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Celebrities / Re: Ghanaian Actor Van Vicker Collapses On Set by ima1(f): 5:55am On Jul 02, 2009 |
He needs to rest though, spend more time with the family and space his career before he becomes a face u get sick n tired of seeing. michelin89: haba its not good to wish death on someone. |
Family / Re: I Am Taking A Third Wife by ima1(f): 6:50pm On Jun 28, 2009 |
Men are stupid wen dey don't realize that they themselves determine the sex of their child, its so funny wen they blame women where they are indeed the problem., hackney:its so funny wen they keep marryn too many wives just for a male child, wat is it about a male child that makes him more important than a female child. in this century, wat a man can do, a woman can do way better. |
Music/Radio / Re: Your Favourite Michael Jackson's Song by ima1(f): 9:02am On Jun 28, 2009 |
You Rock My World is my all time favorite. |
Celebrities / Re: Is This Another Celebrity Attention Stunt Or Just An Oopsie {picture} by ima1(f): 6:08pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
lol thats ciara, maybe her dude likes the hair down there lol |
Celebrities / Re: Usher Divorces Wife by ima1(f): 6:07pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
i knew it would not last, usher is too hot to be with a grandmom, if he could cheat on chilli from tlc, he would never stick to one woman, and for his wife. Congratulations, she just got her payday, child support and spousal support lol |
Celebrities / Re: Nick Cannon Drags Eminem by ima1(f): 4:38pm On May 14, 2009 |
i don't think this stuff is a big deal, we all know and expect this from Eminem, so taking it too far is not the solution. ya Nick standing up for his wife is cool and all, but we all know this stuff is a joke, Eminem dissed everyone, its what he does and its why we love him. |
Phones / Re: What Brand And Model Is Your Mobile? by ima1(f): 6:35pm On May 02, 2009 |
this is my phone, samsung instinct. love it to death
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Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 2:29am On Apr 30, 2009 |
kay_pumpin: weird but ya i an not a nag, i don't go throwing temper tantrums. me having a short fuse is being controlled which is why i ignore things cuz trust me i would not still be married to him. and one thing his dad told me is to be patient with him, which i have been, and my mum said never nag on a man, its one thing i would never want to do, which is why i choose to ignore and a way of keeping me from blowing up. |
Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 2:20am On Apr 30, 2009 |
kay_pumpin: ya i agree he has his own side of the story, and no two person will have the same story, but one thing he will not deny is that i have been a good and supportive wife. one flaw is that i get pissed off easily over little things, but i am human. |
Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 2:16am On Apr 30, 2009 |
amosexy: i have tried prayers and is still trying, but i am not gonna and tired be (of being) a submissive wife who, a man thinks he can take for-granted |
Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 2:12am On Apr 30, 2009 |
tope2000: i intend to from now on, if he wants space i will give him all the space he wants. cuz talking don't seem to work |
Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 2:04am On Apr 30, 2009 |
*Hauwa*: lol what haven't i done. he still eats at home so no worries about that. |
Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 1:59am On Apr 30, 2009 |
davidylan: ya i have expressed it to him, but i feel like he doesn't care. i am not scared of him or talking to him, but its just that u tend to ignore things to avoid conflict |
Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 1:56am On Apr 30, 2009 |
stillwater: i honestly don't know, but nagging is one thing i never want to do. maybe i need to give him his space, maybe he feels smothered. but i am tired of being the nice and supportive wife for a man who does not appreciate it. it pisses me off and sometime i feel like i would be better off single (but i know divorce is not an option), i have tried talking to him but it ain't working. lol maybe i need to get pregnant that way i have something else to concentrate on. |
Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 1:49am On Apr 30, 2009 |
tope2000: Been married for like 2 yrs, dated for like a yr b4 getting married, and ya i have just ignored things he says or does bcoz i do not want to be a wife that nags, i feel like he doesn't really appreciate me (i mean u don't really know what u have until u lose it) |
Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 1:44am On Apr 30, 2009 |
davidylan: To be honest i don't call him at all to find out where he is at cuz i have work 5-6 days outta the week (in the evening) and classes from 7am in the morning and from class i have to rush to work, so its not like i sit down nagging him, cuz nagging is the last thing i ever want to do. but the thing is i did not get married to be left alone at home. |
Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 1:39am On Apr 30, 2009 |
thank you all for ur advice. i never asked him where he was just to be a nag, but it was because i prepared dinner and everything and he called to tell me he was coming home, and 5 hrs later no show, so i decided to go to bed cuz i have classes the next morning, and he walked in, i let him put his things down and was asking if he ate outside, cuz it was late and i put the food back in the fridge so it doesn't get spoiled (since i did not know when he was coming home). funny it was the first time i asked him and he blew things outta proportion. i was alone at home and it sucked just being there alone. i think maybe i need to have a life outside us. i try to keep busy with work and school, and he tells me we need family time, so when i am available he ups and leave with no info as to where is going. i have been supportive but would hate to be taken for-granted. |
Romance / Re: Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 12:58am On Apr 30, 2009 |
tope2000: I wish he was cuz, i was shocked when he said it and was like what the fu*k did u say ~Sauron~:That is what i have been thinking |
Romance / Guys I Need Your Opinion by ima1(f): 12:48am On Apr 30, 2009 |
okay here is my question. Is it a bad thing to want to know where your husband is when he goes out and has not returned for like 5 hrs after he called you to say he was coming back home. i do not want to be a nagging wife, i trust him and don't think he is cheating (cuz he knows i will leave him in a heartbeat if i knew he was cheating). According to my husband, "a man is not required to tell his wife where is", which i totally disagree with cuz if something bad happens to him, i would want to know. i feel like maybe i am up all in his business when i ask him where he was. what do u guys think. should i just let him do his thing and do mine, and not care where he goes to or what he does. cuz most of the time i am stuck in the house alone while he is out, i work and go to school full-time and when i have a day off, i just wanna spend it with him but he is not home and i don't wanna be a nag. so what should i do, go out myself and have my own fun and just ignore him, cuz wats the point of being married. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Lecturers Victimize Innocent Poor Students So Much!?! by ima1(f): 6:18am On Apr 20, 2009 |
I say hire someone to beat him up and expose him to his wife. or she should find out when he worships (if he is a christian) go to his church, report him to his pastor and expose him in from of his church members, that should teach him a lesson |
Events / Re: Dresses For Bridesmaids And The Rest Of The Bridal Train; Who Should Pay? by ima1(f): 7:35pm On Apr 16, 2009 |
I paid for my bride's maid dresses and everything, even when one of them didn't show on the the day of the traditional wedding and was asking me for the headtie i bought for the traditional wedding, after it was over, it was annoying, but i still did not give it to her. after i paid for everything she didn't show and was requesting stuff like it was her right to have it. some of them can get greedy when they know u are paying for everything. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Wear Boxers To Go To Bed? by ima1(f): 12:32am On Apr 04, 2009 |
lol not all, my hubby likes to sleep naked |
Family / Re: Would You Work For Your Father In-law? by ima1(f): 8:14am On Apr 03, 2009 |
oh hell no, i remember my dad asking me that question. he said tell ur husband to come work for me and the next thing that came outta my mouth was Hell no. lol my dad was shocked. thats another way parents can use to control ur marriage becoz they know how much ur husband makes. |
Romance / Re: Some Men Never Change by ima1(f): 7:20pm On Apr 01, 2009 |
bridget007: i bet he will be forced to accept divorce, if the court find out he does pot and he physically abuses you. |
Romance / Re: Some Men Never Change by ima1(f): 6:26pm On Apr 01, 2009 |
mamae: wtf, except for the praying part i disagree with everything else, why would u be patient with a man who hits you, abuse u emotionally and physically, cheats and kills his kids by making other women he cheats with commit abortion, smokes pot, does not take care of his family and isn't even a man. i say this man is not worth your time, hun if u r in the u.s or outside naija i say file for custody of ur kid now and let the court make him pay child support, if he refuses then they will garnish his wages. geez such a man should be in jail for hitting u on the head, he could have caused serious damage to ur brain or something. i say leave him now |
Romance / Re: Would You Cheat On Your Hubby If You Knew You Wont Be Caught ? by ima1(f): 7:05am On Mar 31, 2009 |
@phillfree where in nashville r u |
Romance / Re: Would You Cheat On Your Hubby If You Knew You Wont Be Caught ? by ima1(f): 7:04am On Mar 31, 2009 |
hell no, i'm not the cheatn kind, |
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