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RomanceRe: In Love With A Muslim( Middleeastern) by InkedNerd(f): 1:53am On Aug 13, 2011
@OP: I think you should just go for it. There's only one way to know and that's if you give it a try. Ya never know, things might actually work out. Besides, there are many people all over the world who are of different cultural and religious backgrounds and they make it work. Please don't let something like religion ruin what you and that girl have. Just give it a go.
RomanceRe: Pay Back by InkedNerd(f): 11:42pm On Aug 12, 2011
pc guru:
awesome response

loving it. cheesy
grin
RomanceRe: Pay Back by InkedNerd(f): 11:33pm On Aug 12, 2011
bvc:
Deniyor, u know wat am sayin! am nt sayin he's ryt, he aint. its her body, yeah. she dint cheat, yeah. slpin arnd is nt bad again? sumbdy pls update me. 2ndly, shudnt she tel him all she did? 3rdly, do u thnk he wud hv bn beggin if he knew wat she did? dere r exceptns though
Exceptions my foot!!! Why is it not ok for her to sleep around? If she wants to have casual sex with someone and is being safe about it then why is that such an issue? He [the cheating boyfriend] isn't obligated to know anything that takes place prior to them dating or getting back together. Most likely he wouldn't be begging if he had know she was with other men but I'm quite sure had it been the other way around, he would have left her a long time ago and on top of all of that, the ONLY reason the subject of begging has come into this is because he was found out. Had his girlfriend not found out I'm pretty sure he'd still be gallivanting. All in all, if the guy should be upset or mad at someone it is himself because had his foolish action not occurred, then they'd still be together.

deniyor:
Different strokes for different folks. I like to know what I'm dealing with when I go into a relationship with a girl, and I like the girl to know what she is dealing with so I tell her whats up.

If she knew she was going to take the guy back, but used the opportunity to sleep around, that's so not cool. I wouldn't date such after I know that.  
Lets look at it from an outsider's view. There are two we know who are dating. They break up for a week or two but probably a lot of us don't know they are broken up. some of us might know its just a fight or something. Next thing, we see the girl sleeping around, and then the next week we see the two lovebirds together as usual. Anyone is just going to think  the guy is a fool.
Cheating on your partner is a lot of disrespect. So is the way the lady reacted.

If a lady cheats on me, I give her the boot. End of Story. In the event I, for any weird reason get back with her, then it doesn't give me the right to cheat cos she has before.
Yes, I know cheating is disrespectful but he brought it all on himself. I acknowledge that she may have reacted because of what he said but all in all he has no reason to be upset here. Now suppose she has no intentions on getting back at him and just changed her mind last minute?

I get what you're saying that you would like to know what you're getting yourself, but you worded it in a manner that made it seem like she had to tell him. If he asked her I could understand if she came clean about the whole thing but if you're saying that coming cleaning is a must for her then I don't agree.

bvc:
Nerd, pls answer my last question.
I was answering your questing but deniyor replied before I could hit the 'reply' button grin

BodyKiss:
You don't call it a cheat if you don't get caught.
That is complete and utter bullshit. If you're dippin' it and doin' it with someone else without the knowledge of your partner then its CHEATING!!!

deniyor:
I won't say sleeping around is bad. If it's bad for a girl, its got to be bad for a guy. If a single lady sleeps around, its her choice and her body. Yes I won't want to date such a lady but who am I to judge?

Some guys would still beg to get back together with the girl even though she's been around in their break. I have seen it a lot.Like I said, different strokes for different folks.
I just would prefer to know, cos I will take not telling me as deceit.
Deniyor, would you mind if you and I spoke outside of Nairaland?

