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FashionRe: Ladies In Nigeria, Can You Wear This? by InkedNerd(f): 9:18am On Feb 06, 2011
Hmmm, I don't know if I could wear that. . . I could try though grin.
RomanceRe: Can You Leave Home Without Wearing Pants? (underpants) by InkedNerd(f): 5:04pm On Jan 05, 2011
[quote author=kay-money link=topic=579631.msg7467543#msg7467543 date=1294242908]Hmm wink That sounds so interesting8) cool cool[/quote]lol
RomanceRe: Can You Leave Home Without Wearing Pants? (underpants) by InkedNerd(f): 4:49pm On Jan 05, 2011
[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=579631.msg7467327#msg7467327 date=1294241068][color=#0055bb]Yes I have done so. The womanliness is not meant for underwear any way. Judge me all you want, I won't lose any sleep over it! cheesy[/color][/quote]lol, I ain't judging ya because your right.

190:
[color=deeppink]mtscheww,

mofo's[/color] undecided undecided
Why are you ma, we divorced this morning remember?

[quote author=Area_boy link=topic=579631.msg7467086#msg7467086 date=1294239318]Oh certainly my dear, We'll explore together all the goodies i'm thinking abt kiss
and maybe we can both learn a thing or two from each other?? we never stop learning ya know!! cheesy





@190, take it easy ya? tongue[/quote]Ooooh, sounds like fun kiss
RomanceRe: Can You Leave Home Without Wearing Pants? (underpants) by InkedNerd(f): 3:35pm On Jan 05, 2011
[quote author=Area_boy link=topic=579631.msg7466552#msg7466552 date=1294235336]smiley oh and it just keeps getting exciting, I think its HOT!!!! i mean the confidence to leave home without panties, imagine if u were going to meet up your man?, or me?? cheesy, I suddenly have a million ideas running thru my head kiss



oh and my comment is strictly for women only, guys without under pants is just gay!!! undecided[/quote]Hehehe, we should try it together [when 190 isn't around] kiss

Maybe when we try it you can sow me some of those ideas grin
RomanceRe: Imagine This Long Distance Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 1:01pm On Jan 05, 2011
Atreides:
Erm,totally random here but how come 190 chases girls aroung NL up and down when she's female? Is she straight? Or is she bent?
190 is actually a dude.
CelebritiesRe: Anorexic Model Dies At 28 (pics Included) by InkedNerd(f): 12:59pm On Jan 05, 2011
jay bee:
It's highly expected for such anomalies to occur in the wider continent but I'd seriously doubt this cases will be reported in Nigeria.
More often than not, anorexia is a lifestyle rather than a disease and i just fail to see how Nigerians will bring themselves that low so as to being accepted in the wider society.
Remember anorexic patients are prevalent in the modeling industry due to the industry need of the models maintaining a size zero body frame.
Well, they exist and have been reported in West Africa, Eat African, and South African countries. And not all anorexic patients are doing it for the sole purpose of fashion. There are many people who are in eating disorder clinics and had they not been there, you'd never know they were suffering from anorexia or any other eating disorder and not all anorexics are skinny. Just as not all disabilities are visible, not all eating disorder are visible to the eyes. There are many people who suffer from eating disorders due to sports related issues.
RomanceRe: Imagine This Long Distance Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 12:57pm On Jan 05, 2011
190:
[color=deeppink]But you dont have to,
you flirted with area father boy[/color]
undecided and you flirted with all of Nairaland but ya don't see me complaining. Chai, such a shame.
RomanceRe: Imagine This Long Distance Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 12:49pm On Jan 05, 2011
190:
[color=deeppink]and you left the marriage part i talked abt[/color], angry angry
I'm divorcing you. Expect the divorce papers in the mail cry.
RomanceRe: Imagine This Long Distance Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 12:35pm On Jan 05, 2011
190:
Seems you trust your uncle even more than he trust himself
A 9ja man, busy with work ??

