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Duh, print the letter out and give it to her husband and then find yourself a new guy

i had more than 1 but now its just 1.

chessito, lol do u wanna be no. 2

if the money is good yeah, chances are with naija parents their son will end up not marrying you, and take it and run b4 his parents start planning to take you outta the picture abeg o. but then again if i was rich, then watever they are offereing wouldn't matter n i'll stick with the guy.

by the way does the boyfriend have any say in this.

piece of advice- don't negotiate, set your price high and they will pay.

lol i know i don't

u think say person go sidon read all this long thing wey u dey post eh

yeah totally my mom says don't put all your eggs in one basket that way you find the right one, i was shocked when she said it but i agree with her.

write a anonymous letter to her, n she wouldn't know its from u. n change ur handwriting or better yet type it

i have the same problem, his reason is that he hates returning calls, but he is very happy when i call him, n wants me to call him everyday which is cool, but i hate being the only one that keeps calling, so sometimes i don't call him 4 like 4 days lol on purpose and then he finally picks up his phone n calls me. so it doesn't neccessarily mean he doesn't love you, but u can make him call you.

i think you should stick with the guy you love and you both should build your life together, i would want to be able to build my life with my husband, stay with him through the rough times and when you finally have all you want, you both have built up the comfort you need.

Don't blame her come on 18 months business trip, how in the world would you leave ur wife for than long and not expect her to get some action, im sure u did too in your 18 month long business trip. there is no way i would let my husband go on an 18 month trip oh boy thats almost 2 years, so im not surprised she is pregnant, she obviously found someone who has been showing her some attention. my point is its not her fault, she is not a wood. you are the one to be blamed, nobody send you make you leave ur wife for 18 months just bcoz of business, its like you have ignored her.

and don't tell me u didn't get some action when u were on ur "business trip"

r u sure ur not into dudes

Now that is just mean Macgreat, i pity the girl wey decide say she wan go out with you.

please don't bring a child into this world just to make him/her suffer abeg, thats the worst thing you could do.

yeah absolutely, my mom calls my dad daddy and my dad calls my mom mama, because everyone calls him that and it would be weird if she calls him by his name, but then again they are like 50 years and older, so i think its fine.

yeah i think it should matter alot because you and your partner have gotta be on the same page spiritually, doesn't matter how you plan to get along and raise your kids based on one religion, problems always arises. Now i wouldn't marry someone that doesn't share the same faith with me because i want a well grounded family, and i want my kids to be brought up based on one religion, not having them confused and questioning which one is true.


But here is a problem, what if he is Jehovah Witness, and you don't believe in their doctrine or whatever they preach, how would this play out. Would you compromise.

i know i would not, i stand by my religion christianity.

OH my own is that if you do the mistake of Slapping me, we are totally done, i am out. you forgive him and he feels like he has the right to do it again, im not gonna be with a man that raises his finger to hit me, and no matter how much you are sorry i wouldn't give an F. but if i am absolutely pissed and you slap me, i would hit you back or find someone that will, (thats why you have brothers)

now i tell any guy im dating, if we are in a heated argument, just walk away and i would absolutely understand and it will gimme the chance to cool down and think things and then i will apologize if it was my fault.

of course something might be going on with both of them, its obvious that they still care about each other, im not going to tell you to totally abandon you ex, because at some point she was your best friend, but please gimme my respect.
(thats me being rational)

but F**k it, if she's your ex then she should stay your ex, you can't be with me and start mailing your ex or watever. if you want to be with your ex then just get the F out of my face

I'm not sure i have ever gotten my heart broken to the point that i can't eat ot sleep, well maybe its bcoz i almost always break up with them b4 they do me, but my first relationship was like for 2 years and surprisingly, i stopped thinking about him in about 11 days after we broke up. i have had dissappointments and i feel sad for a day or 2 and then i move on.

finding something else and giving it all ur attention is the best medicine for heartbreak

I would if i was actually interested in him, but if i am not then he has gotta pay for everything, in a case where he doesn't have enough money then i would offer to pay half, but you can be rest assured you will never see me again.

if we were actually dating then i don't mind paying for our meals when we go out on a date bcoz you can't just let the guy continue to pay, its unfair. if i was the one that asked him out then i would gladly pay for dinner.

yeah, situations like this make me pissed off.

ok how about when you guys are chatting online, you tell her what u want to tell her, thats as close to a phone conversation you can have.

say something sweet to make her smile and then propose.

when u say propose do u mean marriage or just asking her to be ur girl. if its marriage then u gotta do it in person

why can't you care for your own self, you are really greedy, your not in love with her but you want to eat her money, trust me karma go catch u one day.

i will not waste my money on any man, put him through school and then he tells me im in love with someone else, whatever she decides to do to you, trust me you deserve it, you can't use people and dump them like they are yesterday's news.

you need to let her go you idiot, if ur not gonna fall in love with her or appreciate her then thunder fire you for using her.

Why don't u actually call her and ask her. if you wanna do it online then get a mic and tell her. but i would prefer u call n tell her, its 3 easy steps.

1. pick up the phone
2. dial her number
3. then propose.

just don't do it online, its crappy

Someone who would love me no matter what, someone who shares the same opinion as me, who would want would want to help me in the kitchen, someone who values family, someone who i can count on no matter what.

there are alot of other qualities

im with you there

First time i saw him was when i watched Beyonce presidents daughter, and i kept rewinding the movie bcoz i could not believe how hot he was.

Well watching all those hot NBA guys shower will turn any guy gay so i don't blame him lol atleast he knows who he really is now instead of hiding it all these while.

He is really hot, but Comparing Van Vicker to Ramsey Noah - naija playboy who do u think is cuter.

i think Van is hotter than Ramsey

yeah i was thinking the same thing iyc. its pretty much gonna be geared towards university students which inturn would draw in more outsiders. if the club is hot, people would definately spread the word, and i can hire people to sing on the stage thats gonna be built, i could hold concerts and other stuff there to generate extra funds.

i have alot of ideas for it.

I would give him credit for being ambitious and educated, but from what you said he isn't jobless, he is doing his Master's degree, and other teaching jobs so that pretty much takes up most of his time, but im sure he will get a Job when the times comes, if i was in ur situation i would try to be supportive, atleast he has a future and knows what he is doing.

i would elope if i am 100% sure he is the one for me, n my family do not accept him

Depends on the moment.

Beat the bitch up geez that should teach her a lesson not to steal someone's man.