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*Hauwa*:
my sister, we pray for a good man with head on his shoulder no more no less

Are you sure you are not looking for a man with water melon on his shoulders that you can push around at will

*Hauwa*:
so because you take care of the finances, she should be the only one doing the other stuff? tend to baby, cook your meals, keep the house clean, wash, and then take you to cloud 9 right?

oturugbeke!! are you sure you are ready?

Wrong words from arrogant type female

DeReloaded:
I no even get time to respond his gibberish.

Hauwa, I sha hope mr Annapolis doesnt yarn this kin dust in your ears sha else me myself will stop that wedding

where are you, make I prepare my plane ticket

Iwont be surprised you wont respond, your type encourages women to challenge their husbands and when the house breaks up, you all turn and blame the man. Is there any need your types marry?

I am very ready and will go the whole way unless she complains, and then I will find some househelp for her. It is not because I do the finances, its because she sees it as her duty to care for the family. All the things she does are the things I noticed her doing and fell for her. Wont it be strange if she suddenly stops?

Most young men of nowadays are lazy, not surprised to hear your big brother complain. Just apply haste and tact in all you do and your bos will respect you.

My beliefs are not outdated, they are very modern for us. She takes care of the house and I take care of all the finances and the 'hard' works at home. She will never lack while I will never cook. This is the best way.

Not as if I take advantage, the babe does all she can and I do all I should, plus I love her to pieces.

True, only one out of 1000 couples divorce in Igboland.

@dereloaded, abeg which terrible excuses na? I try as much as I can but must confess, I married an angel, never complains.

Touch her in secret places, she will sure go maaaaaaaaaaaad!

If your heart will bear the pain, then leave him there is little gain in staying with someone who is obviously playing with your emotions.

Just call the kids aged 5 and above one bright saturday morning, look into their eyes and tell them what sex is all about, the uses, the dangers and the way to avoid getting into trouble.

Review the meeting monthly.

If it is so painful, how could some women deliver their babies alone, bundle them into the dusbin and abandon them by the roadside, alone?

Sorry about this deception, just play along as there is nothing much you can do apart from this.

Give her some porn movies to watch and gradually get her to move closer to you, than to her friends.

Some women never even bothers to know how much their husband recieves. My doesnt care how much I make.

I dont babysit, never have much time at home, but I wake up at night and help when he cries too much. I also take the oldeR ones out when they disturb their mum. I dont do plates but can cook the dish she finds difficult to cook. Never changed the pampers or bath them, my hands are too strong! Hahahahahahahahah!

Its an abomination to even discuss this curse!

Some people here are more interested in breaking this young family than mending it. Apolgy from the woman is the first step because she has to assume the man has some other points to go ahead and starve her. Then the man will open up and say his own, then peace can come.

The real cause of broken homes and heartaches in marriage is when women start to think they are men, to have equal rights and question all actions of their husband with little regard for how he feels at the moment.

Even pregnant women ought to have controls over what they say. The husband has not even told this woman what has been eating him up these past three days and the woman wont care to apologize and find out why he hit her for the first time. All she cares for is the slap and her pregnant status! Is that the excuse she has for an abusive mouth?

What are these gurls thinking, it is wrong to slap your wife but what of the girls that runs their mouths like tap, it is very condemnable also.

DeReloaded:
so you're saying white men behave better than africans?

No am saying that African women are more respectful.

Badriyyah:
This is Africa indeed, no wonder it's where it is right now. Because women are still treated like objects. Weird, you guys always seem to have that same excuse "This is Africa" we are different. SMH.

Of course this is Africa and it will be foolish to behave like a white man while you are here, different strokes,

I think the woman should apologize to the husband, this is to keep peace in the household. What the man did was wrong, and since they have not been talking to each other for three days the woman still doesnt know what made the man hit her that night, since she said in the second post that the man was gentle before.

The woman should apologize, period.

Switch47 doesnt have money to pay his ISP and his connection will soon be cut off. He says he will be away for some time, pay your bills and you wont need to go away!

Anyways nobody can survive for long with his kind of venom. RIP (rest in pieces)

We just moved into our new house and the old houseboy (switch47) follows us into the new house!

Make sure you work hard here to earn your pay!

There is hardly any reason to insult the poster, if all you people are half as holy as you claim, who are the ones that patronize those prostitutes?

Just another disgruntled element trying to create confusion amongst bank customers.

If you are real, then provide us a link to your blog, you can see mine beneath this post.

Many newspapers has written about many banks and alleged ill health, and the banks are surging forward, paying dividends and honoring other obligations and some are still trying to gain cheap relevance by insisting the banks are sick, even without any further proof.

MrCrackles:
I am starting to get blinded by this "WARNING:THIS IS SPAM" message accompanying some selected posts!

Wat is going on?!

Maybe someone will explain this error to us?