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olahero:
Good evening everyone, she's so depend on me yet I am not the only one she have, I wanted to to end the relationship with her but whenever i tried, she always come back with nonsense pleading.

Please what's the fastest way to forget about the relationship without blocking her number?

If a girl is so bent on you this way then it's either because she gave her virginity to you and feels you owe her or she jus wants to keep her purse filled with your money... Ending a relationship like that z way too difficult because while you were busy enjoying the whole sweetness that came with it you were so blind to the side effects,block her number then she'll go to people closest to you and complain so you're in a hot mess bro... I'll advise you continue with what you started if she's good looking and mind you,if you're sure you're the only one in her life,hold on to her and make plans with her,see the future with her cus if you loose her the next girl will have lots of boyfriend that's not you and you'll miss this very girl you're tired of, trust me...it fuckin hurts

Wizzy13:
My girlfriend just woke me up this morning with this news telling me she is pregnant for me
Am just laughing
Mind you the last time we had sex was 2months ago and she saw her period as of December

Now she is plotting to put this on my head
I will make her understand that i know she was cheating all this while

See our chats below
What should i do now

Having unprotected sex with someone that you know is cheating on you is apparently suicidal...Now,in your chat with her you already agreed to being the father and you've asked her to keep the baby,why then did you come here to seek for Advice on what to do?
The best topic for this tread is, My girlfriend is pregnant and I am the father,how do I become a good father?
Then we will tell you where they sell baby stuff.

Stenewiser:
Why are Nigerian girlfriends blind to other gifts, exception of vest(singlet) and boxers. I need answers please.

But they want the world as birthday present...God didn't curse a man,he only gave him a woman.

siofra:
I don't see anything wrong with what she said.

If she didn't have a body, would you date her? Her vagina alone is worth more than anything you can ever bring to the table.

You think everyone has time to waste on useless people?

Please don't be stupid, she gave an excellent answer.

How much is the smelling hole Worth?
If the only thing you can offer is to make me cum I'll rather masturbate and keep my 5k

samwillyco1:
My own GIRL passed it, I tried with fake account and all the promises on Earth she passed, I sent her some of my friends physically with good ride and other things she passed, and told them that she is into a relationship and she is comfortable with her Guy.

Finally, many Guys and Girls will fail such test and many will pass.

Do you know why she passed,she apparently has no vacancy... She has someone that gives her joy already.
*She's got someone that gives her the money
*She's got someone that's fun to chat with
*Her plan B is always confessing love to her so she's got that one too Incase you Bleep up.
*She's got someone that shows the care and attention...Bro jus figure out the role you play in her life and stop thinking you're the only one,maybe you're dating a girl less than 18...if that's the case you might be right.

Jennyclay:
Broke men are the most shameless people living on earth. I'm allergic to broke and wretched men. I hate broke men like Kilode!

How can you sue a lady because of ordinary 3k transport . Shame!! Big shame!!

I was jejely on my own, when one broke wretched man sent me 5k, biko what can I do with 5k ? I just told him to hold his nonsense 5k to himself, then I blocked him immediately.

Broke men everywhere!

Did you transfer the money back,I mean if you did you forgot to include it...Your kind has done more damage than good in this race of life,soon your kind will walk the streets single with kids and no father,no man will be foolish enough to spend his entire life with a monster in form of a human like your kind,he might spend a couple of years though, smacking that a** and leaves for better,something that's worth the stress

This is apparently true,this is vigorously becoming alarming but this problem is with the parents I believe,and the once that are from a poor family are always the victim...I think I know why,when money is the motive in no time you'll fine yourself becoming something you never imagined

Tramadoladdict:
Pardon my English!
I'm an old member of this forum (14 years to be precise), but I had to create a new account for obvious reasons.
HOW IT ALL STARTED
It was in 2005, I was in SS2 when I first took the drug I regret ever tasting. I have this class mate who introduced me to it. The first time I took (at that time, it was only 50mg capsules at the price of ₦5 each), so I took only 50mg to see how it feels. Mehn! It felt good, I was happy, I was like waoo, is that how Tramadol makes u feel? I slept like a baby. Funny enough, that made me more confident to approach those bebs back then.
Then the next day, I requested another one from him, and that's the beginning of my wahala.
THE ADDICTION
I continue taking it everyday untill the 50mg do nothing to me. I increased the dosage to 100mg a day, then 150mg, then 200mg, and then 250mg everyday for long period of time.
To be continued...

Space 5

burgermeister:
Calm down bro... Young ladies love to play silly games to "test" their partners, so it's not a new thing.

