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lol cuz if the love dies, atleast we can still shop.

bk_baybe99:
Ima1, your crazy! What if u end up with a nutcase that loves to hit u for no reason?what do u do? U beat the living daylights out the freaknn binch!!!

yorke:
you are one sick nd inconsiderate.when u run your mouth lik parrot,nag,cheat,do all such of nonsense things to hurt the feeling of your guy.so your expect him to applause u?evry one have a limit.

you guys are the crazy ones and should re-read your statements, just bcoz a woman nags, cheats or is a naughty woman, that does not give you a reason to raise your hand to hit her, that is why there are words called break-up, move on, leave them alone, divorce e.t.c
what if someone is hitting your child or sister would u fu*king take it lightly with them, so who made you God to raise your hand and hit someone else's child, sister e.t.c
IMO only insecure men hit their women.
thats is why i love the U.S, you hit me i call the cops, you go to jail. and i for one would not be that silly to raise my hand against any man, if i get u pissed off, walk away.

Nothing should make you hit your wife or gf, some guys are sick

wait a min, did u just meet this guy 3-4 days ago, or am i confused

most men would not like to be tied down to a woman with a kid, so why shld she be tied down to a man who has a kid.
@poster
your joke was expensive, she left, move on

i think you should listen to your wife, i personally would not move back to naija bcoz of security reasons, the fact that i cannot leave my house after 6pm doesn't sound fun to me, the roads are terrible, the policemen are corrupt (not that we don't have corrupt cops in the u.s) and not subject to scrutiny, the fact that there is no light, nothing fun to do and i can't get paid the amount of money i make here. so there is no way i would move back right now. maybe in 10 years time i could consider it.

if you don't wanna be the sole/part provider then don't get married and have a family, its that simple

@poster
did u just find out about Photoshop lol

she already told u she has a boyfriend, what more do u need,

pls don't bring an innocent girl to suffer, you need to settle with your mom before getting married if not things could get worse, if she is jealous of a gf, how much more if you get married to your gf, and we all know most men tend to side with their mom, instead of their wives, so settle things with your mother, or have a future that doesn't involve her in it.

its not compulsory, i do my hubby's laundry rarely, like when i wanna be extra nice bcoz he wants his clothes washed a certain way and i don't have time to remember how he wants every single thing done, and moreover its just sticking the clothes in the washing machine, so he does his laundry and i do mine.

if the man has been washing his clothes b4 he met his wife/gf, wats the big deal doing it himself.

still got a few more hours to 2010, but Happy New Year my naija people

you are just jealous get over it, stop trying to be controlling, and if you are treating her the way she should be treated, then she'll have no reason to search elsewhere. or you could just talk to her about taking down her phone number down from facebook, which shld solve ur issue, instead of insisting she close her fb account, cuz she cld create another and you would not even know.

omg that just freaked me out, how am i supposed to push that out

Outrage and amazement are some of the emotions currently on display in Yola, Adamawa State, after the startling revelation contained in a letter addressed to a radio station in the state capital, Radio Gotel, by a lady who claimed to be an undergraduate of the Federal University of Technology Yola (FUTY).



The lady, in the letter which was sent to the producer of the programme, "Heart to Heart", said she contracted the Human Immuno-deficiency Virus (HIV) from her student boyfriend and has, in revenge, willfully slept with some 124 students and lecturers at the school.

The letter also contained the writer's threat to make public the names of those who have had sex with her "on the notice board." This has led to panic and spirited discussions among the male population in Yola, especially within the school community. The school's authorities, however, claim to be unaware of the letter, but promised to look into it.

The letter reads, in part: "I have a well-documented report of all those guys and lecturers who crossed my path, since I got infected with this deadly disease in the campus. So far, I have had 124 students and lecturers; out of these, only six (6) used condoms".

On a revenge mission

Continuing, she said in the letter, "I owe nobody an apology and am still on a spreading till I spread it no more."

The writer, who did not hide the trauma and disappointment she faced, explained in the letter that her first impulse upon the discovery of her HIV status was to take away her own life.

"I, however, did not confide my status to anyone until today (i.e the disclosure via the letter)," she said. "Since 2006, I promised myself that it's in the university I got it and here I will leave it. I have indeed lived to keep my promise.

"I was in year three when a student on his attachment in our school proposed for a relationship. He had all the qualities a woman would want in a man so I gave in. He told me all a girl would want to hear. In my innocence and naivety, I succumbed to his pressure to have sex with him. Consequently, I lost my virginity to him.

