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 Romance › Re: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 7:25pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
kokoye:lol its not different from my other responses. Maybe its becasue its been a while since I was on Nairaland. I responded the way I did to bin gbagbo give him a bit of what eh was dishing out  kokoye:lol, she go come fight you o! [quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=839545.msg9902539#msg9902539 date=1325787885]*grabs a bucket of pop-corn and finds a seat in a safe distance*[/quote]Make I join you. Watching these two rip each other apart should be entertaining. Pass the popcorn please  |
| Romance › Re: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 7:21pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=839545.msg9902505#msg9902505 date=1325787565]That's why his Joystick is little.  [/quote]Chei, war don start! |
| Romance › Re: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 7:18pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
kokoye:Huh?! But I always respond like this  kokoye:Lmao [quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=839545.msg9902487#msg9902487 date=1325787380]I never disclosed a school, you must got me confused with [/quote]Ummmm, sista Chima, I think hes's trying to make fun of you |
| Romance › Re: Think by InkedNerd(f): 7:11pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
@OP: Yes, I have |
| Romance › Re: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 7:07pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
Freiburger:Clearly, her response has nothing to do with her being racist. Although the OP mentioned a nationality, we are all aware that the general racial make up of Nigeria is black. With that being said, her argument is highly valid. Her response was in reference to the fact that he specifically named Nigerian girls [excluding other ethnicities/expats who obtain Nigerian citizenship]!!! His ill concieved arguement is based on the fact that these black girls in Nigeria are fake because of the reasons he named which include, their hair, nails, make up, etc. to which Goldieluks responds by pointing out to him that the things he seems to love complaining about are not things that are found solely among Nigerian women. She then goes on to point out that white women [just like the black Nigerian women that bin gbagbo is condemning] also get procedures that give them a "fake" appearance as well. These things include but are not limited to, fake hair extensions, brëast augmentation, fake eyelashes, fake nails, botox injection, etc. So please tell me and everyone else here how that is racist? I can name other ethnic groups who are "fake" as well since this has apparently turned into a racial matter. kokoye:I call it how I see it. All I did was give him what he put out. Na crime? |
| Romance › Re: Cheaters T V Show Now Available Kenyan Edition by InkedNerd(f): 6:49pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
@OP: That video was disgusting even if she was cheating on him, that's no reason to beat and kick her. He's a pathetic man. It's disgusting that such a show exist. I don't even like when I watch the American version let alone an African version. [quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=839682.msg9902278#msg9902278 date=1325785603]Kenyan women are paying investigators to confirmed what they already know? WTF.  [/quote]Ask am o!! Cheating men is nothing new. |
| Romance › Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 6:44pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=838273.msg9902234#msg9902234 date=1325785138]You shouldn't even responded to that dumb arse. He is suffering for female attention and tired of making a date with right hand and vaseline.[/quote]Vaseline?! I thought he was just working with his raw ashy skin |
| Romance › Re: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 6:36pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
freecocoa:lol |
| Romance › Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 6:33pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
lefulefu:Chei, see buffoonery and hypocrisy at its best. Oya, kettle meet pan. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 6:29pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
@OP: I feel asleep in my first class but just for a few mninutes |
| Romance › Re: What Birthday Gift Can One Give To A Guy by InkedNerd(f): 6:15pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
jay bee:Sure, no problem. Just lemme know when and we can set something up [quote author=Divine R. link=topic=839352.msg9901972#msg9901972 date=1325782143]@Inked_Nerd, you are right, but we planned going out, just needed some simple to offer.[/quote]Hmmm, well if he's into his appearance or hygiene you could get him a nice perfume or bath set. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: 9ja Women Always Faking! by InkedNerd(f): 5:51pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
bin gbagbo:What the fück is your problem?!?! I don't see you complaining when you see women in music videos with their fakes butts, make up, fake nails, fake teeth, fake eyes, etc. Men like you are the sort who are quick to praise Nicki Minaj while in the same breath condemn your sisters. While I will admit, I hate weaves just as much as the next guy but that doesn't mean I will go on some tirade about women wearing fake this or that. You wanna talk about people being fake, let's talk about your Naija brothers who go around stunttin' like they have money when they know damn well they are living with their parents, borrowing their friends clothes, getting pocket change from their parents and trying to play it off like they make real money, can barely afford to feed themsleves, wear fake designer clothes, doing 419 and acting like they've got legit jobs, etc. The list goes on and on since I'm just getting started. When actually presented with a girl who is in her natural state you all will have something to complain about and will STILL be salivating when you see the "fake" ones walk by. Please, you and your likes need to get over yourself. Until you strip that brain of yours of your ignorance do not expect what you don't put out. Don't expect a thoroughbred if you yourself are a cheap imitation. |
| Romance › Re: What Birthday Gift Can One Give To A Guy by InkedNerd(f): 5:44pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
@OP: You don't have to give him a gift. You could ask him if there is something special he'd like to do oor if there is anywhere special he'd like to go. That could help. On my birthday, myt best friend too me out instead of buying me a gift 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 5:19pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
Ozichim:This isn't about whether or not he truly loves her. That is NOT how you treat another human being plain and simple. Do we all need to write it in big bold letters for her [or you for that matter] to get it?! Look at you telling her not to be so quick to follow others perople's advice because she doesn't know her yet your in the same boat giving her "advice" on how she should go about resolving this matter. |