If I were you, I would snap the Facebook account on her phone as evidence and keep it. I would also open my own fake account using one big boy's picture and ask her out promising her money and love. . . Most likely she'll fail the test, then you can let the cat out of the bag so she can see how her game backfired.

Only a fool will test a woman's loyalty with money, she'll fail lie she prepared to fail

defman1010:
My girlfriend uses fake account to chat me on Facebook

She even booked appointment with me for a sex session which I told her am not interested

That I have a girl friend that am ok with just that I like way she chat and vibe

Last week my girl came to spend weekend with me , when light came I had to help her plug her phone , and behold her Facebook was open and I checked the account my chats and everything she was the one

I just lost the love I had for instantly but I have to keep my cool ,

As it stands now I don't have any feelings for her again and I have told her we need to talk am planning to breakup with her I hope am not over reacting over this

I just feel like her moves were childish and stupid
One year old relationship and she still dey test me to see what ?

I understand you have every right to be upset at least a year is apparently enough for you to earn her trust but I want you to understand that Women don't have much time,like they live the fast life, she's only trying not to waste her time.Thank goodness you passed the test though,just see things from her own perspective and I guess you'll be cool if you love her...best wishes though.

Esywrite:
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Nia69:
My father has money to take care of me and I can be with someone that's broke as long as he's extremely intelligent, I see a great potential in him.
I can't be a second wife. I can't get money from capping so why should I lie on a faceless forum? Are you satisfied?

This wan dey find husband,dey find who you wan deceive... Dey play

Unyimekelvin:
Saw this yesterday.. its baffles how he got in here...WTF...

Little children and wonders they perform is unimaginable ...he got in..nd got stuck inside this shiitty tree ..

This picture don Tay na,why dis man dey drag us back

In the beginning what was created first was the man, After which God notice the man needed a companion... look at it from this angle,A father saw that his son was lonely and needed something to play with so he bought him a toy,are we not saying the same thing?
That's jus a comparison, further More...the son instead of using the toy for it's purpose he turns it to a God.

Here's what I mean,I feel the main reason women tend to cheat and disrespect men is because we give them so much power, importance and value which is basically not what their kind was programed for,why do you think Women still cheat even when you give them everything they want? Very simple it's because they where not programed to get everything from you they were programed to give everything to you,very simple.

* A relationship with fear and respect for the man
*A relationship with love for the man without fear and respect.
Which is better?
A relationship with fear and respect for the man that's the relationship you find the woman always pleasing and following orders because that's the right way to utilize her she loves you or not you'll get everything from her and a woman will not fear and respect you without loving you...they are not programed that way.


A relationship with lots of love without fear and respect is a relationship where you'll always find the guy being the emotional one because he has switched power with the woman, he's now the companion she's meant to be.if a woman is not submissive and Lacks respect it's because she's been given too much power her kind can handle,they are not meant to have that power,we still are men!

A rich and successful woman will not be submissive and respectful if her husband doesn't posses more power than she does,but a man with the whole power in the world can be submissive to a girl with nothing at all and she will still cheat on him, Yes! That's because you've given her too much power her kind can handle she'll definitely misuse it they are not programed to work that way... let's live in a world where we put women in their places and divorce rate will be drastically reduced you know why,a woman will never walk away from you if you give her less of everything you feel she deserves more of.

[quote author=Anonymoususher post=117341139]My people I greet una

I almost got robbed at mile 2 bridge on Sunday.

My fiancee came to spend the weekend with me so on Sunday we decided to go out and have some fun. Our plan na say from the eatry she go from there dey go house but she forgot her office key at my place so instead of going home we decided to go back to my place first to pick the keys because she needed it the next day at work.

Na so we take go back house ooo before we know 8pm Don clock. Babe didn't want to sleep over, I couldnt drive because mile 2 is always blocked cos of traffic. Most uber drivers don't even like going there so we had to enter danfo.

Bus dropped us at mile 2 Festac side and we needed to walk up a little so she could get a bus or bike heading towards Wilmer.

It was already 9pm and some guys started approaching us. I saw them and quickly changed my steps, my babe didn't know what was happening, I just asked her to give me her phones. She gave them to me, I placed the big one inside my pocket.

The guys approached n surrounded us and were like bring your phone, my babe was scared but I refused to stop walking.

One raised hands and wanted to hit me while another one wanted to drag my girl's bag.

I just said, if them born una well make una hand touch me, be like una want make this Mile 2 and lagos hot for una. Una wan touch soldier, una die well.

