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Family › Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by InZA: 8:36pm On Feb 12, 2015

kamez:
What's this one talking about.... Pls none of the above mentioned is included in the marriage rites of ony igbo community....

Its more of yams, boxes of clothes, tons of drinks and sometimes large sums of cash for the bride price..

Get ur facts right pls.

Family › Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by InZA: 6:28pm On Feb 12, 2015

Blackett:
It's always tongue in cheek when your stupidity is called out. . . Yeah yeah.

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Family › Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by InZA: 6:19pm On Feb 12, 2015

Blackett:
Dumbass.

So how come each community in igbo land doesn't have a borehole for every lady that gets married? How come all parents with married daughters don't have more than 2 cars and I'm very sure your monumentally slow brain tells you igbos marry only from their tribe?

You are a what? A fool!

The truth of the matter is I didn't insult you.

I didn't attack your person.

I'm really not in the mood to soil my thumbs responding to you.... If not I would have crystallized the stupidiity in your post for every one to see... Because it's obvious you only see black.... Even in the thickest and whitest of snows.

By your response to my largely tongue in cheek post, I can tell that you flirt with frustration and this is my prayer.....may the good Lord bring peace to your troubled soul.

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Family › Re: Why Do Ibo Men Get Married Late Compared To Other Tribes? by InZA: 5:47pm On Feb 12, 2015*

You don't expect a guy of legal means and income to be able to build:

1- A community borehole,
2- Buy 2 cars for the bride's parents,
3-Build a community primary and secondary school(all which are part of the bride price) before the age of 35...do you?... So that's why they marry late and that that's why if you take a census of the number of Single ladies in Nigeria as opposed to other tribes.. . Igbo ladies rank in first.

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Romance › Re: Should A Jobless Or Broke Guy Be In A Relationship At All? by InZA: 5:27pm On Feb 12, 2015

There are 3 things that a guy should NEVER DO during his stay on earth.

1. Hit a woman
2. Say "I love you" to a woman he doesn't feel shiii for
3. Woo/Date/Court/Marry a woman when he's broke or jobless

Adverts › Re: Very Classy And Trendy Ladies Clothing (seeing Is Beliving) by InZA: 12:28am On Feb 11, 2015

fumisko:
Hi. I sell very trendy and beautiful ladies clothings. things you wouldnt see regularly. ranging from classy gowns to tops, trousers, skirts, jeweries etc as the are mostly imported. i would please like you to at least have a look or follow me on instagram were you would see alot . a trial would convince you. follow @looktrendee on instagram. thanks

You're indirectly limiting your Market pool to those that oblige the use of Instagram.... You may think everybody uses Instagram, but I don't think so.... Don't you think it would be fitting to show some of your wares here?.. As either attachments to your post or your profile picture.

Just my thought.

Romance › Re: WTF With All This Valentine Threads On NL? by InZA: 11:36pm On Feb 10, 2015

Maamin:
And by stressing on the Valentine-thread...you indirectly extending the valentine ishh!...take a chill pill

Waiter abeg! give am one bottle

But you started it

grin

Romance › Re: WTF With All This Valentine Threads On NL? by InZA: 10:34pm On Feb 10, 2015

By creating a thread about why there are so many Valentine-threads, you have inadvertently created yet another Valentine thread undecided

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Romance › Re: Hi All! I Am New Here by InZA: 10:30pm On Feb 10, 2015

NinoBrown888:
take it easy on hae charlie.. Lol

Romance › Re: Hi All! I Am New Here by InZA: 10:12pm On Feb 10, 2015

RomanceLander:
Lols, this is woman abuse , more harsh compared to giving her 24 lashes ....
please cut down on the vocabulary for sompipo like us who never reach your level

But really there's nothing I said here that is "Big English" or is there?.... Mind pointing any of them out?

Romance › Re: Hi All! I Am New Here by InZA: 8:54pm On Feb 10, 2015

prettythicksme:
Hope are not fake to scam babes here cos fake people everywhere

I'm not shading you and quite frankly I hope you can take this as a simple case of constructive criticism - You have almost never spoken any speck of "clean english" and It's not just about you being a lavish user of online lingua or shorthands- it's outright error filled sentences.

If you're going to give a sabre-toothed reply to this post, please just ignore the post altogether and chalk it up as one of those noise makers on Nairaland.

Cheers

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Romance › Re: 7 Tips To Help Nigerian Men Understand, Date And Enjoy A Lady Above 30!! by InZA: 5:28pm On Feb 10, 2015

Well meaning romantic relationships, shared by two well meaning, consenting matured adults are supposed to lead to marriage, like every other endeavour or process that has an ultimate goal, marriage is the ultimate goal of a romantic relationship (I say this with caution though, because I know there are people who just want to "seed around" and enjoy/explore their sexuality). That's the more reason I used "well meaning" and "matured adults".

However, even in light of this "ultimate goal", a lady above 30 who begins to put moderately to excessively noticeable pressure on her man to get married to her would only miss out on an otherwise beautiful relationship. Just because you're 30 and single doesn't mean you should make the relationship mechanically fine tuned towards marriage alone, where the relationship becomes only worth it, if the man has proposed after 3months,... Even at the age of 30,I believe a woman can still enjoy other wonderful elements of a loving relationship-companionship, friendship, pulled resources, informed advices and so on.... But if she suddenly deems him not ready for marriage and decides to bail on him... For the singular reason of not being ready for Marriage even though he ticks all her other check boxes,.... I think in summary she's just being a stupiid above 30 young woman.