RomanceRe: Pay Back by InkedNerd(f): 11:09pm On Aug 12, 2011
deniyor:
In the first place, the guy f, ked up. The girl did not cheat, whether it was revenge or payback or whatever you might want to say. Fact is they had broken up, I'm assuming it was an official break up so they were both free to do as they were. Going back to the guy after all that wasn't cool from the girl tho. If she knew she was going to go back, why sleep around first. Maybe she used the opportunity to do exactly what she wanted to do.
Not telling the guy her escapades will bite her in the azz later on. The guy deserves to know, if he wants to know.
Tell him about her escapades?!?! She's not obligated to tell him damn thing!!! It's her life, her sex life NOT his. Whether or not she knew she was gonna take him back is irrelevant, it is still her life so unless the guy has some invisible leash around her neck that I don't know about, I don't see why it should matter.
RomanceRe: Ladies/gents Would You? by InkedNerd(f): 10:57pm On Aug 12, 2011
Flashaldrin:
@topic, neither. thanks.
Good answer wink
RomanceRe: Pay Back by InkedNerd(f): 10:55pm On Aug 12, 2011
bvc:
I exaggerated, slow down! am sure i stated dat too. on a 2nd thot, all girls hv dat tendency, wen pushed 2 d wall hard enuf,u hv a gud gal goon bad
It's not a girl or guy thing, its a human thing. What you described is no different from what some men do when they find out that their partners have cheated on them.
RomanceRe: Pay Back by InkedNerd(f): 10:50pm On Aug 12, 2011
bvc:
well if she caught hiv, then we wud all b dead now. because 'she' is d average girl u know, d normal gf u have, she is every female out there (with a lil exageratn). am just tryin 2 show guys lik me dat at d end, females r d real playas - dey neva get caught, dey do worse, but stil listen2 appologies,,
Hmmm, guys go around Being Intimate just as the girl does. As far as I'm concerned, the guy deserves anything he gets from her or the OTHER girl he cheated on her with. I don't even like the idea of people taking someone back after they've been cheated on. Lemme share something with you I cam across Facebook since we're talking about cheating partners, "Cheaters always say it was an accident,  and that they're sorry. But that's not entirely correct. Temptation is normal, and is all around ALL of us. It's how you "respond" to temptation that defines you. That's why those that "choose" to have affairs [usually] shouldn't be given a second chance. By betraying, they have defined who they are, and in that action they showed their complete lack of respect for the other person and themselves."

sexkillz:
Like i said earlier, THE STORY DID NOT END WELL! But now i see it's from the DIRECTING! What tha hell do you mean by SHE'S EVERY FEMALE? YOU ARE WRONG ON THAT! How about FEMALES that DESIST from SUCH? You made it SOUND as if ALL MEN MUST CHEAT & ALL WOMEN MUST CHEAT in return, but WORSE! That doesnt CUT IT with me! NOT ALL MEN CHEAT & NOT ALL WOMEN CHEAT!!! This MOVIE wont SELL!!! smiley
I hate the ending too but not because she didn't get HIV. The guy fṳcked up, not her. What she chooses to do with her body while not dating him shouldn't be a concern of his or anyone else's for that matter.
RomanceRe: Pay Back by InkedNerd(f): 10:04pm On Aug 12, 2011
sexkillz:
She Over-Shagged! angry And that GUY was really PUNNY WHIPPED! He must have a heart MADE of BUTTER! undecided Some things i cant TOLERATE O! undecided
Over shagged? Who's body is it, yours or her own? She's free to do as she pleases. The guy fṳcked up, not her. If he decided to be an aṡṡ and realized what he had when it was too late then that is his fault.
RomanceRe: Pay Back by InkedNerd(f): 9:55pm On Aug 12, 2011
sexkillz:
STORY didnt END WELL!!! She should have caught AIDS!!! angry angry angry
Why? Were you one of the men she slept with? tongue
RomanceRe: Ladies/gents Would You? by InkedNerd(f): 9:51pm On Aug 12, 2011
Advocator:
LOL but we're not in the real marriage scenario now, this is a logic question and you should choose atleast one. There's no harm to it, trust me.
Sorry but I'm gonna have to go with Ohio on this one undecided
RomanceRe: The place of your dreams For your Honeymoon by InkedNerd(f): 9:48pm On Aug 12, 2011
@OP: I have a series of places. If/when I get married, I would LOVE for my partner and I to travel to various destinations on each continent.
RomanceRe: Ladies/gents Would You? by InkedNerd(f): 9:46pm On Aug 12, 2011
Advocator:
None. The options are only the ones that I t.
What kind of options are those. I can't marry someone just because they have money or are handsome tongue

PureOhio:
Yeah !