Immediately I pretended like I was making call "I said Nasiru, stand at alert, mile 2 on top bridge second lane"

After pretending to make the calls, I stretched the phone towards them and said if they have mind they should take the phone from me... All these while I was walking and talking.

The guys just said awuuaahhh, no vex abeg just find us something. I said una dey mad, instead of to beg for money una wan use force or threaten, I no dey give una again. One by one they just left the scene.

My babe was already cold, we quietly crossed to the other busy lane, entered a bus and started laughing.

What happened was surprising. I didn't know the guts that came to me.

Normal, I don't keep beards (clean shave) and the way I walk most people mistake me for a military guy cos of my height and mode of walking. Coincidentally I was putting on a black top with a black face cap. So seeing a young guy with clean shave they just felt I was a military guy and decided to avoid me.

Thank God for protection sha
Naso dey for collect your phone because of yansh,vote peter obi and leave yansh

I got a call from a friend this morning informing me that one guy I'll knw in the other street drank sniper and killed himself that i should come he was actually on his way there himself,my mood was spoilt cos the way he described the guy i knew I'll know him so i quickly helped me mom do what she asked me to do and went to join the friend that called me,on getting there a lot of people were crying and the girlfriend was at the other end shouting i still love you!! Why!!! And the funniest part is that he had his birthday on Saturday and he took his life on Sunday night and according to what people were saying they said they have sometimes heard his say that he's gonna die on his birthday but nobody took his words serious...i forgot to say, he's a Muslim so we were all there waiting for them to bring out the body and head to the burial ground, suddenly i started hearing noise like some people were fighting i hurriedly went to separate that's how i got myself into it o ..hmm, what happened was that this other guy who's also a close friend to the guy that took his life got to the gathering and was like,omo person wey don die don die be that me i wan smoke Colorado o... people were na like say you dey mad ni the guy na wanted to fight every body o so when i got there i went to hold the guy that said he wanted to smoke Colorado,i held him and kept telling him to go home because i know he's a small boy, I'm way older than him,i kept saying dey go house dey go house,in the process this guy con cut my earpiece o, something that i jus bought,na so i shakara am with one blow o, I'm very sure i didn't hit him hard because i get injury for hand already,wen people saw that he be like say we wan dey fight like dis they jus gather this guy beat am,i sha was calm and when he saw that he had less supports he left the gathering and i thought that was all,i decided to follow them to the burial ground bcuz the guy that called me to come outside promised to pay for tfare, I didn't knw wat was in front,i went in with them to the burial ground den i noticed the guy i had a fight with was there too so i felt remorseful bcus i saw that his face was swollen and i knew it wasn't me it was the other people that fought for me,so since it was a gathering i decided to go close to him and apologize but wen i got close to him and I placed my hand on his shoulder hus reaction was not encouraging so i got exasperated and was like wetin dey do this one sef,i left his side...the Alfa did his prayers fast because it felt like it was going to rain, immediately after the prayers a lot of people was jus calling my name, that i shouldn't walk alone that we should walk in group,i was like wetin dey happen make ena tell me, someone now said that guy that i fought with has called his friends that are cultist and the wantu stab me, immediately i felt like starting my day again,i was like wic kind wahala be this where i wan run enter inside mortuary but i had a lot of people on my side buh i heard some people saying he might have a gun so i was so scared bcuz i only threw a punch bcuz i hate it wen people spoil my stuffs not when i word hard to get it,i was guided until we got outside and when we got outside i kept hearing different things,dis one was saying no foh we dey with you mak we go meet dem, the other one was saying mak dis bike man carry you make ana dey run go, another one was like mak we go face dem dey fit go block you for front if you carry bike i jus felt like running for goodness sake,so a car packed in front of me and the egbon asked me to enter,i look inside and i saw faces i could trust so i went in and i realized the driver was even a civil defense so i was relaxed,he took me away from there and dropped me somewhere safe,i already collected money from a friend so I took bike and hurried home,i woke up this evening and went outside to get something and i met some friends and they were like that guy don carry like four bikes dey find you up and down na him we dey wait for here now we wan treat him Bleep up,i already saw them with sticks and the other one was making calls reporting the incident,i quickly left the scenes, now the guy that called me in the morning to inform me about the guys death jus called again to tell me that he'll advice i stay down,i no be cultist wic kind wahala be this na!!!!!
Now,back to the story of this guy that drank sniper and took his life a day after his birthday, people kept saying he actually intended to take his life on his birthday but his girlfriend took him on a surprise outing so he did it when he had the chance,he left no clue and he uses an iphone12 his parents are not poor and he even took his life in his parents house in his own room the funniest part is that he bought the biggest snipper and drank it and almost finished it but you know i said one civil defense Egon carried me so he was discussing the issue with his friend in the car he said this boy once told him he wanted to have a talk with him that some people want to kill him,he said he didn't take him serious, people are going tru a lot low key,but nobody can be trusted to confide in.buh is suicide really an option?