I would probably get married when I'm 33/34....maybe or maybe not to someone who is in her late 20's to early 30's....even at that age I would still want to enjoy romantic love with her and simmer in everything love related in the relationship, I will not want to be put in a position where all she wants from me is my surname..... At all ages... Whether 18 or 80,it is love and Compatibility that really counts....I would want to know that this woman loves me for me and not because of my surname.

Ohhh by the way.... Very nice post OP. I learnt quite a lot.

The solution may just even be to pick a girl of 21 when I want to get married grin

.... To avoid all this "do's and don'ts" grin

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Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Is Always Demanding Financially From Me by InZA: 6:31pm On Feb 09, 2015

Break up with him and stop wasting your time with someone who has no financial integrity.

He's the type of man that will use the money you've saved up for [your] children's school fees to play Nairabet.

It has nothing to do with whether he gets a job as the COO of shell, the fact remains that he lacks financial integrity and as with all cases of questionable integrity, he's not likely to change anytime soon.

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Romance › Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by InZA: 9:59pm On Feb 07, 2015

Nneka123:
yes! you're paranoid! so paranoid!. don't you have forums in your so called country where you could update this why come over here!

Your blood too dey hot

Why are you always peppery

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Romance › Re: HELP!!! Ever Since I Entered University, No Guy Has Asked Me For Sex by InZA: 12:32pm On Feb 07, 2015

TrueFcts:
I am very confused right now. I have dated him since 2012 that is making it two years now. But we never had intimacy. I haven't even let me see him Unclad. He always demands sex but I declined and said till I am married. I do spend the night at his place sometimes for a reason. So yesterday, he came to my place and threatened me with Unclad picture of me on his phone. With my face and everthing very clear. He said took it while I was sleeping as I could see. Only God knows how it happened. I begged him, and he said he is giving me till tuesday next week to decide. I don't know what to do. I just want to kill him.

I believe it was not your spirit that said this just last month undecided

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Romance › Re: Letter To Tosyne2much by InZA: 12:17pm On Feb 07, 2015

@OP

If your writing coherence were expressed in terms of a meal... It would taste like gravel and onions.
Fix your English abeg. undecided

Romance › Re: A Colleague Teasing Me by InZA: 12:10pm On Feb 07, 2015

Sweetestlady:
Hello beautiful and handsome-looking Nairalanders...I really need ur opinion about this.. Really want to know why a guy will/loves to make fun of a lady...sometyms it can b expensive like having a thing to do with the way she dressed to work today,whr she bought the dress from...bla bla bla...like that like dat...pls I need ur opinion from both MEN and WOMEN .. Thanks

In this section? undecided

Romance › Re: Guys Come In Here And Build Your Ideal Woman by InZA: 10:15am On Feb 07, 2015

elantraceey:
No kids ke

You mean am?

You don't get?

It means I don't want a woman who has had kids from a previous relationship

Romance › Re: Guys Come In Here And Build Your Ideal Woman by InZA: 10:06am On Feb 07, 2015

elantraceey:
Inza come and build your woman

I've built her already tongue

4 & 5

But this 5dollars is too small oo... Ahh ahh angry

Romance › Re: Wooing A Lady On Phone Or Face-face? by InZA: 10:03am On Feb 07, 2015

yemicoal:
Lol, I hail ooo, how much should I pay to tap outta this charm?

Money can't by this charm bro
cool

Romance › Re: Wooing A Lady On Phone Or Face-face? by InZA: 2:52am On Feb 07, 2015

Nneka123:
haha...

Romance › Re: Wooing A Lady On Phone Or Face-face? by InZA: 2:18am On Feb 07, 2015

It would be in the girl's best interest if I "toast" her over the phone... Because she [maybe] able to put up her defences well enough... reason being that If I were to "toast" her face to face... I naturally ooze so much charm that she will not be able to resist my "toast bread" even if she's terminally allergic to "flour"

#BluntTruth.

Romance › Re: Question For Guys by InZA: 1:48am On Feb 07, 2015

This question is not complete

Romance › Re: Strange Things That Turn You On! by InZA: 1:44am On Feb 07, 2015

Errrm... Oga OP... When you say "turn on" what exactly do you mean...let me know in what context you're referring to, so that I would know if to answer or not undecided

Romance › Re: Guys What Does It Feel Like When A Beautiful Lady Says That She Truly Loves You? by InZA: 1:39am On Feb 07, 2015

Beauty has absolutely nothing to do with it... If she like make she fine pass mammy water wey dey use bleaching cream-as long as I know she has an ulterior motive - I'll feel nothing.
But if she's someone I've already had deep feelings for...Beautiful or not.. I would literally feel like imploding with joy, like 10million dynamites in a match box.

There's a particular someone I wish would just tell me those words this year... Ohhhh my!... I go just faint grin

Education › Re: How Unilorin Students Write Exam by InZA: 10:14pm On Feb 06, 2015

Probitas doctrinas!!!

We lead

We rule.

No contest cool

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