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Vision101:
@pocohantas



When I talk, one redpiller will start quoting me with terrible English.

Despite the fact that our mothers married early, if you come for their 20yrs old daughters in 2021, they will pursue you! Affliction shall not rise a second time. They will tell you to allow her to graduate. Next they’ll tell you to allow her to serve. Then they will tell you to allow her to get a job. All this is to buy time!

The major exception is if you both are relatively young or they are so broke they need you to elevate. If not, they will look out for their daughter because the kind of men you would meet when you are working in KPMG is different from the ones you meet as a broke undergraduate.


If you are a man above 34, you must bring more to the table. If you want a very young educated girl from a middle class home, you must make her very comfortable. She can’t be trekking under hot sun and jumping Obalende bus with a man that conductors would mistake for her uncle/father.



@me
Poco... I agree with you totally on this. Education na scam na when you no get am. A lot of educated young ladies that married illiterate or semi-illiterate men whether rich or average know what they are missing. They don't just flow no matter the pretence.

When she is with the man in a restaurant and he shouts "I will eat menu like you" and the whole people turns to her and her husband that's when she will know the difference between abakaliki rice and foreign rice.

Many educated illiterates on this thread. So, after your secondary school, you didn't know what menu is abi? Na for uni dem start to teach you English? How do seemingly educated persons look at a secondarians as illiterates? Like how? I was already very good in speaking and writing English before I entered the university. And if you've been to the university yourself, you of all people should know they don't teach English there. Even GST 101 didn't go half deep into what I learnt in secondary school. In fact, that class was so unnecessary, I barely attended. As someone who've been to the university, I can authoritatively tell you SCHOOL NA SCAM. The only reason I dey enter school na to use the degree find work. If I see something way better to generate income later, my certificate would be totally useless. I know many graduates who can't speak good English sef. Why? Their educational foundation was faulty. You only need primary school and secondary school education to be able to speak good and sweet English. If you think otherwise, you're more likely an illiterate yourself

toren:
Oga, you're daft. There's no sense in what you have written. Absolutely no correlation between what I told my parents and the other incomprehensible nonsense you typed.

This criminal don dey change mouth. It is well

toren:
Na you go kill. Dindinrin.

If education was inconsequential, Op wouldn't post about it. His gf's parents wouldn't give a hoot about his education. But I understand you're too dumb to know this.

Like I said, your bf should be cautious. Na so DNA fraudsters take start. If you say you'd go ahead even if your parents no gree, it's a different thing. But to lie about his educational status to your parents, just so they'll give blessings that won't last (cause they'll definitely find out later) shows the kind of woman you are. I legit hope your husband or husband to be has kept money for DNA test

Skyfornia:
What will he learn in school? To leave his business, enter school, graduate and start looking for job?

I wonder o

toren:
They have started. Hypocrites. Hypocrites that have never told a lie. I can say anything l like to anyone as long as I'm not hurting anyone in the process. Nobody lives my life for me.

Now take note, if I have to lie to protect the interest of my loved one, I will again, again and again.

But it's true na. Dem no dey force relationships and marriage o. If you force enter, you fit force comot. Also, your loved ones first na your mama and papa. If you can boldly lie about something as unnecessary as the educational status of someone you THINK you'd spend the rest of your life with, that someone should be very careful. You fit kill

Spherical77:
Beautiful
Then let him go look for his level. A school cert holder or even less whose family would accept him and he will start fathering kids as you said

Very simple

No be everybody carry the school for head. He might end up marrying someone with an even bigger degree than B. Sc

nuelyoyo:
Ladies are asymptomatic to many STDs, that's why they don't bother to use protection. Guys on the other hand will show symptoms of STDs within days of getting infected, and the symptoms are very painful.

Some STDs can stay for months or years in a woman's body without her even knowing, except it starts manifesting through irregular menstruation or inability to get pregnant, that is when getting tested it suggested to them, and they discover that they've been infected.

And about guys insisting on protection more than ladies, it's not always about the fear of getting infected, sometimes, it is about the fear of getting a lady pregnant.

Guy wey like to use condoms is most likely afraid of STDs than pregnancy. Most guys have mastered the pull out game that they're not so afraid of giving babe belly. Plus, postinor no reach 5k. Most guys can buy this for babes if they cum inside

Hassanmaye:
Real niggas How you guys they Get puna easily they scare me o

Sex is the easiest thing in the world to get bro. Just say you dey fear

Dreamhighnow:
The way u guys talk about girls in Nigeria as though they are sleeping with ghosts

Nigerians girls sleep with nigerian guys

This topic should be why are nigerians not afraid of STDs

I bet you, men are more afraid than women. Ask around

1Sharon:
because you feel ashamed, you should now pit your health at risk and not protect yourself?

Deflection.

This Sharon babe seems like the only sensible babe on nairaland. I don dey notice her since

Crochet:
Most girls now wear inner condom so dont be surprise wen ur bae dnt seem to be bothered if u Have condom or not during sex.