(Silently laughing) Inkerd dont ever let me miles from where u are wen we marry, please!!
Just because you and perhaps many other Nigerian men would cheat on there wives doesn't mean that he would. And YES, I DO TRUST MY UNCLE!!!
CelebritiesRe: Anorexic Model Dies At 28 (pics Included) by InkedNerd(f): 12:31pm On Jan 05, 2011
jay bee:
^^^
No we don't
We have malnutrition/kwashiorkor (mainly in children) not anorexia.
I'm not talking about malnutrition. There are actual reported cases of either a highly restricted diet or anorexia among African women.
CelebritiesRe: Anorexic Model Dies At 28 (pics Included) by InkedNerd(f): 12:24pm On Jan 05, 2011
favouredjb:
I don't think we av this condition in naija
Actually, we do undecided.
RomanceRe: Imagine This Long Distance Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 12:17pm On Jan 05, 2011
190:
[color=deeppink]do you care 2 know what you' uncle is doing back in 9jah[/color]
Actually, I do know. If you're implying that my uncle is creepin' around on my aunt, then you're wrong. He works for a company. He barely stays put anyway since he's always away on business trips. He comes to visit often and my ant visits him as well. As a matter of fact, she's should be on her way Naija this morning.

[quote author=baby.me link=topic=579514.msg7465689#msg7465689 date=1294225601]I wouldn't do it. I have an uncle that comes to Naija ONLY when it's time for the wife to get pregnant. He's been home 3 times in 5yrs,they have 3 kids. SMH[/quote]Eh ya cry

fstranger6:
Inked your reply
grin lol

RomanceRe: Imagine This Long Distance Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 12:04pm On Jan 05, 2011
[b]^^^[/b]Sharaap. My uncle is in Naija and my aunt is in Europe and they are just fine wink
RomanceRe: Can You Leave Home Without Wearing Pants? (underpants) by InkedNerd(f): 12:02pm On Jan 05, 2011
190:
[color=deeppink]i would[/color], angry angry
Good angry
RomanceRe: Imagine This Long Distance Marriage by InkedNerd(f): 11:56am On Jan 05, 2011
Its wouldn't be an issue for me. My aunt and uncle are in a relationship like that and they have one of the best marriages I've ever seen kiss
RomanceRe: Can You Leave Home Without Wearing Pants? (underpants) by InkedNerd(f): 11:51am On Jan 05, 2011
190:
S[i]M[/i]H
Shake whatever you like tongue
RomanceRe: What Are Bw Looking Into A White Man? by InkedNerd(f): 11:49am On Jan 05, 2011
obenda:
Well if you represent all African women as a whole why not? ;-)

C'mon, your individual opinion will be enough, but please go over the " every man that treats me right, no m,atter the color, shape, etc". Just imagine to be on a bus, a white man pops in and you are attracted. Just tell which things that are typical or you can find in white men are intriguing to you.

Sorry, I know that I am asking to be very straight forward, but I don't think it is a taboo to speak out of what's attractive/unattractive between men and women.

thanks
::[/b]sighs[b]:: I understand what you're saying but there is no straight forward answer. For example , the stuff tpia1 mentioned aren't necessarily the things I may like in a caucasian man. Let me give you another example, I was on the train and I saw this tall handsome cauasian man with reddish blond hair and green eyes and I was immediately attracted to him. When I left the train and met my friends in the street, a causasian guy who was average height with with blond hair approached my friends and I was also attracted to him [lol, he was trying to ask me out but I was totally oblivious  embarassed]. Do you see how different the two men are? Personally for me, I have no preference what I look for in a causasian man. For you to be asking us women such a specific question makes no sense. I'm sorry if this isn't really answering your question but its the truth. What one African woman may like may be displeasure to another just as what you like as an Italian man may differed from what another Italian man may like. Its quite obvious that you don't represent all of Italy so why would you expect one of us to represent all of African. My personal tastes vary from men to men. For me, this is my ideal guy [regardless of their ethnicity], I like a man who possesses the qualities of a renaissance man--He’s self-assured, focused, disciplined, and responsible, yet knows how to let loose and have fun. His intellectual and career interests are balanced with cultural and physical activities. Comfortable in jeans or a tux, this action man throws himself into his pursuits and is willing to fail. In touch with and expressive of his emotions, he exudes compassion and warmth as he crosses social and ethnic boundaries. Gathering eclectic and diverse admirers, the Renaissance Man knows what qualities he’s looking for in a woman and is unlikely to be swayed.
RomanceRe: Can You Leave Home Without Wearing Pants? (underpants) by InkedNerd(f): 11:30am On Jan 05, 2011
Chai, you always seem to be judging me cry
RomanceRe: Can You Leave Home Without Wearing Pants? (underpants) by InkedNerd(f): 11:25am On Jan 05, 2011
Yes, I can. As a matter of fact, I did it last evening.
CelebritiesRe: Funke Akindele's New Look by InkedNerd(f): 11:00am On Jan 05, 2011
@OP: Wow, I really didn't know who she was until I saw this thread [actually, I don't know who a lot of the Nollywood actors and actresses and I don't care either]. Anyway, I Googled her and I saw pic of her with tons of bad weaves and wigs and I must say, she looks so much prettier with the short hair. I can actually see her face no that all the weave and junk is out of her face. I'm used to seeing a lot of girls in New York with hair like that so so me its nothin' new. Hmmm, makes me rethink cutting my hair when it grows longer.

