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Phones › Re: Disadvantages Of Buying China Phones (Chinadroids) by InZA: 7:06pm On Mar 24, 2015

I think it all depends on your need for a phone in the first place...... Personally I've fallen in love with these so called "chincko" phones(except technology and infinix). I got my present Gionee M2 phone when I was in a state that had next to no power supply. I tried my hands on that phone and believe you me it's been a super awesome experience... I'm still using it till date and I'm still loving it.

Like I said, it depends on what you want to use the phone for and also if the phone has the features you want, the next phone I'm planning to get is a "chinko" phone called "1+one".... This phone sold for 70k the last time I checked, so you see its not necessarily about getting a chinko phone because it's cheap. It's about getting what truly pleases you chinko or not. I personally detest iPhone and everything apple, not because of the price tag but because of their compatibility issues.

So it isn't always about price. Many times its about personal preference

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Romance › Re: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by InZA: 6:17am On Mar 22, 2015

ivyT:
I love Chris brown

Dont derail,I just did dat.....oops

I don't see how Chris Brown fits into this

Romance › Re: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by InZA: 8:10pm On Mar 21, 2015

Linzo:
Thanks, ya i have a phone that blocks number from calling but am thinking i should send her a test that i dnt need her communications in any form and then block her line

Don't send a text.... Block her now now.. Sending a text is still a subtle reflection that you care about her opinion... So block her already. Let her try to call you and hear the app tell her "stupiid girl, the owner of this line has blocked it, go get a life"

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Romance › Re: Is She Fooling Me Or What? by InZA: 7:52pm On Mar 21, 2015

I won't say I understand how you feel.. Because I've never been in your shoes before and I don't intend to, but really how hard can it get to see that she's using you, many girls want to have a loving boyfriend and at the same time the sweetest ever male best buddy.... But it doesn't work that way.... Girls by default are manipulative and you just have to see that she's manipulating you.

1.Block her number.
2. If she calls you with another number, block it
3.If you don't have an app that blocks phone numbers, go and download it
4.If you don't have a phone that can accommodate a phone number blocking app, then anytime she calls with an unknown number, once you pick and hear her voice. Cut the call
5. Keep cutting until she gets the message that you would rather date a snake than date her

Dude.... You have to take charge of your life... Don't allow anybody, woman or man to make you a shadow of yourself...if you continue like this, when you get that super cool job, you won't be able to concentrate and give it your best effort because you're busy thinking about some overly manipulative idiiot of a girl who wants to eat her cake and have it.

Deuces!

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Family › Re: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by InZA: 6:47pm On Mar 21, 2015

NifemiOlu:
What's her personality like? What past has she had? What present is she living? As terrible as we men are, we are always scared of a woman's past. If so 'many waters have passed under her bridge' well.

I wish every di:ck hungry woman would sit her ass down and eat this statement... Women don't just get it!... They just don't. Pity

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland Fans Of Quizup Trivia Game....Let's Meet Here by InZA: 8:11pm On Mar 18, 2015

MizMyColi:
I have challenged you.
Please winnnn me!!

Error....you've been conspicuously missing.
Everything fine?

Everything is fine

Atimes many more important things occupy your time, and Nairaland just naturally takes a back seat.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland Fans Of Quizup Trivia Game....Let's Meet Here by InZA: 6:52pm On Mar 18, 2015

MizMyColi:
Just google Quizup...
You will see more info.

Mehnnn...the adrenaline is solo ooomph...
Actively looking for someone to challenge me in Grammar and Missing Letters

How come you didn't pick up the challenge I posted on my pm.... Abi you were afraiding ni.... Do add me up so that I can win you flat!.... Hihohihihihohi

ID : Asher

Webmasters › Re: The Meaning Of CAPTCHA & 6 Types Of CAPTCHA by InZA: 10:40am On Mar 16, 2015

Vivipop:
Thank you, i'll try that.