Why should it matter if one is rich/poor or handsome/ugly? undecided
Ask am o!!!
RomanceRe: Ladies/gents Would You? by InkedNerd(f): 9:40pm On Aug 12, 2011
@OP: It depends--which one is kindhearted and intelligent?
RomanceRe: What Is Your Height Limit For Dating? by InkedNerd(f): 9:31pm On Aug 12, 2011
@OP: As long as the guy is above 6'0" then I'm good.
RomanceRe: What Is Your Age Limit For Dating? by InkedNerd(f): 9:28pm On Aug 12, 2011
@OP: Hmmm, I wanna say I don't have a limit but I kinda do. My limit is a bit open minded compared to some people I know who are my own age. I generally like older guys so I wouldn't mind dating someone was perhaps 5 to 35 years old than me. I've been hit on by older gentlemen so it's not really an issue for me. I don't mind dating someone younger than me either just as long as they're legally an adult.
PoliticsRe: Ojukwu Is Dead? by InkedNerd(f): 3:12am On Aug 11, 2011
[size=14pt]Ojukwu my fellow Igbo, may you rest in peace cry[/size]

For the record, I take back all comments of bitterness I made in the past towards Ojukwu. It was based on a sense of personal sadness towards the Biafra war cry
FashionRe: High Cheek Bones by InkedNerd(f): 7:55pm On Aug 10, 2011
firestar:
I hoped you told your mom. grin
She'd probably be gushing like crazy. cheesy
I rarely see such combo. Last blue moon I encountered was insane, a guy.
Why oh why are the georgous drop-dead types so? sad
lol, its funny that you mention that because I never mentioned it to her till I saw this thread. She laugh when I told her though. Another thing is that the friend who was going on and on about mu mom, she has high cheekbones as well. The only thing is, she has a small face. It looks lovely on her though.
FashionRe: Black Hair Does Grow. Let's Prove It! by InkedNerd(f): 7:51pm On Aug 10, 2011
[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=201168.msg8875452#msg8875452 date=1312743212][b]Thanks I guess so too, I saw all ORS products (in the biggest supermarket here)  but I didn't see their extra virgin olive oil or the coconut oil they had all ORS products except those, I had already made a list of things to buy so i didn't take notice of other products, and that's why i didn't buy the ors conditioner and shampoo cos i wanted to buy creme of nature shampoo and conditioner. i was just searching for those one's, the few i took notice of were not good, I saw only one olive oil it was something Africa i can't remember but i know there's an Africa, I finally bought a moisturiser ''holly wood olive cream'' and '' ors hair mayo'' << its a protein conditioner so i wanted to ask if its okay if i use it as my normal hair conditioner or is it going to be like taking panadol when i don't have head ache? cos they said its to stop breakage and all that. I asked my bf to help me get the oils, shampoo and conditioner he's in PH so i'm hoping he will find it there, but if he doesn't God forbid, I will go for the ors condi and shampoo so i want to know if it works, sorry for the boring write up lolz [/b][/quote]Well, hopefully your boyfriend will find the products for you. And you're not boring me. I just hope all works out well for you.
FashionRe: High Cheek Bones by InkedNerd(f): 6:42pm On Aug 06, 2011
firestar:
^ You don't say. shocked
Yeah, I've seen some girls like that before--even guys but this one girl really stood out. The thing about her though is she didn't really think she was beautiful. I was once on the bus with my mom one morning and one of my friends got on the buss on the following stop. When she got on, she greeted me and saw my mom for the first time and asked if the woman with me was my mom. I said yes and she started talking to my mom. It wasn't till I we got to school and she started going on and on to one of the teachers about my mom being beautiful and having high cheekbones. I laughed like crazy because I never really thought anything of my mom's high cheekbones. I don't think I ever really paid attention to my mother having high cheekbones because to me it just seemed like nothing grin
FashionRe: The Rise Of The Skinny Man by InkedNerd(f): 5:55pm On Aug 06, 2011
Hmmm, so OP you admit that you men put unnecessary pressure on women to look a certain way since you say this is our way of getting back at you guys? Better yet, are you one of those people who are out of shape?
FashionRe: High Cheek Bones by InkedNerd(f): 5:50pm On Aug 06, 2011
You know, although a lot of models have high cheek bones, most don't. Has anyone ever noticed that Tyra Banks always looks like she has high cheekbones when in reality, she doesn't. I noticed it once while I was watching tv--her cheekbones looked a bit different from the way I'd always remembered seeing it. Then one day, I was watching her show and I noticed that she mentioned that she didn't actually have high cheekbones and that it was just the make up she wears that gives people the illusion that she has high cheekbones. One of the most beautiful girls I saw once had high cheekbones and dimples.
FashionRe: Black Hair Does Grow. Let's Prove It! by InkedNerd(f): 5:40pm On Aug 06, 2011
[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=201168.msg8868227#msg8868227 date=1312642400]thanks ink, i see a lot of hair products but those are not what i want its either the contain sulphate or pretrolatum and all that, the thing is i stay in Bayelsa so some things are quite difficult to find here. what i want to buy Is creme hair shampoo and conditioner, along side with extra virgin olive oil and coconut oil, I have not been able to find them I will try out other supermarkets but the one's i've checked, the stuffs are  not there