Olami099:
@inkednerd,do u still remember me?How u dey long time?
lol, yes I do. How could I forget you? I'm good, how are you Ola?

Nairaland GeneralRe: Warning by InkedNerd(f): 10:48am On Jan 05, 2011
[quote author=the_telz link=topic=578659.msg7465199#msg7465199 date=1294219913]Also do me a favor,when next you go to church,tell your pastor to give you a personal sermon on worldly pleasures. And if you don't learn,go on a 1yr fasting and prayer so you can get total deliverance,you're seriously blinded by the world. Open your eyes man,before its too late. You know nothing the bible says about jezebel[/quote]Lmfao, oh please. Spare me the rambling. Just because I addressed stevetboy9 as I did doesn't mean that I don't know what he was saying so please get off your Biblical high horse.
FamilyRe: by InkedNerd(f): 10:38am On Jan 05, 2011
Hehehe, I said how do you wash it, not what do you use to wash it. For example, when my hair was longer I washed my hair in sections so I could make the detanling and washing process easier--I'd usually part my hair into four sections and gently wash my hair and scalp. By the way, you might wanna try giving your little one scalp massages every once in a while. It'll stimulate hair growth, allow her scalp to relax a bit since she seems to be in pain at time, and it'll allow you to bond with her wink. ::[/b]sighs[b]:: I remember when my mom used to do that. By the way, do you use any of the combs in the video?

Here's a video of a woman demonstrating how she washes her daughter's hair.
[flash=500,500]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DsGHj33MR78[/flash]
Nairaland GeneralRe: Warning by InkedNerd(f): 10:06am On Jan 05, 2011
[quote author=the_telz link=topic=578659.msg7464895#msg7464895 date=1294215202]Ah this guy,no offense but you so think like you're in secondary school,are you? If you are,i won't hit at you again cos you're still growing mentally,even a secondary school student should know these things. He's not saying that its only women that commit all the sins in the bible,he's talking from the biblical point of view. USE YOUR HEAD!!! Or better still MARRY YOUR BIBLE!!! Cos you know nothing and with this,i can see you're digressing from the path of righteousness[/quote]Oh please. Do me a favor and shove your Bible up where the sun don't shine.
FamilyRe: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Own Property In Her Maiden Name? by InkedNerd(f): 9:51am On Jan 05, 2011
Ummm, yeah. Why would it be? Men own property so why shouldn't their female counterparts? If[b]/[/b]when I get married, I intend on keeping property that I attained before my marriage and during my marriage. I wanna buy my first house within the next two years so I'll be damned if any man tells me to part with it just because I am married to him. Besides, for financial purposes it's good for both the husband and wife to have some sort of safety cushions to fall back on.
FoodRe: White Chalk Addicts-Please your comments by InkedNerd(f): 9:24am On Jan 05, 2011
Wow, you guys seem to really like that stuff. I was never a fan of nzu but my mom loves it.
FamilyRe: by InkedNerd(f): 8:47am On Jan 05, 2011
chaircover:
Her hair is dry
I try to use an afro comb but the best she will let me do is to just use the teeth of the comb to skim the hair so no deep root to tip combing
I hold the hair in my fist and just comb or brush the tips. She wont let me do it from the root
I brush/comb when it is damp
Even the hair washing sef is drama and the whole street knows from the screams, the shreiks, the drama and the antics. I wash with a power shower and it tickles her scalp so she jumps everywhere  embarassed
Chineke!!! I wish you could just send her to me so I could do her hair. I feel bad for the both of you.
Is her hair usually dry? [sorry, if the questions seem repetitive].
Could you please post pictures of the types of combs[b]/[/b]brushes you use so I can have a better idea of what you use?
And how do you wash her hair?

