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I was listening to the radio on my way to school, and they asked a question "Would You Marry yourself", it basically says look at the good and bad aspect of yourself, from physical, to emotional, to every part. would you want to marry someone as stubborn as you are, you know the whole 9yards about you.

i say yes, i would marry myself, because i know what pleases me and i like to make my own mistakes, though i would not like someone as stubborn as i am but that is like the only flaw i think i would have a problem with if i married myself.

so basically lemme know what you think.

i say tell everyone he has a small di*ck n couldn't satisfy you in bed thats why you dumped him, lol that should shatter his ego.

i believe when love hurts you so bad then its time to let go.

whitelexi:
I would not think, i'D investigate properly and reach a a verdict before coming out with accusations that hold little water.

well i say ur conclusions n mine r prolly biased if we cant consider both points of views.

how about putting urself in the woman's position, like you said if the tables were turned around, what the hell would you think.

whitelexi:
Wake up love, men have got a heart too, turn the tables round and she'll feel the same way he currently feels. girls like u just run your mouths without using any brains. . . Certain circumstances call for a stop and think situations, you don't just listen to anything u hear outside, thats why its called a relationship! Its got to be between the two of u and u don't let outsiders influence your thoughts. Its a wonder how people like u even talk of relationships, let along give advice about it.

In this case even without the outside influence, this guy might be actually cheating, read what the poster said

thats why i dont have female friends, cuz having to give everything up just for another woman sucks, if i was in that situation, i would kick my friends ass n walk away. no need fighting over a man who doesnt want you.

sistawoman:
No, No, No
Not in the way you are talking.

My girlfriends and I, two of them, all of us are married so we take a day every few months and we go to the spa or like last month or maybe it was two months ago we went to one of thiers house out in the country and we had girl time. We turned off the phones we drank, watched movies, got in the hot tub, talked about our kids, husbands and life, slept woke up checked in with hubbies hung out some more then headed back home. The best part for me is the advice i get from these women. They are much older than me (one 23 years and the other 24), i soak it up and use every bit of it.

We just needed a day to recharge our batteries. It was great. No one to bother with us, 4 hours away from everyone just us girls having fun.

how old r you if i may ask, if 23 n 24 is much older than you.

you men cannot be satisfied, she shows you she loves you and you either take advantage of it or complain, if she acts like she doesnt care, you say she is cheating or does not love you, geez make up your minds and stop whining like little bi*ches.

nope not for a min. its the most unattractive thing a man could do.

lol that is so funny, i can say he/she cracked me up with his post on kanu, i couldn't stop laughing

yes yes yes, because if he finds out you love him more than he loves you then he takes advantage of you, for example he will cheat knowing that you will forgive him because you cannot do  without him. its fine to love ur before but do not show him that he is your entire world.

any woman that says she hasn't wished she wasn't married is lieing, cuz its perfectly normal to feel that way, especially when he pisses you off.

looks good though for large foots

i say buy everything from here because it's prolly more expensive in naija

Outstrip:
I don't understand how a woman will say she is leaving a man and then leaves her child behind. That child is the real bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh.

i agree, that wold be the first thing i would take, my child

i would not make it compulsory but a real man would help his wife with chores because he realizes that this woman is his partner and not his slave. when i cook my husband always wants to do the dishes even when i say its okay i can do it, sometimes he comes back from work to cook when i am extremely busy or when he just wants to cook for me, lol he's trying to prove to me he can cook and i say he can only cook spaghetti-which is what he ends up cooking anyway-, so men should see their wives as partners n not slaves.
would it kill you to wash the dishes or take the trash out once in a while.

lol keep waiting for the 7 women until u grow old. how long ago did the bible say Jesus is coming back n how long have we been waiting, yes it will happen if its in the bible because i believe in it. but i believe that same bible said "a man shall find a woman n forsake all others" but una still  dey cheat so you want God to help u with 7 women when you can't even stay faithful to one, lol see how men brains think stupidity"

i'm not supprised there are alot of sick men in the world today preying on kids, i will kill any man that does that to my child

he is really a jerk, he needs to put himself in her situation and imagine if the situation were reversed, n he was the one all burned with scars, and his wife behaved the way he is behaving how will he feel, n just a reminder when he was taking his vows he did promised to love for better for worse.

last year or 2 years ago a man paid $1.5 million dollars for a girls virginity. but i think the girl changed her mind

get two toothpaste, i use a different one from my husband so i press mine anyhow i like, if you don't like it, you have ur own. but this is a stupid excuse to get a divorce

hun, you think your guy is cheating but yet you are still planning on marrying him, c'mon if there r other guys flocking around you, then y r u so desperate. you sleep with this guy who is prolly screwing anything with a hole without a condom, r you nuts. don't you worry about your life, like hey you might get a disease or even f*cking get pregnant when you are not even ready for it.
you are destroying your life n really need to get your act together before you become a single mother, prolly with Aids or some disease n this same guy goes after another woman. stop deceiving yourself and move on, i say listen to your mom cuz she is 100% right

reinstall windows n delete d hard drive info.

people still don't understand that is the man that determines the sex of the baby n not the woman.

women have xx chromosome
men have xy chromosome

if the man gives x n the woman can only give x = female child
man gives y n woman gives x = male,

so its the man's fault, only stupidity would make people take a 2nd wife bcoz they couldn't have a male child.

hun just move on with your life, ur sister will get over it with time, if she doesn't then is her problem, answerable to God, i got married b4 my senior sister n she was pissed off at me, n almost turned my parents against me, i read her diary where she wrote how much she hated me, i told my husband about it n just kept it to myself, n surprisingly after the white wedding she immediately changed n i was amazed, i asked her wat happened n she said "no reason being angry, its ur turn to get married" n she was really helpful during the reception, n this was someone who did not want to paticipate in the wedding, i don't even have a picture of her in my wedding album, thats how bad it was. but now we r cool, we tease each other n she calls me time to time.

so with time ur sister will realize there is no point being mad.

people r stupid

you have to compromise alot, especially women we have to let alot of things go because if you keep it in, it will weigh you down and piss you off more.

i get pissed off and want to stay alone so i can rationlize and think over what just happened, he gets pissed off saying i am ignoring him lol.

today alot of people at my school had an arguement about this issue, whether if what she was doing was prostitution or not and i gotta say 90% thought it was prostitution, because if you have sex for money according to the definition, u are a prostitute, and its funny how the girl is holding the entire event in a hotel in nevada, where prostitution is legal.