"After his placement, he reported for his final year and we still had contacts. I visited him on a number of occasions, I have even lost count the number of times I visited him. He was my first and only love and, therefore, hanged on every word he told me.

"My boyfriend later graduated and we lost contact until last month when his sister told me about his whereabouts. Before registration in the faculty of science, I went for medical test as is the requirement. I then opted for an HIV/AIDS test, which unfortunately turned out to be positive.

"It then dawned on me that I have traded the rest of my life for a university student who had deliberately and intentionally preyed on my innocence".

Danger of casual sex

A medical worker, who gave her name as Agnes, said the only lesson from the letter is that people should be careful about casual sex.

"Whatever you think, it is a fact that casual sex is very popular and for a lot of people, it's something that either satisfies a desire or serves a purpose," she said. "It is, therefore, an issue that affects many young people today, as they patronise casual sex under the various terms like ‘No strings attached' and ‘the one night stands' culture gaining foothold in our social life."

According to the United Nations AIDs agency, a vast majority of people with HIV and AIDS live in lower and middle-income countries. Around half of all people who become infected with HIV do so before they are25.

http://www.bunibuni.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=226:panic-in-varsity-over-aids-letter&catid=38:topheadlines&Itemid=82#comments

Source: Hindi Livinus

Reason why you men should be careful

waste of my time.

H2O2:
as i am entitled to my opinion and interpretation of others.
besides, it's clear who's bitching here.

often times women have difficulty processing the fact that men have options and are sagacious with those options they have.

and men always end up thinking with their heads up their as-s, your options or opinions ain't always #1. but hell wtf its ya'll life

H2O2:
the blathering tripe above is very characteristic of a frustrated, washed up married female who just felt like venting.

i do believe i am entitled to my opinion just like you are, and i am sick and tired of you men bitching about stuff, ya'll don't even have anything to offer at this point in your life, so get a life and move on, sex is not everything

you men end up running your mouth, as to how you want ur woman, yeah everybody is entitled to his/her choice, but then when you meet ur perfect woman and she is a gold digger, you end up here bitching as to how she wants u for ur money. oh yeah she is in the perfect shape but has a bad attitude, can't cook, cheats on u cuz hey she is hot too.
i don't even know what side of the brain men use to think, when will they learn there is no perfect woman. if you want a woman for her looks be ready to accept the garbage that comes with her, don't come here and bitc-h again.
and you have no idea what a woman goes through when she gets pregnant, all you want her to do is get back in shape or you will cheat. lol is that a f-u-cking threat, go ahead and cheat no one is stopping you, when you end up with a disease don't expect me to be your wife and stick with you.

~Borat~:
why do pretty ladies get married to ugly men?
Dunni Igbinedion. .
Bianca Ojukwu. . .

cuz most ugly men go the extra mile to make sure the woman is happy, while men who think they are all that, assume they can have more women and end up cheating

where is Omoni Oboli on that list, she has 2or 3 kids and is very hot

May her soul RIP, its hard to beat blood infections, maybe full blood transfusion might help but there could still be complications.

ewwww that is nasty, imagine all the bacteria in your mouth that has gotten mixed with the food/watever is in ur mouth and you expect someone else to take it from your mouth, girl that is nasty.

I Think most women put up with alot of sh-it from men because of their kids (if there are any), most have no option if they are dependent on the guy for everything, or some of them are scared of what their parents will say (especially naija)

mine cost about 3mil naira, parents might have spent more cuz it was their first wedding. dad got too excited and wanted a big wedding.

never really like Al Sharpton anyway, instead of him to say don't cheat he is saying cheat with black women, wat an a-ss

mama-gee:
It still doesn't change the fact that,
Tuberclosis Joshua is a nuisance.

thats so funny, is that what they call him now lol

OAM4J:
^^^ are you in love with one or about to fall in love with one?

havent heard any negative generalization about the Benin guys but the ladies 

lol married to one, my parents have always said you know how benin guys are, but i could never figure out wat they were talking about

mama-gee:
Someone's Hot

wat do u mean??

wtf is a slowpoke, i did not write that, lol i said stu-pid

wat an idiot, its sad for the wife, i would have killed him

Any generalizations about Benin men? i wanna know

heroes1983:
the question here is not that he wants to sleep with anyone. at least he was able to convince me that if he ever decides to get married, he would never cheat on his wife. the point of issue here is whats the best reaction towards such an approach.

lol he was able to convince you that he would never cheat on his wife when he can't keep it in his pants for someone he is engaged to, how believeable is that. anywayz its easier for same birds to flock together.
but IMO the best reaction would have been to outrightly tell her to stop.