bullies. They are seen as dominant, so even a “nice alpha male” can be resented for being seen as a tyrant. Most women see the alpha as their ideal - though alphas may not be compatible with them.

-There are also sigma males - they don’t subscribe to alpha or beta tendencies, but are in a class by themselves and don’t care for anyone’s opinion of them. They don’t necessarily treat women poorly. They do their own thing and there is that breed of woman who finds this trait attractive.

-Bad boys and rebels - women find them attractive as well. They think these men have more courage than the other men, and chutzpah is an attractive trait.

Do nice guys finish last? Not necessarily.

Many successful men exist in the workplace today that are very kind and compassionate. The smart women prize these men who bring home the
proverbial bacon, or the “largest kill”, yet are generous, loving and in their eyes attractive.
hmm is that you on your dp?
Crime / Re: New Way Of Defrauding And Emptying Bank Account Discovered by ikemesit4477: 7:41pm On Feb 20, 2020
These same thing happen to my sister last month, her account was emptied, but thank God the money that was there wasn't much, it happens I can relate!
Health / Re: My Addictions To Betting, Masturbation, Pepsi Will Soon Kill Me. I'm Sure! by ikemesit4477: 8:13pm On Feb 17, 2020
MasonKendall:
Last year I really lost so much playing bet9ja virtual but as for this year I don change . But a little bit of masturbating is the problem. I do it every Thursday. Don't laugh ooooo grin From the start of this year I reduced my intake of sugar and am no longer taking alcohol. You can do it bro. You just need to be determined.
funny you! grin
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Some Spend Money On Cocaine, Homosexuals But I Prefer Cars by ikemesit4477: 6:59am On Feb 17, 2020
Wise man! He never mention names! If you know you know! cheesy

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Politics / Re: SERAP Gives FG 7 Days To Disclose Spending Of Recovered Abacha Loot Since 1999 by ikemesit4477: 4:37am On Feb 17, 2020
Abacha was an arm robber, thank God he died a miserable death, None of his children should be allow to run for public office because, they will start looting from where the tyrant father stops! Criminality runs in their blood!
Education / Re: Profile Of Adegboye, Ilaro SUG President, You Will Know If He Is A Cultist by ikemesit4477: 6:12pm On Feb 16, 2020
edoairways:

Prove it with strong evidence
from his confessional statement he said he was charm suddenly he found himself inside the bush, and you are here trying to defend him! He must be your colleague I guess!
Education / Re: Profile Of Adegboye, Ilaro SUG President, You Will Know If He Is A Cultist by ikemesit4477: 5:57pm On Feb 16, 2020
edoairways:

He is not a cultist. Haven't examined his press statement via youtube, I suspect a set up. Going by his position as the student representative, he may have stepped on toes. It is strange for his excos to have deserted him
the guy is a cultist period!
Celebrities / Re: Today I Traditionally Wedded The Love Of My Life- Nina Ivy by ikemesit4477: 11:54am On Feb 16, 2020
HitSong:
Public toilet
Shameless dumb whọre
She doesn't deserve to get wedding to a responsible man. I guess she met her dumb match
go kill yourself! Nobody is perfect!

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Celebrities / Re: Kemi Olunloyo: Eric Agboegbulem Igbedion's Death, Drug Overdose & The Prostitute by ikemesit4477: 5:38am On Feb 12, 2020
Even law makers are fighting in sex shop! grin grin

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Politics / Re: Alhassan Ado-Doguwa: My Father Had 40 Children At 86 by ikemesit4477: 7:28pm On Feb 10, 2020
What an achievement! undecided
Crime / Re: Intended Couple Die Naked In Kano by ikemesit4477: 6:54pm On Feb 06, 2020
darfay:



Oga they died naked, probably was due to an intense sex romp and they only took a break to grab food in the kitchen..

Just saying
chai! Sense will not kill you! undecided
Family / Re: What’s The Weirdest Thing A Visitor Has Done In Your House/home? by ikemesit4477: 11:20pm On Feb 04, 2020
nuelsam:
She gave a loud fart right beside me.
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Celebrities / Re: Gospel Artist Accused Of Beating Wife With Belt For One Hour by ikemesit4477: 6:18am On Feb 01, 2020
End time gospel artist!

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Religion / Re: Why Do I Wake Up With Mysterious Marks On My Body? by ikemesit4477: 8:09pm On Jan 26, 2020
People telling op to cut his finger nails are so dump! God open your eyes all!
Politics / Re: Anthony Okolie Sues Hanan Buhari, DSS, Over SIM Card, Demands N500 Million by ikemesit4477: 8:00pm On Jan 14, 2020
Interesting!
Following! cheesy
Politics / Re: Why Anthony Okolie Was Arrested By DSS For Using Hanan Buhari’s Line by ikemesit4477: 10:56pm On Jan 12, 2020
DaBullIT:
Bastards argued with me

And same idiots are still saying the suspect shouldn't have been released ,


I know a few lawyers are on this forum, intent was emphasised in the write-up, meaning he hasn't scammed anyone successfully yet


Same sets of idiots are saying its a cover up


Believe what you choose but the fact remains (albeit known to sensible people) okolie attempted to defraud people

He ran away from home

And was arrested for intent to defraud
wise man! Clap for your self, why did the DSS allow him to go with the line if actually he was found guilty!

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Romance / Re: END OF YEAR PICTURE: This Image Was Taken Today 31/12/2019 [Picture] by ikemesit4477: 11:27pm On Dec 31, 2019
2kaybiel:
Happy New year
2kaybiel is that you? cheesy
Business / Re: CBN Slashes Banks’ ATM Withdrawal Fee From N65 To N35 by ikemesit4477: 2:57am On Dec 23, 2019
sassysure:
There shouldn't be any charges in the first place lipsrsealed
yea, because unlike sanusi"s regime it was zero charges!
Celebrities / Re: Pellets Removed From Angela Okorie's Face (Graphic Video) by ikemesit4477: 12:45am On Dec 19, 2019
Angela again? Na so she fall inside gutter for quilox, she was busy posting pishure!
Politics / Re: Photos Of Musicians Beaten For Criticising Kebbi Governor In Their Songs by ikemesit4477: 6:33pm On Dec 18, 2019
Meme loading! grin grin
Celebrities / Re: Kim Oprah Celebrates Her Birthday With A Male Stripper by ikemesit4477: 6:30am On Dec 17, 2019
Abi she no get boyfriend!
Celebrities / Re: Anthony Joshua Is My Spiritual Husband – Daniella Okeke by ikemesit4477: 9:03pm On Dec 10, 2019
Apostle we know!
Phones / Re: Screenshot Your Device Let's See Who's Background Wallpaper Is The Best by ikemesit4477: 10:08pm On Dec 02, 2019
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