and hey i need names of affordable good hair moisturisers, i haven't settled on what moisturiser to use cos i'm confused so mind putting me theough on what moisturiser i should try?
[/quote]Hmmm Natasha, I can think of lots of products for you to use in your hair but the problem is that I doubt be able to find them in Bayelsa sad

All I can really tell you is to get some shea butter and make some whipped shea pudding for your hair. I could give you come recipes if you want. I really do wish some of the products I had in mind were available in Nigeria. What kind of oils have you seen or been able to find in stores?
PoliticsRe: "Thank God We're Not Nigerians" New Hit Song From Ghanian Singers by InkedNerd(f): 3:37am On Aug 06, 2011
Smh, in as much as I dislike the song I really do think we're all better than this smiley
FashionRe: What Do Hair Dressers Do That Really Annoy You? by InkedNerd(f): 2:14am On Aug 06, 2011
blank:
I would really love to see your hair. What do you do to it?
Sure, I cut my hair back in November but I can show you before and after shots of what it looks like. My hair routine is pretty basic. I rinse my hair everyday with water both morning and night, I wash my hair usually once a week--preferably Sundays, then I moisturize it. When I apply products to my hair, I apply it to my hair while my hair is still damp, that way as my hair air dries, it absorbs a lot of the product.

When I wanna wash my hair, I let water run through my hair for about 5-10 minutes to loosen up the dirt that may be there. After letting the water run through my hair, I apply black soap, Terressentials Cool Mint Pure Earth Hair Wash, or any other natural cleanser of my choosing to my hair and use my fingers to massage it through my scalp. After washing my hair, I normally don't use conditioner but lately I've been experimenting with a conditioner called Earthly Delights Hair Conditioner. I doubt I'll be buying it again though. When I'm done washing, I apply some raw/unrefined shea butter, oil, flax seed gel, aloe vera gel, or some Shea Moisture Organic Raw Shea Butter Deep Treatment Hair Masque. I pretty much try to keep my routine basic and as natural as possible. For the most part, the main products I use are water, raw/unrefined shea butter, and oil. Are you natural as well?
FashionRe: Black Hair Does Grow. Let's Prove It! by InkedNerd(f): 1:42am On Aug 06, 2011
[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=201168.msg8863614#msg8863614 date=1312570689]^thanks for the info and I know its gonna be hard work to start from the scratch lolz. I stay in Bayelsa so getting all this is very difficult I have gone to so many supermarkets today and I couldn't find any of these stuff even the oils, what conditioner, shampoo and moisturiser do you think i should get cos i don't know any good one lolz[/quote]You know, you can make your own hair products with basic things around the house if you can't find some items in store. There's a natural hair woman in Nigeria who sells natural and organic products. Perhaps you could check out her blog >>> http://thekinkyapothecary..com/

