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cj1900:
Hi guys,
I won't take much of your time. I have a very delicate matter in my hands and I need diverse opinions please.

Background
I don't live in Nigeria but me and my wife both have a very comfortable 4 bedroom duplex in Nigeria. We have a one year old baby. I have been in Nigeria for 5 months now and I will be returning to UK in a few weeks.

Ever since I've been in Nigeria, my cousin (mid 30s) has been with us. Quite frankly, it is not very easy for him at the moment and i do care about him as a brother. He is in the process of processing his visa, so its not as if he is loafing about.

The plan is that both me and my wife will be taking turns in visiting each other for the next 2 or so years until I return fully to Nigeria.

The problem
The problem is that I do not feel comfortable leaving just him and my wife under thesame roof whilst I return and he is not showing any signs of leaving when I return to my base.

So, this is my situation and I don't know if I am being insensitive.

I married a very good wife and under most circumstances, I trust her. I am just not comfortable leaving my wife with any man atall under thesame roof.

I need your opinions pls.

Your cousin should leave the house to a self contain period to avoid story that touches the heart.
How much do you trust your wife still matters too. You should know if she has the tendency to cheat on you within a short space of time. If she's someone who slays especially in clothes and fashion and loves sex too much, they she will definitely cheat on you. In that case, you can get her some dildos to use while you're away.
Otherwise, there's no need to worry. I have stayed many years without sex and a good and God-fearing wife can as well if she really loves you.
But don't put your cousin in same house with her while you're away in another country, that will be higher temptation!

The first question is why has Russia invaded Ukraine:
1. To stop them from joining NATO alliance and demilitarized them. They want to join NATO to pose danger against Russia their neighbor who is an enemy to NATO.
2. To annexed Russian-speaking States in Ukraine close to their border who they felt had been badly treated by Ukrainian forces.
3. To stop more countries bordering them from joining NATO which was an agreement signed after the breakaway of USSR countries after the WW2.

Finland and Sweden joining NATO will bring another conflict, if not WW3 because these countries have very close borders with Russia.
US and its NATO members should stop pushing the world into war and destabilising the world peace and economy by encouraging these countries that have no problem with Russia to a fight with Russia by joining them to NATO.
The Ukraine is still at war and they want to create another conflict in peaceful countries.

The guy foolishly drove his country into useless war with the backing on the West, now his sense is coming back! Russia ain't going to stop any time soon until they have completed their plans!
The only way to bring an end to the war Turkey was foisting you have reneged on it because you're listening to propaganda. Leave Africa out of your war!

Apart from selfish gains, bribery and corruption from profunders and supporters of this useless and resources-draining bill I see nothing else while still pushing this bill!

If I was Buhari, I won't even look at it again!

Politicians in this country trying everything to crumble and destroy Nigeria's economy with useless bills that won't help the economy because they have a stake there!

If Obi becomes PDP flag bearer, I'm sure he's got the whole of south east and south-south votes; reasonable people citizens' votes in south west, and with Atiku supporting him, he will get half of Northerners' votes.

Then he wins!
That's the strategy that will work! Argue with your ancestors if you say otherwise!

I like Osibanjo's courage! Osibanjo cannot be cowed, he's not Ambode that Tinubu can just bully and told not to cry. Osibanjo got some balls and has shown he is a man!

Osibanjo is better than Tinubu to me! But you can't compare him to Peter Obi.

I blame our rubber stamp lawmakers, senators who are insensitive and currupt, always approving bills and everything Buhari presents for Nigeria's backwardness.
Posterity will judge them for destroying Nigeria for their selfish gains!

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

What kind of stupid crush is that!

Start loving your husband more, s*xing him more often, playing and praying more often with him and praying against this spirit of adultery trying to ruin your marriage. Start seeing him as your all and all you would share your body with. Secondly, remove your mind from that pastor, ignore him, and don't go too close to him often; you can also warn to stop some of his approaches that you're happily married. Thirdly, you can find away to convince your husband to change, may not mentioned the pastor may use a church member to present a case!

Some married people you see filing for a divorce is as a result of this kind of situation, they will start crushing on another man or woman, and before you know it, they start sleeping with him or her, then, comes a divorce, fabricating one silly reason just to join their new found s*x mate.

It's becoming clear that this government sponsored this heartless skulls to kill people. They had an agreement with the government, and the government knows that! Now, they are reiterating that!
The evil plans of this Government against the good citizens of this country will not only fail but will also backfire against them!

This man should replace Lair Mohammed and be given a laureate in lying!

This is totally bad, I condemn this in all ramifications! The perpetrators of this act should be arrested!
I'm from Anambra and hate this brainless and psychotic individual perpetrating wicked act
in my beautiful and peaceful state as well as their supporters!
God will punish them for all this senseless acts

I'm still buying fuel about N200, Mr. Dullard of Daura! Failed Administration!

That's US policy since decades now, the America first policy! Even Trump said it severally when in power.

