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rati ken: The rot in our system spans decades, the decay in our infrastructure has been with us for donkey years. Anybody who expects a magic wand type fix is not only dumb but without a conscience. At least we have seen efforts aimed at bettering our system.... Yet you spend your entire life condemning them.

GEJ needs more time to fix the mess created by the old fools in the opposition. Until then, Kudos to My president for all the efforts so far... Well appreciated.

AGREED, but not with the amount they are consuming for personal gains. why is it that people from poor background become millionaires and billonaires after attaining the post of Presidency or Governor? monies that can hardly be accrued by an average Nigerian off the street giving the same durations of the respective candidates.

Sincere 9gerian: @Horus., stop boring us with old pictures of Ikeja Police College. It has been rehabilitated and is wearing a new look. Fact!

By the way, can we see pictures of your toilet?

rehab indeed. Was it not this week I read on front page of either Punch Or Guardian the shameful look of Surulere Police Barak?

Just as death visited one dude who was used to oppress people during the PDP reign in Edo state and election rigging, So shall disappointment meet people who deceive Nigerians.

gerald09: Does he really deserve a 2nd term, let's not 4get history of Nigerian politician give dem a 2nd term n its 4 years of lootin.

may God bless you... Nigerians are the most foolish, I tell you.

Horus, God bless you. Keep them coming.

It will never be well with anyone who are help bent on deceiving Nigerians, including their Children!

As for the Ghanians on here, give it to them like it hot and stand for your country.

Nonsense!

OP, you must be Cynically stvpid and technically disgruntle with a brain less functional than that of a house mouse.

I am a Nigerian and I feel ashamed of you guys here. What will you achieve with this silly aim of yours?

This goes to your supporters as well. You bloody plancktons. .

Get a life, niggas.

You fools are here making comparison but when It's time for elections the bloody nitwits will go on to sell their souls. Where do you plant corn and harvest Apple?

2015 is around the corner... Sell your souls again blind bats.

moststylish: 5k each

Ondo does not pay. I am currently serving there. Batch A of 13A.

Rhemar: Ondo pays 5k

i am currently serving in Ondo and we have never been paid a dime.

I realy wish dey could pay us.

Vessi: Is Chris complaining when she goes out on a date with other guys?
BTW, are they still dating?

Good question.

wow!

Ipain is the name cos I have been there before. It's not a cool place to wish anyone.

I told her to fck off and I broke up with her.

1 down, 2 to go.

Waspy: Dude, is this the first and only oppourtunity you have to see her?

not the first, we stay in same state but i haven't been around for some months now. It's because of her insensitivity that made me never consider her as someone I could settle down with. Her way of reasoning is too shallow.

You can imagine she does not even know what to do at the right time. Giving me an account number of someone who isn't around. Not telling me she couldn't come earlier before I sent her the money... Just imagine those scenerios.

How long has she been your chic?

over a year. She was initially playing hard to get but I stopped showing interest for four months and she came back after me. She something annoying again, I ignored her for four months and she came back again. So based on that, I lost respect for her... And had been wanting to just break up with her. So, this is just a perfect chance.

Had she ever been coy or sly or witty with you before?

No she hasn't.

Do you trust her?

yes. She isn't the flirty or randy type. The problem with her is insensitivity, not knowing what to do at the righ time which portrays her as immature.

If these questions are not answered, then i can't say much. I'll rather blame you for being stingy and insecure

i have answered

idnoble135: What i said was to the OP. Are you the OP?

Lmao. Permit me to laugh at your ignorance. Sorry, I just couldn't contain the laughter.

Correction.

OP= Original Post(er)

so based on that, I am the OP!

mikeywise: @ OP, I will be very frank with u, that girl is not ur girl friend. Infact, u haven't seen her before. You met her online and invited her. That girl has maga-ed you.

This is an experience, just learn from it and move on, sorry .

don't say what you don't know. She is relative to my ex neighbour. You get that?

Strauskhan1: I now know why you were angry

I only metioned that as a considered option that would make her not dare such again. But on a second thought, it won't work.

I wished there was something I could do that would make her never repeat such on me or any guy for that matter, something that will make her fear and shiver at thought plotting such scheme.

