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Romance › Re: To All Men by InkedNerd(f): 11:59am On Jan 01, 2012

IbroSaunks:
This isn't about babying the guy. Obviously he messed up, big time! Perhaps it's just his way of getting over stuff like that. Plenty men feel wounded about stuff like this, it's his approach of telling her about it that's flawed. But that's all it is. Inferring that he's a killer, seems a wee bit exaggerated to me, in my opinion.

I didn't say he was a killer, I just said I wouldn't be surprised. All in all, he needs to move on. Most likely, she won't apologize or reply so what's he gonna do--keep righting to her till he gets a response? Will he do this to EVERY woman that doesn't return his call or text messages? Will he write to them as well? She doesn't owe him anything!

freecocoa:
Are you people still talking about that man who needs a shrink? Has he started seeing one?

Who knows, he's probably stalking the same woman tongue

Romance › Re: To All Men by InkedNerd(f): 11:31am On Jan 01, 2012

IbroSaunks:
ahann, isn't that a little too far?

No, its not! How many women all over the world experience the same thing? C'mon, let's not sit here and baby the guy. Would it have been nice for her to have given him a call or replied to his text message, yes it would but it is not a requirement. She doesn't owe him a damn thing. He needs to lick his wounds and move on. I can only imagine the kind of business he runs with such a mentality. Will he be acting the same way if he lost out on a potential client? Will he write them a lengthy letter and tell them he was sad and disappointed that they didn't do business with him? He needs to be an adult and get over it. Part of being an adult is being able to overcome certain obstacles that life throws at you. If he sits around and sulks, where will that get him? If writing the letter is a way for him to cope then fine but he needs to just move on. There is no reason for him to be sitting around expecting that he will get an apology or explanation for what happened. I don't know where this innate sense of entitlement comes from but he needs to get over himself.

Romance › Re: deleted by InkedNerd(f): 11:20am On Jan 01, 2012

goodsegs:
, My Ex has a good heart,She wont even let me leave another woman for her.yeah,I miss her maturity(she is close to me in Age) compare to my current Girlfriend.My ex was a good problem solvers,good manager,i hate to compare but i have been comparing for too long in my mind,My ex motivated me to become who i am today(academics,Career decisions), She was close to perfect, My current woman is beautiful,but with most of these qualities lacking, she is a good person too in her own way,But that five years relationship has affected me so much that it becomes my standards of dating another woman,

Well, its an unfortunate situation but ultimately you have a choice to make here. You can either break up with your current girlfriend/fiance and risk losing the current relationship you're in or you can take the plunge and pursue a relationship with your ex-girlfriend. The problem going back to your current girlfriend is that you'd probably still be in the same situation you were in before which is that her family is against the relationship. All I can say is weigh your options and time very well about the consequence.

Romance › Re: To All Men by InkedNerd(f): 11:10am On Jan 01, 2012

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=836432.msg9874122#msg9874122 date=1325412157]^
Oops. Thanks buddy. I just imagine the poor guy with a gun in one hand and alcohol in another.[/quote]For all we know, the mumu may have bodies buried in his backyard. I wouldn't be surprised is he was the guy responsible for all those bodies found in Long Island.

Romance › Re: What Kind Of Hairstyle Do Ladies Prefer On Their Men. by InkedNerd(f): 11:08am On Jan 01, 2012

Toaskarity:
all ladies now prefer hair cut guys, you forgot most african head too big even some head look triangular and when shaved doesnt look that good cos its gonna expose thr real structure

even ladies get that kind head too just that they use fake hairs to cover them

What the hell?! huh

Have you been sniffin' paint fumes or something?

Romance › Re: deleted by InkedNerd(f): 10:55am On Jan 01, 2012

I can see that this is hard for you. All I can say is that you need to link long and hard before you make any serious moves. If your heart isn't completely committed to the current girl your with then its not fair to continue on as though it is. You'd be lying to yourself and the young lady you're currently dating. Imagine if you were dating someone who's heart wasn't totally committed to you. How would you feel about it?

Romance › Re: deleted by InkedNerd(f): 10:38am On Jan 01, 2012

Clearly you're not over her. Lemme me ask you something, can you imagine living a life without the current girl your with?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Do U Do When U'r Lonely? by InkedNerd(f): 10:27am On Jan 01, 2012

slimyem:
^^wow!
You are one strange gal,

We're all different. Everyone has a way of coping with whatever it is they're feeling.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 10:25am On Jan 01, 2012

freecocoa:
[b]HAPPY NEW YEAR to you all my wonderful friends in the house,thank God for seeing us through.