I feel your pain bro but life don too hard everybody dey find who dem go run street for and you fell for it,we learn everyday and you don learn dis one be dat let's jus assume you paid 77,500 for lesson fee,lolz

I jus got this Redmi 10c last week for 80k no be say i get money o,i asked the seller if they have screen guard for it...she said NO, I'm always very careful wen handling things so i don't really need the screen guard anyway...i said to myself,my instincts kept telling me guy go get screen guard but I'll always ignore,i was going out dis evening so I needed to carry my bag which i hanged on the wall where my bed is,as i drag the bag like dis the nail i used in hanging the bag jus follow am, straight to my phone,with this whole space on the bed this fucking nail landed on my phone and the touch pad break...phone wey i jus buy wit all money, imagine the pain and bfor i go see Redmi 10c touch pad buy i go trek the whole alaba..��� please always follow ur instincts,the voice no go loud but he go dey tell you.

Znation:
Good morning and happy new month nairalanders.

I will not be calling the name of any church, but why do some churches takes the deads to the church and pray for their sins to be forgiven before they are laid to rest?

Note, that most of this person are kept long in murtuary for months, and some even last up to years in the murtuary. But when it is time for their burial, they are first taken to the church for prayers. This prayer is mostly centered on asking God to forgive their sins and accep their souls into his kingdom (heaven).

My questions;

* Is taken dead bodies to the church good in the sight of God?

* Is the fate of the dead decided immidiately after death, or after they are burried?

* Can our sin be forgiven after death?

The law fit don change

What kills people mostly this days are health related issues and the reason is that they weren't watchful of what they take, diabetes for example comes as a result of excessive intake of sugar and different kinds of diseases you've never heard of jus bcus dey weren't watchful,Wen people die at 80 we celebrate the but how many has really survived 60years? even with the money.Now virtually every young guy out there now smokes slowly killing the heart... almost everybody drinks, excess sugar . Everybody na yahoo boy now wen the money comes we buy excess of weed and smoke till dawn we're not even planning to live long that's what it means.wen we start getting old our body system becomes weak and can no longer fight we die slowly even with the money...so looking at it from my angle,i think dis money gradually draws us back to the grave,not withstanding how it comes it still kills us, sometimes money might even be useless wen the results of what we do with money shows up...what are you doing with money? Are you killing yourself with it?
On the other hand, Everybody loves pleasure we all want the cookie dahs why most guys are working o,dey jus want to get the money and Bleep all the pretty girls in the hood,nobody's righteous so everybody's guilty,we s*x different girls dat has s*xed hundred guys even without condom,many are roaming with HIV and joyfully spreading it,the money still drags us back the grave,and our girls... thousands now roam without womb,can dis generation survive 80?

Starting from the creation of the universe we have always sacrificed more for the ladies than our own(the guys)
I watched mr macaroni asking a lady to write down the amount she wants and she wrote 1million naira...just like that? How many of us can do that for our gee? Our bro? The once that were actually with us wen we had nothing...the brothers we drank garri together with.the Word "ladies first" is not jus a word is what rules the world and we seem to get nothing out of it.

Give a guy a thousand naira when he really needs it and he'll remember you when he has millions,do the same for the ladies and they will remember you wen they need another...what do we stand to gain? Don't tell me it's pu**y dah shit sucks.

We give so much and we get so little...only a player can fully utilize a lady and give so little to get almost everything from her but the question is,how many players we got on here?
We only have thousands of simps that has little or no idea what being a player entails.

Everything abt the ladies has to be abt them alone,they can choose you over what matters to dem buh simps gladly wants the ladies and every other thing can wait... don't you feel cheated? Guys, we're sleeping and it's not bad to sleep tho but when are we waking?

FreelanceRebel:
May your wish for the unborn baby come upon you in the Name of Almighty God?
Can you say amen to that?