Webmasters › Re: The Meaning Of CAPTCHA & 6 Types Of CAPTCHA by InZA: 10:19am On Mar 16, 2015

Vivipop:
Very educative! Thank you Op.
Somebody somewhere is wishing for a half day work tomorrow or better still a day off. It's my birthday tomorrow and i have a very mea...n boss.

If you send your boss a nicely wrapped gift today... As a pre-celebration birthday gesture, he may just let you off tommorow... Or at least give you a half working day.

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Webmasters › Re: The Meaning Of CAPTCHA & 6 Types Of CAPTCHA by InZA: 10:16am On Mar 16, 2015

I'd always wondered what that Captcha meant... I never really took time to learn about it. Thanks OP.

That makes one less thing to learn or read about on my "To learn and read about list"

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Romance › Re: Babes!!! Upload Your Pics Lets See How Pretty & Cool You Are by InZA: 11:22pm On Mar 15, 2015

sexyseun:
ME, i no fit carry last lailai!!!!!!!

You have amazing eyes.

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Romance › Re: E Don Happen. Am In Trobull +pics by InZA: 9:50pm On Mar 15, 2015

Looooool.

These guys are just hilarious grin

Boiledc:rn and Cocalulu(abi what's that his name sef)... I bet they are one and the same. grin

Romance › Re: Babes!!! Upload Your Pics Lets See How Pretty & Cool You Are by InZA: 7:24pm On Mar 15, 2015

I just love threads like this on Sunday evenings grin

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Romance › Re: How Do I Explain Where I Got Her Number, If I Dont Want Her To Know The Truth! by InZA: 12:21am On Mar 14, 2015

See it's a simple thing... If she feels the guy in question is not worth her time and presence until after he has told her who gave him her number then honestly he should just free the girl.

Some girls can be so petty and even stupid sef I must add.. So you and a guy are getting along well, he has an engaging personality and you're still sticking to the "who gave you my number" thing?

Abegiiiiiii... If Tuface calls the girl would she ask him who gave him her number, abi she would even tell Tuface that she put her number on google phone book(if there's any app like that sha) so that he can find the number and call her.
As I always say... Girls are a dime a dozen (for those who see dating as a hobby) I'm guessing you don't want to marry her... Na still date and calendar una dey do.. So if she no gree date you.... Abeg carry your calendar go another "year"

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Romance › Re: I Have Been Dumped By 3 Girls Cos I Refuse To Have Sex With Them by InZA: 10:19am On Mar 10, 2015

hamilton62:
@op
What do you mean by ...I refused to do the RIGHT thing?
Is sex the right thing in a relationship? No!
Why did you paste this here if it's the right thing?
Please lets mind our words, you remind me a lot about me but sincerely, they never stopped me from being strong rather I understood that those ladies are out to destroy me... Sincerely, everyone needs a very loving relation but it must be godly. There comes a time when you slip and someone holds you and encourage you like mum or dad without trying penetration. Love is sweet without sex. Just pray to God and continue, you will meet a girl who knows her value and you will be very happy for being who you are.
However, prepare your mind for disappointment because that's the nature of man, some will be with you but with time they will start searching for sex outside very soon you will be dragged to the mud for being right.
But at last, they will come running back to you and will always respect and see you and compliment you as a unique dude than they foolishly thought.
I am saying this out of experience.
Sex kills the destiny of a man and it's the only sin the word of God ask us to FLEE from and not run. so you can understand the perilous state it has on a man?
This just reminded me Ecclesiastes 1:9; the thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done; and there is no new thing under the sun.
God bless and thanks!

Pre-marital sex kills the destiny of a man

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Romance › Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by InZA: 6:21pm On Mar 03, 2015

CharlesNneji1:
I understand your point and I agree with them.

However, I do not preach promiscuity. As a matter of fact; I have a super awesome pretty girl I'm dating right now and I don't cheat on her.

What I teach is basic psychology. Even if you find that special girl, if you don't know how to go about making her see that you are the special guy for her, she will not realise it.