My day's going pretty well so far,just arrived Awka this morning,want to spend the new year with some of my peeps over here,its gon be fun I can see that,my cousin just put to bed a bouncing baby boy,double celebration for us,lots of meat,drink,food you name it,I just pity my teeth sha,work go too much for am. I'm really happy this morning and I'm loving it.

@Mcmepow,Honey don't even accept any rubbish from it o at all,take charge of it,its gonna be a wonderful year for you,amen.

@Inky love, Dear stay cheerful okay,God loves you and so do I,have the best of 2012.

@Dyt,this year you'll make more sales than you ever imagined,your oga no go stress you at all,it'll be blissful for you.

Flash my sunshine where are you o?una village no get service? I no wan marry enter local place o,I miss you and love you passionately.wishing you a prosperous and glorious new year.

@ Paddy me,my favorite sister and besty,where you dey na? I miss you so so so much,I wish you all the good things of life,this year shall be more than awesome for you,happy new year to you,I love you dearly.[/b]

Awww, thank you so much

Romance › Re: To All Men by InkedNerd(f): 10:21am On Jan 01, 2012

illitrate:
THANKS BUT PLS TRY CUT AM AGAIN SMALL AND USE EASY LANGUAGE, see my username u will understand nobi all those psychopathy

lol clearly from your username, you're not illiterate otherwise you wouldn't have been able to reply or understand the initial responses wink

Romance › Re: To All Men by InkedNerd(f): 9:53am On Jan 01, 2012

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=836432.msg9873897#msg9873897 date=1325407533]@ Ink

The guy na mumu jor. Correct mumu. Which one come be long tori? You'd think he was writing a thesis on the Art of Stalking. I understand where the guy is coming from, but his approach in handling the situation was sophomoric, and hints at a bit of psychopathy. Maybe he thinks because of his wealth and intelligence, no woman in her right mind would reject him. This is more than coming on too strong. Even we, Naija men, known for our tenacity and stubbornness will never write a novel to tell a lady that she erred in not following the simple rules of engagement. [/quote]Mumu is an understatement. Now he just makes himself look like a weirdo. Men like that are the kind that women avoid. His approach was all wrong. Smh, people get hurt all the time so what makes this fool any different? He needs to get over himself. I had a guy who was a little similar to him. The only difference was that the guy didn't ask for an apology--he wanted an explanation. The sad part is that he insisted on having one. The more he insisted on having one the more I wanted nothing to do with him. Men like that are just plain creepy. There's nothing wrong with feeling that there are certain things you deserve relationship-wise but there is something wrong with you throwing around your ego and expecting that those around you will succumb to it. Yes, we all have relationship expectation but this guy took it to a whole new level.

Romance › Re: To All Men by InkedNerd(f): 9:40am On Jan 01, 2012

illitrate:
too lazy to read, inked nerd may u pls summarize?

Smh, laziness go kill you tongue

Anyway, a man went on a date with a lady. He thought the date went well but she never called him back nor did she reply to his text messages so he looked her up online, found her e-mail address and wrote her a letter about how sad and disappointed he was in her for not hearing from him and that he would have appreciated it she had just told him she wasn't interested in a second date or seeing him at all. So now he feels that she "owes" him an apology. All in all, he's feeling the same way women feel when men just leave then and never call back.

Next time, read the article and stop being lazy.

Romance › Re: To All Men by InkedNerd(f): 9:31am On Jan 01, 2012

In as much as I understand why he feels the way he does, I don't think she owes him an apology or an explanation. Yes, it sucks that she didn't give him a reason for not getting in contact with him after their date but she doesn't owe him anything at the end of it all--it would have been the descent thing to do but not a requirement. In all, he should just move on. If she really has become less appealing like he claims she has become, then he should just chuck it up and look at it as a blessing. He has now seen something about her he doesn't like so he should move on. From what I've gathered from the letter, he sounds like a man who has been scorned. I guess this is something for some men to think about when they lead women on only to leave then with no explanation for their abrupt absence.

Romance › Re: 99-year-old Man Divorcing 97 year-old Wife Due To 1940s Affair by InkedNerd(f): 8:36am On Jan 01, 2012

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=835678.msg9873133#msg9873133 date=1325381961]@inked-nerd,

when you are near your deathbed. the pain of divorce is enough.
@ 97 yrs of age what is he going to do if he finds out his 5 children, 12 grandchildren and great grand child are not his? commit suicide?

the divorce I'm sure is to spite the wife and make her suffer (a bit understandable. but not something I would do). but paternity test is pointless. unless he's trying to punish himself and children.[/quote]How would you know he is feeling pain from the divorce? Are you in his mind? Are you is heart? Just because you would keel over because of something like this doesn't that he would. Everyone is different! Unless you're a mind reader or have some sort of supernatural powers that enable you to see into people's minds and souls, I doubt that you can say that he is in pain. For all you know, the guy may be completely happy! For all you know, this may be the happiest he's felt in his life. Why shouldn't he know if those children are his own? Just because it happened long ago doesn't make her foolish actions excusable.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Do U Do When U'r Lonely? by InkedNerd(f): 7:52am On Jan 01, 2012

slimyem:
now,this is a real depressant!

