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classicB:
We are fine o. Tnk u
AM reading stuffs to improve myself.

classicB:
Being too nice isn't all that good, people might see it as your weakness and take advantage of it

BizBayo:
Eledumare will bless u with this comment.

MrDojo:
I can't stop clapping 4 ya.....w@ a post...

slimmy05:
Stone aged man.

Look at how backward your life has been with this type of deranged mentality. The dude is doing well and very happy. You're here crying foul like he cheated you.

Go get a life and job, it would do you a lot of good

NiceMan4:
You blessed me this evening.

emsco:
i just finish my video edting training and i really need a video production outfit or a Tv content companyto share my creativity and God given talent with,taking me as internship is not bad.i will b glad if u guys can be of help. You can reach me on 08082171228

Seun:
@inza: it should probably never have made front page. I'll investigate further.

CoCoLav:
I think so too.

I am an introvert but the things I do...

People will be surprised.

OP maybe you are just boring..try to be more interesting and spontaneous around him.

4 years?! mehn...by this time you should be doing make up on his face and taking pictures
painting his toe nails
shaving his eyebrows while he is asleep
Just have fun.
Plan outings to places he will like...you know him best. You know what he likes doing
watch sports with him if he is a sports fan. for good measure you could just support the opposite team so you can argue and have some laughs
buy the latest video game and the both of you play it together
Spontaneously dance for him....you can even dance on his body
Go to a gaming center...play snooker, go paintballing...
You could also give him some drama, tease him, make him laugh
just basically have fun!
On Fridays after work you both can just go the park, sit, buy pizza and talk.
And then you could write him little letters and drop off at places he is sure to see them...like his pockets or wallet. I prefer this to the normal boring text messages and pinging.

OmoAlata1:
I will say it again, there is no such thing as p.orn addiction nor sex addiction. if you believe you have any of these addiction, you don't. You have other issues that need to be treated and it is manifesting itself through sex. First uncover the real reason(s) why have these addiction then seek proper professional treatment for it. then your addiction will be solved. In my opinion p.orn and sex addiction is just an excuse cos people will automatically feel sorry for you.

OmoAlata1:
there is no such thing as p.orn addiction. there is an underline issue and p.orn watching is just the outlet. solve the underlining issues and bam, your "po.rn addiction" is solved. BTW watching p.orn is not a sin. je,rking off to p.orn is the safest sex will you ever have

carefreewannabe:
Sieht aber so aus als wäre es nicht kaputt.

babie78:
I met my husband in funny circumstances.

I had this Jalopy that I used to call car from he'll. It was a manual Honda Hala and men that car gave me issues.

One faithful day I was driving merrily and low and behold the brake failed and before I could say jack robinson the car rolled down and slope and ran into a brand new toyota parked in front of a house.

The first though that crossed my mind is if them sell me sell this car I can't afford the light of the toyota. The owner angrily came out of the car and I timidly came out of the car and when I saw the very tall angry man omo I burst into tears.

He took one look at me looked at me a second time and ended up fixing my car and his and he also fixed my heart

He is the next best thing since sliced bread and guess what I still have my car from hell.

He bought me a better one but I can never sell that my Hala

ShirelleBaby:
Not often but last year--i happened to see one before this-
And it is the same person.
Do u think she will have followers if she is a fake?

She aint fake.
And she is really cool with words.

ShirelleBaby:
She changes her display pix often and she has followers--i doubt she is fake.

LordReed:
If you notice I said to God "is this a good choice?" I was ready for both a positive or negative answer (the answer I got shocked me to my marrow). I wasn't praying for God to ratify my choice, I was asking God for wisdom. I had been praying for God to lead me to who He thought best for me so in effect I was asking Him "is this her?" Hope you follow?

May you never feel the pain of loosing your livelihood, in Jesus name Amen.

LordReed:
Spam bot made me late for this party. EfemenaXY carefreewannabe I now understand the tiptoeing you guys where doing with the language thing, I jumped in with both feet and got myself a ban. Anyways here goes.

A female friend called me up to assist her in house hunting. She told me someone else would be joining us if I don't mind and I said it was okay. At the place we went to see I met this friend of my friend. Polite greetings and that was all, no spark not even her beauty struck me but as we were driving to drop her off she said something that made me do a double take and look at her in the rear view mirror to make sure it was actually her speaking, LoL. She said a man had offered her a job, house and car in exchange for becoming the man's "pet". She said she dammed the man and said a big NO. This is in Abuja and this "poor" beautiful girl is turning down such a juicy offer? OMG I knew I had to find out if she was for real or not.

After we drop her off I told my friend, "give me this your friend na" and she said she'll find out if it was OK to give me her phone number. A couple of days later she sends it to me and tells me to give this unbelievable babe a call. The call lead to a friendship through which I discovered that the babe was for real. I then prayed to God that I have found o! You said he that findeth a wife has found a good thing and obtains favour of the Lord, Lord show me if this choice is good. The Lord showed me and our relationship was tested through 4 years of courtship, during which I lost my job and found it very difficult to even by gas for my car. We stuck together through thick and thin, I was blessed with another job and another car to God's glory. We used to joke that people seeing us now won't understand why I open the car door for her thinking all sorts of wrong things, LoL. We are married now and I still wake up everyday knowing that indeed the Lord has favoured me.

This is such a beautiful story.

It's not just beautiful but also has a number of lessons, one that struck me the most was how you prayed to God when you "found" her. I think it's nice that you didn't absolutely leave the whole search to God but actually made effort in finding.

However, what I'm going to be saying next may be somewhat contradictory of the previous paragraph but using the Bible verse you referenced, I think it would have been more fitting after you married her, not as a search criteria, I don't know if you're getting me though... But, if presently I'm looking for a wife, I shouldn't go into the palms mall, see a fine, smoking hot lady, start chatting her up and then afterwards I go back and pray in the lines of "ehen God ooo....look at, I've found her, oya talk your own".I think God should lead you to the woman he wants you to marry, then when you're married, you can now pray in the lines of " Lord, because you said he that finds a wife, finds a good thing, because I've found this wife I've married, let my life/our lives be a reflection of good happenings". This is by no way an authoritative stance, it's just my personal opinion.

That said, your story is a very lovely one... I receive my own story too ooo... Without the losing job part sha

carefreewannabe:
I guess because I was writing in German.

rezzy:
Came back from NYSC, had no one yet.

Met him in church. After faith clinic service, he approached me and asked whether I'm born again and I said Nop. He asked when will I give my life to Christ, I said next week. He kept disturbing me until I agreed to give my life to Jesus Christ March 2011

We became friends as in brother and sister in the church.

December 2011, as friends that we were, I told him a brother in church is asking for my hand in marriage, how does he see the guy. Mehn, the next day, he sent me a text that he loves me, I became confused. From that day onward love text begin full my phone.

Meanwhile, I was still given the other guy green light though he knew I wasn't serious and blamed our pastor that they have used pastors power to give me to their Co pastor.

August 2012, my pastor proposed, got married Dec 2013.

How do I know he's the right one.?
Make I no lie, I didn't pray about it. He is cool to the core, and he fears God. Not only that, I no wan hear say no be my husband if I pray. [size=14pt]Age no dey my side [/size]