₦airaland Forum

Thegreatone001:
It is the mentality of 'in case this one no work, the other one go work'

They are just trying to play smart and safe.

🥱

Let go!

NFBI:
Cheat on him too

A terrible advice. 😢

Trust no one!

Always ensure:
CORRECT AND CONSISTENT CONDOM USE no matter how clean or smooth they appear, if you can’t
BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE OR PARTNER.
Better still; ABSTAIN!

Gbadebo19:
For your kind of people,men should use 12 condoms.

If it makes you feel good, fine. 😁

Quality20:
the issue I have with u is that you are female and u are not defending ur fellow sisters.

I’m a female, and a health worker.
Oga, HIV is real and e truly no dey show for face.

My 1st statement was?
TRUST NO ONE!
Male or female.

YourGFsnatcher:
I was a teacher for 5 years. Was the best graduating student. I know what I'm talking about.

Evidence choke! 🙌

Weldone! 👏

mannobi:
Those idiotic ones shouting buhari is not corrupt are the biggest f..ols alive. Just imagine that minister of disaster alone stole 37 billion. Why won't we be suffering. Diezani talked about 9 billion dollars too. It seems our women are now more magicians than our men.

You notice how they avoid these threads calling out his administration?

Cursed people, who actually hate the country than people they call “children of hate”, because of their lopsided, partisan thinking. 😢

As to the women, to think they only lavish the monies on jewels they may never wear sef, is so annoying. 😤

4KNGOATS:
What would be your reaction to a lady you intend to date telling you she has fibroid?. Am wondering what level of nerves she must have in the first place, or if she's just too careless in disposing such an unpleasant health issue. Or Could she have known my intention and was trying to scare me off?

Women open up, problem.

No open up, daughter of Jezebel.

Being too careless or trusting?

What do you know about fibroids, that makes it “such an unpleasant health issue”?
Let’s read your thought.

Used to be so annoying ehhh, but we always found a way around it.
Especially, Understanding Mathematics books 1-6 and its elder brother General Mathematics.

YourGFsnatcher:
Woah, u are not much interested in social media?

Not at all.

jumokeadele:
true but not every man is worth submitting all your money to, abi no be this nairaland we dey see men they take their salary play betnaija

God bless you!
Lazy men using submission for coverup.
Make woman work finish, come submit all at their feet.

Number 3; always have a backup plan!

I felt it too, as I had no other platform I visit.
No twitter, Facebook instagram, Snapchat or TikTok.
Nothing!

Good enough, had to face my books…

Onyiiobi7735:
Lol! This study is obviously conducted by a group of psychopaths.There is no form of psychopaths that one won't fail to find in the West.
So sniffing women's tears now has therapeutic effects,? Soon there will be a study which suggests sniffing the anus reduces male aggression by 80% .
Whites are simply Animals claiming to be civilized.
Our ancestors back in the olden days are ten times more civilized and more human than the these white animals.
I sincerely wonder how much percentage of humans are still sane and normal in the West.

😟

At least, to answer questions.

People claiming he’s a saint, whereas we are hearing and seeing a lot of rot that went on right under his nose… 😟

Xbox2005:
To be frank if we have a normal country all the politicians in this country irrespective of party and regions would be executed by gunshots or electrocuted.

All of them, sadly. 😫

Geovanni412:
Hmm...
Mr raw himself had to divorce his first wife after she was making him take shegementin on a daily because of similar reasons oga wisdom mentioned.

No be small shegementin… 😂

chigoziri2403:
Did she change her mind about the suicide?
She should have done it after the murder

The suicide story seems shaky

Thought same also.

On seeing the pictures of the deceased, alongside the said murderer’s own, I don’t know why I feel like it’s the case of an ex being at the wrong place at the wrong time… 😟

Just my thought…

caesymore:
Boom Dig_it!!!

Its bad having a thief as a family member, I'm disturbed at what I read.

The narrator acted carelessly over the life of his thieving brother seems he and his family are already tired of the Boy.

TOO bad I bet he could have tried harder, dammit !!! he is your brother no mater what.

Too careless… 😢

Qatar2022:
Check foreign country, those type of girls is not here in Nigeria

Stop sounding so sure about what you don’t know sir.

I know 23-24 year old ladies and guys earning over 300k in this Nigeria, as Corp members.

SeaTrade:
Successful "young" woman?
Nigeria is littered with successful women but there's a catch.AGE.
If you want top earners,ready for 30+ ....its very hard to find a financially free young girl in this country and if at all you find,she'd be clearly out of your league cos na elite material.
So better look for a smart,upcoming young girl that is kind and build your life with.
This one weh woman money na your criteria/priority for relationship,you sure say you Don stand on your own so?
Because we'll to do niggas no dey reason this rubbish you just cap now.

There are young, “top earning” ladies, under 30.
They’re just too busy to be seen around the streets.


To op’s question, them dey Lagos and Abuja.
Some fit dey Enugu sef, but most likely civil servants, who will fit Mr Sea Trade’s description.

SeaTrade:
Too busy to be seen in the streets?
Then how them come dey make the money?
FYI ,to see a 22-28 Yr old girl making a million naira a month is almost impossible.
They're still at the beginning of their careers, especially in banks earning 80-100k,with bills of 200k gross waiting for them.

