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be nice, be sweet, be genuine and listen to what she says.

eniola1310:
there are times that it's really not that u don't like the guy. u just need some breathing space to clear your head and think about things. assure yourself that u are making the right choice.

then tell him you need space and not that you both need to see other people

don't get too jealous b4 u start thinking of shooting someone in the head lol

i think men are generally more jealous, they don't even want their women to have friends that are guys.

i think its a stupid idea, you break up if you no longer want to be with each other, and move on. ok lets see, you both take a break and he finds someone else or sleep with someone else whose fault will that be, i dunno why people who love each other come up with stupid ideas about seeing other people, if you are tired of the relationship break up for crying out loud.

Omo Eko:
yea u right someone called him actually three females called him. thay are as followed mukina2, ima1 and jaybaby , the funny was that jaybaby even called him again this morning

hmmmm Omo Eko, so how did u know we called him, did he tell you lol

when did this reach domestic violence issue, anyway sorry i gave u my opinion

and so

@mukina2
when did he become ur king, lol and u did not tell us

jokwoche:
For each guy its a different thing,so i can only speak for myself which i really knw.If i really love a girl i wuld never lie to her (of cause i dnt need to)what so ever it may lead to, a girl am dating can never,for once catch me with another one cause i dnt need to be with another,am just satisfied with her as long as she reaches my taste of who i want for a babe. I wuld do anything just to be asured of her happiness(thats what i love best), i can't be self centered but wuld do her things before i do mine.Dats the way i do my love,many other things follow sha.

nice,but i bet those are just words

lol men can lie

Genial:
Actually, someone called me. Her voice was like the trickling streams from mount olympus, velvety and dulcet. So celestial, full of promise and visions of heaven. . . .

I'm looking for her, and will not rest until I find and bring her home.


Has anyone seen her?

are you sure someone called you, cuz that sh-it is too good to be true.

Actually, I never intentionally kept my Ex's pics. I thought I had discarded them but my detective wife fished out a couple of them from nowhere. Would I cheat on my wife just because I met my Ex ? Thats Hypothetical.

stop making exuses keeping ur ex pictures, it wasn't a reflex action atleast i know that is done unintentionally, you kept it bcoz you don't wanna forget the past, and to answer ur question, i am 100% sure u will cheat on ur wife, bcoz you still think u and ur ex are destined to be together and want to get divorced so u could prove it, which is stupid from my point of view, when would men use their brain, you are giving ur wife reasons to wanna divorce you and i am sure you wish she will now that u have met ur ex, i mean what if u and ur ex got together and it doesn't work out bcoz u weren't meant to be together, what would u do then sit and whine.

the thing is you are both married, stay married and true to ur vows, anyway do ya'll have kids, if you do then i don't think what you want should matter anymore, stop dwelling on the past move on with ur life and be happy

lol so nobody don call am

c'mon ladies throw the guy a bone,

i just don't get why married people still keep pictures of their exes, i mean why did you marry me if ur gonna be thinking of your ex, thats just stupid, i don't blame your wife you shouldn't be thinking of your ex let alone getting in tough with her and talking about the past, if you guys get together you might end up cheatin on your spouses, which just complicates things.

i personally think if you guys were meant to be together you would be, but life sucks and you ended up with different people so give them the respect they deserve, you wouldn't marry your wife if the love you had with your ex was strong enough to go through anything. this is no mistake you both would have been together if the love you had was strong, i would go against my parents wishes if i knew the guy i love was the guy i wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and there is always court marriage, everything doesn't have to be church wedding.

i just think wat you and ur ex are going through now if just infatuation, you both obviously have missed each other, so you bring up the good times and then think things would have worked out, but it didn't go get it into your brain, stick with your wife and let ur ex be with her husband, you both have made your decision so live with it.


so abeg move on eh.

i didn't waste my time reading all that crap,

The only reason i kiss on the first date is to find out if the guy can kiss, if he can't then im not gonna bother calling you, i don't want someone trying to eat my mouth or sticking his tongue down my throat, ewwww.

the bottom line for me is that i'm not gonna date a guy who is cuter than me, i wouldn't want women with their wandering eyes all over my guy, but i want other guys to say 'how this guy land this babe'.

but anyway that is my own o, i am the woman i should be hotter than my husband, thats my rule, but that doesn't mean i want to marry an ugly man.

i wouldn't wanna risk calling someone wey resemble monkey lol

Akwa -Ibom all the way, i am proud to be one

ok abeg which one is peter and which one is paul i can't tell the difference

why do we care wat other people think, i personally do not need someone's validation to be me, if i want 3 guys i will have 3 guys f uck wat anyone else thinks lol i know im having fun

ya u should show her, lol she would prolly change or become more bitchy

not all naija women are gold-diggers like the one you have now, stop generalizing just because she is from naija when it comes down to it she is just a woman like everyone else, don't add nationality to it, i am a naija woman and im not a gold-digger so pick your battle.

i think if she was more educated then she wouldn't be much of a bitch.

doesn't matter where she is from dude, a biatch is a biatch, Looks like you like being used, trust me no nigerian man would put up with her, she is using you and u r worried about taking advantage of her situation, and you fully know the relationship is disastrous but you still wanna meet her demands, she has got you tied down, so u do anything for her without complaining, or you must be a nice person.

anyway im not gonna bother anymore telling you to kick the biatch out, you want her to keep using you. good luck dude.

don't be stupid.

well they don't wanna be broke. but its not all girls, i wanna build what i have with my husband, but then again that doesn't mean he's gonna be living on the streets.

ok you need to kick her a ss out, you are just fucking up ur credit, stop being stupid, its clear that she is using you and you are stupidly going for it, why do u have to pay her to move to be with another man, lol na craze dey worry person.

she is not ur burden, you have done alot for her and she obviously doesn't appreciate you and you are letting her walk over you, i say kick her a ss out, where ever she decides to go is none of ur business and stop giving her money.

nice one Man-eater totally loved it

keep telling urself u r not gay ok. i bet it will make you feel much better

i will absolutely want to know if my husband is sleeping with another woman so i can divorce him and take him for every cent he has lol - but thats just me

will you marry me, and will you have my baby.

Now i would have said don't tell your friend but you owe her that much, i know i would want to know if my hubby is calling some other woman baby, but there is another way out, i would say take a picture send it to your friend the next time you see her husband with other women or call your friend so she can see for herself, all i am saying is that before you tell your friend you should have some proof, that way you know you have done your part and no one can blame you for destroying thier marriage.