Just curious, but what sort of products do you see in the supermarkets when you go grocery shopping? That'll give us an idea on how we can help you.
FashionRe: What Do Hair Dressers Do That Really Annoy You? by InkedNerd(f): 9:34pm On Aug 04, 2011
easyon:
After you tip them,they notice a part of your hair wasn't tonged well,they ask you a question so many times(different gals) like the last time i went to the salon,four gals came to ask me if i will bond at different times that same day apart from the one that was fixing the weavon.Lastly they charge so much for their products,no steady price.they look at your face and dressing before cutting your neck and when you bring your own weavon,they tell you its fake and they wont really take their time to do your hair.
Fake?!?! What concern of theirs if the hair you wanna use is fake?!?! angry

A lot of them are just plain stupid. I read a hair article about a month ago and as it turns out, some of those supposed "real"/"100%" weaves actually have some synthetic hair pieces added to it. Because majority of it is may be human, they just group it together and call it "100%". Some people have some nerve!! It's a good thing I have friends who do hair and are professionals. Although I don't relax my hair, I still hate it when people provide a bad service towards paying customers angry
FashionRe: What Do Hair Dressers Do That Really Annoy You? by InkedNerd(f): 9:06am On Aug 04, 2011
Isoko man:
This is what I'm talking about. When we (NIGERIANS) look down on a trade that requires brains and flair to illiterates. Until we begin to add it to our school system, the women will still be having this problem with hairdressers
Personally, I don't look down on it like others do. Clearly some people just don't know what they're doing tongue

I dream of the day where Nigerians hairdressers will be more professional and knowledgeable is this line of work smiley
FashionRe: Best Solution For Stretch Marks by InkedNerd(f): 6:48am On Aug 04, 2011
Ummm, how aboutyou give it a shot and lemme know how it goes? Hehehehe grin
FashionRe: What Do Hair Dressers Do That Really Annoy You? by InkedNerd(f): 6:27am On Aug 04, 2011
I have yet to experience this in Nigeria but I have heard of this happening to many women when they go back to Nigeria. What annoys me about some Nigerian hairdressers is when they see a woman with natural hair and they tell her that they won't be able to braid the woman's hair unless its relaxed. Things like that really irk me because first of all, you shouldn't be perming/relaxing hair that has just been relaxed/permed. Second, were we as Africans not braiding our hair before relaxers were invented? And third, how the hell can you call yourself a hairdresser when you don't know proper techniques to care for hair? In my opinion, as a hairdresser you need to be well rounded regardless of the type of hair you deal with. There is a very famous hairdresser here in the US who I was watching on tv once and I noticed that the hairdresser would get on people's cases for not knowing certain hair techniques when she herself could do a simple cornrow.

Another thing that got to me once was when I went to a salon and the hairstylist/salon owner asked me what kind of haircut I wanted and I said I wanted something that fits my face shape and the woman looked me in the eye and scolded me for saying that I wanted something that suited my face. What kind of hairstylist doesn't know that there are certain styles that just don't fit certain people?!? undecided

All in all, I can't really say I've had a "bad" experience per se. Most of the experiences have been good except for one annoying moment that occurred when I decided to go to the Dominican salon near my house. Although they were very professional, clean, and hospitable, I could hear them speaking in Spanish about the texture of my hair angry

tlo:
Using shea butter on my hair.
What's wrong with using shea butter in your hair? huh

FashionRe: Black Hair Does Grow. Let's Prove It! by InkedNerd(f): 8:07pm On Aug 03, 2011
TheBBF:
grin Aww (blushing). Thanks Inked Nerd! I am trying really hard to help those who want to, grow long hair. The day I found out that women of African descent could have long hair, hmm I went on a mission! 3 years later I am still growing,  cheesy Anyway feel that you give amazing beauty tips too, we are always in accord wink
Thanks cheesy

stillwater:
Who knows a good spray-in moisturizer? Would like to moisturize my hair while in weaves without affecting the weave.
You could try using Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Hold & Shine Moisture Mist.

Jokes EtcRe: Nairaland Finally Exposed by InkedNerd(f): 8:00pm On Aug 03, 2011
pendo89:
@ Inke

I miss it too.But its all here on NL.
Lets watch and enjoy
Yupp, I'm so happy Youtube exists.
RomanceRe: Diff. Between Romance And Desperation = Gender? by InkedNerd(f): 7:58pm On Aug 03, 2011
sexkillz:
Adara fun e. . . . . cheesy
Hehehe, you wanna go on a date too? wink

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