I’m glad you know it’s not totally impossible, no matter how tiny the percentage.
I know a few of them personally. 🙏

Take it easy sir.

You are setting yourself up as an easy prey for the devil.

saladinnoir:
It means you have a good head on your shoulders and a healthy dose of self Esteem.
Love those who love you and discard those who don't
The mental composition you've described here will help you greatly in romantic endeavours by making the experiences easier and more genuine due to mutual attraction.
Most men either chase or like women that don't like or aren't attracted to them

You may have a valid point.

But what do you think of a continuous state of such repeated attractions? 🤔

And we all know that not everyone who acts lovely towards us actually love us.

Probably, majority of Buhari’s team members! 🥱

We’ve been waiting for the date since 2020, following the Covid lockdown when rumor of the wedding was intense. 🥱

Whenever, wishing them a blissful married life… 🙏

Agbataekwe:
Ahhh
So apostle never marry
I get hope bdat na
Make I rest small

jamesversion:
I just checked his age. He is 43.
Dem no go allow me drink water drop cup for my family.
My Dad own na im pain me pass, always asking me "are you checking time"?.
I will show my father Apostle Selman when I visit him for Xmas.

Apostle dey work and walk in the spirit.

Who una dey work with and hear from? 🤔

PlayMaker14:
But she made a big mistake, she for send her brother or herself there, I can't vouch for that dude returning back to her.

Collecting wotowoto because of man.
She sef go learn the hard way…

To think she even stays in Sabon gari and still chose to be foolish is tiring.

Cantonese:
The risks with alajos make it impossible for people like us to venture into that business transaction with them.
That’s how that year, on Tiamiyu Savage V/I, one tailor saved from January until December. He was very happy with himself and asked the alajo to bring his money over. Unfortunately the alajo ran away with all the money and those of several other people. It was two days to Christmas. Make una come see cry and swear.

Abeg avoid alajos. Use your bank jejely.

The fear usually, is touching or eating that money, when one has steady access to it.

But it’s better to have eaten your money, than toil a whole year or for however duration, only for 1 mofo to use pen and card to siphon it all… 😤

Hezzyluv:
U tried God bless your hustle more...
For those of us who dream to put structures 2geda for we parents, God go pick our calls.

Amen 🙏

My parents deserve this and more…

Indispensable85:
If u see these criminals dey cry like this, just know the governor is doing well. We know this game.

Exactly…

He’s not allowing them access into the state’s coffers as they would love.
Father is probably pained at how they’ve run his state, and using the anger to deal wit them.
He’s there to change the narrative, not dance to their tunes.

Let’s hear from the common man/ masses, what they think of him.

🤭

🎶 … and that’s just the way the story goes…

Of all the issues in Kogi state, this is the one chosen by an activist to pursue?

Just wow…

To think that the said man may even be Muslim and as such, entitled to 4 wives by his religion.

Another wowww… 😟

harakiri:
^^^^^^^^^

****point of correction*****

You can have a happy relationship without "love" but you can never have a happy relationship WITHOUT money! ! !


What i'm trying to point out is that everything in this life is CONDITIONAL. Same with the illusion called "love" that is always advertised as an eternal feeling of bliss and happiness.

Nuff said!

I like that you’re very realistic!

Love means different things, to different people, at different times!

It’s just so bad we are being made to think it’s all about multiple awwwings.

As for the money aspect, like a meme I saw earlier today, money is unisex; as such anyone in the relationship can have it.

Natbrowny:
Karma dey craze. Rich men don dey bribe am now o

😂

The way our politicians children dey flex, you go dey wonder to who and where, the cry and prayers of the suffering masses dey go… 😢

God comfort his fiancée and family… 😢

Omoooo

DKM123:
LMAO! Nairaland men should borrow a leaf and start marrying themselves since their life ambition is to bash women they claim to h@te

They keep saying women are wicked, they are this and are that..... Yet, they will not leave women alone and marry thier fellow innocent, pristine and perfect men and have finally have peace. They will still want to d!e inside a woman's vjayjay! No be JuJu be that?!

So much sense in here…

Exam isn’t always the true test of knowledge.

Is it?

Iamblessed85:
It’s because it makes me feel like i’m being used. Does it mean i donot deserve kindness and respect if i cannot afford to look this way? It dosent make me a nice person because i am fly. Also, i try my best not to be guilty of lookism and so it pisses me off when people do it to me even if i am on the benefitting side.

Dress how you want to be addressed.

Sometimes worrisome, like you’ve pointed out;; but common practice that isn’t going away anytime soon.
In fact those who can’t even genuinely afford to look “so good” are being encouraged to fake it till they make it.

But then, I laugh at those who have been scammed by individuals they rated high based on appearance.

Iamblessed85:
I then began to theorize that good looking people should not max out their looks because people stare helplessly as a matter of reflex and if anything happens to them or if they are led to think unwholesome thoughts, we can not say we aren’t liable to an extent.

Those who are so good at it, actually love the attention. 😁

It’s left for we the onlookers and admirers to stare with caution. 😂