Seems I might not even vote in 2023! North is in power for the past 8 years and we started going backwards and they want to field
in another clueless Fulani Muslim and on the other side a thief there again by senseless people to finish Nigeria kpatakpata!
I refused to cast my vote for Nigeria backwardness! I refused to vote in a thief, corrupt and clueless idiot as a leader in this tribalised entity called a country!
Seems I might also leave the country because there's no betterment coming soon to this country with the kind of myopic and slave minds most citizens have!

LilMissFavvy:
Did he inform her during courtship that he will practice polygamy? I guess he did not, otherwise she wouldn't have married him. Imagine that during pregnancy when husband's are supposed to show all possible support to their wives, is when he informed her of getting a new wife , now see what pregnancy hormones has made her to do, who doesn't know that most pregnant women are always temperamental? Let him go and marry a second wife in the land of the dead.

May it happen to your relatives since you support his death...Amen!

Hello bobrisky! Better be on the run to abroad now!

The govt of Buhari is not bugged with that! They have moved on. Let the dead bury the dead, and the kidnapped join the kidnappers! To madalla!

Nigeria or Dangote?

Nigerians at the mercy of Dangote!
For, cement, fertilizer, floor, sugar, etc., and waiting for him to refine crude oil too.
FG gave him billions of dollars of loan with lity or no interest, why won't he thrive?
Now, if Dangote coughs, Nigeria shakes! The only man that is indirectly ruling Nigeria, yet claims he's not a politician!
Many politicians are/has been hiding under Dangote's company, evading tax and committing money laundering and are not arrested or questioned. We know them, most of them are northern billionaires! Double standard!

Those expecting products giveaway from Dangote's company at low prices than other countries he supplies are still dreaming, it's same price both local and abroad, aside from reduction in transportation price for local customers, nothing else!
Another good thing is that few local manpower he will employ to work in his companies.

FG should stop using tribalism in giving out loans, they should support other tribes men in business! This will help to regulate the prices of some of these products and not one man fixing the price he likes because he's a major player in the business!

Anyway, congratulations to Dangote. He played his cards well!

Enemyofpeace:
I boughted my own two weeks ago and I'm enjoining it

Is it showing EPL and Champions league?

I wish the next coming president will stop all this nonsense by a brainless and tribalistic man. I still question his citizenship?
May this kind of homo sapien not happen to Nigeria again! Total diseaster!

First time seeing this kind of news since Buhari's regime! But I doubt that Buhari and his brothers in govt won't give executive order to release them from the back doors! No be Nigeria again!

We have no business with the war, they should leave Africa out of that war! What the EU, UK, USA are doing for Africa is give and take, and they have taken more than they gave! They are part of our problems, aside our useless leaders which they indirectly planted to manipulate them! They should let us be, they manipulate our economy with their forex system scam and kept us on our knees, always begging them for help! Africa needs to wake up and take our own destiny by our hands!
Look at Nigeria in disarray, we produce crude oil but to build refinery is a problem for many decades, that we have to send to the West to refine and they will put in their forex and before it lands here it would be on higher prices! Or look at the insecurity in Nigeria. The money stolen by most of these Africa leader are stored in western countries banks and they know and are using it too to develop their own country and give Africa loans as if they really cared for them! Do you exonerate the western hands and politics in all this? Men, western geopolitics in Africa is the major reason Africa is still backwards. And Africa needs strong leaders that understand this and ready to look inwards and other alternatives elsewhere to overcome this intrinsic disease!

Looks like they even r*ped her before killing her! May her soul rest in peace...Amen!
Being a Nigeria is being at war front! Useless and blood-thirsty rulers we have in this shithole of a country, you can now carry her body and eat! Hellrufia, it won't be well with you and your brothers!

It will never be well with useless politicians dragging Nigeria backwards (chopping hug salaries and allowances and achieving nothing tangible to lift the citizens of this country) despite the resources God blessed her with.

"An attack on the Bokoharam is no longer an attack on the North" person(s) should come out defend this! Bunch of terrorists! Criminal! Savages!

I'm looking for a schools in Sweden, or Finland,
etc. that's cheap or tuition free, one can apply for PhD

Yeye man ran into APC, that never made him Governor in order to secure Buhari's attention and support towards 2023, and was forcing and threatening everyone in Ebonyi State into APC and not to criticize Buhari. Thunder fire the sycophants and all the ashowo politicians.

Lesbianism is a disease, once you get into it, it's very hard to repent! What lesbians do, especially in Africa is: they try to be bisexual in order to marry to cover family and societal shaming. And after marriage, they go into full blown lesbian life! By that time, no one will believe your story as a man when you accuse them!

Lawless country. Don't be surprised that these wicked souls in the military won't be punished!

It's the man they don't like that they would want to use as an escape goat!
Most of the past Nigerian governors, if not all, are guilty of this. I have never seen any past governors being querried for security vote money! The past lawmakers have never been querried before about the constituency money and how they spent it!

The obvious bullion van case, died out!
The gandollar scam died out!
To mention but a few!
Over the years, politicians stole billions of state's money and run and joined the ruling party and their sins are forgiven and cases die out!

Let the justice go round, that's where I stand! Stop this double standard and tribalism, religious and ethnic cleansing!