once you give in, he will always come back. n the blackmail will never go away, better to get things out in the open n get it over with

well if the girl wants the money so bad, then she can kill herself, go to hell and find the money otherwise the money is gone, you can't ask a dead person for money, and she can't go to the girl's parent either bcoz they did not borrow the money from her.

well Halle berry is the sexiest woman alive now, i mean she looks stunning even after giving birth.

Hun, you both need time apart, cuz the issue of both of you cheating will still be there unless you both sit down and talk, startover and promise not to cheat or bring up past experiences, if you both cannot do that then, i say break up and move on.

bawomolo:

not his fault, this is a byproduct of his actions. i have a feeling, africans who are usually conservatives have little clue what obama stands for.

if africans want to take their celebration over the top, it just ain't got nothing to do with Obama,

if you only know the magnitude of what Barack Obama has accomplished, you would be amazed, if you remember Martin Luther King's "I Have a Dream" speech, then you should have an idea what it all means, i could not imagine this would happen, i prayed to God every morning and night, because this was the only opportunity a Black person would get to become a president and if we did not win it now we would never be able to win it again.
So let the streets be name after him, lets declare holidays, because stuff like this only happen in the movies.
But now we can see America as ONE. just imagine 50 years ago, black people could not even vote, but today we have a black president.

As an AFRICAN AMERICAN, and NIGERIAN, i am very proud of this man, thats why i woke up 5 am in the morning to go vote, he makes me feel like anything i dream of can be accomplished.

just read that ISREALI president had to say.

Israeli President Shimon Peres:
"It was an American election and a worldwide choice.

"… I want to congratulate the newly-elected president: young, fresh, promising, representing a change and introducing change. The changes that I can mention — it is an opportunity to escape the present world crisis and enter into a new era of cooperation, of productive economy and of human solidarity. In a way, it is an end of racism. There is no longer any way that any white man can claim superiority, nor any black person feel discrimination. We are the same people, and this election is a great statement to that effect.

"… I also have the utmost respect for the other candidate, John McCain, who fought with great courage and stamina.

"… When President Obama was here, he asked me what he can do for Israel. My answer was: Be a great president of the United States of America. If you will be a great president of the United States of America, you will have great promise for Israel as well, and for all of the region and for all of our neighbors. Nobody should look at whose side the president is on — he just has to be on the side of peace. And if he will be on the side of peace, peace will come closer and more possible."

http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2008/11/05/world-leaders-congratulate-obama/#more-29299

I was the first person at my polling place in Sacramento California, and I VOTED FOR OBAMA. i was so happy when i left the place.

there was this little trick i use to play on my senior sister when she pissed me off and since i am the only one who has a broad knowledge about computers, they usually call me to fix their computer issues, what i did was go into the router and disable the wireless signal from broadcasting and when she tried to go on the internet, it would not work, and she would have to call me to repair it, so i say go to google and find out how to disable the wireless or LAN connection on your husband's computer anytime you want to talk to him, or anytime you want, that should do the trick without making you seem like a nagging wife.

move on hun, its obvious.

stop acting like a woman n get over it, birthdays, anniversaries are things for us women, if you guys forget it then you are in trouble, but a guy acting like a baby when his babe forgets his bday kind of makes you weak, it must have really skipped her mind, y don't you let her make it up to you n stop acting like a kid, ignoring her n her calls.

Aloy.Emeka:

What do you mean? It happens in America more than anywhere. Governors in America take pictures with celebrities, beauty queens, soldiers, Joe the plumbers etc?. Is it the same America that has a governor that was a wrestler? even GW Bush can take pictures with Paris Hilton if she's safe enough to come close to him. It's no biggie and that is not our problem in Nigeria. If they like, they can take pictures with all the akwunakwuna for Allen Ave as long as they do their job, who cares?

happens everywhere not just in naija, it pretty much has to do with someone wanting to associate with a celebrity, same reason you will see Ransey, Omotola, Psquare and would want to take a picture with them.

you know some people need to learn for themselves, i say sit her down and you both should really talk, i like the fact that you are not pushy but you are giving her the chance to cheat on you, you should be frank with her, i doubt you would want her back if she cheats, so i say do the break up your self b4 she breaks up with you cuz its evident that it will happen, when a woman starts thinking about going back to her ex 70% of her heart is gone back to him.

kill all those in power right now lol

Joseph6:

@ ima1
once a loser always a loser
can we focus on wats a ground please "if u cannot call ur moda a bitch" only one who's modas a bitch would use this kind of line

wat an asshole,

i did lose my engagement ring once, i took it off to wash my hand in the ladies bathroom, i forgot to put it back on n went back to work, an hour later i remembered, i went to the bathroom n could not find it, i called my husband n told him i lost it, n he said dont worry we'll get u a new one, but i wanted d ring he gave me. later on i found it cuz the cleaning lady took it n was looking for who lost it.
i'm sure ur fiance will come around, cuz losing a ring is no big deal, except if it caused him his entire life savings, then i'll understand why he's pissed off.