| Romance › Re: Funny Excuses People Use To Quit A Relationship. by InkedNerd(f): 8:24am On Jan 05, 2012 |
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=736597.msg9898332#msg9898332 date=1325748062]I hear you sista, but service animals are trained to be approachable to people because they encounters people everyday depending on their master. Even if the animals doesn't like the person, the person shouldn't miss out on their love. Animals are protective of their masters and if animals sense something off about you, they will bark about it. I guess it is safe to say that the person didn't like the animal. [/quote]lol, I've seen people say that they don't wanna date someone because the person didn't like their cat or that the cat didn't like the person |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Did Your Day Go? by InkedNerd(f): 8:16am On Jan 05, 2012 |
@OP: My day is ummm. . . I'm not sure yet. I need to go to bed since I have a class in the morning. I'll just give an update in a couple of hours. Time for bed  |
| Romance › Re: Funny Excuses People Use To Quit A Relationship. by InkedNerd(f): 8:11am On Jan 05, 2012 |
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=736597.msg9898247#msg9898247 date=1325746991]LMAO@Inkie You na gon kill me! Aaaaah![/quote]You know, I could kind of understand where they were coming from if the animals are service animals but if they're not servie animals then I'm really not sure what to say to things like that |
| Romance › Re: Funny Excuses People Use To Quit A Relationship. by InkedNerd(f): 7:54am On Jan 05, 2012 |
@OP: Ummm, I don't know if this counts but. . . I've heard of people telling others that they couldn't date them because their pets didn't like the person |
| Romance › Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 5:08am On Jan 05, 2012 |
eatme:No offense but I don't think I came off strong. People [especially Africans] tend to down play matters of abuse. There are times when people need to be direct with one another instead of just beating around the bush and watering down the subject. I come across articles online about this sort of thing in African homes and when I see how law enforcement, loved ones, and religious institutions react towards the victims, it sickens me. If being vocal about a pressing issue is in your eyes coming off strong then so be it. I wasn't trying to pick a fight, but it seems that that is how you interpreted my responses. Like I said, I don't sit around and wait for something to happen before an issue is actually addressed. |
| Romance › Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 4:51am On Jan 05, 2012 |
eatme:I'm not fighting you! It's just a discussion |
| Romance › Re: Requires A Little Honesty by InkedNerd(f): 4:27am On Jan 05, 2012 |
[quote author=deal_ordea link=topic=837843.msg9886513#msg9886513 date=1325593278]This topic deals with long term relationships where one or both partners engage in infidelity. I've been gone for some hour. But, during that time I did a little research. Several peeps in my circle of friends are in unhappy relationships, getting divorced and or having affairs. Those of you who Know my story realize I fall in to one of these categories before. My research which did not start out that way(I was just venting my pain)consisted of choosing the right moment to confront several of these individuals and ask why their relationships failed or were failing. Almost all of the Nigerian Brothers complained of the sex becoming less frequent. The time frame for this was a 3-5 yr mark. Now sisters please do not get angry? There were only 2 women who weren't related to me that spoke what I perceived to be pure honesty. All together there were 4. The other two being relatives. When I asked why the sex became less frequent? All agreed they just wasn't feeling intimate towards their man. When I probed further all but 1 express desire for another man. Someone they knew or just being open to someone different. I suspect my cousins were already in an affair. Here's my question. 1.Ladies, Is the idea of women being naturally monogamous a myth? 2. If it is then why do women deny themselves intimate fulfillment. Is it because of men and our insecurity dealing with paternity? The stigma of being called for a better word loose? I believe there's something to this. How do we explain the majority of divorces and separations having been initiated by women. Peace Out[/quote]Well, 25omega has already given you some insight to your question. For the most part OP, I'm a bit curious to know why this inquiry is primarily focused on women. Men do play a key role in these matters because clearly these women are not in this situation all on their own. To answer your first question, human beings as a whole are not naturally monogamous creatures. Like I've said before on Nairaland and I'll say it again, as human beings we are not genetically designed to be with just one person. Is it possible for you to be with one person? Yes, it is but overall, we're not monogamous creatures. If that were the case, we would all be with one person and ONLY one person. As for your second question, why women deny themselves of sëxual fulfillment [while married and in loveless relationships/marriages] is because unfortunately, we live in a society that is often dictated by religion and culture that has taught women that no matter the situation, there are unspoken expectations of what a woman's "role"/"position". Because of these beliefs some omen have chosen to stay in loveless relationships all for the sake of saying that their marriage hasn't failed. What at times seems to bother people the most is ridicule from the community--these are people you live with and interact with even the slightest blip that could stir up disapproval from the community as a whole is seen as something that is bad. Women who do withdraw from their husbands, partners, lovers, etc. sëxually often do it because [while married and in loveless relationships/marriages] do it because the can't bear the thought of being intimate with someone who they no longer find attractive. Can you imagine being bound to someone and then feeling that you have some kind of obligation to have sëx with them? Its one thing for you to feel that you're bound to someone, its another thing to submit yourself the the person sëxually despite the fact that what you once felt for the person no longer exists. Given that sort of scenario, some women would much rather not have sëx at all than to have sëx with someone they clearly have no feelings or desires for. As for the question of paternity, it has nothing to do with it--at least not in the manner that you're trying to relate it to women sëxually withdrawing themselves. And the stigma aspect of your question, like I said, 25omega has taken care of that part. |
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