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@OP: Have you tried having a one on one chat with her parents? If so, while chatting with them did you ask them why they have reservations about their daughter's relationship with you? Poster, if you don't mind me asking, how old are you? |
Onchedu:Good point ![]() @OP: There's a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. She may love her boyfriend but not be in love with him [not that I'm say in that that's an excuse]. |
Honestly, I never really have any expectations when it comes to a relationship. I like to take my my time before getting involved in a with someone. Even when I do take my time, I still have no expectations since anything could happen at anytime-- we could grow apart, dislike each other, fall for others, etc. If it lasts then good, if not then that's fine too. Its not the end of the world for me. |
[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=578314.msg7451833#msg7451833 date=1294039081]I gave up a few yrs back. . . I'm an old member. But each full moon, I decide on giving them another chance. But still, the same crap! [/quote]Lmao, you sound like a mother who's just been disappointed by their child. |
ogzille:Yes, I worded it differently but that is what you said. You stated "so plzzz, stop deceiving your mind into believing that you dont care." and I stated "You even went so far as to say that those of us who have chosen to pierce or tattoo our bodies are deceiving ourselves.". You using the word mind is an indication of one's being so ultimately, it is still the same sentence the only difference is that I rephrased it. orbaxy: ![]() |
Oya, welcome to the club. I gave up a long time ago. I got tired of the bad acting, bad clothes, bad make up, and bad quality. Every once in a while I see a move of excellent quality and I smile. |
martyns303:lol, don't worry I'm ok . I don't really think anyone would go out of their way to harm me [I hope ] |
ogzille:Why is it so hard to believe that some people just don't care what other think of them? Yes, we are social beings but that does not in any way mean that we need to accept the views and beliefs of other just as you've right now. Just because you can't seem to wrap your brain around the decisions that others make doesn't mean that that's what they're saying is untrue. ogzille:Whether or not I felt a stronger desire for s.ex is irrelevant. Just because my piercing is in my g.enital area does not mean that the sole purpose was for sexual pleasure. Yes, an increase in ones sexual drive may occur but that doesn't mean that is my reason or anyone else's reason for doing it. There doesn't have to be any particular reason that an individual must have if they choose to get a piercing or tattoo no matter where it is. If a person wakes up one morning and suddenly decides they want to get a piercing or a tattoo, that is totally up to them. Must they have your approval or anyone else approval to do so? Because you be see it as socially unacceptable or "indecent" doesn't mean that it is. There are many practices within many cultures of the world that were once viewed as indecent or unacceptable in the eyes of the white man [no offense to any of Nairaland's caucasian members] yet were normal to those who practiced those beliefs. As I stated earlier, various cultures have various ideas of beauty--Because you be see it as socially unacceptable doesn't necessarily mean that it is. How can you even sit here are say "i bet you, you will find more 'indecent people' among people that are pierced than people that are clean."? It makes no sense for you to speak in such an judgmental manner then casually trying to turn around and say "This doesn't mean that all pierced people are bad." Perhaps within your society, piercings and tattoos are unacceptable but there are various places all over the world where it is the norm. My reason for wanting to get my clitoral hood or any other part of my body pierced is none of your business and because I choose to talk about it does not in any way indicate that my intentions were to "show off". I don't owe you or anyone else within this society an explanation for anything. In your comment, you said "This topic is very subjective and I respect everybody's opinion on the matter.", clearly you don't respect other people's opinion, otherwise, you wouldn't have asked your question in the manner that you did. You seem quite oppositional for a person who claims to respect the opinion of others. You even went so far as to say that those of us who have chosen to pierce or tattoo our bodies are deceiving ourselves. Hmmm, is that the voice of someone who respects the views of others? I think not. |
Nope. Get your own. |
190:lol, another angry face eh? Get over yourself . |
190:No, because your not of much importance to me. Its been nice jokin' with ya ![]() |
[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=577823.msg7450650#msg7450650 date=1294008113]Inkie, Remember he is 2 foot tall 3 inches. Happy New Year to you![/quote]Thanks girl . Happy New Year to you too.190:Sharaap!!! ![]() |
No, why do you ask? ![]() |
190:Sharaap!!! ![]() [quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=577823.msg7450604#msg7450604 date=1294007646](spraying Furries be gone)[/quote] ![]() |
Timi1990:Glad to hear that the soap is working. Just stick with it and you'll see results. |
Beync:Oh oops, sorry o ![]() |
@OP: I don't really think you should be worried about his age. There's a dude I really like he's a bit older than me but ok with it . Don't let something like age come between the man you love |
Happy New Year too |
lol woops ![]() Sorry OP. |
Beync:I hope I'm not being nosy but why are you involved in one of these contract situations? |
[quote author=Intrepid! link=topic=576501.msg7448246#msg7448246 date=1293976701]Omo, the female hurt me when I was young and vulnerable! I had to get her back![/quote]Smh ![]() |
^^^ loooool myob ![]() |
Beync:[s]Ya know, I heard my grandmother saying something about contract in Nigeria-what's that all about?[/s] ![]() Never mind, I just figured it out |
iice:But that's the thing, the VCH didn't hurt that much. The initial pain just feels like a pinch. Most people people think its freakishly painful .Yes, it is addictive ![]() |
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[/quote]Lmao, you sound like a mother who's just been disappointed by their child.
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