i think some of them do not want to express it because it might potray them as weak. for example my hubby acts the same way, because he doesn't wanna show it all, and sometimes when he shows it, it is like a really sweet moment. so i sometimes wait for him to express his feelings b4 i express mine and he laughs because he knows i am waiting for him.

ashleign:

Haha,who is idiotic?me or you who started a dumb post like this,you are really a spanking spiddle,did they tell you that idiots who ask Immature questions like this have got a level?Let's talk about education,yeah you might claim anything that pumps out of your flee brain,hey when adults like this ask Immature questions that can't be asked by a toddler,it makes me wonder if you really have an IQ.Yeah now I know why they say the truth hurts,because when they tell wankers like you the truth,they feel like ripping the forum into shreds.I still maintain this thread is dumb,so it will be of great interest to you if you have a serious rethink the next time you're posting a thread and stop waiting for when you would be told the truth from someone else and then you flay up like a soldier who just had a bullet pierce through his heart.

you think its dumb fine, move on lets have peace.

@joseph, don't F*cking call me a bitch, if you cannot call your mother a bitch.

goodboybad:

No way.
I need someone who is strong where I am weak, and for who I can be strong where the person is weak. I don't need someone who has my strenghts and weaknesses, no way!
I am reserved, I need someone outgoing, I tend to think too much, I need someone who does not brood, etc
If I marry someone like myself, how will we survive a situation where we are both weak, and how will we avoid conflicts were we are both strong?

i agree with you on that, i remember when i was sick n felt like my life was ending, if it wasn't for my husband giving me words of support, i highly doubt i would have made it

well you gotta examine urself n where you want to be in the future, do you want a family n stuff like that. i think you need something to put ahead of your own self, not sure wat it is though, you gotta figure it out 4 urself.

stillwater:

God protect us from evil men!!!

Amen o. lol maybe we shoul cut off their dicks when they cheat n see how the like it

already to wat mine looks like, im married to him

people feel that way most of the time, but the best thing would be to take a break n if you feel like you can do without her, then move on, but if you miss her more than u can imagine then you are prolly both meant to be together, but dont expect her to wait for you to make up ur mind. you both should talk about n try to give each other some space, you dont have to see each other everyday.

ashleign:

If you knew what to do with your life,you won't be posting the most stupid "question"(that is if it's actually a question). in history,I definitely do not give a flying self-servicer if you heard it on the radio,the fact still remains that this thread is dumb,meaningless,beyond human articulation.Talking about illiteracy,you should be the one leaving the cybercafe for the intelligent and those who are ready to post meaningful and intelligent topics for school instead of wasting an opportuned space for an slowpoke-filled post.It will do you a great deal if you leave your computer and get a Job or possibly a life.

hunny don't start with me, you think the thread is dumb then why bother reading it, took you long enough to formulate a response out of that dumb brain of yours, first and foremost let me lecture you on my person, i am not in a cybercafe, because i actually own a computer bought with my hard earned money i worked for at my job, as per education wise i have a Bsc in computer science, a Master's degree in Management information system, and going for my second degree in Nursing, so you see the level you are dont even compare, so who gives a f*ck about my education, i certainly don't think its a big deal, but when people like you who out of no f*ucking where come out blabbing sh*t and jumping into conclusions out of the stupidity of your brain, it just goes to prove how stupid you are. and the fact that i am wasting my time giving dumb f*ucks like you who still has pee brain the time of the day, bugs me because i a going down to ur level.
so hunny lets squash this you think the post is dumb fine move on im tired of wasting my time on idiotic f*cks, lets move on.

60 secs lol

Joseph6:

i can love myself not marry


p.s ima1
u're harsh-er dan satan thrashier than jezebel

wat d hell did i do, joseph dont start with me, n i'll say comparing my coments to satan is an overstatement, i'll take no offense to you comparing me to satan or jezebel because you don't know me, n i dont give a f*ck what you think.

ashleign:

The fact that someone will sit on his or her computer to think about dumb posts like this makes me think what kind of human beings we have in Nairaland ,this is completely DUMB

if you knew how to read then you would have seen the part where i said this topic was discussed on the radio, apparently ur the only one that thinks it dumb simply because you cannot read and articulate things, so you prolly need to go back to school, or dont attempt to reply to the post if you think it is dumb. i certainly do not give an F*ck if out of your stupidity or lack of education, and ignorance, cannot process little questions in your oversized brain. so i think it would be a good idea to leave the questions to those who can process things using their brains and go learn you ABC's

Tgirl4real:

and why u post

thank you o.

ashleign:

Meaningless thread

wats meaningless about it, except if you cannot use ur brain to think, or is my grammer too high 4 u, cuz i did try to write it in laymans term.

wat are your reasons for saying yes and no