Yeah, I know but its kind of a personal yet pleasant moment for me. When I fall asleep to the sad music, I usually end up still feeling lonely but its not as bad as before. I just take a hot shower afterwards then wrap myself in a warm blanket. Eventually the loneliness goes away.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 7:48am On Jan 01, 2012

Lonely but nice. I got a really pleasant phone call from my best friend which really cheered me up.

Nairaland General › Re: What Are Your Plans For The New Year? by InkedNerd(f): 11:09pm On Dec 31, 2011

To be happy.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Do U Do When U'r Lonely? by InkedNerd(f): 8:33pm On Dec 31, 2011

sauer:
sorry? I meant the 1995 Oklahoma City bombing!

Na wa for you. I remember that bombing vaguely.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Do U Do When U'r Lonely? by InkedNerd(f): 8:22pm On Dec 31, 2011

sauer:
^^the bombing did. . .you should admit!

It didn't stop my groove but I will admit that when I do hear abou those things, it makes me both sad and scared. . . Especially for little children. Its one thing for adults to deal with something like that but for a child, that can be very traumatic. And knowing how Nigerians are about certain things, people don't always stop to think about the psychological effects it has on our children. I just wish it would all stop.

Forum Games › Re: *.*.*.Which Celebrity Does The Nairalander Above You Represent?*.*.*. by InkedNerd(f): 8:16pm On Dec 31, 2011

[quote author=p_kasso link=topic=424884.msg9871433#msg9871433 date=1325356807]Sorry! kiss

@OP Amber Rose[/quote]Amber Rose?!?! lol, that's so random but its a lot better than Donatella Versace grin

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Do U Do When U'r Lonely? by InkedNerd(f): 8:10pm On Dec 31, 2011

sauer:
Since the bombing. . . .

No bomb can deter my groove grin

IbroSaunks:
Maybe you did, but good thing about NL is, you can always catch up by clicking Recent!

Ok, thanks wink

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Do U Do When U'r Lonely? by InkedNerd(f): 8:07pm On Dec 31, 2011

sauer:
That's cos she took a break. She was one hell of a poster Letz see if she gets back her groove on

Since when do I ever lose my groove? grin

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Do U Do When U'r Lonely? by InkedNerd(f): 8:05pm On Dec 31, 2011

IbroSaunks:
I haven't seen an inked_nerd post in a while,

lol I'm back now. How's everything going? I hope I didn't miss much.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: What Do U Do When U'r Lonely? by InkedNerd(f): 7:55pm On Dec 31, 2011

I curl up in a ball in my bed, listen to sad music, and let my mind drift until I fall asleep.

Romance › Re: What Kind Of Hairstyle Do Ladies Prefer On Their Men. by InkedNerd(f): 7:49pm On Dec 31, 2011

chipmunkey:
There should be a style that appeals to you. Just saying.

Skin head and Afro works best for me. I hardly find stylists who can do a perfect short hair for me.
Braids and dreads? I cannot dare cuz my family will disown me. LMAO!

Nope, there's no particular hairstyle. I been with guys with long hair, short hair, no hair, locs, etc. For me it just depends on the guy's overall look, style, and lifestyle. I'm not too picky about a guys hair.

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Forum Games › Re: *.*.*.Which Celebrity Does The Nairalander Above You Represent?*.*.*. by InkedNerd(f): 7:38pm On Dec 31, 2011

[quote author=p_kasso link=topic=424884.msg9871341#msg9871341 date=1325355763]Donatella Versace tongue

[/quote]Meanie! You know that woman is ugly cry

Romance › Re: out! by InkedNerd(f): 7:31pm On Dec 31, 2011

I can't say that I've ever had the desire to just go sleep with random people after a breakup but I don't always think that is a healthy thing to do. Emotionally speaking, people tend to do that thinking it will fill the void that they're now experiencing but in reality, it only adds onto the emptiness. If you really wanna sleep around with random people, don't do it because your hurting on the inside. Take some time to reflect before you just throw yourself into situations like that. If you wanna sleep around just for the sake of doing it then that's a whole 'nother story. Yes, its fücked up to be alone or feel alone around this time of year but try to cheer up and look towards prospects of the new year wink

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