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Depends. . .somethings are not worth the effort

i agree with that too, i will admit to stretching the truth sometimes if i know for sure that it will cause this huge fight btw me and my hubby or other family members. i'll say wat will make u happy just to avoid argument cuz i hate being in an argument which will lead to both of us being pissed off at each other and not speaking. i do not think its worth the time.

thats why i don't have best girlfriends, i would rather have a guy be my best friends cuz girls can be evil, when they see u've got something better or are doing better than they are, they wanna take it away from u

some men are actually scared that they cannot kiss and think they are being judged.

don't u hate it when a man tries to stick his tongue down ur throat all in the name of kissing.

or he might not be too romantic, most men aren't all they want is sex without the romance, on the other hand romance is important to women.

@Ebony, i get it now the way u explained it, but the way the the topic states it, one (like me) might or will read it differently.

you can and should never take NL men seriously, they will all lie and say they were sent from God n they are the best, its all lies.

why does a woman's battleground have to be the kitchen, lets not restrict her to the kitchen, so i disagree with that statement, which let me to what i was thinking this morning. why is it that when a man cooks in the kitchen, its seen as sexy but when a woman does, we say its her job.

@Woodpecker, maybe u should have gotten ur story straight in the first place

Ya u are cheating, but seeing ur age i say u are doing whats best for u, but then again with the genotype issue, u both can always adopt

**osisi:

He's making up the stories as he goes along based on our responses to his "babiallah ways"
He'll soon tell us he bought her a jeep jeep

lol the guy is nuts and stingy, no wonder ur woman is leaving u

Well my case is quite simple;
AV been dating this wonderful girl for the last 3yrs but the problem is that at the beginning of the relationship she was the one who was all over me, she used to buy me gifts, she was always calling to know how i was. Now she rarley calls- only flashes- and its not like she doesnt buy credit, she hasnt given me jack since my birthday last yr, and she'd rather spend time with her friends than me. i know guys r meant to be the ones in charge but right now it seems like shes the one at the helm of affairs. shes very beautiful and loves me to pieces- she tells everyone who cares to listen- but the problem is that she doesnt show it anymore(apart from the sex ). i just need advise on how to get the old her back cos i miss her like crazy
ps- we're planning on gettin married in the future so i'll be needing the old her soon

Maybe u need to read ur post again i am sure u did not understand what u wrote.

why don't u show her some love for a change rather than bitching about how she no longer shows u love.

I  dunno about ya'll but hitting me is where i draw the line, i am not and refuse to be a punching bag for any idiot that thinks he is a man. i for one cannot remain in a marriage where the guy hits me, screw the statistics of divorce, i'm not gonna let a man kill me because i do not want to be part of the statistics.

@poster
I honestly do not know what to advice but please be careful or the next time he will beat you black and blue without thinking twice about u being pregnant, if u still want ur marriage to work then try to make it work, if not then i say leave and please find a better life.

thats Ini Edo, not Genny

i'm not surprised, u can't live a lavish life here in the U.S, if u don't have money constantly coming in.

presido1:

Have u seen why its not normal, how can u be doing the normal thing and lie about it at the sametime. Must your family ask who pays house rent?

well my family feels that the man should pay for everything and the woman do nothing and i think it should be shared 50/50, so i tell them what they wanna hear and everyone is happy, wats so wrong with that. and ya my family are nosey being that i am the only daughter who is married, they wanna be in all of my business and i want them to stay away.

No rule says the man has to be the sole provider, the man and woman are supposed to complement each other. i pay the rent sometimes and its no biggie. but then again i do no go around telling everyone, when my family ask i say my husband pays all the bills. cuz thats wat they wanna hear. but it don't matter we are both in it together, if i'm broke he picks up, if he is i pick up no biggie

i think 2face did justice to the song, i think it would have been a great song without the rap, it kinda sucked, and Jim should stick to acting, rapping ain't his thing.

Hun, i agree with ezinne1212, swallow ur pride and go to your dad before this man ends up hurting you, or even killing you. you need to put urself and ur kids as a top priority, you have done all u can for this man you call ur husband, u owe him nothing, but u owe ur kids the right to be alive. don't let any man take that away from you. you need to leave before it is too late, i've heard too many stories about women who stick to men that beat them up and just use them, all in the name of he will change, and hunny that ain't gonna happen, once a man has a chance to hit u, he always will. and u need to get out before he hurts u or you snap. please. this is really serious

that is what i hate about black gay me, they always over do it, thinking its cute, i wish someone would tell the mofo, that he looks ugly

Nice or not she is staying for 1 week, even my own mother will only stay for 1 week. i would rather pay for a hotel room for her than have her stay in my house for more than 1 week, cuz when they stay for more than one week, they start getting all up in ur business.

