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datkoded:
I know bro, seriously it bothers me. But then again, he might just decide to forgive and let it slide. Then maybe I'll become the enemy. Its better he finds out himself..... Sometimes honesty and sincerity could be the worst policy

Okay, i have to seek help i am tired of feeling so EMPTY!!!! A good look at me for the first time and you will think i am normal like other people but it is hardly true. I have never had a girlfriend because i dont like girls. I feel so angry around them and i just pretend to smile whereas inside me i am so bitter. I have an extraordinary charm that draws people to me and i am yet to find a person in real life that doesnt think i look very good!! People like me so much and care about me so much but i just pretend to like them back, i have no real emotional ties to anyone be it subtle or loud. Basically {I HATE PEOPLE}!!! I see girls and boys holding hands and kissing and making long calls to each other and it freaks me out because i dont get it, i have no clue why these male and female like each other. I like the sexual aspect of women of course but thats all i ever liked about girls. I dont know how i charm people but boy everyone wants to be around me for some strange reason that i will never know. If i walk past people they always stare at me. (Maybe they can see that im a freak in their emotions, if that even makes sense. i dont know i look normal tho). I have dated one girl in the past and after some time she fell inlove with me but as soon as that happend i started to ignore her and cut her off completely just because i didnt know how to connect with her feelings since i dont really feel anything. People say shes hurt and she hates me but i swear i really didnt know i did anything bad until a few days ago when my sister was so sad about what i did to the girl because somehow both of them became friends and she swears that the girl hates me now with passion. LADIES AND GENTS WHY DONT I HAVE FEELINGS FOR PEOPLE OO AND WHY DO I CUT OFF EVERYONE THAT LOVES ME OR HAVE A CRUSH ON ME

Ozin:
We should all relax and wait for the Dull.apo that hit the ground running backwards and has passed Libya and moving backwards.let us all pray he start moving forward when he get to the Mediterranean sea this September as he promised even though 8 of every 10 things he says are lies

GentleToks:
What a life were the words i left her with; on the floor of my room. She rolled on the floor in her own saliva begging me not to go but heaven knew i was already gone. She held my legs so tight while she was on her knees asking heaven to beg me on her behalf. I looked down to see her pretty face and all i saw in her beautiful eyes was; Tokunbo, pls save my failing soul.

The beauty she loved, adored and pampered on daily basis disappeared to thin air after she had cried herself to sleep.

I never knew Love could turn my TREASURE(what i called her while the relationship lasted) to a shadow of her old self. She has completely changed within two days she heard the heart-breaking news that i would be living her for another lady. How i wish i knew you loved me this much.

She called her enemies(some female friends of mine) to beg me not to go but the dice has been cast. She called everybody callable to beg me but my spirit had already gone.

I never knew how much i meant to her world until i dumped(rude to use this word but that is the appropriate word to describe what happened) her for another successful career lady. She cried like a baby with saliva all over her face.

I never knew she loved me this much until i left her for another lady. I never knew I held her down in love so much until i left. The last day i decided to speak to her about my stupidity and predicament of being between her and the new lady, she cried so much that i regretted my stupidity to date another lady but the deed has been done.

She begged me with everything she have in life not to go but i have already fallen in love with another lady. I promised you that i would come back no matter how long this callous world would keep me in its economic captivity.

You did everything to get over me by going back to the very guy that disvirgined you but it all failed. I allowed you to see me once in a while despite the fact that i was with my new lady, the look on your face each time you saw me was inexpressible. You look at me as if your world was born.


Few years after, I ran to her in Church, unhappily married. I wish I could turn the hands of time back at this point in time to be the best husband to her but I am married too.

I am responsible for where you find yourself right now; wrong man that maltreat you on daily basis. If i had not left you to the mystery of life; cold of life, you would have ended up with me.

I am holding you down in my soul, asking God to change your situation and change your husband to what you desire; someone like me.

I feel responsible for changing the course of your journey in life by my stupid action.

Hey babes , I just wanna use this medium to say i love you with tears rolling down my cheeks; eyes filled with sorrows.

Heaven knows that i ll never stop loving you.

N.B: I have now realised that life is not all about money and properties. I have everything now but i never forget every moment we shared in my single room then in Manchester.

chichriso:
Please I need good advise from you guys now, am a guy of mid twenty living with my uncle and his wife since March this year .

To go straight to the point, my uncle's wife have been seducing me, sometimes she will tie wrapper and hold me from behind while talking to me.

