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RomanceRe: If You Knew You Could Cheat, Just Once, And Never Have Any Chance Of Being Caugh by InkedNerd(f): 12:49pm On Jan 04, 2011
Ok, good cheesy
RomanceRe: If You Knew You Could Cheat, Just Once, And Never Have Any Chance Of Being Caugh by InkedNerd(f): 12:42pm On Jan 04, 2011
isale_gan2  and adagz 01 are you two arguing? huh embarassed
CelebritiesRe: Funke Akindele's New Look by InkedNerd(f): 12:03pm On Jan 04, 2011
Cool frohawk. I was gonna do another frohawk before I come back to Naija.
FamilyRe: Is It Right For A Dad To Go Through His Daughter's Phone? Could He Be Any More Overbearing? by InkedNerd(f): 12:01pm On Jan 04, 2011
^^^^ Eh ya cry cry cry cry
RomanceRe: If You Knew You Could Cheat, Just Once, And Never Have Any Chance Of Being Caugh by InkedNerd(f): 11:54am On Jan 04, 2011
[quote author=isale_gan2 link=topic=7469.msg7458507#msg7458507 date=1294138283]huh
Sorry.  That was directed at the other guy.  Carry on with your bad self.  cheesy[/quote]Sorry for what? Don't worry I knew who your were addressing, its just that I thought you made a good point wink

@adagz 01:
I understand what you were trying to say.
CelebritiesRe: Shania Twain Marries Her Ex-husband's Wife's Ex-husband-YUCK! by InkedNerd(f): 11:52am On Jan 04, 2011
treylaw:
Really? So you wouldn't mind exchanging partners with your female friend, if you found yourself in such a situation?
Look, once we're done then we're done. I have no reason to worry about who he or she dates afterwards.

soft girl:
this one na high level Maths 102 o, lol grin
lmao

sweetguy10:
Na wa o , the topic got me head racing grin
lmao
RomanceRe: If You Knew You Could Cheat, Just Once, And Never Have Any Chance Of Being Caugh by InkedNerd(f): 11:39am On Jan 04, 2011
[quote author=isale_gan2 link=topic=7469.msg7458423#msg7458423 date=1294137381]It's important to note that most African people in America live by a strict code of conduct.  Not everyone lives a wanton lifestyle.  There are lots of communities and individuals who maintain a virtuous lifestyle, regardless of what you see in movies and television about American values in general.  Even some Americans live like this.  Just use NL posters as an example.  I'm sure you see lots of posters who reside abroad who do not display whatever you think is "their way."[/quote]wink
RomanceRe: If You Knew You Could Cheat, Just Once, And Never Have Any Chance Of Being Caugh by InkedNerd(f): 11:28am On Jan 04, 2011
adagz 01:
i know babe,but the culture of relations n siblings is quite diff from  a romantic friendship just like in NL or there is already an existing. . .
Hmmm. . .
RomanceRe: What Has This Got To Do With Dating Or Getting Married? by InkedNerd(f): 11:22am On Jan 04, 2011
rhymz:
. . . Hahahahahaha. . This gal sef, U dey jones o! What kind of impressionable person are you self? You call all these professional made for commercials photo shoot pictures of geniune newly weds? Lol. . .come on Lady, I know you are smarter than this na. Besidz, those pairs look like your stereotypical gangbangers, Mobstars, American street thugs and bitches and Average Pacinos in LA selling drugs. . .lol. . Are those your role model couples by the way? I wish you luck with that then. . Hahahahaha
First of all, I'm not impressionable. Yes the second and third pictures are obviously for commercial purposes but my point still remains that such couples exist. The couple in the first photo are actually married--the woman is a famous piercer and tattoo artist here in the US, I happen to be friends with her on Facebook and she's a very lovely woman if I must say. Second, with the way your laughing, you act as though you've made some marvelous point. So what if they were my role models? I don't pick my role models based on what inked or not inked on their skin--I pick and judge them based on their character.
RomanceRe: If You Knew You Could Cheat, Just Once, And Never Have Any Chance Of Being Caugh by InkedNerd(f): 11:07am On Jan 04, 2011
Kingsleyinfo:
39 replies and no one agrees that he/she will cheat. thats funny

na who come dey  cheat for the nigeria naw grin grin grin

if we have 39 people outta every 50 that refuse to cheat then relationships will be much better
but i doubt.