Big lie. If babe wear condom, you go know. And you don't know that these babes are leeches and poverty-stricken people; you think they'll buy something as expensive as female CD You overrate them too much

Grandmeister:
I've never been with a girl who insisted on a condom. Maybe for the first round. They don't fear shii. Girls nowadays get mind pass guys and it's damn scary.

Same here. Na only broad daylight ashawos dey insist on CD. All these semi oloshos no send CD

Pataricatering:
Is it.not men that shame them.when.they buy or carry condom? Talking nonsense about the girl being loose cos she has condoms . You people will create a problem and then be wondering how the problem arose .. mscheew

Abegi. No one is saying women should buy condoms. Truth is, even if a guy suggests condom, the babe go dey reluctant or she will outrightly reject it. No girl I've dated have suggested we use CD

Vulcanheph:
The major cause is that the symptoms of STD's show up on men more faster than men... A woman might have an STD for months without even realizing.

Take Gonorrhea for instance, a man will start experiencing blocked urethra a few days after contacting it but the same isn't the same for women...

I agree with this

UndauntedYOCA:
It isn't only ladies that are sexually active.
If a lady is having unprotected then in most cases it's with a man, that means the man himself isn't scared of sexually transmitted diseases.
Anyone having unprotected has his/her reasons and would be made to face whatever comes out of it (disease/sickness wise).

Unfortunately, chances of men getting STDs from women during sex na like 50%. Men to women na 100%. Plus, they also stand a risk of pregnancy. If that happens, na she go suffer am, even if the guy no jaapa. Ladies should give theirselves sense

PeaceJoyLove:
But una expect she will be depressed. Lol. But the babe disappointed una. Lol. Shame on you all. No show for you all. Lol. Many people don dey strategize on how to use the story to market themselves. Lol. But at the end, it turns even well for her. No worry, she don pull Kim. So what? Lol.

Make una no go hustle. Tiwa is who you should be after. Jobless people.

And also, your comments in this thread come dey make me think say you be Tiwa. You're crying more than the "bereaved"

PeaceJoyLove:
Na your mama and papa you dey call kids if you can call me a kid. You call yourself grace (your moniker), but there is no element of grace in you. Thank God is gracious to Tiwa. Una go dey happy if you read she drank sniper. Check yourself. She messed up..fine. myst you see her depressed? Na waoo.

Anyway, you mama the kid, and make sure you give her the video to masturbate since your papa cannot do the job well.

Goodluck.

Lmao. You're pained for Tiwa LoL. Be calming down. Everybody must live with the consequences of their actions. This is Tiwa's consequence. Stop trying to remove these consequences. If your sextape comot for area today, your image would be tainted (except you be ashawo already) and you'd have yourself and yourself alone to blame for it. Would you die? No! But it would be foolish to chastise people for bringing it up when you least expect it. We should all learn accountability

bukolabeauty09:
She enjoyed it, I mean they both enjoyed it.

See we wey dey here just dey hope for that kind d*ck to enter our p*ssy after watching it only dey suffer ourselves with fingering and guys dey carry vasline

Nothing too special about that dick. It's the normal, average, everyday dick you can get. And stop trying to paint this picture of it not being a big deal, cause I assure you, in naija, it sure is

PeaceJoyLove:
What is shameless there? She has accepted her fault. So, she should be crying? Or she should pay the blackmailer?

Leave her. You arent her son. Wait till the son is adult and then remind the boy. She is not the first a d... will thrust in an out. Mind your business and leave her alone. Busy body.

We await yours

bestpunterever:
3mins version is more detailed.

There's no 3 mins version. Be calming down

paymentvoucher:
All I can say is that “It is well with your innocent son”

I’m still trying to picture how that boy will grow up to see her mum’s pekus on social media

Thankfully, abi I should say, unfortunately, by the time the kid is grown up, this world for don spoil to the extent he may see it as normal. May such never befall me and my kids sha, cause wtf

neyobills:
As for the embassy thing I can assure you that a school cert holder going with a good verifiable buisness here in Nigeria has a higher chance of getting a visa than a bachelors degree holder going for Masters,don’t take my word for it ask a reputable travel agent you know because the embassy believes someone with a successful buisness here in Nigeria has a higher tendency of coming back home after the program than a bachelors degree holder who has nothing at stake back in his home country than his certification,you have a degree yet no buisness or verifiable work experience dude your chances are slimmer even with both of them having the same amount of funds,it’s common sense.

We have a misconception about education in Nigeria I guess partly due to the economy,after I left the shores of Nigeria to my base,I started looking for jobs but there weren’t forthcoming until I was advised to downgrade my qualification because perhaps even the HR manager that would take a look at my CV didn’t have as much certifications as i did and I would be over employed for most of the jobs available,it was first unheard of for me but trust me that’s what helped me.

We place too much emphasis on university education in Nigeria however it doesn’t work that way in saner climes,like why would anyone have a Masters or PhD and be looking for jobs this caliber of people are supposed to be in the research field as far as they are concerned,you don’t even need a university degree to get a decent job,there are tons of certifications out there,I have seen too many dull graduates in Nigeria what impact has those graduates made in their field,we are still using the same crude equipments been used decades ago to build houses,same ol brick making machines decades ago,same grinding machines used decades ago,how many new varieties of cassava have we developed,how many new indigenous poultry housing systems have we developed,how many startup hubs do we have,how many industrial clusters do we have.

