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@OP: No offense but I'm pretty sure you must be old enough to make the decision as to what you should do on your own. Aside from the social stigma people hold against such relationships, I really see nothing "wrong" with it. I personally wouldn't date or get romantically involved with my cousin(s) but hey, this is your decision. In the technical sense, you and your cousin having a romantic relationship technically isn't Inbreeding. Just out of curiosity, if everyone on this thread had told you to go along with what your cousin wants, would you have gone through with a relationship? Or if everyone was against the idea, would you have declined her propositions? |
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=763082.msg9177100#msg9177100 date=1316441182]Well, I have been fighting men for about six months and dodging my stalkers. ![]() Did you read the article about companies are only hiring those who are working to keep the unemployment rate up as a strategy to get rid of President Obama?[/quote]lol no I haven't heard that but I wouldn't be surprised if that were true. Let's not derail the threat with our mini politics. Last thing I need is to be scolded on my first day back ![]() |
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=763082.msg9177072#msg9177072 date=1316440868]Innnnkieeeeeeee How you be suga?[/quote]I dey o!! School started all over so I've been layin' low for a bit. How 'bout you? Wettin dey happen? |
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=763082.msg9177041#msg9177041 date=1316440629]Did someone hacked into Inkie's account? ![]() |
@OP: I like lean and toned body. That is one thing that can really catch my attention when it comes to a guy's physique!! I've always said it before and I'll say it again, I like a guy who has a body like Michale Phelps. Athletes like swimmers, water polo players, track and field runners, football players, are all sexy to men--especially if they're tall
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[b]@OP: [/b]Yes, some women can. Now ask yourself, can men date a woman for a whole year without asking or demanding for sex? |
Pardon me Princek12[b]. . . [/b] BABE!, where you dey? |
Princek12:Exactly, its more about personal gain. Hell, I wouldn't have even minded if she did the whole thing just to show her Ghanaian pride. But the fact that she intended to represent another country but couldn't achieve that, then used another country as her rebound country, that just seems really foul. Its like a slap in the face to the people of Ghana. Having a Ghanian father was the only thing that saved here here because if she didn't, her dreams of competing in Miss Universe would have ended when she lost in her attempt to be Miss USA. By the way, if any of you have read the Miss Universe rules for competing, she technically isn't qualified to compete in the Miss USA pageant again since she already did it before. She's exceeded the number of times one can compete in the US so all in all, being Miss Universe via Miss Ghana would have been her last shot. shesi:Its a public forum my dear. You don't have to address me or anyone else directly for me or anyone else to respond to a post. Ummm hello, everyone one is addressing one another regardless of whether or not their initial comment was directed to the person. And I wasn't getting worked up--all I did was respond to a comment that caught my eye just as I did with the comments before yours. If you've got dirt to dish on the other contestants both Africans and non-Africans then feel to drop some so we can really get this conversation movin' |
shesi:Firs of all, I could care less if she was the lightest, prettiest, or most ethnically diverse person in the pageant. Someone asked a question about Miss Ghana. Since no one else aswered, I decided to answered it. Go re-read how it started then perhaps you'd see why my response was geared towards Miss Ghana. Second, had anyone asked a question about the ethnicity of the other contestants, I would have answered the question if I knew or heard anything that pertained to the others--I haven't heard any information or controversy surrounding the other women hence my response on the subject matter and the direction its been steered into. Third, all I did was point out what I noticed some Ghanaians complaining about. If you have any issues with the fact that I pointed it out then too bad for you. If you like, sit in front of the computer and give me all the examples you like. I stated the information that I knew. Whether or not I referenced Miss Ghana, Miss Angola, Miss Botswana or any other African or non-African beauty queen, I would have still commented if there was ANY controversy surrounding ANY other women of the competition. I don't know about other people but I have no bitterness towards towards my Ghanaian brothers and sisters nor any other Africans. Since I've been on this site, not once have I made a disparaging comment towards Ghanaians or other Africans on Nairaland--if anything, I frown upon such behavior when it comes the whole "Nigeria versus Ghana" nonsense. If other people have some kind if inbred hatred for Ghanaians then address them directly. The subject matter of this thread as a whole is on the African contestants so whether or not people choose to talk about all of the contestants or only one contestant is up to the individuals on the thread and how they direct the conversation. Last time I checked, Miss Ghana is contestant [even if it's by rebound or default] hence the reason why this discussion even exists. I'm not trying to come off as a hater or a Debbie downer. . . If I was, I would have been bashing ALL of them from the get go. This is a public forum and just like everyone else, I'm having a discussion. |