for me i try my best not to get into compromising situation.
prevention is better than cure, if you look for the chance you will see

@ink_nerd
for naija there is nothing like an open relationship what we have are
closed and basket relationship if u know what i mean grin grin
lol, I know what you mean. This thread reminds me of a survey that was done on some African men. In the survey African men were asked asked if they knew they could r.ape a woman and get away with it whether or not they would do it and majority of them said they'd do it undecided.
RomanceRe: Talking About Height . . . by InkedNerd(f): 10:58am On Jan 04, 2011
ULSHERLAN:
Lol, not as tall as 7ft cos dats abnormal but as tall as 6ft2-3
Ooooh, ::[/b]whistles[b]:: kiss
RomanceRe: If You Knew You Could Cheat, Just Once, And Never Have Any Chance Of Being Caugh by InkedNerd(f): 10:57am On Jan 04, 2011
adagz 01:
Now i see,

just hook on to NL or better still have a nigerian e-guy so that you dont lose the 'naija' swag~hehehe
Ah ah, I'm not disconnected from my Naija culture. Me living here doesn't make me any less of a Nigerian. I'm still a Nigerian grin.
FamilyRe: Is It Right For A Dad To Go Through His Daughter's Phone? Could He Be Any More Overbearing? by InkedNerd(f): 10:53am On Jan 04, 2011
jennykadry:
^^
And to prove that she's gonna grow up she has to travel as far as possible to prove the point?
That's not what I was trying to say. Often time with parents like that, some parents are unwilling to accept the fact that their sons or daughters are no longer little children. There are some parents who will try to keep their children under their thumb as long as possible. When I said for her to go as she could I meant to explore.
RomanceRe: Does It Still Mean Anything? by InkedNerd(f): 10:48am On Jan 04, 2011
Kingsleyinfo:
thats what i'm talking about, defining parameters
don't say u love him when u don't being honest at the beginning of any relationship
is usually the best idea, no matter what you are gonna loose
Yupp. When I hear people going around throwin' the 'L' word, I try to remind them that loving someone and being in love with someone are two different things.
RomanceRe: Talking About Height . . . by InkedNerd(f): 10:44am On Jan 04, 2011
fstranger6:
So where did we stop yeaterday?

When do you want me to come see you?

I am free this weekend!
I have work. Btw sweetie, stop derailing the thread.

ULSHERLAN:
I can date any but i prefer tall ones cos am tallllllllllllllllll
How tall? cheesy
FoodRe: What Food Do You Never Get Tired Of Eating by InkedNerd(f): 10:41am On Jan 04, 2011
I can never get tired of Chipotle veggie burritos grin
RomanceRe: If You Knew You Could Cheat, Just Once, And Never Have Any Chance Of Being Caugh by InkedNerd(f): 10:38am On Jan 04, 2011
Hehehe, long enough wink.
RomanceRe: Talking About Height . . . by InkedNerd(f): 10:36am On Jan 04, 2011
^^^ No thank you. I don't want the Mods and OP to be upset grin.
FamilyRe: Is It Right For A Dad To Go Through His Daughter's Phone? Could He Be Any More Overbearing? by InkedNerd(f): 10:33am On Jan 04, 2011
Meldrick:
Under 18 or not is not my issue. I will only stop checking her phone when I find out she is matured enough to take care of herself. If she is in the University, I'll give her a break not when my daughter is still in Secondary school or hasn't passed her JAMB and she is talking about privacy. hehehe I'll give her six hot lashes of the cane oh her buttocks so she can focus on what is important.
Remember the OP said she isn't doing anything bad that would give her father reason to do what he did.

Atreides:
@Inked,dont get me started about curfews. I dont even have a curfew sef. . When i was going to school(i wrote Waec this year),and school closed by four,if i wasnt home by 4.45,latest 5 it would be,ring ring,where are you? And that was when he started letting me take the bus oh-up until final year he was taking me to school and bringing me back. I cant even remember how many times i was called baby/omo daddy. Everybody must be home by 6pm. Im option 2-under 18 buh i pay my phone bills.
Lmao, eh ya. Sorry o. Hehehe, I usually don't answer my phone when my parents call even though they're not hounding me. Your dad just cares that's all. If it bothers you so much, just talk to him.