Men and their stupid excuses "but I just dont think that I can be the kind of husband that this girl deserves" when you started dating and were f*cking her u never realized that u weren't the man for her or were u stupid to think you could just use her, get her pregnant, dump her for another woman. you better recognized what you have done, and why date a person for more than a year and then admit that u never really love her in the first place, how stupid do u men think we women are, we are not some toy to be bleeped with.

you better man up to ur responsibilities and stop bitching, cuz ur eyes were open when u first met her.

omg i so did not except to see that pic, but i'm sad my future baby daddy is going to jail for a year

i just saw this and it was so much fun to watch, thought i would share it with ya'll, its a greek guy singing 9ice Gongo Aso, it was actually good,

here is the link

http://technorati.com/videos/youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DTVFPGXVte4Y

http://technorati.com/videos/youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3Dnlk764oDTjg

street credibility

http://technorati.com/videos/youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3D0EWxgi-9CX0


enjoy

well was the husband sucking it b4 they got married, if he wasn't then i don't see why she is bitching, but if he was, then she need to sit her ass down and talk to him, cuz thats a silly reason to end a marriage, abi the guy dey lick am 24 hrs, wey she no fit do without am

i think women are more faithful, we tend to let go of others when we've found the one, but not all women

his son speak well

chances of that happening is zero to never lol so keep wishing

After her scecret traditional marriage to her new heartthrob, last week Friday, Nollywood actress and former wife of the late Jaiyejeje Aboderin, Stella Damasus is planning an elaborate wedding soon, http://nigeriafilms.com can authoritatively reveal.

The traditional marriage between the popular screen diva and Mr. Emeka Nzeribe, from Oguta, Imo state, took place after the lovebirds had signed the dotted lines at a registry in her hometown, Asaba, Delta state. Confirming the secret marriage to http://nigeriafilms.com, Stella Damasus said an elaborate wedding is in the pipeline.

According to her, “we only consummated our love with few friends and family members in attendance. The elaborate wedding will come up later this year and that is the time everyone will be invited to come and celebrate with us.” When asked about the two kids she had for Jaiye, her late husband, now that she is getting married to another man, she said there was no problem and declined to speak further.

Sources close to the actress told http://nigeriafilms.com that though she is still missing her late husband greatly, she has started living with her new husband. The source added that though currently not in Lagos, Stella and her two kids (Isabella and Angelica) may have to relocate from their Lekki, Lagos, residence.

The talented actress was traumatised four years ago, following the sudden death of her hubby, Jaiye, who was her mentor in a lot of ways. Before his sudden death in December, 2005, their union had lasted for seven years and produced two kids. She had kept mum over getting into another relationship all this while until the secret wedding that took everybody unawares last Friday.

http://nigeriafilms.com/content.asp?contentid=4441&ContentTypeID=6

i am happy for her but i do not think i personally will remarry, i hate the idea, but things happen, we fall in love nothing against that.

To reply with a kiss would be ideal, but we know say most men no go fit do that. if i get angry at my husband i walk away until i calm down and then try to talk it out, will never slap him

Oh well, its been four whole years since Jaiye passed on and Stella has definitely moved on and gotten her groove back. Insiders confirm she wed Emeka Nzeribe recently in owerri (imo state) a forthnight ago and the registry wedding took place over the weekend inside her lekki home.

''Stella and Emeka are passionately in love and the only way to seal their love was to get hooked and they are happy with the choice they have made''.

sources also whisper that the new husband will move into his wifes lekki home as it is more convenient.

Stella met Emeka after her relationship to lanre broke up.she dated Emeka secretly for a while before taking this plunge into marriage for the second time.

Emeka is rather very good looking,a little on the plump side,dark skinned and has a fantastic smile.they have both attended star studded events together but arrived venue seperately and left seperately

We pray she finds fulfillment in this marriage!, we wish her all the best of luck

http://www.nigeriafilms.com/content.asp?contentid=4419&ContentTypeID=2

that was some funny shit