Most just want to be garbage in garbage out certificate holders to earning fat salaries and eureka,that’s all they desire,how many Nigerian universities are even globally recognized anyway.

Unfortunately we are in the AI age,having an IT certification is even looking more lucrative than having a university degree.soon most things would be automated and this degrees would have little or no impact since robots are taking over soon,the corovirus lockdown was just a test phase of getting on what robots taking over would look like,all the degree holders were either layed off or had to work from work home,knowledge is power the certification is just its universal accepted unit so I’m not saying it’s totally useless however the exposure and experience you get in the university is even worth more than the certification in reality.

As for the family of the op fiancée saying they won’t allow their daughter to marry him because he is an ssce holder speaks more of the relationship of the lady with her parents kinda infantile,however the young man should count his losses and move on because if the guy is doing well for himself and with the little he wrote sounds literate enough then he should be good to go for any reasonable family,they have this Stone Age mentality or perhaps the lady is her familys retirement plan.

Everything you said is the truth. I do well in uni, As, B's and all but frankly, it just cramming. Another master crammer would most likely be best graduating student from my set. It's so stupid. School in naija don turn correct scam. Professors in naija are not inventing anything. They just sit in their offices, attend inaugural lectures, steal articles online and present at these lectures and seminars. I kid you not, there is a particular senior lecturer in my department that steals lecture notes from slideshare.net, he edits the name and places his and then comes to class and is so confused on what he is tutoring. His tests sef are stolen online. How can such a lecturer impact anything career-changing to his students? School in naija, I maintain, na scam

Otunla236:
With your 36years of age, you are still young. Let forget about your girlfriend family, is because of your own benefit. Even, if you are not married the lady, I can still advice you to go back to school and you can also go for part-time school and continue with your business and your family. Very simple things, without argument at all and married her, I believe you will know the value of that certificate when you graduate from school.

Pardon my question, are you a graduate yourself?

Otunla236:
With your 36years of age, you are still young sir. Let forget about the family of your girlfriend, go back to school is an a big achievement to your life. You apply with part-time and continue with your business and your. Even, if you don't married the lady, I will still advice you to go back to school. Believe me, it is also part of your achievements and not your girlfriend family achievement.

Wash. Degrees in naija is useless, believe me. The only use of a degree is to get a job. If you already have a well paying, secured job, forget about school and make more money. Train your kids in university if you so wish after. Advising a 36 year old man that has a thriving business to go to uni, a man who from all indications has no interest in getting a degree, instead of advising him to get married ASAP and father kids is a very very poor advice. We can do better. I see so many of my lecturers and professors and I compare them to friends of mine who got into crypto early and frankly, school feels like scam nowadays. That money he wants to waste in school, he should use it to buy Bitcoin. Bitcoin would be worth a fortune 10 years from now and his kids would thank daddy for being wise

Jemmysax:
Remember he's not just doing this for the sake of just getting married alone, in fact, there's every likelihood that the babe won't wait for him, if the nigga's got himself a degree, that means he's opened to more opportunities.

Which opportunities? If he is really doing well for himself, he should get married ASAP and father kids. He seems uninterested in school so cajoling him into getting a degree is very unwise. He needs kids now more than he needs higher education. When he births kids,he can send them to school

Bayyajidda:
Nawao... How do you guys do it? Always in every thread. Abi 30k fit feed person for this your darling daddy regime?

In his defence, he dodges some thread sha

grandstar:
This guy should just shut up! Who holy pass!

This statement is mean and cruel and is the last thing she'd want. She wants it erazed from people's memory. She needs empathy and support, and not self-righteous judgment!

I'm not condoning immorality but the inconsideration meted out by Daddy Freeze is what's vexing moi. (Read Luke 7:36-50)

You carry bible come fornication Na wa for una o

Oluwademilade:
I still don't believe she's the one in the video. I didn't see her tattoos

Her arms no show. She's the one. The dress, the pant, the bra, the hair, the nails, the voice.... Too much pointers

Crowwejihadist:
That's actually a psychological effect,
I will always remember the dirty video whenever I listen to her song.


But that guy prick small sha

She seemed to enjoy the small prick sha

Reason why I respect Churchill

michigang:
ah no na, what are you saying? Buhari is a A level holder

Na you talk am o

advanceDNA:
U funny...people wey no get family no dey marry??
Orphans no dey marry??
Yeah..it's good when family of your spouse like u...but na u and your spouse the main issue.

When u find someone good for u...and family is dropping foolish reasons like certificate, he's short, he's black, he's yoruba, his nose is big, he has forehead.. there's nothing wrong in using strategy to make them accept..

Toh, make dem accept. If they stronger disagree, na wrong step o. I won't marry a lady whose family is strongly against our union. Plenty women plenty abeg