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Let wait for other side of the story before we look into it objectively.

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Best of luck to the eventual winner.

Okay, everybody with his or her own life.

Focus, I repeat; focus. The behavior of men that wanted to finished their house building projects this year.

Estate within Lagos Mainland. "Treasure Hilltop Estate, Alagbado"

Tittle: C of O

Free from floodings, free from Government Acquisition and free from Omonile palavar.

Located within Ikola/ Command axis and few minutes away from AIT Alagbado.

Easy access from International Airport Ikeja and smooth road from Iyana Ipaja and Abule-Egba, etc.

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Nice anyway only that we need to do much more better, we still have longer way to go.

Estate within Lagos Mainland. "Treasure Hilltop Estate, Alagbado"

Tittle: C of O

Free from floodings, free from Government Acquisition and free from Omonile palavar.

Located within Ikola/ Command axis and few minutes away from AIT Alagbado.

Easy access from International Airport Ikeja and smooth road from Iyana Ipaja and Abule-Egba, etc.

Ileya Promo Prices:

8m per plot and 4m half plot.

3Bedroom Duplex - 30m
3Bedroom Bungalow - 15m
2Bedroom Bungalow - 9.5m.

Call/WhatsApp the attached contact.

To win the great tittle he have been criticized for; for so many years no be moimoi. Even many Brazilians, Ronaldo fans and so on are happy for him. After Messi have lost finals of such admirable contest on 3 different occasions and he eventually won it, what do you expect.

The lesson for all determined fellows on here is that; Quitters Never Win.

Click like for Lionel Messi jor and you fit share for Ronaldo.

Okay, is like you're earning 40k monthly as salary where you're currently teaching and you're looking at another offers somewhere else, the question is, what increase should be added to the current 40k before you take your move. Let wait for other people's opinions.

To me, it's all in your hands.

Romanoff:
I also provided option one on my first post.

But the option the man chose was that

"The Children have to be within his custody"

Meanwhile, in one of your post you've said if the said ex husband happened to be your blood brother, you will prefer the children are in his custody.

So, what are they contesting?

Romanoff:
If you can, go through all of my comments. The man doesn't need to send money to the woman or her husband. He can pay the bills himself.

Bills like school fees, health care can be paid for by himself so the woman and her husband can take care of others.

The both love the kids and the kids belong to both of them.

So why deprive the kids of care?

You post suggested both loved the kids, that's good observation.

Do you now think the man should be at the mercy of the ex wife and her new find love ? Don't forget the post said the man is financially able and it also shows he cared about those children.

It seems the man patiently waiting for the ex wife to see how far she can carry on with the financial obligations that comes with the children up keeping.

Now she's getting down and the new find love can not meet up as expected with those finances. So, you expect a man with his brain fully functioning to succumbed to their request.

I said it in my previous comment that; you should forget that.

Two options here.

The man is not willing and not ready to be funding the children outside his custody.

1. Either they keep struggling to provide for those children and let the man be.

2. To relief themselves, they should let the man have the possession of those children.

Simple as ABC.

Like I also said earlier, if the man is not showing any concerns before, not caring at all or not responsible; it's a different case.

Romanoff:
Child support doesn't need to be in cash na. Just pay for basic things.

Forget all these child supports you're talking about, do you think is all Men that are not serious?

Even if we are to go through legal processes to settle the issues, there are age the children will attain and the court will allow them to be with their father. If they are still below that age is understandable.

I repeat, no woman can take my children away from me. Do you think is all Men will allow women to take their children away in situation this? Forget that.

Romanoff:
One thing about me, I always look at issues from bother sides. I won't let my brother abandon his kids, if he's worried about then taking advantage of his money, I'll help him arrange side support in ways the ex won't get a dime from him.

Pay the fees yourself, choose the school your self, pay for the health insurance, bit their clothes. Let her and her husband handle feeding and accomodation. That's the least they can so.

Let them share custody. Arrange to either live close to each other or he gets them on weekends and holidays.

I don't give advice that I won't take or give to my loved ones.

I am not that way.

Very good, can you now see your narrations changes when I challenge your previous write up with quality points.

In this case the father is ready to take care of the children and want them in his circle. That's shows he care to an extent but not happy those children were taken away from him.

We should put him into considerations as well. If he didn't bother and not ready to care at all, it's another thing.

Romanoff:
To those telling him to let the father take his kids, if you were one of those kids, won't you resent your mother for abandoning you?

Wouldn't you ask that "what type of mother will abandon her kids?"

@Op, you knew she had kids when you married her, I know it's not easy, but you both will have to double your hustle. Get other side businesses, cut your coat according to your material.

If you'll need to downgrade their school, do so, if you'll need to move to a cheaper area, do so.

Do all you can to cut cost.

Those kids will never understand or forgive their mum in the future.

Use two side look the matter.

Another thing your wife can do is to take him to court, especially for child support.

Let her get a good lawyer if she wants him to care for his children.

MODIFIED

She can go through FIDA to sort out Co-parenting and child support agreement.

For those coming for me, if you're not capable of talking like a homosapien, don't mention me, cause I no well. I will drag you from here to Timbuktu. So come correct

Though we do have different ideas on same issues, base on our experiences and opinions

But from the concern you raised in your write up, it show how selfish and self centered you are.

How many woman or even you can agreed to suffer the same fate in your recommendations if were to be other way round (That the man have the children and the woman married as single)?

If the op is your blood brother will you still give the same advice to him.

If the woman so much concern about those points you raised; why did she moved out from that man house in the first place (Who is at fault or what lead to her moving out; we don't know and beyond the scope of the write up).

You said the children will not be happy with their mother in years to come if they should return to their father.

You should also put their father into consideration. If the man put them away and not ready to take care of them is another case.

Andrew87:
I got married to my wife. I love her both with the kids but the biological father of the kids is a bit wealthy and left the whole responsibilities to my wife since last year.

This is not funny because I am part of her although we hustle hard but it's not easy. He insists the kids must be with him if he must take care of them but a member of his family informed my wife that he plans to take them away and she will not see them.

Please friends what's ur take on this? Times are really hard.

Please look into this advice and take it serious.

You and your said wife are even lucky the ex husband is ready to have his Children and financially able enough to take care of them.

Leverage on the ex husband request to have the children back, so sit your wife down and talk to her to let the ex husband take the procession of those children. This will not only relief you from your present financial struggle.

But will reduce the risk of greater issues in years to come.

What are those that greater issue?

By the time she started giving birth to your own children or if you have any already and they are growing together within your custody.

Irrespective of how rich you are, you can not always meet up 100% with demand and request at home (financially, physical availability and so on). Even as a loving and responsible father, there are times you turn down your own children request; no matter how you cared and loved them, but it will be normal when doing to your own children but to your step children it will attract different meaning entirely. People who have been there can relate.

Also handling disciplinary issues at home, a good, loving and responsible father can not raise good children without occasionally or continually discipline the children and introducing cane (Pankere) on children is inevitable.

Then your wife or people around you will be seeing you differently when you are applying cane to correct your children and when you are correcting your steps children with the same method, no matter how hard you try to ensure equity and balance. Many people who have been there can relate better.

You can not completely erase all these issues in this scenario but you can reduce it and luckily for you, their father is ready to take them.

At this point, it's left to you.

Congratulations.

It's well

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Nice one

Best of luck to the winner.

Fahdiga:
Imagine introducing Kemi Olunloyo as your mother?

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When we are not in animals kingdom for God sake.