Here is why I am angry.

Anger 1
She asked me to pay money into an account whose owner is not around. How couldn't she know before asking for the account and why didn't she inform the owner of what she wanted to use it?

My anger 2

She rang me to know if I had made moves to make second payment. How couldn't she know that she wont be coming? Anybody for that matter would have known that they can't make an apppointment due to other engagements and they would have hinted respective parties to whom they have agreement with.

This is basic logic, man.

She still didn't give me details of what made her not show up.

Despite my call, she told me she isn't sure she will come next day, even while I was lamenting over my disappointment.

She also NEVER apologised even when she was on facebook.

To me, I just pray I get over this cos I hate it when someone take me for ride and I can be very dangerous at that point in time such that the culprit would be greatly shocked at what I could. I am just a direct opposite of my personality when taken for a ride.

A typical example is what Incredible Hulk does when angered.

idnoble135: Some times i wonder if people that have highly sensitive imaginative faculty are that few.
Reading the OP, I still see the OP hoping they'd make up.
Interesting.

what do you mean? If you are referring to my past post, sorry you are mistaken because this is a different person entirely.

My chic...

We are currently some states apart and she agreed to come and see.

Her bank isn't here so I paid t-fair into an account she gave me. When it was time for her to show up, she said the person whom I paid the money into his/her account isn't around and that the person will not be back till a week gone.

Since she had decided to stay over a week, I felt she would get the money back before that time.

So, I sent her another one to come and this time, it had to go through my friend who reside at a place where her bank is available; the guy had to miss an appointment because they refused to collect the money from him till 10 am.

After calculation, she neither called to let me know if would come as at when due.. I had to start calling. The phone rang for so long due to multiple calls. At first I was scared if something had happened because in between those multiple calls, the phone was switched off at on time.

when she would pick all she could say was, she isn't coming and that we will talk later.

My anger is not the money but the magnitude of her immaturity and insensitivity.

As i type this now, she neither called or text to say sorry.

I thought of asking her to refund the whole cash or something that will make her never dare such with either me or any guy for that matter.

If not for the distance, I would have given nothing less that 5 slaps.

It's not easy to forgive such people, especially when you feel that you have been played.

Hayormeah: Tym heals d deepest of wounds...Jst let everytin out,tel er u r findin it hard 2 forgive.Let er knw d gravity of er offence n apologise wit al sincerity.Prentendin u av 4given er wen u avnt wil worsen d issue.U knw,lyf is too short to b sad.She was in ur past,d past has gone so she is.I knw its painful bt its beta u forgive er to av inner peace.If she was meant 4 u she wld av stayd.PLS FORGIVE ER.

Yeah. That is the key: Loving oneself. Ever since I started do just that, my life has been super sweet!

carefreewannabe: Learn to love yourself instead of loving A GIRLFRIEND more than you love yourself!

Learn to love yourself and appreciate your worth and never get lost in a relationship again!

Ah! Marry who? God forbid rubbish. I can't marry such a person and not even if I am under a curse/spell and I will NEVER entertain such thoughts!

It would be detrimental to her well-being and sanity if I marry her.

lrguru: OP, like some people rightly said, sever all ties u have with that babe, that way all the hate dies too, cos if u by any chance marry her, u will hurt her one day or even kill her anytime u suspect she's up to some mischief.

Thanks. I have taken necessary precautions.

Justiyke4u: Bros SEASON ONE didnt end well i must say if all u said was nothing but the truth then i think u av a point to be angry to any length but i must remind that you forgive not for the good of others but for ur own good. Is so hard there is no doubt but for ur own sake u av to forgive and then move on with ur life time they say heals. Forget the past and dont allow it to mess with ur future. It may not be wise in my opinion to go back to her as that may be a constant reminder. Be strong bro

iebanehita: ^Couldn't agree less.
Even the self-acclaimed virgins will handle your manhood very well, give you ora.L s£x and still says no penetration.

Its a funny world we live in.

