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RomanceRe: Her Parent Refuse Us Because I Am A Muslim by InkedNerd(f): 9:11am On Jan 03, 2011
@OP: Have you tried having a one on one chat with her parents? If so, while chatting with them did you ask them why they have reservations about their daughter's relationship with you? Poster, if you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
RomanceRe: Why Does A Woman Cheat On Her Boyfriend Who She Loves With All Of Her Heart? by InkedNerd(f): 9:04am On Jan 03, 2011
Onchedu:
Idleness, boredom, curiosity, lust, stupidity, greed, wantoness, rebeliion, foolishness, ignorance, e.t.c

Choose your pick. If it's not on the list U have an idea in which direction to look.

Character will take us farther than desire. Love may stir the desire to be faithful, but our character, dreived from the habits we form over time, determines the actions we take.

Love never stopped anyone from cheating. Discipline in choice, with grace from above would.
Good point wink

@OP: There's a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. She may love her boyfriend but not be in love with him [not that I'm say in that that's an excuse].
RomanceRe: How Long Do You Expect Your Relationship To Last? by InkedNerd(f): 8:57am On Jan 03, 2011
Honestly, I never really have any expectations when it comes to a relationship. I like to take my my time before getting involved in a with someone. Even when I do take my time, I still have no expectations since anything could happen at anytime-- we could grow apart, dislike each other, fall for others, etc. If it lasts then good, if not then that's fine too. Its not the end of the world for me.
CelebritiesRe: Can We Discuss Why Nollywood Gets Crappier Each Year? by InkedNerd(f): 8:28am On Jan 03, 2011
[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=578314.msg7451833#msg7451833 date=1294039081]I gave up a few yrs back. . . I'm an old member.
But each full moon, I decide on giving them another chance.
But still, the same crap! angry[/quote]Lmao, you sound like a mother who's just been disappointed by their child.
RomanceRe: What Has This Got To Do With Dating Or Getting Married? by InkedNerd(f): 8:19am On Jan 03, 2011
ogzille:
that i respect everybody's opinion, does it mean i cant have my opinion on the matter?

You even went so far as to say that those of us who have chosen to pierce or tattoo our bodies are deceiving ourselves.

I NEVER said that those that got piercing are deceiving themselves ok? READ MY POST AGAIN FOR CLARITY
Yes, I worded it differently but that is what you said. You stated "so plzzz,  stop deceiving your mind into believing that you dont care." and I stated "You even went so far as to say that those of us who have chosen to pierce or tattoo our bodies are deceiving ourselves.". You using the word mind is an indication of one's being so ultimately, it is still the same sentence the only difference is that I rephrased it.

orbaxy:
Popular belief.

@Inked_Nerd

Rare but sexy specie  grin
wink
CelebritiesRe: Can We Discuss Why Nollywood Gets Crappier Each Year? by InkedNerd(f): 8:08am On Jan 03, 2011
Oya, welcome to the club. I gave up a long time ago. I got tired of the bad acting, bad clothes, bad make up, and bad quality. Every once in a while I see a move of excellent quality and I smile.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Inked_nerd by InkedNerd(f): 7:57am On Jan 03, 2011
martyns303:
^^^. Am not sure about the ''star'' part oo. But yes! She's got a great personality, atleast 4rm what she portrays here on NL, and i personaly likes that about her. But all this inked nerd threads, cyber stalking ish is disturbing, she berra alert d cops B4 sum1 climbs up her window into her bedroom and , Whats that ish that happend to the Queen of England again?
lol, don't worry I'm ok wink. I don't really think anyone would go out of their way to harm me [I hope undecided]
RomanceRe: What Has This Got To Do With Dating Or Getting Married? by InkedNerd(f): 7:35am On Jan 03, 2011
ogzille:
This topic is very subjective and i respect everybody's opinion on the matter. What i can't seem to understand is why some people say they dont care about what people think. C'mon that arrogance and self deceit. We are all social beings and we crave for acceptance no matter what. If we dont get accepted, we become very lonely and seemingly empty.so plzzz,  stop deceiving your mind into believing that you dont care.
Why is it so hard to believe that some people just don't care what other think of them? Yes, we are social beings but that does not in any way mean that we need to accept the views and beliefs of other just as you've right now. Just because you can't seem to wrap your brain around the decisions that others make doesn't mean that that's what they're saying is untrue.

ogzille:
@Inked_Nerd, b sincere with this question:

When you did your VCH, after the healing, didnt u feel any stronger drive for sex, if not for anything just to show it off? or did you pierce your clitoral hood just for yourself alone?

