₦airaland Forum

chubbypearl:
Lol...a laboratory?haba!that is too extreme...and people are saying am too principled.I wonder what word will be used to describe you.i think you are not considering the op feelings.it will be heart breaking going through the process you have mentioned.Like someone said, her choice will determine her future.i pray she makes the right one .

pwerrymansion:
. if only I can have 2.

sexymoma:
Egbami ontop say person see condom for person house.. if person come see the woman wey person bleep nko.. wetin person go do

seseannie:
Tnx 4 all ur responses I spoke with him n he said he left a friend in his house n went to eat n that must have been when the condoms were used. He said he knew nothing abt the condoms. he. Has been swearing n begging me to believe him. To be candid I don't really know. What to believe

AgapeCharis:
I never knew I act too righteous at times


My list

Tufanja:
Learning how to love is one of the most beautiful but challenging journey's in life...sleeping with the one you love is a totally different emotional, spiritual en sexual experience than just sleeping around. It is an investment in a unique bounding.

The more often you sleep around, the more you lose your exclusively bounding powers and the easier it becomes to be unfaithful. See it as a sticker, the first time you stick it somewhere it keeps strong, if you take it off and stick it elsewhere it sticks less well, and the more you remove that sticker around the less well it sticks and the easier it is to remove it... So what I want to say, in the end you lose the capacity to connect deeply with one person and commit to love.

I just wonder how people can be satisfied with such superficial sexual experiences. They clearly havent experienced how different it can be otherwise they would never want different and even wouldnt talk about solely self-centered needs... The fruits of people who solely focus on their self-centered needs have proven in every field of life to be everything but tasteful.

I just wish you all the magic of sharing special intimacy with one person who is the world to you. Nothing is more beautiful and powerful in a relationship than having that secret you hold among each other, the expressing of your deepest emotions only between the two of you. How sexy is it when the whole town already have seen your orgasm face?

For me, there should be no different standards between man or woman. It is about the heart, its designed according to the same concept. One thing differs...a woman is the breeding ground of life. When she exposes her body to a man, she is the one taking the biggest risk. Man should think about the question why they are not taking the biggest risk at their side? No wonder a girl asks of you a guarantee that she will not be left behind in misery after a man has used her without love. A woman is much more vulnerable to the risk of getting pregnant, getting an STD and ruining her fertility due to it. Besides, she is more vulnerable to male power, rather physical or mental, which can make it hard for her to stand up for herself in an intimate setting. It is only within a safe setting (literally and figuratively) that she can flower... Women are mums to be...we all know how mum's love is...how committed...it says something about how deeply interwoven sexuality, fertility and love for a woman are... by asking of woman to just sleep around with you...you doing something fundamentally against her nature. You ask of her to become more man-like and split herself into a sex-being and a loving-being... If you want to sleep with a real woman you should never wish that...

If you want to pick women as flowers near the road...instead of chosing one and gardening that one...realise that all those picked flowers will easily wither away...and you will keep replacing them... Why dont do people care for the traces they leave in others...every contact you have with others leaves a print...what print do you want to leave...women who are taken by men time after time...they often have a history of scars you dont know about which make them to think that they can only get love and attention by sleeping with a man...there is a whole lot complex psychology behind this... I doubt if you still would like to grab a girl after you had first studied her deepest life and heart history...

Let's work on a higher and a deeper love.
x

~ Sign of puberty: confusing sex and love or placing them in the wrong order ~

AgapeCharis:
Spot on!!

AgapeCharis:
Lol. If not enjoyment what where you busy with then?

AgapeCharis:
Cool bro. You've been busy enjoying abi?

AgapeCharis:
Merci







InZa!!! where have you been??

Ajax1211:
Hello, my job requires me to create lots and lots of banners for a website and i am also the website admin, that makes me very busy.

I dont have the time to start creating backgrounds from scratch, please someone should help me with a website where i can just get backgrounds so i can just place the company images on them.

Please i need this badly, thanks.

Amazo:
@OP: you're obviously a learner!

It's funny how some women react when the odds are not in your favor. You complain bitterly, play the victim and make us men the bad guys responsible for your self-induced woes if we don't play according to your script and accede to your demands. Now, as regards sexuality, you want us men to go against our default psychological programming and disregard certain bodily features women possess that naturally kindles our attraction towards women generally. Let me spell it out for you: big böobs, curvy hips and big äss is to a man what big dïcks and big bank accounts is to a woman. Let a man have a tiny d*ck, then you'll see you women, like a gushing tap with no control, running your mouths around town, on social media, and everywhere talking about how small his d*ck is, and he can't perform, he can't satisfy sexually, you're frustrated, you want out, blah blah blah. Same thing if a man can't provide for you as one might consider "normal", as you expect: he's stingy, he's broke, I can't cope with this poor guy...etc! Now, when the odds are against a man, he can go to hell, you are going to move on to the guy who has the odds in his favor and reaches or surpasses your expectations. You do all this because these things, big d*cks and money, matter to you sexually and otherwise. But now, when it comes to us men, concerning the things that matter to us sexually and otherwise, if the odds don't favor you, you women want us to adjust, ignore or outrightly discard the things that matter to us sexually and otherwise, which in this context, includes big böobs, curvy hips and big äss. You don't want us to complain or even talk about it; rather you just want us to accept outrightly regardless of whether it meets up to our own expectations or not. No offense, some women have midget böobs, letter-T hips and äss like a flat tyre but if we complain then we are the bad guys, we're wicked, we're inconsiderate, (according to @diddydiva) we're gullible (laughs at the audacity of her repugnant stupidity )...and so on. But when a man has tiny d*ck and is poor, women break all hell loose. This double standard is pathetic. If the odds are against you, carry your cross with dignity. There are always exceptions, and some men forfeit such qualities in place of others. Same thing with women. Although majority of both sexes will maintain the natural status quo of physical attraction, which is completely acceptable in this case. Love they say is blind, but physical attraction isn't. So you women better wise up and cut us some slack. Most of us men like big böobs, curvy hips and big äss; it's in our natural physical programming to be that way. In fact, we'll be abnormal if we weren't attracted to such.


On a final note, women if you got it flaunt it ; but if you don't got it, then shut it. Tired sick of all this pathetic complaining

Bamz:
What if that fuel in the car is special in some way? God help me

No one is truly taken until they're married
Say no to boyfriend idolizing.

Peterpan1:
You forgot;
1. Okada for each elder
2. Bicycles for the youths
3. BlackBerry handsets for the siblings.
4. New Apartment for the parents.

And I didn't mention the final cash payments.

tosyne2much:
Bros the list is not up to 10

lazsnaira:
Go here and read about Igbo Marriage so that next time your tongue wouldn't cause trouble for you:
http://www.lazarusogbonna.com/2015/01/the-brouhaha-about-marrying-igbo-girl.html

jotax:
you geh mouth!