Precisely! Why would she give me ONLY b00bs and not the meats and potatoes?
Little does she(person described 2 posts above) know that I have lost interest already and not wanting s.ex could only aggravate an already deteriorated relationship genetically damaged by 'hard to get' and abuse of freely given privileges at the genesis and threshold of the whole thing.

Choi!
Good guy gone vewy vewy badt!..badder than badoo!!..
Your username speaks volume you know.

sure, no more dating without se.x and I am only trying not to consume myself by being focus in my life; otherwise some cvnt/labia majora would be vibrating at the
sight of my 'mmmmh' and begging for clemency. For some reasons, I would discard 4 and concentrate on the ONLY one!

Anyway, some of this ladies deserves it.

Sure, they do!

As par the way you sound, from the beginning of this thread, you sound like the loving, caring and sweet guy who wouldn't hurt a fly. Someone that would catch a grenade for his lady. The romantic sweet dude........

But on the other "emotionally displacced thread"...hmm!! Na badoo be that person o!

I am still that nice but I come at a price; I ain't cheap. However, someone succeeded in penetrating the core of my heart and unearthed those hidden and buried treasures of the heart. Though she still sweat a little and but her 'ways' paved the way and I ain't showing it like I did to the fool in the OP you just have to keep your head straight and your eyes alert.

Many of these girls are ingrates. Whether they admit it or not, many wants to be fvcked so badly.

What's the difference? How did I sound there and how do I sound here.


The school of hard knocks I got is beyond the capacities I ever envisaged.

Today, I can't date a girl without fvcking her and if she refuse, I let her be. I will be breaking up with one who has refused for whatever reason best know to her.

Sure, I will engage her in test and if she refuse, that would end everything as I will send her home by seeing her of and tell her not to call me again.

iebanehita: Actually, it was your comment on the "emotionally displaced" thread that led me to yours.

Your comment there sounds quite different from the "you" I have read here.
Seems life to you is a b1Tch.
You learnt your lesson the HARD WAY.

You must have been grinding and yanshing your present girl now



^to the quoted, that's one thing about naïve ladies, when they get the attention of so many guys in the varsity.

kennyamusan: chairman,yeah but ii guess if I happen to be someone you know well,u won't be talking like this.that I decide to bring my problems online doesn't say I am foolish,your advice might help somehow,rather than all this unnecessary joke.love is never a toy u play with.Let's make the world a better place,u might not know who u would come in contact or might need or give u an help 2mrw but all the same,thank u.

I feel your pain bro. Same thing happened to me too and we had no sex.

One advice I would give to guys is that no matter how much you love a girl, make sure you don't stay too long in the relationship before fvcking her.

Mine is living in serious fear till date because she knows she did a lot of wrongs.

If there is a way to get her just get on and fvck her and if not you would always regret not doing it. No matter what she says, fvck her and move on. Also note that girls WANT to be fvcked and forget all those pretence. They want to be fvcked HARD like the bitcch they are because they sometimes imagine this things.

Well, she stressed me too much.

And I have decided to end everything with her soon of which I know she will fall for it and that would be my loop hole to exit the whole shiit. I don't even call her much again.

Imagine chasing a girl for some time and she kept on playing the hard to get card.

If eventually she agreed to date you, do you hold her in high esteem or your taste is rather sour in the scheme of things between you. If yes, what could be the reason?

I will start by saying I don't. Currently with one but I lost steam when she started getting serious with me. Infact, there were two instances when I didn't call for 4 months, which was regular ,initially. There are other factors that contributed to the situation and it's entirely her fault.

Though we roll along but I just don't take take her serious.

"Do not judge your opponents by their intentions, but by the effect of their actions" ------ Robert Greene.

As guys, we all fall mugu at some point in our development. That is OK.

But the tragedy would be failing to learn the necessary lessons from the experience(s).

thanks. I have learned my lessons appropriately.

That's in the past over a couple of years ago and it was my first experience.

Everything was fine initially until when she gained admission.

Ema prince: some people get patience sha..going through years of trouble with same person

If you don't have eyes to read, please meet an optician to correct your myopia.

AmBeautiful: @ Op,
Eku n'owo oo!


E be like say you dey find heart attack
Well if you dont move on you will experience one shortly.