shesi:No one is picking on Miss Ghana. If you had read through the thread properly, you would have realized two things 1) the thread isn't about Miss Ghana 2) no one is obsessing about Ghana. Initially, the subject on Miss Ghana started when someone asked if she was mixed to which I gave an answer to. Upon giving that answer, I stumbled upon some controversy surrounding Miss Ghana and her title. Personally, I see no problem or harm in her competing regardless of whether she is light skinned or dark skinned--what I have problem with is the deceit behind her title. The controversy stems from the fact that she's NOT a Ghanaian citizen nor did she reside in Ghana. Yes, I will admit, some people in this thread have gone overboard with the bashing and have gone somewhat off topic but the fact still remains that the girl has a title she shouldn't be claiming. The supposed point of the competition is to be a cultural ambassador for your country--how can she be a cultural ambassador to a country she barely has ties to? It's wrong on both her part and the Ghanaian officials to have allowed her to have the title--not only are they taking it away from someone else who is culturally in sync with Ghana but they are lying to themselves, the people of Ghana, and the global community of people who are competing. I have yet to hear of the same, if any controversy from contestants from the other countries both African and non-Africans. I'm not saying that no other country is doing this or has done it in the past. Unlike the other African women competing, there aren't any controversies [that we know of] surrounding them. If you or anyone uncovers information surrounding any of the other contestants then feel free to disclose them, after all the thread is about the African contestants of Miss Universe. |
@Rhino.5dm & gidson12: Can me not turn thing into a man-lover bashing issue? This isn't what the thread was intended for. [quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=738602.msg8969987#msg8969987 date=1313864589]Then tell your Nigerian sister to take off her weave or to use her natural hair. Is Nigeria hair straight and red?[/quote]LOL when some of my friends saw her, they laughed like crazy because they said she looked beautiful but fake. Hehehe, I'm not gonna lie when I saw her video online asking people to vote for her I laughed so hard because she looked like she was trying to put on some sex kitten person. ghboytelle:Awww, not nice ![]() [quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=738602.msg8969971#msg8969971 date=1313864398]You're displaying your raging inferiority complex here too, if I might add. Ms Ghana is a beautiful woman, and a ghanaian to boot. So what if she was picked? Look at this ignorant display here. What is wrong with being dark? What is wrong with being light? Should ms Ghanaian be discriminated against just because she's not a full Ghanaian or just because she has that Caucasoid future? The same way Caucasians discriminate against African futures is what you have Africans doing to Caucasoid future on this thread. Hypocrisy is Nigeria's best feature. The chick is beautiful and she deserve to run. Look at Ms. Nigeria for instance, Light skin and red hair etc. . . . which NORMAL Nigerian girl has that future? Abeg, face your burning home make we hear word. Dont hate because ms. Ghana looks better than M.s Nigeria. Heck, 80% of African contestants look better than Ms. Nigeria, even as much as she tries to make herself look westernized.[/quote]No one is saying she shouldn't run because she is part white and Persian--its because she is NOT a Ghanaian citizen nor was or is she a Ghanaian resident. She's just there while there prepping her for the Miss Universe competition. Aside from the fact that her father is Ghanaian, she has no ties to Ghana--that's what's got people so worked up about her. The fact that she is just lying despite the fact that people know the truth. It's a cultural clap to the face for the people of Ghana. Had this girl at least been born in Ghana or at least lived there for some time, then that would be a different story but its not the case. She lost the Miss USA pageant and claimed the Miss Ghana title so she could continue to compete. Toaskarity:I don't tee any hatred in his comment either. All is said was something that is very prevalent in MANY African countries. Princek12:I understand that you didn't like what otumfour said but its no reason to say such a thing. We are only having a discussion--its not a fight to the death. I really hope you didn't mean what you said. otumfour:There is nothing wrong in what Princek12. He stated the facts for what they were. Princek12:Yes, so very true ![]() I guess the Ghanaian officials wanna win my any means. [quote author=Bandit C. link=topic=738602.msg8970346#msg8970346 date=1313868695]Which one be ''caucasoid future''? Chai, illiteracy is a curse, lol. [/quote]Lmao ![]() |
xynerise:You know its one thing for you think your beliefs are correct, its another thing when you go around spewing incorrect information and putting blame on innocent victims. "Indecent" clothes are not the reason why there is rạpe. Rạpe isn't about sex, it is about control. People like YOU are the the reason why rạpe victims have a hard time coming forward. By saying the way a rạpe victim dresses is the reason why they are rạped, you not only further age old myths about rạpe, YOU condole them and allow it it continue. What kind of man are you to condemn a rạpe victim? If you don't realize that that's what you've just done, well then now you know. It's disgusting that despite all the information that is out there, people continue to have such notions. Even if someone was walking around nạked, is that any reason to rạpe the individual? Is there ever any reason for anyone to be rạped? Mind what you say because there are people out there who are suffering and cannot come forward because people like you automatically put blame on them. It's easy to blame the victim huh? The victim is the one that forced the rạpist eh? My stance on this issue has nothing to do with Western or Nigerian society so let's get that straight. You have yet to answer deadie's question on what is defined as "indecent". Do you know how many people both men and women who are fully clothed and are prȯstitutes? Don't judge a book by its cover. Whether or not your are claiming to be a holy man is irreverent. What makes it ok for you or anyone else for that matter to tell someone what or how they should wear their clothes? What sort of innate feeling is it that you possess that seems to make you think its ok for you to dictate how one chooses to dress? By the way, since you made mentioned of the the mixing of Western culture and Nigerian culture, keep in mind this same thing your advocating is what was culturally forced on your forefathers and foremothers. The clothes that you wear today are not the clothes of those who came before you. Someone just like yourself looked at them, your forefathers and foremothers and deemed the way they dressed to be indecent and at times immoral. |