Most times when we find that girl, in the heat of passion, we do things that set them off.

Go through this thread, it has been read by hundreds of girls on nairaland but NO girl has commented to say that these things I have said is a lie.

Doesn't that strike you? A website where people feed on bashing others. Doesn't that strike you that I have probably just said the truth.

Think about that.

Yeah ofcourse, I reason with you.... I guess the hope is that, instead of being promiscuous with the information you've shared, guys would rather use it maturely to get that special person.

Romance › Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by InZA: 4:19pm On Mar 03, 2015

The moderator that put this on the front page must be a prospective client. grin

As much as I subscribe to the essence of your post@OP....I can't still help but have a coloured opinion about it, the reason being that, your posts/articles and even your book(from the hints and excerpts you've drawn from it) somewhat encourages duplicity and infidelity.

I stand to be corrected but your articles don't focus on getting that "special girl" that means the world to you, whom you would possibly want to "take home to mama" or whoever dey house in case mama don travel..... Instead it focuses on getting and stirring the attention of different girls...and this notion breeds psychological inconsistencies or complexities and ultimately limits the habit of commitment.

It is my personal belief, that a relationship should be between one man and one woman who come together to commitedly nuture that relationship. But when a guy is, largely driven and motivated by the suggestions/opinions in your articles or the submissions in your book, that he can/or has the "legal" right to "bang" any girl that tickles his fancy, simply because he has "the know how", then ofcourse, no matter how you see it, your articles would only serve to further populate the already growing number of irresponsible men we have in Nigeria.

Like I said initially, I subscribe to the essence of your post, which is being selectively attentive to a girl, but very few guys would see this in a "singular sense".... After all, what is the use of a knowledge gained if it is not lavishly practised.

This is just my personal opinion and I know it hardly represents the ideals of other people.

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Romance › Re: My Dilema.... by InZA: 10:06am On Feb 28, 2015

The whole thing seems too mechanical.

I didn't even see anywhere, where you gushed about being so in love with the guy, nothing like "I really love this man"..." I can't imagine my life without him "..." He makes me so happy"

It's like being with him is another one of your "compulsory" school projects.

All the best though.

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Phones › Re: List Of Cheap Android Tablets In Nigeria by InZA: 9:52am On Feb 28, 2015

I was hoping to see something between 9"/9.5"-10" in screen size.....@OP, any suggestions?

Romance › Re: Guys, Silly Things You Should Stop Doing When Your Are 25yrs& Above by InZA: 10:10pm On Feb 27, 2015

Very well written.

Big ups! cool

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Romance › Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by InZA: 8:27pm On Feb 27, 2015

Justfollowit:
What is with the sense of entitlement y'all keep showing? Because you guys are friends automatically gives you a 5- star into her life.

What if you are really not good enough for her? When did it become a moral sin or crime not to date someone because the person is simply not good enough

She has her own aspirations, dreams and likes, if she thinks you do not fit into any , zoom off and let her be.

Have you also failed to consider the fact that maybe she doesn't like you in that manner. You can't threaten someone to like you, it is either she does or she doesn't. Don't sweat it

And You write as if you haven't ignored many women out there who stylishly showed interest but you ignore them because they are not good enough for you.

You cannot have it both ways

Her response was in good faith. If you look take it is as such and if you don't na your wahala be that

Good word!

Romance › Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 4:43pm On Feb 27, 2015

sucess001:
ok..admitted i was harsh.

However, my take is that cheating is widespread. that i say this dont mean i encourage it. its been like that for centuries.

i have handled many family law cases and denying that its widespread is like denying day and night.

the other day, Duex did a survey which revealed Nigerian ladies as one of the most promiscuous in the world....http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/01/nigerian-women-unfaithful-wives-world/

so its a bit worrisome when i see posts that tend to deny this trend. a better way is to admit it...den work towards correction.

no offense meant.

