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Candyness:
^^Desperate

lindabon:
@OP, well said . . .

The one that beats me is the kind of loveless marriages most 9ja girls end up in, just in the name of marriage. Take it or live it, Some people enjoy being single;Why it pains others is what baffles me.

And yes the rate at which most 9ja men use marriage to get laid is just alarming and embarrassing. When the marriage tactics doesn't work, they will switch to advising on how good it will be for the lady to have children for him while she is still young bla bla bla. If that one still doesn't work, they will now start giving you their phone to yarn with their family members. . . . NA TODAY! ! 

For those complaining that OP is consoling herself; first try and read meaning into the point here first

1. there is no place she mentioned that she is against marriage or that she doesn't want to get married.
2. she isn't consoling herself

The point stressed here is that marriage is not a do or die affair! I know a lot of ladies back home who have either become depressed, gone out of their minds or have become deluded as a result of their unmarried status<<< Now tell me, for someone going through such psychological issues, how will they even attract the opposite gender.This post is just saying that unmarried ladies should still find something to live for other than "men"! Instead of them to wallow in pity,  why not cultivate that wasted energy into something more positive; doing things that will make them happy, Thinking about how to increase their financial status, going on holiday, visiting nice places, making friends, etc.

Pastors that wont get off your back about the issue of marriage are the ones that are relying on your tithes and offerings, and other cash that they can scheme from you as a result of your sad state.
Men that keep harassing you with overtly empty marriage proposals are losers.
And people that keep hiding under the pretense that marriage is everything, need some serious reality check! 

If a lady is going to die single by no choice of her own, why not live her years in happiness instead of living the rest of her life in dismay, disappointment and agony! that's the "main" point of in this post. 

tiniyata:
@nerd if thats your own little way of sayin hi then kick your a$$ urself- meanin hello

tiniyata:
@nerd stay away from me in GOds name, u started it all n now u'r talkin immaturity. i just dont wish to have your time since u are tryin to gain my attention

BoboYekini:
if anything, wouldnt tatoos put more strain on the stretched skin?
You could try loosing some weight/toning those shoulders, you'll look sexier, and they say it reduces the visibility(of stretch marks).

jovi:
Yes inked nerd at mega care pharmacy awolowo road ikoyi. Btw which colour is the medimix pack you use,? Orange or light/dark green?

tiniyata:
hey @inked_pervert how's dt supposed to your business. and who told you i never read al she wrote look u beta stay away from me as i not into sugar mommies

tellwisdom:
You and i know what our sisters are capable of, im a living witness to this. Roger dat!! #No sentiments here

tiniyata:
thread too long. OP go and get married and stop consolin yourself, n no b by grammar

mimi234:
Contrary to what everyone is saying,

I believe its healthy to set traps (just don't do it too many times) however it depends on the relationship,

If the relationship is fairly new or still on the boyfriend/girlfriend stage then how can you possibly talk about trust , the couple is still building up their trusts -  there are different levels of trust and soo setting up traps at different stages in the relationship will only make you trust your partner even more, such traps doesn't need to be full CSI-type traps lol, just simple little tests just to see how they react given certain situation

HOWEVER

If the couple in question is married then SHAME ON YOU marriage should be completely based on trust - if your thinking of setting traps then its like your doubting the relationship, which just brings stress etc etc

9jafreak:
My apologies for my earlier assumption: I made it because it seems to hold true in the majority of cases I have counselled. But the other possibilities exist within the limits I provided: Girls/Guys with bad relationships just give up on everything, changing sexualities, or pure wantonness or youthful lusts.

Marriage is NOT compulsory. Not even according to the Bible. It is the reason a man/woman chooses to do so that counts.

In most cases, it is because they have thrown away all forms of decency and morality.

jovi:
Pls where can i get this soap in lagos.
Chandrika Ayurvedic soap.

Pls anyone with info ?

@ timi 1990, I have seen Medimix at Megacare pharmacy on Awolowo road, Ikoyi,