Yield:It's not because she's mixed, light skin, or not 100% Ghanaian. It's because she isn't a Ghanaian citizen nor was she ever been a resident of Ghana which is why some people believe that they picked her just because she was light skinned and mixed so it would give Ghana a better chance at winning since she doesn't have the features of a "typical Ghanaian". Basically, she was born and raised in the US. She tried out for Miss USA and didn't get the title so I guess she figured that her best shot at claiming the title of Miss Universe was to claim the title of Miss Ghana. I can totally understand why the Ghanaian citizens would be upset. It's almost like a slap in the face--as if there weren't any women in Ghana who qualified for the title. I could even understand if she was born in the country but raised in the US and just wants to represent her homeland but in reality, that just isn't the case. Although in interviews she says she lives in Ghana, apparently, its a lie. She [Miss Ghana] has even talked openly about how her father was absent from her life while growing up which leaves me to believe that she probably has no actual connection or ties to Ghana [besides her father]. |
deadie:Tell am o!!!! With all honesty, I have been wondering the same thing. |
Yield:She's multiethnic. Her father is black and her mother is a mixture of caucasian and Persian. Here's the link >>> http://ghanagreat..com/2011/07/yayra-erica-nego-wins-miss-universe.html Apparently, some Ghanaian's are upset that she is even in the pageant. Doesn't surprise me though |
xynerise:What I am in support of is people choosing how they want to dress, whether it's fully clothed or half nạked. Its not my life nor is it my body. I don't have the right to tell someone else what they should or shouldn't wear on their body. Your religious background can't dictate how someone else lives their life. Even if I was saying that I feel that everyone should walk around nạked, is that any reason for you to have called me a pagan? Or for you to have told me to use my head? Lemme tell you something, there was a time when I was younger there was a particular way that I liked to dress. My parents didn't find it appealing because it wasn't what they liked--it wasn't because I was showing a lot of skin or not wearing a lot of clothes, it was because they personally disliked the style. It wasn't a style that scared people off or gave them a bad perception if me, they just didn't like it because it didn't suit their taste. I looked as you call it "decent" yet because they didn't find it appealing, they referred to it as indecent. Even this past summer while I was walking on my campus, I was wearing some simple shorts [which by the way weren't very short] and a tank top--I got tons of compliments on the outfit but noticed that when I passed by Orthodox Jewish women and Muslim women, I'd get dirty looks. My point here what one person may call decent, another may refer to it as indecent. I have no personal issues with you either, I was just stating my views on the subject. |
xynerise:Excuse me? So because you or others follow a supposed major religion, everyone else must adhere to the supposed religious practices of that religion? Why should your personal religious beliefs dictate how someone else lives their life? And for the record, if you wanna make your point, you don't need to resort to childish insults. Grown up and stop having a hissy fit justbecause I chose to voice my opinion on this subject. Did I at any point in time tell you that you must believe or agree with what my views were? Did I tell specifically your views were wrong? Did I call you names of any sort? Did I try to belittle you? Please answer those questions since apparently your so keen on wanting to have a discussion on this matter. I simply stated my own opinion. If you are looking for a forum where everyone will nod in agreement to what you've said then I suggest you look elsewhere. When you learn to speak like an adult and stop throwing around underhanded childish insults then we can have a real discussion. In the meantime I suggest you grow and and learn to play with others since that seems to be something you don't know how to do. |
Pweety4me:Here ya go ![]() [flash=400,400] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7JAoKRgcvKA&feature=channel_video_title[/flash] |
kandiikane:So very true ![]() |
blink182:Yeah, I did but now my summer classes are done so I've been back for a while. I just haven't been posting in the romance or sexuality section. When I'm ready to come back to those sections, you'll know ![]() |
@OP: Who are you to tell someone what is decent and what isn't? What one person may consider decent may be inappropriate to another. I'll admit, I may not like the way someone else dresses but that doesn't give me the right to tell the person what or how they should dress. Even suggesting such a law leaves a lot of people open to harassment, discrimination, and unnecessary punishment. |
What does being a man have to do with not being fan? ![]() |
Pageants as a whole suck. They objectify women. All these women are beautiful in their own way. By the way, I heard a lot of people saying that the only reason Ms. Ghana was chosen was because she's light skinned and that the Ghanaian's thought they'd have a better chance at winning with someone who doesn't look like the "typical" Ghanaian. I wish she would have kept her curly rather than straighten it. She looks like a different person with her curly hair.