None taken.

Romance › Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 3:41pm On Feb 27, 2015

sucess001:
Bravo! that's why you remain single bro...

hopefully your comment will make you look 'marketable'...although even most girls knw your type are never sincere.

and telling the OP to leave cos she sense he is cheating is tantamount to sayin she shd remain single for life...

guys sha...

Seen.

Romance › Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 8:39pm On Feb 26, 2015

GoodFaith:
Good for you
Best of luck getting that very, very good man with 10/10
In life you can manage your risk
or out smart yourself
will you condone a beating husband or a husband that can't provide for the family
a man that go out and drink family money

So you would rather condone a man that sleeps around, that constantly disrespects the covenant he made with your body the day he stood before the altar to get married to you or you would condone STDs /STIs and HIV, by the time he brings them home from "work".

You should know what you deserve as a human being, how you want to be treated. See I could go on and on, with all sense of humility, I'm a very versed person, especially in matters of this nature, but if I continue we may end up derailing the thread. In summary, whatever works for you will work for you, it wouldnt work for me.

Cheers ma

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Romance › Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 8:13pm On Feb 26, 2015

GoodFaith:
the lady took the boxer for analyst to the laboratory because
she said her husband was cheating
she want to catch a cheating husband
Today no husband and no Job
Cheating is a big issue-- you can make the man small and respect you the way you handle it
or make a fool of yourself
1 to 10 rating for for men
you have a man that have 8/10
what will you do?

The fact that she was not professional enough in the execution of her job still doesn't give props to the cheating husband or suspected cheating husband, Mixing person affairs with professional work is bad, anyday, anytime. The best she could have done was to take it to another lab and have them do it, because even in the medical profession, family members are not allowed to handle clinical cases of relatives and family members, it's against their professional standards (in most hospitals)

That said, it is still summarily the man's fault that she was paranoid enough or found it worth doing to taking his boxers to her laboratory for DNA analysis. If the husband was absolutely faithful to her, she wouldn't have any need to take his boxers, so it's all about the concept of "No smoke without fire".

Couples should know that at the very basic level, they are responsible for how the other person behaves, it is what you plant in "your garden" that would grow. If you love and respect and commitedly cherish your spouse, (except the spouse is cursed from the great beyond), there are just some ills that you wouldn't find in him/her.

It's all about cause and effects.

If a man has 80 percent of the qualities you desire in a man, and the remaining 20percent represents his cheating nature- please leave the relationship, even if it's 90/10- still leave the relationship. It's called a relationship for a reason, it's supposed to be between two committed adults not between one adult and the rest of his community.

There's absolutely no excuse to condone infidelity.

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Romance › Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 7:44pm On Feb 26, 2015

onyichick:
I luv dis comment,well said. pls r u by any chance single Mr Inza

Errrrrrm.....The last time I checked I am

Any business proposal attached to that question? grin

Romance › Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 7:41pm On Feb 26, 2015

GoodFaith:
I have a story for you
Their was a woman that work in a laboratory for a government
She took her husband boxer briefs to the laboratory for analyst
Issue came up
guess what the woman lose her job
today she don't have a job or a husband

And your cogent point is?

Romance › Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 3:25pm On Feb 26, 2015

chubbypearl:
The funny thing is he may not really do much...All he may do is to say some words and she will swallow it all...well,that is what love does when you don't love with your head but of course,its only love when you love with your heart...

Yeah well said...But you can not really love without loving yourself first and when you truly love yourself, you would normally and naturally demand that people treat you in a particular way...with utmost respect and regard for your feelings and emotions, after all that's the way you treat yourself, so why settle for anything less from anybody. Even if his "small words" would buy her over, I think if he truly respects her he should still go all the way by calling the friend and the girl the friend had the "stuff" with and bringing them to the OP, so they can openly admit to their "deed". Ofcourse even all that could still lies, but he just has to show her that he can and will go the extra mile to regain his trust.

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