Once again, please forgive me if these questions seem repetitive embarassed.
I'm just trying to get a good idea of what her hair is like and what you do to it.

chaircover:
Dat one na true loff - Please if u dont touch his hair just make sure u check his pocket instead  cool grin
lol ok auntie grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Warning by InkedNerd(f): 8:31am On Jan 05, 2011
stevetboy9:
You can get the cds from christian stores around. They're revealing and I bet, you'll stop adultery and fornication after watching them. Inkie, I know you'll beg to differ but it's no crap! Ok. Of all the confessions I watched these are the things I found in common, 1- the girls are VERY promiscus 2- beautiful and breath-taking 3- seductive 4- powerful  and knows everything about unfaithful men 5- they attack sex-loving men the most 6- they attack men of God in order to try their faith 7- after having sex with them, the man's glory  will turn to zero and he'll lead a meaningless life 8- ANY GIRL that have intimacy with the possessed man will automatically contract the evil spirit of former lady. 9- they hate to see happy family therefore if you love your wife very well, always pray because they hate to see such  etc etc and etc I've tried so Uncle Forkitty;Forkitty, go for deliverance asap
How wonderful, once again, another nonsense attack on women. So all beautiful women are like that eh? If you or any other man are so weak that you would allow a woman to get the best of you, then I suggest you need to get your priorities straight. Once again, like many other men both on and off Nairaland you are sitting here making excuses for men who for whatever reason cannot or will not take responsibility for their actions. Even if a woman "seduces" a man, does he not have enough sense to know the sort of trouble he is opening himself up to? This whole notion of beautiful women "attacking" sex crazed men is only an excuse for men such as the sex crazed fiends mentioned. Stop hiding behind this cloak of religion as a means of justifying this idiotic and irresponsible belief. There are tons of men such as the women you describe, so why aren't you callin' them out? Why aren't you chastising them? Only women can do harm in this world eh? All men are saints eh? Since you seem to be so dead set on making a point, what about handsome men eh? Anyone whether male or female who becomes totally deluded and allows ANYONE to take advantage of themselves should really evaluate some things in his or her life. Men, GROW THE HELL UP and TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS.
FamilyRe: by InkedNerd(f): 8:24am On Jan 05, 2011
chaircover:
Thanks Inky

Just watched the video (without sound) LOL

One big problem is that my angel will not let me finger comb that jungle of hair. I cant even part the hair without drama. How I wish I could send her to you guys  sad

. . . . And this is aunty CC's advise to you girls . . . . Before you girls get married, apart from checking out the guys bank balance (which is very important) LOL;  please touch his hair before u say I do just to make sure you are not letting yourself into jungle city  cool  grin
No problem. If you wanna part her hair to do two strand twists or any other style, you can saturate her hair with water or some sort of moisturizer or even a leave-in conditioner. The key to making it easy on her is to make sure her hair is saturated. I have a question, when you touch her hair, is is dry? And do you comb her hair when it isn't wet? If so, what comb or brush do you use? And when you comb[b]/[/b]brush her hair, how do you comb[b]/[/b]brush it? How do you hold her hair when you comb[b]/[/b]brush it?

Hehehe, as for touching a guys hair, I doubt that would do any good. There's never any guarantee that the child will end up with hair like the parents. I have a neighbor who has wavy hair and the husband has loose curly hair and the child has very thick coily hair. Genetics is a mystery at times wink. It wouldn't matter to me anyway--the dude could have the roughest hair in the world or the softest.
FamilyRe: by InkedNerd(f): 7:41am On Jan 05, 2011
Here is a video you can use to learn how to do two strand twists. Although the little girls' hair textures seems to be perhaps 3b or 4a you can still achieve the style. You don't necessarily have to use the products that she [the mother] used either.