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Personally, I don't think using the Bible or any other religious text as reference should be a reason to use an animal's skin for clothes but I do not see anything wrong in using an animal for clothes as a whole [just as long as their not endangered]. Personally, the main issue I have with the using an animals skin for clothing is the methods that are used. Often times when these animals have their skin extracted from them, they are still alive--that in my opinion is a VERY cruel way for a person to take an animals life. Also, in a lot of those places where animals are skinned, the workers who work there purposely torture them before the skin is removed. As a living creature, I can only imagine the sort of pain these animals must be feelings. The idea of using the skin is ok, but to torture an animal and to do it while its alive, that's just horrible. I've always known about the practices that go on is such places but it wasn't until I saw "Earthlings" that I really got to see what it was like. I'm not a squeamish person but to see those images was quite sickening, especially for those who were just doing it for the fun of it. Here's the link if you wanna take a look at it [flash=400,400] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nkLt88_u5lQ[/flash] |
Mcleo007:Yeah, it is appalling ![]() |
@OP: I noticed that you referenced women as if men don't go out of their way to wear the latest trends. Having the desire to wear the latest trends isn't something that only women do. I know some Ghanaian and Nigerian guys here in New York who go above and beyond to make sure they have the latest styles and fashion--they're all good guys who surprisingly are not living above their means. They just know how to make their money work for them. There's nothing wrong with a person wanting to look good. Ultimately, it is up to the individual to decide how much they want to spend on what they wear and how they present themselves. If the person has the financial means to do so then fine but if the person can barely feed themselves yet is dying to have the latest trend, then that's a bit of an issue. Who are any of you to tell someone how much they should or shouldn't spend? Their money, their life. Yes, I will admit, some people do go overboard when it comes to fashion but its not my place nor yours to tell someone what they should spend their money on. |
I have no problem going to a male hair stylist just as long as he knows what he's doing. Such notions about male hairdressers are stereotypes just as how non-blacks see black people and equate them with violence and crime. A persons ṡexual orientation has nothing to do with my hair or how well they can style my hair--all I ask is that the person be knowledgeable and listens to my need as a customer ![]() |
uzoo:Smh, that reminds me of when my sister went to a salon near our house to get a touch up. So when sister got to the salon, she took a seat and the hair dresser started applying the relaxer to her roots. After some time, the relaxer started to burn and my sister told the woman and the woman said to her, "No it's not. Keep it in a little longer". Five minutes later my sister told the same idiȯt that the relaxer was starting to burn and once again the idiȯt tells her to leave it on longer. At this point, my sister was getting upset so she told the woman that the relaxer was starting to burn and then finally the dummy washed it out!! When she washed it, she was messy while shampooing the relaxer out of her hair. Then on top of that, she didn't even have towels to dry my sisters hair. . . She used paper towels!!! Can you believe that?!?!? When she was done I could tell right off the bat that my sister's hair looked different. It was very limp, had burns, and had a nasty crispy feeling to it. When she went to the Dominican salon, not once did she get a burn on her scalp or have crispy looking/feeling hair!!! Her hair was always bouncy and flowy!! To make things worse, the hairdresser was drinking Corona and talking about smoking weed the whole time while my sister was getting her hair done. Talk about unprofessional! It's sad because because salons like that are the same kind that complain that Dominican salons are taking their businesses away from them. What do you expect when you provide bad service like that?! ![]() |
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