Just last night, she called me into their matrimonial room when I entered I discover that she was putting on bum short with bra, I immediately go out of the room. She called and called but I refused to return to that room.

Since then, she have been behaving strange and am no longer at peace in that apartment.

My uncle is not around because his work takes him out everytime

WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW?

PLEASE HELP

Sodiq98:
I was speaking with a girl on phone and we talked about something which led to me saying am a virgin the next thing she did was to laugh uncontrollably for about a minute.
So is it a shameful thing to be a virgin at 17??

fleeky:
I've been breaking up with this particular guy several times but he keeps apologising and begging me to come back.But because i still have little feelings for him, I usually accept him back and we become cool again..
But the problem is that I don't trust him, my instincts tells me that he flirts with other girls, even though he denies it and convinces me to be cool. I'm fed up of everything, I want to break up completely and be firm with my decision because he keeps begging me whenever I say "Its over". I won't listen to his "Please and sorry or watever he has to say again"
My question is, How do I break-up completely with him because we work in the same office on the Island..Sincerely, my heart is fed up of everything, even though I still have little feelings for him but I believe I can handle it,cos with time, everything will fade. So How do I avoid him completely? I want to break-up, Please advice me on how to go about it

ganiberry:
Good morning to you all,

I need your advise on what to do in this matter. Please note that it is a true life story and a resent happening.

I met her in 2013 and we started dating, the relationship got serious and we agreed to be more committed to each other. I proposed marriage and she accepted. I took care of her, rented a room and a parlour for her in Ajah furnished the room and she was living comfortably.

I took her to Ghana and Dubai on vacation at different times and everything was going on smoothly.

I went to Abuja to work for one month in April on offical assignment and the whole story changed. Her ex-boyfriend called her that he was in town from South Africa and asked her to see him. They had mis-understanding before the guy went back to base in South Africa. The reason for the mis-understanding was that the guy had relationship with her roommate and she caught them.

The guy apologised to her when they met at the hotel and requested them to continue the relationship. Then the next thing was that they started having sex to the extent that she stayed with the guy for a while in the hotel and visit her subsequently.

I came back and i suppose the guy had gone back to South Africa by then. I observed that my girl did not allow me to touch or have anything to do with her.

I gave her some money to start a business but rather than using the money for the purpose, she used the part of the money to pack all my belongings in the house and ran to the east. Meanwhile by this time she had switched off her phone. She was only speaking to her brother. Who later decided to visit her in the east.

Then the bubble busrst, she was pregnant and since she did not know what to do, she ran away and packed all my properties. I love her so much and even up till now i still find it difficult to get over it.

When i eventaully spoke with her through her brother, all she could say was that i should forgive her. Please advise me on what to do. I still thinking so much about her. The relationship that is almost two years. All her family members have known me and i was taking care of them also. They got to know about this and were all supprise at her behaviour. But she still not talking to me. She will only put on her phone call some people and swiched off again. I have not been able to speak with her after the first one through her brother, even if i tried to call and her phone was ringing, she will not pick before switching off.

I wonder why she had to allow somebody that has not contributed any dime to her welfare to impregnate her without proposing marriage or introdusing her to his family members. She said she had called the guy in South Africa and he said okay. He has not called since then to tell her what to do.

Please i need your advise. No abuse please and note that this is not a nollywood story. The incident happened just last week.

Thank you.

phylp:
what will i do when my girl of 4 years that i sacrificed everything for till she graduated recently said 'she is young and has 2-3years to enjoy herself so she needs a break from emotional attachment.please what do you think is wrong with her and what am i to do. i cant really focus at work and my friends recently said i unconsciously talk while walking .

justi4jesu:
. The Shovel is proportionally equal in size with the Tray. You can't expect him to use kitchen spoon to serve people wey carry tray come collect food na.

LadyBoss1:
Police Men at Soloki police station .Almost Everyday this is what they do .(pic)
Is this not ,Illegal?
Some without uniform



https://mobile.twitter.com/fredthomas97/status/636786617982840832/photo/1

LadyBoss1:
Abi oh imagine Jollof rice dey e own league

Freemanan:
Especially Party killed rice

babslamin:
Hope you got your share at a better ceremonial venue

babslamin:
If you can't find find jello rice near you, just be the uninvited guest at any wedding/ceremonial venue near you. They must be serve you your share of jellof, it's Ur legal right for jellof today..
#worldJellofRiceDay

ladyF:
I prefer fried rice jor