[flash=400,400]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4OhF0FF6Wg[/flash]

chaircover:
wow thank you so much ladies. This sounds like fun. . . . . sure you peeps who only want boys still dont want girls  wink

Inky baby, can you post that video please. That will be a great help Thank you dear.

Now this coconut oil is not the Palmer's coconut cream is it? I am assuming that the oil is liquid?

How I wish that I has posted this thread when this girl was 2 days old. It would have sure saved us both a lot of trouble  sad

[s]Since you girls are so knowledgeable; any ideas of the best get rich scheme that I can go into that will guarantee 10 million dollars profit in one week?[/s]  grin grin
Well, seems like Jenifa_'s got everything covered with the coconut oil wink. Hehehe, chaircover you've got such a sense of humor grin. If you need other videos on detangling, washing, moisturizing, cute hairstyles or any other hair relates question then feel free to ask. There's a whole online community for this sort of stuff.   

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=578319.msg7464334#msg7464334 date=1294206460]wow inked nerd. it's as if you were reading my mind on the coconut oil thing  grin[/quote]Hehehe, Jenifa_ perhaps you're my natural hair twin grin wink
FamilyRe: by InkedNerd(f): 6:31am On Jan 05, 2011
chaircover:
Those twists in that picture, can I do them myself? Do I just twist 2 strands of hair together? or do I need to add some extensions like expression or something to give it body

I am going to the African hair shop over the weekend to see if I can get any of the products mentioned here.

You should have seen my daughers face when I mentioned egg yoke & honey to her LOL.

If parents got a chance to select the traits that they want for their children from each parent before they are born LOL; I am sure whose name would have been crossed out when it comes to hair  grin
Of course you can do them by yourself grin. Yes, all you need is just two stands of hair and then you twist it. In fact, there are products that you can apply to her hair to help you twist it. You don't need to add any extensions. The woman who twisted the hair of the little girl in the picture is a white woman and she does a pretty good job at it. When I twist my friends' little sister's hair, all I do is apply coconut oil to her hair and the rest is history. Would you like me to post some videos on how to twist natural hair? smiley
FamilyRe: by InkedNerd(f): 5:48am On Jan 05, 2011
jennykadry:
My friend ,My mum put a relaxer on my hair when I was also young, whether it's drain cleaner's stuff or dry cleaner's stuffs, none of us gurls had issues with it or complained of some missing hair or head. I have got a very thick/full hair and had it cut in 2003 cos of its thickness. So make we hear word abeg, box ko, box ni.  smiley
Ummm. . . Ok o undecided.

blank:
My mum started relaxing my sister n i's hair wen we were 5 years. There are some relaxers specially made 4 kids. 20 years after, the relaxers shld be better. I, personally, prefer a kids hair 2 be straightened. Its easier 2 manage 4 dem. They can den cut it off n start natural if dats dir preference. I wish u guys d best. Let me reiterate it, grown-up chics with natural hair deserve all d kudos.
Sorry, I'm not tryin' to sounds like a natural hair nazi, but I already know there are relaxers "made specifically for kids" but the truth is, there really is no difference between the kiddie relaxers[b]/[/b]texturizers and the adult relaxers[b]/[/b]texturizers. On the box, it says not to use it on children under the age of 12. It still has the same ingredients, just slightly different amounts. Anyway, its totally up to you so good luck  wink.
FamilyRe: by InkedNerd(f): 2:04am On Jan 05, 2011
dayokanu:
So some women actually agree that females are wahala personified. Thank God say no be man talk am
I know, its horrible that we could think such a thing about ourselves--yet we wonder why men view us in a certain manner. We would have all been up in arms ad a man said all of this. Smmfh. I for one am not a believer of this notion. All you have to do is make sure you do your research of caring for hair of color [especially little children]. I take care for my friends' little sister's natural hair and I never ear a peep from the child when I comb, wash, or brush her hair.

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