Atreides:
I finished sec. school this year but it still feels like im in school. And yeah,ive always had good grades-in fact id go as far as saying im a nerd so ive passed my exams. It was God that delivered me from puttilng Unilag as my first choice cos if i had,my dad would've made me go to school from home-like i would've been going to school from home every frickin day.
Lmao, sweetie just go as far as you can. At some point in time you're gonna have to grow up and they need to realize that.
RomanceRe: What Has This Got To Do With Dating Or Getting Married? by InkedNerd(f): 10:18am On Jan 04, 2011
rhymz:
. . . Because I will like to see a couple with all that body paintings and pr!ck$ walk down the aisle some day.
Oh really, I don't know about you but I see couples like that everyday. Here are some images since you seem to be convinced that couples leek that don't exist.

RomanceRe: If You Knew You Could Cheat, Just Once, And Never Have Any Chance Of Being Caugh by InkedNerd(f): 10:15am On Jan 04, 2011
adagz 01:
^u are all in their ways so i guess your born,breed and grow up there or. . .
"Their ways"? Hmmmm. I wasn't born here.
RomanceRe: What ‘Crazy’ Thing Would You Do On Feb 14? by InkedNerd(f): 9:56am On Jan 04, 2011
@OP: I have no idea. I had plans but after some shocking news tonight, I think I'm gonna have to rethink some things embarassed.
RomanceRe: If You Knew You Could Cheat, Just Once, And Never Have Any Chance Of Being Caugh by InkedNerd(f): 9:54am On Jan 04, 2011
adagz 01:
@inked_N,
no nigerian girl living in naija will suggest open relationship to her bf they will rather cheat under his is very eyes.i guess it because u'r in oyinbo land
Hmmm, I figured that you'd say that undecided.
RomanceRe: Talking About Height . . . by InkedNerd(f): 9:52am On Jan 04, 2011
I prefer tall men. There's surgery that people of a short stature can have to make the gain some height. Its a very grueling procedure. I don't even think its worth it undecided.
CultureRe: An Interview between Southern and Northern Nigerians by InkedNerd(f): 9:48am On Jan 04, 2011
emofine:
No unfortuantely, I left too young otherwise I'm sure I would've been speaking Hausa. Are there any Northerners where you are residing?
I ask this because I'm under the impression that they do not migrate to the 'western world' in droves compared to us Southerners.
BTW does your father speak a Northern language?
Northerners where I live?!?!? There are barely Nigerians in my area. Most of the Africans in New York live in the Bronx. The few that I come in contact with in Brooklyn live in or around the Clinton Hill area which isn't where I live]. My father can understand and speak Hausa, unfortunately he never taught us [my siblings and I] any of it. As a matter of fact, he understand a bit of some other languages as well [by the way, he never taught any of them to us either tongue]. Sheesh, what's the point in being so culturally diverse if ya can't share it with your kids [if you have any undecided]?
FamilyRe: Is It Right For A Dad To Go Through His Daughter's Phone? Could He Be Any More Overbearing? by InkedNerd(f): 9:39am On Jan 04, 2011
@OP: I understand where you are coming from. Although I don't have an overprotective father I could see why you were upset. Here's my take on the whole things. Here are several scenarios that I think are appropriate for your situation.

(1) If you are under the age of 18 and he pays your phone bills then I think he the right to inquire about the activity of your--that doesn't necessarily mean he needs to go through your phone. Even if he wants to inquire about your phone activity, he should have done it in your presence.

(2) If you're under the age of 18 and you pay the bills, he still has a right to inquire about your activity [if he feels that there is reason to] but that doesn't mean he should look through it without your permission. Once again, this is something he needs to do in your presence.

(3) If you're over the age of 18 and you pay your own bills the he has no right to look through your phone.

(4) If you're over the age of 18 and he pays your bills, he still has no right to look through your phone.

OP, your thread reminds me of a thread of a young woman who complained that although she was in her late 20's, her parents were still giving her an early curfew tongue.
RomanceRe: What Has This Got To Do With Dating Or Getting Married? by InkedNerd(f): 9:17am On Jan 04, 2011
rhymz:
. . . Hmmmm. . By the way lady, are you married?
Before I answer, I wanna know why you're asking.
RomanceRe: In The House Of God Or In Bed? by InkedNerd(f): 9:06am On Jan 04, 2011
190:
[color=deeppink]^^Its true, Even Inkerd know's Its true for what we share is real and strong!![/color]
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