The truth is the society defines our right and wrong and i bet you, you will find more 'indecent people' among people that are pierced than people that are clean. This doesnt mean that all pierced people are bad.
Whether or not I felt a stronger desire for s.ex is irrelevant. Just because my piercing is in my g.enital area does not mean that the sole purpose was for sexual pleasure. Yes, an increase in ones sexual drive may occur but that doesn't mean that is my reason or anyone else's reason for doing it. There doesn't have to be any particular reason that an individual must have if they choose to get a piercing or tattoo no matter where it is. If a person wakes up one morning and suddenly decides they want to get a piercing or a tattoo, that is totally up to them. Must they have your approval or anyone else approval to do so? Because you be see it as socially unacceptable or "indecent" doesn't mean that it is. There are many practices within many cultures of the world that were once viewed as indecent or unacceptable in the eyes of the white man [no offense to any of Nairaland's caucasian members] yet were normal to those who practiced those beliefs. As I stated earlier, various cultures have various ideas of beauty--Because you be see it as socially unacceptable doesn't necessarily mean that it is. How can you even sit here are say "i bet you, you will find more 'indecent people' among people that are pierced than people that are clean."? It makes no sense for you to speak in such an judgmental manner then casually trying to turn around and say "This doesn't mean that all pierced people are bad." Perhaps within your society, piercings and tattoos are unacceptable but there are various places all over the world where it is the norm. My reason for wanting to get my clitoral hood or any other part of my body pierced is none of your business and because I choose to talk about it does not in any way indicate that my intentions were to "show off". I don't owe you or anyone else within this society an explanation for anything. In your comment, you said "This topic is very subjective and I respect everybody's opinion on the matter.", clearly you don't respect other people's opinion, otherwise, you wouldn't have asked your question in the manner that you did. You seem quite oppositional for a person who claims to respect the opinion of others. You even went so far as to say that those of us who have chosen to pierce or tattoo our bodies are deceiving ourselves. Hmmm, is that the voice of someone who respects the views of others? I think not.
RomanceRe: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 2:23am On Jan 03, 2011
Nope. Get your own.
RomanceRe: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 1:52am On Jan 03, 2011
190:
and its been nice fighting with yo angry angry
lol, another angry face eh? Get over yourself grin.
RomanceRe: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 12:43am On Jan 03, 2011
190:
[color=deeppink]^^Inkerd Youre pissed cos u know im not among yo' male admirer's and derailerz[/color] grin grin
No, because your not of much importance to me. Its been nice jokin' with ya wink
RomanceRe: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 11:45pm On Jan 02, 2011
[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=577823.msg7450650#msg7450650 date=1294008113]Inkie,

Remember he is 2 foot tall 3 inches.  

Happy New Year to you![/quote]Thanks girl wink. Happy New Year to you too.

190:
[color=deeppink]^^Good cos i would soon give barrow to push if you're not careful[/color]
Sharaap!!! grin
RomanceRe: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 11:39pm On Jan 02, 2011
No, why do you ask? huh undecided
RomanceRe: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 11:35pm On Jan 02, 2011
190:
[color=deeppink]Inkerd and her team of male derailer's has disorganized this thread!! angry angry[/color]
Sharaap!!! tongue

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=577823.msg7450604#msg7450604 date=1294007646](spraying Furries be gone)[/quote]grin
FashionRe: Fallacy About Acne(pimples) by InkedNerd(f): 11:34pm On Jan 02, 2011
Timi1990:
Waoh ! ! Cant believe my horrible Acne is gradually clearing. After using Medimix soap for the past 3 weeks, i just started seeing a little diffence on my face today.
Big thanks for everyone who have really helped and supported me with lots of ideas and good advice. Big thanks to you guys : - Inked_Nerd, Oyinda , rubi , preesia and not forgeting u nanidee. Big kisses for all of you .kiss wink Although i still have some little spot on my face[/color][color=#770077] .
Glad to hear that the soap is working. Just stick with it and you'll see results.
RomanceRe: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 8:21pm On Jan 02, 2011
Beync:
u really believ wat i said? no no, i cant do dat girl. am refering to beyonce grin. i wont do contract no. my mariage wud be infinity cheesy
Oh oops, sorry o grin
RomanceRe: Does It Mean I Do Not Love Him? by InkedNerd(f): 3:39pm On Jan 02, 2011
@OP: I don't really think you should be worried about his age. There's a dude I really like he's a bit older than me but ok with it wink. Don't let something like age come between the man you love cry  
RomanceRe: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 3:32pm On Jan 02, 2011
Happy New Year too kiss
RomanceRe: What Has This Got To Do With Dating Or Getting Married? by InkedNerd(f): 3:27pm On Jan 02, 2011
lol woops grin

Sorry OP.
RomanceRe: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 3:26pm On Jan 02, 2011
Beync:
@Nk,Tank God u did figured it out, u need not be told were am coming from lolcheesy
I hope I'm not being nosy but why are you involved in one of these contract situations?
EventsRe: Craziest Thing U Did This Year? by InkedNerd(f): 3:13pm On Jan 02, 2011
[quote author=Intrepid! link=topic=576501.msg7448246#msg7448246 date=1293976701]Omo, the female hurt me when I was young and vulnerable! I had to get her back![/quote]Smh undecided
RomanceRe: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 2:47pm On Jan 02, 2011
^^^ loooool myob grin
RomanceRe: Relationship Status Of Nairalanders by InkedNerd(f): 2:41pm On Jan 02, 2011
Beync:
Mine is  inbetween single ot not maried cos right now am some months pregnant for my Jay and after the baby the contract end, except we renue the contract, else my relationship status is complicated right nwcheesy
[s]Ya know, I heard my grandmother saying something about contract in Nigeria-what's that all about?[/s] huh

Never mind, I just figured it out
RomanceRe: What Has This Got To Do With Dating Or Getting Married? by InkedNerd(f): 2:38pm On Jan 02, 2011
iice:
[color=#9900ff]Addictive is what it can be.  I had to space mine out or i'd be covered in piercings by now tongue
Nah, it didn't hurt.  If you can do the VCH, the nose should be a breeze tongue[/color]
But that's the thing, the VCH didn't hurt that much. The initial pain just feels like a pinch. Most people people think its freakishly painful undecided.

Yes, it is addictive grin

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