Fool!!! Did you not read wat the OP said?...he already gave her pills so there's no way he can save the baby again only by God's intervention and I won't advise him to keep the baby since he's not financially stable,dis time it won't be just him suffering, he'll be punishing the poor girl and the unborn baby

Masturbation is basically not advisable bcus of the side effects it comes with buh being a sharp guy i see a lot of advantages in it.
We all get dis sexual urge dat is almost irresistible,it happens to everyone and some of us are lucky to have someone to always help wen it comes,some of us don't buh we have the money to get wat we want,what abt does that are broke and single?
We all knw our girls are not to be trusted dis days, masturbation will help you reduce the emotional stress and trauma...few advantages of masturbation

1.it reduces rape...broke and single guys will not have the tot of rape
2.It makes you less attracted to women...this is for the broke and single guys, you'll ease yourself the stress of chasing women cos you'll be less attracted to them and dat gives you time for yourself
3.It saves you from STD and pregnancy wahala

It comes with a lot of disadvantages buh looking at the advantages,i will rather masturbate dan go around fucking Nigerian bitches

FreelanceRebel:
My mother attempt to abort me, some 30 years ago but failed. now I am her caregiver.
Don't give bloody advice.

A friend of mine died....he got his girlfriend pregnant and was forced to keep the baby,he doubled his hustle and started okada work...he had an accident 6months after the child was born and he lost his life.

30years ago is not today...ur mother will throw you away with the way things are dis days,care giver kor

Leonbonapart:
God have mercy on your lost miserable soul

Hmmmm

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..



now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

lalasticlala..

Shit happens bro...don't listen to what dis hypocrites will say,they are worse

Going forward...the first few months of pregnancy the baby will still be in form of blood and according to what you said,you gave her the drugs but jus a little blood came out and it's supposed to be much,lemme explain what happened there.

The body system of the girl is too strong for the drugs but an impact was made dahs why you saw little blood...now,dis little blood DAT cam out means the baby is either dead or deformed.if you intend keeping the baby go for a scan so as to Knw if the drug killed the baby or it deformed it,trust me the baby has already been affected bun if you still want to terminate the pregnancy give her....Mk I no talk,good luck bro

Mariangeles:
On top 80k salary, you want make she dey drop 10k every month for trust account, 20k for joint account, provide "food supplement", make she still choose between NEPA bill, DSTV, or GOTV subscription...on top wetin?
Oga, how much wan remain to take buy clothes, cosmetics and toiletries for herself na (cos e sure me dai say you no fit buy those things for her), not to talk of find her parents something? Unto say she marry you?

Abeg! Carry your wahala go front!

So tge young man should kill himself bcus he wanted to get married?
Ain't you a man or are you a simp?
Is it dat you're not aware of how difficult tinsz are dis days?
A wife should support her husband... she's not jus der for sex and making babies, Think well bro bfor you end up being a fo*l

Getting married is indeed a thing of joy depending on the type of woman yhu getting married to buh wen it comes to financial issues there’s apparently no way you can escape the emotional and mental trauma if you don’t have money...you’ll be jumping from one igbo joint to beer parlor seeking for joy��

Promzy99:
u made a relevant suggestion. Am thinking of going to the village after work 2mao or sunday. i will meet with the girl one on one and have talk with her. My broda cnt handle both d financial stress involved. He trusted me nd believed i will keep it a secret 4 now.

All this unnecessary mental stress is wat I don't like at all...he could av avoided all of this if only he was smart,the problem in dis country is already too much... I avoid problem in wat ever form it tends to come

Promzy99:
My broda said he doesnt have any mutual relationship with her before now. He said when he came bck last week 4rm school, while d uncle went 2 d market to buy items 4 pepper_soup nd other things 4 d business, d alledged sales girl walked into my broda's room started acting friendly, admiring his watch nd necklace. After much conversations with her, they laid nd had sex twice b4 d uncle wud return, and dat was it. Pls whats ur advice 4 him? Pls no abuses bt u cn criticize.

Buh how will you have unprotected sex with a total stranger?

The only solution i see here is scan...he shouldn't waste time on it,take her for scan ad it'll tell how many weeks the pregnancy is...dahs if she's pregnant at all

We all mak mistakes buh I av always advised our young guys to always ensure not to make silly mistakes like this, always use condoms ad if the cookie comes suddenly and meets you unprepared mak sure you use contraceptive afterwards buh wahs difficult in all of this now? He could have relieved himself of this vehement stress.
26th to 1st is jus four days interval ad it's almost impossible to knw you're pregnant within four days of having unprotected sexual intercourse buh how does he save himself,at least he can't say he didn't touch her...she might wantu extort money frm him with the fake pregnancy stuff buh if truely shes pregnant ad ur brother is very sure of wat he told yhu, i'm 79% sure that pregnancy is not his...dahs wat he gets for not being a sharp guy